ajummasunbae

Exactly...

I heartily agree with everything you said.
"And when you are in a position to speak against the issue, a celebrity, because you participated in the behavior and you don't, you are apart of the problem."
Did you read his apology? Sounds like he has been sorry quite while and has done nothing. This is a good chance for him. Let's see what he does.

I am down with everything you had to say. this comment "Nothing except time to accept the past and grow to accept the past is the closure that we have." is so obviously experienced based that they all should have just shut the fuck up.
As an older Black women who has dealt with a lot of white folks apologizing in my life, "If someone tries to make amends and apologizes, the victim needs to move on. " or as we say 'keep it movin'

"I said korea's society is disgusting."
Please don't be an American. So sick of rude ethnocentric Americans...

wOw I would like to live in yr country, " If a woman says she was assaulted and doesn't speak up for 15 or 20 years, everyone is on her side. If a male was bullied, beat-up, harassed 15 or 20 years ago, there's a statue of limitations?" here in the US it is just the opposite. A woman raped 15 years ago. It is all why didn't she step forward then (Kavanagh hearings) but the guys who were touched by the college doctor OMG, are we ever gonna hear the end of it!
" He should have admitted long ago to his actions as a teen bully publicly, asked for forgiveness to those he bullied, and I bet it would not have turned out like this"...OH YA cuz we would all hire that guy.
And ah middle school

But still a child. who knows, maybe he even ate people.
I believe all of this stuff....I saw Boys over Flowers. they need to sue the school. Like those guys that Jim Jordan ignored over here in the US.

Of course he is sorry now he got caught. most folks don't like to deal with shame.
Under 18, child.
WTH about the school!!!!!
Gee I wish I was young enough to believe in Karma

In the US we separate Children from Adults. Not sure what happens in your country. The complaints are from middle school. This is bad stuff he did. You don't need to make shit up.
If you think that 13 is the age of reason then YOU must very young...under 25.
I bet your grandma and mom both would agree with me that saying a middle schooler has reason is very unworldly. ONLY someone under 30 would say that. After your frontal lobe develops your ability to think changes...medical fact.

I think that if you are still carrying scars from being bullied in middle school you def need help. All he can do is apologize for things he did as a child/teen.
What more do you want him to do?
I say what the hell with the school that they let it go on.

Also your comments to me are a great example of your being teacher of bullying prevention. You have said the harshest comments to other people on here. And again this comment, "so let me give you a little taste of what Kim Ji Soo's victims have gone through: HUMILIATION"
wOw what a bully comment, so threatening. and I'm not the only one on this page who you have tried to bully.
let me break it down easy for you.
POT = KETTLE

wow a little triggered are we?? IF you Know about frontal lobe development, then you KNOW why what you are saying doesn't make sense. you seem the angriest person on the page. I am thinking maybe this issue hits so close to home that you can't think straight.
"so let me give you a little taste of what Kim Ji Soo's victims have gone through:"
Gheez what can you possibly mean by that comment. We are on line dear and I am an old person, that cannot get fazed by anything you could possibly say.

Really!!! To me a middle schooler is a child. But then I am old and have children

Exactly!!!

But it is kinda cool...

He was probably too ashamed of his past to apologize. Gheez apologizing when caught is what HUMANS do.

Ok I was going along with you until you said "bullying prevention program "..... what a joke. You taught a program...to WHO? You don't even understand frontal lobe development and it's link to behavior. If you did you would understand that people grow up and change. And that 15 is way different that 30.

He was in MIDDLE SCHOOL
grow up

So at 15 he did this or at 16. He was underage himself when he did the filming. Sounds like he was a rotten kid. I don't know where you are from. But in the US we don't grab adults for stuff they did as teens. IN the US we keep children's crime records silent cuz we think that folks need a chance to grow up and be better.
He did what he could do apologize.
The School authorities are the ones who should be in trouble. The Victim should be offered help....but it is on the school .

I am laughing at the people who can't remember how old middle schoolers are. 12 to 15.
I bet you are not over 30. I say that because you are probably very close in age to a middle schooler( so you can really relate). Ji Soo is 28 now, almost 15 years ago.
I support common sense.
Get the victims help...all of them

Yes bullies are bad....BUT if you STOP doing it when you ARE A CHILD you should have a chance to move on and grow up.