As You Stood By

Needed more episodes

When I first started the drama, I didn’t even check how many episodes it had. I assumed it would be a typical 12–16episode K-drama, and honestly, I couldn’t see how they would stretch this storyline (abuse, a murder, and its consequences ) for that long. So when I realised it was only 8 episodes, I thought: perfect, short and efficient.

But after finishing it, I actually believe the show needed more episodes, maybe around 12, so they could explore certain storylines in more depth. The drama starts very strong, but the ending felt rushed and overloaded with events that had little narrative payoff. It’s clear they wanted a thriller-style finale with cliffhangers, but without proper build-up, those moments felt random and disconnected.

❌ Bad

The final episodes felt overloaded with events. It was obvious the writers wanted big thriller moments and cliffhangers, but they didn’t build them up properly, so several plot twists felt random.

The biggest issue for me was Jang Gang. His return made absolutely no sense. At first, I even thought Hui-Sui was hallucinating from guilt. But once I realised he was really there, the character still didn’t add up: suddenly he’s a violent psycho from a gang, even though nothing in his behaviour or background matches that. His motivations, his past, and even his travel situation were confusing and poorly explained.

Another weak point was Jin helping the girls. The drama hints at guilt or emotional attachment, but their relationship is never developed enough to justify the risks he takes. They also mention his dead son, but this detail goes nowhere and has no influence on the story later.

The sister of Jin Pyo, first I want to say I hate her. Her career progression made no sense to me.

How does someone go from police officer to working inside the presidential office?
Also, her complete denial of her brother’s abuse, and her blame of the victim, were portrayed well, but the story doesn’t give her the ending she deserved.

Same for the mother. The hypocrisy of her public speech on domestic violence, despite knowing her son was an abuser, was powerful, but the drama doesn't show enough shame, jail, or accountability for them.

Finally, the courtroom scene left a bad taste. When Eun-So says she blames her child self for not protecting her mother from abuse, it sends a terrible message. A child is never responsible for stopping domestic violence. That line felt careless and unnecessary.

✅ Liked

All the actors were amazing. They completely embodied their characters, and the emotional scenes felt very real.

The first half of the drama portrayed domestic abuse realistically and sensitively: Hui-Sui’s attempts to escape, her fear of her husband’s connections, her isolation, and the way victims feel trapped were all shown very well.

At first, I didn’t understand why Eun-So, who trains in self-defense and even got banned for being too aggressive, suddenly became powerless during real danger. But after reading Minji23 review, it made sense.
In real life, no matter how much you train, a violent, unpredictable attacker doesn’t “follow rules, your body freezes under fear, the pain is real, not controlled like in practice

To conclude, the drama starts incredibly strong with great acting and a powerful, important topic. But the writers clearly wanted extra thriller elements, and in the last episodes, they sacrificed logic and emotional depth for surprise value. The ending isn’t terrible, but it’s far from satisfying — mostly because the potential was so much higher. With more episodes and better development, it could have been excellent. Still, it’s worth watching for the performances and the realistic depiction of domestic abuse.

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Good Watch, But Didn't Blow Me Away

This drama was actually a nice surprise! The main story was really engaging, even though those violent scenes were kind of rough to get through sometimes.

My main issue was the pacing. Even though the show only has eight episodes, it felt super drawn out at times. I kept checking the clock, waiting for the episode to wrap up! The main idea behind the show was solid, but something just felt a bit bland in the way they delivered it, and I never totally got lost in the story.

The absolute highlight of the whole series was definitely the friendship between the central trio. Their bond was fantastic, and it really carried all the emotional weight—I just wish they had explored their relationship and bond more instead of wasting time on unnecessary plot. Plus, Jin So Baek was my favorite character—they were a definite bright spot! So Nee's incredible transformation for the role was absolutely mesmerizing. We also have to praise Seung Jo; the difference between his two characters was amazing, and he played both roles brilliantly. I was also really happy with the satisfying ending, where everyone got what they deserved.

Overall, it's a competent show and a good watch, but honestly, it didn't leave a huge impression on me.

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You stood by and it was like spring

As you stood by - A review (spoiler alert)

Hello hello dramawatchiesss! Let’s go again on a tour of my drama review. This time we will decipher ‘As you stood by’. It really stood with me. I enjoyed the drama till the brim. From the frost shingles at start to the rising buttercup at end, everything worked out for me. It had so much to induce and portrayed it well. I HEAVILY loved the actings of respective FLs and all other cast. It showed deprivation of one in a manner that would boil one’s blood. The no mercy looks of antagonists were so strong and stern, I found myself throwing stuff. It was heck of a drama. One clash after another, one clatter after the another. Let’s dwell deeper, I’ll discuss character,acting and all basic information (brief) first and things which caught my eye then.
(Rating at last of the basic information)


Actings


> A good hand to acting, the villains showcased ferocity and victims showed vulnerability and despair. Villains made me kick stuff, which is indeed a sign of great skill and victims made me sob. Would’ve liked if they had used side characters more well than just dropping them in middle and popping them.


Plot


> There, for me, wasn’t much a plot it was everything in hand that had to be handled. Just turns and consequences were a variable but could be guessed by few equations. It would’ve been a 10/10 if the story didn’t eliminated the husband that early. Cause he really needed to feel the pain he made her go through. You could have no justification for domestic abuse. It is same as killing. I would’ve also liked if they included the Male protagonist more than they did, supporting him with more backstory and volume. He could’ve been a strong character. But I still accept the this point of story which gave the leads a more epistemological conclusion. She felt free and alive early.


Message, theme and Tone


> The drama delivered what it promised and atoned what it said. Abuse isn’t a thing to be indifferent too, it’s the major issue even in modern times. As said up, you cannot have any verdict for abusing anyone. The theme stayed intense yet calm, close ended het ambiguous and cold yet still warm. The setting and temperature alteration of colour gravities the tone. The contrasting tone and congruity tone, this alignment was sharp. “Antonym of love isn’t hate but indifference and neglect”, said Husbands mother in a domestic violence conference. Irony or mockery? It ain’t good to endure violence neither good to ignore, it’s the first step of internal strife and emotional poverty. “If you cross by a victim of violence, just give them a hug and say it’s not your fault” said the same mocked lady. The theme fluttered a little at end as it jumped from realism to semi-fiction.

Cons

- If they used husband more and made him go through agony
- Used side character more deeply
- Used a lot of items from thrillers corruption to abusive marriage, slush funds etc, could have cut down one or two
- I felt Huisu missing at end episodes
- Sang Kang had gravity but no depth. No proper story of his side. Time issue maybe

My rating stays at 8.5


White not purity, but blindness

Red not love, but blood


> If you closely look, the drama has a high note of white and then red aftermath. White curtains, white waves, white dresses, white interior, and frost. Red as blood, beet juice, ferocity, abuse marks, his eyes etc. These all first show white as a blinding power and then using red to show the consequence. The white curtain which gave Eun-Su a stimuli generalisation contradicts the common meaning associated with white, peace. And her going to give her life by ocean’s white foamy waves. These all seem to juxtapose their common calm, serene meanings. Red beet juice, the first time Hui-su made it the intensity of the red tone was low but in succession it was more red and blood like. Which were noting but a mirror to her physical condition (how badly she was abused). When they finally kill her husband, again she had a white gown showing her stern pale strength which was sparkling in blood of fake love. I really liked this scene, it meditated a revenge vibe with remorse. Eun-su at white belt also showcased her not being able to reconcile with that past and ignorant behaviour. But when she finally grabbed blue of hope, it had good repercussions. There’s more but finally, the white bed sheet where Hui-su dazzles with all abuse, agony and bloodshed.



Introductions Of blue Frost: Story within a story


> This would be the most noticeable thing in the drama with enough gravity to enlighten. It said a lot about what’s gonna happen in next hour. Was it the typography or the animation, I am not sure, but it made me heavily interested. From ep 1 to 8, from the first shingle of frost flake to the last shingle of it on the first bud of the buttercup ( I hope it was a yellow buttercup). It went in a cadence, a simple snow shower-bride,dressed all white almost in symphony of background-a happy newly wed, all show reality covered under the rime- A blood full crack, a new opening, a new beginning- two free white doves in sky, both FLs reliving their lives which were dabbed under indifferent sleet- a cross at grave, signifying that still the reality of them killing wanders beneath the sky in which they float- A cigarette thrown at grave, might indicate it being now naked to world, uncovered- and finally a small yellow buttercup over grave, symbolising upcoming spring, peace and joy after the chilly winter. Also, let’s not forget the blue tone behind, neutralising the situation a little and providing hope.


Ep. 2 Hui-Su


> The main highlight of the whole series for me is ep 2. This episode is an epitome of physical, mental and psychological annihilation. All red shed and white drapes. The execution didn’t went any lenient in showcasing the abuse and violence. Kudos. This episode had a lot to intake. Firstly, image 2 in the given image list shows the big of a contradiction. The husband used to beat her by garmenting the room, playing music suppressing her inner cries, as the abuse intensifies the music goes bold which more and more suffocates her. And then, this scene comes he gives her a black bouquet of red roses which says love attired in misery and fatality. The camera is placed such which disguises and makes it look that how loving would the couple be, the frame behind testifies it. But, all show and fabrication. Whereas in the coming scene, you’ll see (no image as it had some censor stuff) she’s laid on a bed all scarred and then he is boxed behind getting all naked, suggesting his pure and true form the beast. And her lying in front is an evidence which completes the whole box. And then she sees a black tiny spider, indicating dark sides of love and despair. Then again, other day when he goes to office, camera is placed in an antithetical position that makes them look like a lovely and attractive couple. With frames and kiss. Her despair is finally boxed and the situation becomes even and true. Then also let’s not forget the painting she did in her box suffocating, dark room which but gives peace and safety. This episode was IMPECCABLY delivered by the actress and actor. Hands down…


Cinematography and Visual Poetry


> Cinematography was really well, realistic and pragmatic. It wasn’t rapid but went calm with the vibes. It don’t made me feel I was being rushed, which I feel in most thriller movies and dramas. The shots, subtle boxing and if I am not wrong a few Dutch angles tend to make a good depth. It felt that the camera also empathising with victim and consoling her. It escalated the situation and didn’t showed any difference in highlighting the raw and painful nature of violence. It swayed like a wave. I adored the part when they were coming back after burying her husband the sky shots of nature , forest,road and ocean were all nicely absorbed. There were minute shots which could’ve been a littttle better but it’s fine! I am no professional, to say ittt!




The end, circle completion, every meaning goes common


> The buttercup in prison where Huisu was indicated her mother watching over her even after going away. It indicated the spring has now arrived. Mother’s yellow hug has bloomed. Hui and Eun both went to their life in Vietnam where they did the basic things and were actually living. Ignoring and being captive in a cupboard to abuse is nothing less than a crime, said Hui. But now they were there under bright skies, accounting everything, echoes heard out and life in hands. The ocean got its calm back, the white got its peace. And they got their life. “I’ll now how to face it, I’ll know how to stand”, said them standing together in white by ocean. Reconciled and pasturing. Really well done. It was written well and showcased sophisticatedly. “Whatever wave tomorrow brings or whatever tomorrow the wave brings, I’ll face it.” It’s like a new wave emerged and rippled throughout.


Conclusion and yes or a no?

The drama diligently, persistently and rawly showcases abuse not as a common happening but an issue of societal conscience. It shall not be normalised. Abusing is synonymous to murdering someone. You kill the person in murder but kill the soul in abuse. The drama sharply hooks us with the issue and makes violence hiding in shadow of one. It’s like frost, freezing one’s blood and time. Which even spring can’t melt. One gets all covered in the dusk and wildness of it, by which it’s really hard to recover. It’s a BIG YES YEA to watch it. It’s not perfect but delivers the message the serves it right. It’s high time to shove this issue in our intellect. It is as an ode to those women and to each person who unfairly suffers abuse and violence in the cement and mud walls. Please make sure not to miss it.


**the full review is based on my interpretation and mind, please avoid causing any issues whatsoever.**

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Important Message, But Lost Momentum

This show started off great. The storyline was engaging, and the acting was genuinely impressive. What captivated me the most was how hard it was to watch at times—not because it was poorly done, but because it reflected the harsh reality many women face. That made it even harder to stomach, but it’s exactly why this topic needs to be highlighted and talked about.
However, after episode 5, the show unfortunately began to go downhill. Many of the episodes that followed felt like filler, and after reading other reviews, I realized I wasn’t the only one who felt this way. The plot choice of bringing Jang Kang back especially bothered me; it felt unnecessary and pulled the story away from what made it strong in the first place.
I honestly wish the characters had never been caught and that the remaining episodes had focused more on Hui-Su—her healing, finding her confidence again after so much trauma, and simply reclaiming her life. I also would have loved to see Eun-Su quit her job and become an advocate for women who have suffered abuse, while exposing Jin Pyo’s family hypocrisy. That direction would have been so much more satisfying and meaningful.
One of the things I truly loved about this drama was the bond the girls shared with Mr. Jin. Their relationship was pure, supportive, and genuinely healthy.
Overall, As You Stood By is a good drama that tackles an important and sensitive topic, but it ultimately fell short in the end. Still, it’s worth watching for the message it tries to deliver.

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Inflicts hurt as much as it heals

As You Stood By has many good components to it.

- Primarily, the relationship between Eun-su and Hui-su (and of course, Mr. Jin). This relationship serves as both the stakes and the breather, in its dual nature, greatly contributing to the show.
- It also explores all sides of domestic violence, of everything that contributes to such a case, in an appropriate manner.
- Every character is strong in the sense of their personality and values, making them all distinct from one another.
- The entire cast did great with acting!
- The music did a great job for its respective scenes.

As for the flawed components, at times I felt like the writing was too spontaneous, so I couldn't suspend disbelief. Certain characters did actions that did not contribute to the story (or the dialogue was awkward), and the ending felt rushed and weak.

In conclusion, don't expect perfection, but it is enjoyable. Although some might call it slow, I thought the pacing was sufficient, but that might be different from person to person. Either way, I do recommend everyone to watch this and have their own thoughts on it.

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Hard to watch but worth it

This is probably one of the most traumatic series I've watched, the kind that makes you want to pause and take a break because you just can't keep watching. It is a gripping, very emotinally charged story. Also one that makes you cry nonstop. But I think this drama is a must watch.

They treat very sensitive topics such as domestic abuse, and power dynamics, in a pretty realistic way. But that is the hard part, the brutal reality. It's definitely something that will make you think and reflect.

I don't think i will rematch this drama in the near future (or far future), not because it wasn't great, but because I don't think I can get through the first episodes a second time. And before watching this, it is so important to be aware of all the triggers, there are quite a lot, and since they are serious topics, it is better the know them before you get into the story.

On a different note, the actors were incredible, they all portrayed their characters so well that it is impossible not to get into the story and empathise with them or hate them or even relate to them. It was truly an amazing drama overall. And I was pretty satisfied with how it ended.

So, to sum it up, I recommend watching this drama, but I insist on checking the triggers before doing so because of the dark themes.

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Take the revenge into your own hand and finish what you started.

I found it romantic how every episode title is based on Eunsu and Huisu, showing how strong their bond is. Huisu, as a light and savior to Eunsu during her depressing high school days, now became the one being helped by Eunsu, who tries to break the cycle of domestic violence she witnessed, as she couldn't stand by anymore after doing so all her life.

This drama perfectly nailed the suspense of a thriller; the thrill is getting me on the edge of every episode. The way the drama portrayed the realness of domestic violence is very unsettling; it feels so raw and real that at some points I get anxious myself. It was a very hard watch, but I’m glad I picked it up. I hope all abusers die and go through the same hell they gave to their victims.

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From Hitchcock-Level Tension to a Fearful, Safe Ending

“As You Stood By” could’ve reached Hitchcock territory.
It begins with razor-sharp tension, a minimalist score that keeps you on edge, and a cathartic, brutal confrontation reminiscent of Memories of Murder, Bluebeard, and The Invisible Man.
But the real test of a thriller is what happens after the catharsis — and here is where the series collapses.
The impostor’s sudden transformation into a gangster feels artificial, created only to prolong the plot.
Worst of all, the most compelling character — the sister, a sharp and methodical detective — is minimized, sabotaged, and ultimately punished while everyone else gets a convenient, almost cheerful ending.
A story that began with genuine courage ends as a safe moral fable

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Masterpiece

​"As You Stood By" is easily my favorite drama this year and ranks in my top five of all time. The gripping story held my attention from the opening scene to the finale.

​Mr. Jin stood out as the show's hero and the girls' steadfast ally. He provided essential support without ever overstepping, allowing them to take the lead when necessary. He, along with Hui-Su and Eun-Su, are my favorite characters.

​The core theme powerfully explored the cycle of abuse and the necessity of taking action to break it. Haunted by her own childhood in a violent home, Eun-Su refused to let the past repeat itself. She devised a drastic plan to stop Hui-Su's abuse by murdering her husband.

​The entire cast delivered phenomenal performances, and I was genuinely satisfied with the resolution. Hui-Su's transformation was particularly moving: she evolved from a broken character, unsure if she would survive the next day, to one who embraces life, eagerly anticipating the future with a smile.

​10/10!

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Could've been better...much better.

I really wanted to rate this series with 8 or 9. Because I've been waiting for it since the first trailer. It reminded me the movie Ride or Die( a bit similar story, but with not very good screenplay, bad characters(not acting) and rather explicit scenes). Then I find out, thay this series is based on japanese novel and there is also a j-drama, based on the original novel, as far as I heard without big changes in the story and this is important, you'll understand later why.

"As you stood by" took the original novel and created its own story, with powerful message, great acting and cinematography...and ruined storyline.

First 5 episodes were good. Not great, because of some stupid moments, but still good. But then... last three episodes changed the whole story. From thriller-drama about DV, murder and how main heroines tried to get away with this, and how they changed as characters, this k-drama turned into some random thriller about crazy maniacs, more killings, more blood, etc. WHY?? It wasn't needed! Original story didn't have any of this. And screenwriters created this mess by turning one character into bloody psycho, with maniac laughter. What the hell? What was that? It was illogical, stupid, unexplained( they tried to explain it but that explanation didn't really work with the first half of the series)

I also didn't really like the ending...because it felt like it was needed mostly to put important words in the heroine's mouths. And there were also some detailes about the ending, which remained unclear. But all of that is nothing compare to the nonsense I mentioned before. And I enjoyed...let's say the final point,destination where heroines are in the end, but I still think, that it's very naive.

It could've been great 5-6 episode's series. But instead we got not a bad series( pretty good in fact) with weak second half, which ruined otherwise great story. Not completely ruined, thanks to the overall high quality of the k-drama...but it could've been much better.

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If you want justice in this world watch it then,it's worth your time!

To begin with,the acting was amazing,every actor did dazzling job!It was so emotional and passionately that it felt so real.Especially Jang Seung Jo(No Jin Pyo/Jang Kang) who did two roles,he nailed both of them. It was the first time seen a drama with him,at first i thoung that they were different actors. Jang Kang turned into to be a crazy man who seems at first just a poor man with kind heart. No Jin Pyo was obnoxious and irrigating.His eyes was so passionate when we beat his wife up. Let's move to the two female protagonists. I love both characters,their acting was incredible! Their cooperation,love for each other for their friendship was awesome. And how both wanted to kill Jin pyo and attained it in the end with so many troubles but they were determined for this. Eun Su (Jeon So Nee) (I seen before in melo-movie another amaizng role of her)putted herself after Hui Su(Lee you mi) and did everything to make her happy and set her free from her husband. As for Hui Su i think she was so scared and frightened but she was kind and happy after her husband died. They both had the courage to do this alone (to killed her husband) without told this anymore or asked for help.They were so independent and strong female characters that you rarely see in korean dramas ! Nevertheless,without So Baek(Lee Moo Saeng) help they couldn't do it completely alone,he help them with his strategies and tactics and with his acquaintances of his. In some episode (latest one's) i thought that No Jin Yeong (jin pyo sister) was nice and would help the girls but it turn to want to kill Hui Su and threatened her and her friend...She played a major role in the drama. A BIG thanks to Choi Gyeong Gu( the detective) that was with jin pyo brother but then he found out that she had deleted an evidence. He also played a major role in the drama. All in all the plot was absorbing, 8 episodes was just perfect. In the 5-6 i got a little bored and I was tired of the whole thing but then the real game started, do NOT stop the show if you get bored the ending will satisfy you so much!One of the best korean drams of 2025!!!Special thanks to all the actors,staff,director and all that worked so hard to this wonderful masterpiece!And also a little message if anyone could ever read this till the end:Hope no woman-girl ever again beat up of some stranger or realtive,may everyone live peaceful and not harm someone.

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