I gotta get this out: Ming isn't the reason for Joe's death at all, Joe is.
Cause first of all nobody told Joe's dumb ass to do an illegal film production - that was a personal decision.
What Ming did was lose Joe a job....and his privileged behind could have gotten Joe 20 others, just like how he got himself written into every damn movie now with the snap of his fingers. Joe could have made Ming pay him back 1000x over for his loss of work and pain & suffering but he wanted to be a dumbass instead. Well, he fucked around and found out imo.
Why blame Messy Ming for Joe's choices when we've already concluded that Joe's a moron? Ming got Joe fired, but he didn't kill him. Joe did that to himself.
Sol makes my skin crawl and has since the beginning. Nothing I hate more than a shitty person that pretends to be a good person. If you're an asshole then just be that (like Messy Ming). I hate the fakeness of it all. Sol is manipulative in a very calculated way while Ming makes emotionally impulsive (bad) decisions without thinking of the consequences at all. I can be entertained by a hot mess but I absolutely cannot tolerate a fraud that premeditates exploiting someone at their most vulnerable.
"Playing the long game" - I despise that saying for a reason. Sol only wants to win over Ming. Like Joe's some trophy he can spit shine and place on his mantle or something.
Ming is still messy. A chaotic desperate emotional impulsive hot mess....but what I will say is that he let Sol's fake ass punch him in the face and did nothing! Then this bitch ran up on Messy Ming at the bar and still nothing!!...."growth" I guess (cuz we know he's never shied away from a cat fight), but I'm hoping for more mess in the future.
At least he's still making emotionally desperate decisions. I've never had any character gag me the way Ming does. However you think he will react or whatever you think he should or would do he takes a hard left and I love that for my blood pressure, sincerely. I'm so entertained.
This show was so bad and so good at the same damn time. Did most things make sense? Nope. Were some of the plot points, dialogue, and sex scenes ridiculous? Absolutely. Did I dislike most of the characters? You bet. But there's just something about this damn show that kept me wondering what would happen next.
The post credits scene had me slightly shook ngl but at the same time I'm not surprised about it at all 'cause that man and his relationship was eerie as hell.
That final episode was underwhelming. Easily the worst episode of the series because nothing made any real sense and everything was both anticlimactic and melodramatic at the same damn time..
My heartless ass just skipped all the Way sympathy nonesense cause he was already dead to me to be honest. Once I get to that point there really is no amount of sulking or bullet-taking that will make me change my mind. Now I feel confused cause everyone else seems to care so much 🤷♀️sorry I’m a horrible human I guess😂
As a visually impaired person I do not plan on watching this finale episode since I've heard that Day gets his sight back. I still love the show up to the last scene in ep 11 -but no thank u.
The difference may lie in the fact that Mew and Top's relationship was so new when it happened--and that Top had…
Misled...hmmm. I think Mew was right in that Top believed what he wanted so that it gave him the excuse to revert to his true asshole nature with Ton. Would it have been so hard to go back and fact check that clip by asking Mew? I don't think so. When Boston approached Top in the bathroom Ep 1 and said they were the same, I don't think he was far off with that assessment.
Proved himself.....you mean force his presence on Mew - Top sure did. Meanwhile Ton let Mew "vent"(what a butthole) and then backed off and gave him his space. Ton didn't chase behind Mew because he knows he's trash and he was simply too selfish to care about being trash. Top cares about his IMAGE too much to let everything end with him being the bad guy to a "prize" like Mew. Let's not forget Mew was the prize Top was on a mission to win from the very beginning. Top just kept running behind Mew until he no longer felt like the trash he was for what he did.
Boston should not be forgiven by Mew at all. Bros before Hoes - Ton's friendship with Mew should have meant more to him than some peen. There's no coming back from that IMO.
But I personally don't believe Top should have been forgiven for that very same reason. How are you going to bring the Hoe you just met 2 months ago back in before your Bro of several years? If Top had slept with anyone else in the world other than Mew's friend, sure why not, but in a scenario like this, they should both be thrown in the garbage can.
I want to see a season of Boston going to New York and joining polyamorous Bohemian comune.
Oh god. I've seen these BLs and dramas use "foreign" actors. They are never from the country they claim the characters to be from - Usually German or something. I don't need them butchering the show quality for the sake of story telling. I'd rather they just skip that part of the story LOL
I share your skepticism towards Top, and like you, I've been vocal about my distaste for his character more than…
You have the right to your opinion of course, but we'll agree to disagree here.
Every time he thanked Mew for being his compass or his reason to change or whatever it gave me the ick. Statements like that are how the "pick me" is born. What about Mew makes him deserving of someone wanting to change FOR them, while Nick is not? My point is that you can't make someone want to change....they would have to already want to do that themselves. This whole season has kind of been about Mew taming the playboy to the very end. I really despise that messaging. Players are going to play until they get tired of the game ON THEIR OWN.
The truth is that Boston is going to keep playing in NY until he gets it out of his system. Everything he had to face only served the purpose of showing him that consequences DO exist, other people's feelings DO matter and that he's clearly not ready for a relationship yet. He came to Nick because (as he said) he did like Nick better than all the rest and after reflecting on everything he thought he SHOULD want to be with someone like him. Was he lonely- sure, but he could have anyone he wanted. Nick was not this man's first clinger Lol.
My point is that people are not perfect, and I do not expect them to be. Top is not perfect - I think he's still an asshole (I mean why wouldn't he want to apologize for stealing someone's man?). I just wish the show treated him that way. Not sure what being open about a house fire does in terms of monogamy. He told Mew that story before he let Boston bounce on his lap Lmao. I don't think vulnerability was his problem - it's that he's arrogant towards others, and that's still never been addressed.
I genuinely wonder what the difference between Top saying he wants to be better for Mew (with it being accepted/expected) versus Boston saying he wants to do better (and being told good luck with that/continue being a whore in NY).
I'm definitely not mad at Nick or Mew, because it is Mew's choice to forgive who he wants and it's Nicks choice to not accept anything less someone's full devotion. But I find Boston's blunder to be way more realistic than what's being pushed with Top. People do not change overnight.
Both Boston and Top were "whores" who had no respect for monogamous relationships, but I'm expected to believe that Top is now going to be the perfect angel to Mew? I don't believe Top is being honest about how difficult it is going to be for him to stay faithful. What about him is so redeemable? He was not a good person, so what would make him one now?
My opnion is that long-term, Boston is more likely to experience a greater AUTHENTIC growth than Top because in the end, he's the only one of them that's faced any real consequences for their actions by being left alone to reflect.
I want to see a season of Boston returning to Thailand and finding himself. I want to see a season of Nick finding himself. I don't even need them together I'm just invested in their personal growth tbh
I love boston but I dont think he and Nick were meant to be. Boston will eventually leave and I love how mature…
I'm fine with those two reuniting after multiple years apart. Sometimes people just need to grow up before they can come together. The timing isn't right and Boston isn't ready for a full blown relationship. They are both very raw right now. They should both take the time to heal from their choices and grow.
I hated sand this episode, I don't care what Ray did in the past, it doesn't mean sand can get a free pass with…
Hate is a strong word, but I was annoyed. I can sympathize with Sand a bit that he may have some lingering complex feelings for Boeing. Remember Boe Left Sand for another man, it's not like Sand ditched him. Now he pops up like nothing ever happened...hmmm kinda like Ray does- this man does have a type. I think Sand is used to being weak and giving in to his lovers despite his hurt. I think he's trying to navigate/fight those lingering inclinations. I can't expect the man to be perfect, but he needs to do better here. I'm sure Ray just shocked some sense into him though.
We can't deny that most of us have once been in Pat's position of taking everything your boss says and does personally because you lack the perspective that experience brings.
We should try to be understanding of Pat's process of growth in the workplace. He'll learn like a lot of us have with time. His feelings are valid, but he should be communicating them effectively with his boss (and Human Resources) instead of holding it all in and then lashing out in frustration.
Jeng is also going to have to learn how to manage more emotional employees. Is he professional, yes, but he can come off slightly cold in his delivery and someone sensitive like Pat won't get a good impression from it. He doesn't need to touch his shoulders like Nan (that bothered me for some reason - maybe cause I'm not a touchy person), but he could start a sentence with "I understand you may feel..../I don't mean to make you feel......but this is my intent behind.....". Also, suggesting someone that's already feeling isolated to keep their distance from the only person that they could talk to pissed me off - just tell Nan to stop touching his shoulders and to give everyone equal time. Idk if unconscious jealousy played a part in Jeng doing that (I've been peeping this man's facial expressions when Nan and Put are around Pat).
......bitch that's a fetish
Cause first of all nobody told Joe's dumb ass to do an illegal film production - that was a personal decision.
What Ming did was lose Joe a job....and his privileged behind could have gotten Joe 20 others, just like how he got himself written into every damn movie now with the snap of his fingers. Joe could have made Ming pay him back 1000x over for his loss of work and pain & suffering but he wanted to be a dumbass instead. Well, he fucked around and found out imo.
Why blame Messy Ming for Joe's choices when we've already concluded that Joe's a moron?
Ming got Joe fired, but he didn't kill him. Joe did that to himself.
"Playing the long game" - I despise that saying for a reason. Sol only wants to win over Ming. Like Joe's some trophy he can spit shine and place on his mantle or something.
At least he's still making emotionally desperate decisions. I've never had any character gag me the way Ming does. However you think he will react or whatever you think he should or would do he takes a hard left and I love that for my blood pressure, sincerely. I'm so entertained.
The post credits scene had me slightly shook ngl but at the same time I'm not surprised about it at all 'cause that man and his relationship was eerie as hell.
Proved himself.....you mean force his presence on Mew - Top sure did. Meanwhile Ton let Mew "vent"(what a butthole) and then backed off and gave him his space. Ton didn't chase behind Mew because he knows he's trash and he was simply too selfish to care about being trash. Top cares about his IMAGE too much to let everything end with him being the bad guy to a "prize" like Mew. Let's not forget Mew was the prize Top was on a mission to win from the very beginning. Top just kept running behind Mew until he no longer felt like the trash he was for what he did.
Boston should not be forgiven by Mew at all. Bros before Hoes - Ton's friendship with Mew should have meant more to him than some peen. There's no coming back from that IMO.
But I personally don't believe Top should have been forgiven for that very same reason. How are you going to bring the Hoe you just met 2 months ago back in before your Bro of several years? If Top had slept with anyone else in the world other than Mew's friend, sure why not, but in a scenario like this, they should both be thrown in the garbage can.
Every time he thanked Mew for being his compass or his reason to change or whatever it gave me the ick. Statements like that are how the "pick me" is born. What about Mew makes him deserving of someone wanting to change FOR them, while Nick is not? My point is that you can't make someone want to change....they would have to already want to do that themselves. This whole season has kind of been about Mew taming the playboy to the very end. I really despise that messaging. Players are going to play until they get tired of the game ON THEIR OWN.
The truth is that Boston is going to keep playing in NY until he gets it out of his system. Everything he had to face only served the purpose of showing him that consequences DO exist, other people's feelings DO matter and that he's clearly not ready for a relationship yet. He came to Nick because (as he said) he did like Nick better than all the rest and after reflecting on everything he thought he SHOULD want to be with someone like him. Was he lonely- sure, but he could have anyone he wanted. Nick was not this man's first clinger Lol.
My point is that people are not perfect, and I do not expect them to be. Top is not perfect - I think he's still an asshole (I mean why wouldn't he want to apologize for stealing someone's man?). I just wish the show treated him that way. Not sure what being open about a house fire does in terms of monogamy. He told Mew that story before he let Boston bounce on his lap Lmao. I don't think vulnerability was his problem - it's that he's arrogant towards others, and that's still never been addressed.
I'm definitely not mad at Nick or Mew, because it is Mew's choice to forgive who he wants and it's Nicks choice to not accept anything less someone's full devotion. But I find Boston's blunder to be way more realistic than what's being pushed with Top. People do not change overnight.
Both Boston and Top were "whores" who had no respect for monogamous relationships, but I'm expected to believe that Top is now going to be the perfect angel to Mew? I don't believe Top is being honest about how difficult it is going to be for him to stay faithful. What about him is so redeemable? He was not a good person, so what would make him one now?
My opnion is that long-term, Boston is more likely to experience a greater AUTHENTIC growth than Top because in the end, he's the only one of them that's faced any real consequences for their actions by being left alone to reflect.
We should try to be understanding of Pat's process of growth in the workplace. He'll learn like a lot of us have with time. His feelings are valid, but he should be communicating them effectively with his boss (and Human Resources) instead of holding it all in and then lashing out in frustration.
Jeng is also going to have to learn how to manage more emotional employees. Is he professional, yes, but he can come off slightly cold in his delivery and someone sensitive like Pat won't get a good impression from it. He doesn't need to touch his shoulders like Nan (that bothered me for some reason - maybe cause I'm not a touchy person), but he could start a sentence with "I understand you may feel..../I don't mean to make you feel......but this is my intent behind.....". Also, suggesting someone that's already feeling isolated to keep their distance from the only person that they could talk to pissed me off - just tell Nan to stop touching his shoulders and to give everyone equal time. Idk if unconscious jealousy played a part in Jeng doing that (I've been peeping this man's facial expressions when Nan and Put are around Pat).