I hope to see the day that kdrama writers let go of the depiction of toxic obsessive lovers. Entire centuries…
Gotta love the old "I'm doing this for you" and "I only care about you" while at the same time not listening to them, not respecting them and not caring about what they actually want or what makes them happy.
I hope to see the day that kdrama writers let go of the depiction of toxic obsessive lovers. Entire centuries…
Also you are so right about liking someone.
Sure people can have their feelings, but that doesn't mean they get a free pass to cross other's personal boundaries, to not treat others the way they would wish to be treated, or disrespect the other person's thoughts and feelings and insert themselves into another person's life.
Especially if it's to a degree where (if you were in your right mind you would realize) your actions are to the point where they could make the person you are interested in feel unsafe.
The way he didn't even want to let her say how she felt about the situation annoyed me so much! It wasn't about her not letting him have feelings (as if that would be something she could actually control π lol I am sure she wishes as much, and would turn them off if she could). It is about continuing to act whatever way he wants using his "pure" feelings of liking her for an excuse, so that if she starts questioning/disliking/becoming uncomfortable with his actions and voices as much she becomes the bad guy for "insulting" his "love" for her.
I hope to see the day that kdrama writers let go of the depiction of toxic obsessive lovers. Entire centuries…
100%! Thank you! That's exactly how I feel too! If he doesn't come out as being a bad guy in this reincarnation I am going to be so annoyed!!
He's absolutely giving corrupt creepy cop who is abusing his power and hiding behind his badge in order to justify his obsession and pretend that he couldn't possibly be a bad guy.
And the character is written to be perfectly obnoxious. He is such a big red flag with his actions, and yet he has acted nothing but self-righteously toward the ML from the beginning. As though the fact that you're an officer makes you better that others. Gross.
I probably miss this but the ML was going to say why the sML has the same face as the king. he said every reincarnation…
Yeah good point! I don't remember the explanation or anything about that at all. The FL though, she's human and she always has a different face in her reincarnations? Why does he always have the same face though?? Hmm
Just started watching episode 12 *** MINI SPOILER BUT BARELY . . . just talking about some lines at the beginning…
Just started episode 12 but might I just say it was so satisfying to see the FL's response to the SML being all like "you need my protection from him", as if! Like she says, the ML has done nothing but actually protect her.
In fact a better job than what the SML as a police officer should have been doing. Versus randomly going stalkerish on the love interest of someone you have the hots for, because I mean he's just SO SUS (how convenient).
Ah yes he looks like the guy in an old picture . . . instead of just thinking it must be genetics, well the logical and sane conclusion to jump to would of course be that he is some kind of non-human, evil, alien/fantasy creature being thing out for the blood/destruction of "his lady" who he must now swoop in to heroically protect. Wow, he's so giving of himself, I'm so moved! What self-sacrifice, non-selfish intent and wise reasoning! Makes perfect sense!
What girl wouldn't fall for a man like him π and the way he showed his stalkerish/obsessed papers concerning ML . . . be still my heart, it really shows shows his pure hearted dedication to the FL! π₯°β€β€ I know if I was the female lead and he showed me that amazing research (that you could of course immediately observe as being legit from a glance) I would 100% immediately be convinced of his wise and manly reasoning!!!
The SML drives me crazy! What exactly is he hoping to accomplish with his obsession with the ML? It almost seems like he is putting in more work to creep the ML than he has on the serial killer case because he is jealous of the ML. Like he just out here looking for an excuse for the ML and FL to not be together. π
How the mom treated the bio dad (even when he was so undeserving) versus how he treats their family is such a contrast. Their family is so kind and loving and he is just so horrible!
1. Good Dad better live. If Good Dad dies, I riot!2. Bad Dad better die, preferably while being arrested for attempted…
If the next episode wasn't already made, I would tell the writer to look at your comment and take notes! This! This is what we need! Mwah, a chef's kiss!
can't believe they make us cry sincerely with Yu and Lei's sacrifices, but Lin Luxiao only gets a walking alone…
Right?! Fine if that's gonna be how you first show he's dead but at least give the show time to mourn the character. Show more of peoples' reactions. Let us know more about what happened. Show us a funeral maybe. This really just felt so abrupt as well as being unnecessary. And how come he was the only one who was shown to have died, that feels way too cherry picked in a huge fire like this.
i literally bawled my eyes out watching the dance scene ππππ
Not a crier, but when "he" was crying while watching her performance there was definitely some moisture welling up in my eyes. Gosh it was such an emotional scene.
And the way she smiled "at him" clearly because she was seeing him in her mind's eye even though he wasn't really there. I wasn't prepared. :(
Sure people can have their feelings, but that doesn't mean they get a free pass to cross other's personal boundaries, to not treat others the way they would wish to be treated, or disrespect the other person's thoughts and feelings and insert themselves into another person's life.
Especially if it's to a degree where (if you were in your right mind you would realize) your actions are to the point where they could make the person you are interested in feel unsafe.
The way he didn't even want to let her say how she felt about the situation annoyed me so much! It wasn't about her not letting him have feelings (as if that would be something she could actually control π lol I am sure she wishes as much, and would turn them off if she could). It is about continuing to act whatever way he wants using his "pure" feelings of liking her for an excuse, so that if she starts questioning/disliking/becoming uncomfortable with his actions and voices as much she becomes the bad guy for "insulting" his "love" for her.
He's absolutely giving corrupt creepy cop who is abusing his power and hiding behind his badge in order to justify his obsession and pretend that he couldn't possibly be a bad guy.
And the character is written to be perfectly obnoxious. He is such a big red flag with his actions, and yet he has acted nothing but self-righteously toward the ML from the beginning. As though the fact that you're an officer makes you better that others. Gross.
In fact a better job than what the SML as a police officer should have been doing. Versus randomly going stalkerish on the love interest of someone you have the hots for, because I mean he's just SO SUS (how convenient).
Ah yes he looks like the guy in an old picture . . . instead of just thinking it must be genetics, well the logical and sane conclusion to jump to would of course be that he is some kind of non-human, evil, alien/fantasy creature being thing out for the blood/destruction of "his lady" who he must now swoop in to heroically protect. Wow, he's so giving of himself, I'm so moved! What self-sacrifice, non-selfish intent and wise reasoning! Makes perfect sense!
What girl wouldn't fall for a man like him π and the way he showed his stalkerish/obsessed papers concerning ML . . . be still my heart, it really shows shows his pure hearted dedication to the FL! π₯°β€β€ I know if I was the female lead and he showed me that amazing research (that you could of course immediately observe as being legit from a glance) I would 100% immediately be convinced of his wise and manly reasoning!!!
And the way she smiled "at him" clearly because she was seeing him in her mind's eye even though he wasn't really there. I wasn't prepared. :(