Bliss Ace

This is an example in addition to Sweet Home why Netflix can't be trusted to renew Korean shows. I don't even trust them in renewing Alice in Borderland.

Where did I say I was offended, LOL. Also, how am I the one who is upset when I am not the one writing long paragraphs? Again, with your imaginations. You're still cute though.

I thought same. How is it 10 years when he just recently did one in 2023.

Ever heard a saying, 'when you know you know' or I knew it the first time talked? But yeah its not defendable. But its not sudden. The editing made it seem that way. But we can say that the date with Yido was off from the beginning but it was edited out from the show. So the picture we all got was that he was all in for her while there were some cracks within the relationship.

Yeah, good for you Katie! You can only imagine or dream at this point. Threaten me? Is it another scenario you're imagining?

Fortunately, you're not Jiyeon and Jeongmok isn't remotely attracted to you for you to have to deal with that situation. If nothing great is going on for you then at least that does.

Wow, a positive comment. It felt refreshing in this comment section.

Yeah. Like duh, its a group of about 27 year olds who have never dated before. Like what would you expect? Now that I am thinking about it, how can you be over 25 years and never dated someone? Sounds I don't know. Suspicious?

Sorry😂 Because I would just argue back and say you're being too emotional? No, trust me, I'm a good person. Or I think I am.

I guess Netflix never figured out how to equally distribute the airtime to all the participants. Or maybe its just something to do with k-dating shows. The game changers aren't even game changing. I even forgot they exist in the first place mid-episode.

You're too emotionally attached about the situation to even think about it logically. Take a step back and try to think about it rationally. What we're all saying is this: Its not right. But we get it. Or it can happen.

Yeah, so that tells us he's not on the spectrum. Just inexperienced. He does a good job to try to put the advise into actions. So he is growing as a person.

I don't know anything about the spectrum but I can say he's just awkward especially in front of girls. He acts quite normal when its just dudes. So that tells me he's just an awkward person especially with the opposite sex. But it doesn't have to be always like that as we can see a bit of his personality especially if he is comfortable with that person irrespective of the gender. My theory is that he may have had little or few friends growing up. He also had no sibling growing up. He has a small sister now that he is an adult.
In short, his behavior is nothing that he can't fix not with just coaching but by being exposed to various situations. Like for example this dating show. He is learning a lot. He is so different now compared to the beginning of the show. So that tells you that this is all just habits he picked up mostly because of his introverted nature.

Great points! Yeah, we can all agree how he handled the situation was really poor. I hope he can look back on it and learn. It doesn't make someone feel better but it hurts them even more. I agree.

Its not just few hours. The editing might have made it seem that way but its not. The flashbacks we saw were never shown in the normal broadcast so they were left out for suspense or plot twist. The producers painted us a rosy picture about them only to drop the bomb last minute.

We can, however, both agree that he handled the situation poorly. Saying that he likes her the most when its not the case was bad even the panelists pointed that out. So let's criticize him for that and not for him catching feelings for the other girl. It totally makes sense. I have liked someone physically but did not connect emotionally. Lying not to disappoint someone is something he has to work on because like the panelists said, it hurts more because you raised their hopes up.

Yes, you make such a good argument. I just think the participants are like mirrors for us. They reflect how we handle different situations. In other words, we see ourselves in them. So, for that, you don't hate but learn. Great points!

Yes you did. It was such a good comment.

Am I the only who thinks the hate on Jeongmok is misplaced? I was about to make a long comment only to read what @MinJi23 wrote (further down the comments) and I will just reiterate what she said. Its pretty simple. Like Jeyeon said on Heart Pairing, sometimes its difficult to progress from liking someone to actually loving them.
I mean all of you who are judging have you never had a crush and then after getting to know them you actually realize its their looks that had you on hook? But in terms of personality, you guys don't really connect. I feel like everyone is hypocritical especially after Jeongmok explained that he feels like they're on different wavelengths. It was pretty much over then. So don't say he changed overnight. It wasn't but the editing made it seem that way. But y'all are free to judge how he handled the situation. It was done poorly. I cant fault him though because that's something you learn with experience. I hope Yido moves on quickly. Clinging onto it won't change anything especially if they are connecting emotionally while you can't. This is why emotional connection is stronger than physical attraction. Ever since I discovered that, my type changed. Looks are important but not everything.

No, their lifestyle is different which might have made him feel out of place but what really sealed the coffin was that they couldn't hold even one normal conversation and be on the same 'wavelength' like he said. Also, he was honest. He told her he doesn't feel like they're on the same page on things but he is still trying to understand why he is feeling that way. So he keeps apologizing because he knows that situation is hurtful.

Okay, let me simplify it for you. He like Yido, well at least physically. She is his dream woman. The girl he would go for just based on looks but they cannot connect on an emotional level. Now we have Jiyeon, who lets say wasn't his first choice based on the physical attributes but connects with her emotionally. I think he explained it perfectly to Yido. Whenever he talks with her, he feels like they're from different world. For instance, he asked what was her priority in her life and she said her main priority is herself then her family. Okay, I like Yido. She is pure BUT for someone like me who also like my family I would think she is a bit selfish. Not bad. Its just preference. But the correct answer for me if I am dating someone is that their family is their priority.
Okay, now let's move on to Jiyeon, because of her trauma, her family is her utmost importance. She put her life on pause just for her family. That really resonated with him. Also, Yido kept saying about Christmas tree in New York and hosting parties, which led to the impression that they lead a different life outside the show. But Jiyeon is so perfect for him at this point and connects to him emotionally so thats why we have this situation going on.