Bliss Ace

I must have missed that. Even Da Hee calling him rude? I didn't see any of that. I am just going to respect your opinion on this one. When you see someone as a villain or bad, its hard to change that mindset on someone no matter how much I try. Also, You Jin was my favorite at the beginning. I haven't lost hope on her yet. But I just couldn't see how it was Jun Seo's fault. Based on your comment, all I can say I do get drunk sometimes too. And I can do some dumb shit when I am drunk. Heck, my friends do too. The actions are dumb but we can laugh at each other but its only because its funny and not to mock each other. Her on the swing might have seemed funny. I didn't see him laugh but I am just going to take your word for it. You Jin wasn't like in pain or dying that she would warrant sympathy from people.

Also, am I the only one who thinks the swing incidence wasn't embarrassing as people make it seem to be. I mean I am gonna blame the panel on this one. They made the scene look embarrassing than it should be and people have bought that narrative. I mean I agree with the girl who said she seemed to be having fun. It may have looked weird because she was all alone on the swing and screaming. Her scream showed how much fun she was having and it wasn't in a weird way. But being alone and having fun doing your own thing shouldn't make feel embarrassed for you. OR maybe I share the same brain cell as You Jin because I saw her actions quite fun. And maybe I would have laughed too if I was there because I don't see it in a negative way.
Those are just my thoughts. Feel free to disagree.

Yeah, I am really bored. Thank you for spicing things up for me.
Now, I have come to the conclusion that you shouldn't date even girls. You should just stay forever ALONE. You look triggered. Did I touch a nerve? You seem like an insecure individual who is emotional and really reactive. You will be a pain to either a man or woman. So consider just dying alone in a nursing home.
You look like a cat-lady type that get ignored by people all her life just by how unattractive her personality is.
If you want to take the route of insults, well I am willing to offer you that. I will rephrase, you are just a nasty bitch who judges people a lot because you don't have something going on in your life. So you just hate people overall. Have a good day, cat-lady.

Its okay, if you can do a better job. I see you are triggered.

Why everyone mad at Jun Seo? I mean everyone has something to say about him. I don't get it, where did he bully You Jin? People are saying he talked behind her back. You know talking behind someone means to actually badmouth them. But I am replaying the scene, I can only see him saying that he lost all interest in You Jin due to how he saw she was behaving at the campfire. He didn't exactly say what it was. He just said that he thought he knew her after going to the paradise but turns out he didn't after that campfire.
I mean he just shared his honest feelings. Is that so bad? He didn't exactly like list bad character traits about her. Also, don't every member share their honest feelings with each other? Don't they sit together and tell each other who they think they are attracted to or not? Does that count as bullying?
Also, didn't You Jin just bruise Jun Seo's ego during that campfire? Her attitude during the campfire where she would joke around with Theo, I believe, would hurt him since he was interested in her. I think she wanted to show a good chemistry with Theo but in the process he might have felt ignored and hurt. He was so bothered by that , that he had to ask if they had feelings for each other. Though, they denied, he didn't believe them. That shows when he left them at the campfire, he has already decided to move on.

Now about the swing, how is it his fault? I also didn't see him laugh or smile. He was just embarrassed for her. In such situation, I thought it would have been better if a girl intervened because You Jin wasn't in danger, she was messing around which could possibly hurt her chances of getting someone. If a man intervenes, its as if you're telling her how to behave. That doesn't sound nice, does it? You're not her man, brother or father. They are not even friends, they haven't even known each other more than 3 days.

Also, I think its better if he just shares his honest feelings with the girls as opposed to the men. The girls can't do anything. Okay, I am wrong, they can gossip about it. But I was thinking that she won't look bad in front of the men. Its just the girls who I don't think can use that to hurt her. And what exactly is bad, that he lost interest? That is not news. Si an also lost interest on the guy the went to the paradise on the first day and its okay. Everyone loses interest at one point.
Also, I think the girls can talk with each other and she will know that Jun Seo lost interest so she can move on too.

Let me know what you think. I just think people are blowing things out of proportion just because their favorite member isn't so favorite anymore. That's okay but don't smear dirt on the other members just because of it.

Now, having addressed that, I am going to answer you in relation to your comment. The reason I replied to your comment that way its because you sounded dismissive and arrogant. Now imagine if I made a similar comment and said that most girls/women this season are giving me the icks and I don't like them.
Actually, I hadn't looked in your bio. So you're actually bi? I mean that's what I got from your comment. That you don't like men. Its not about worshipping them or anything. Instead of maybe attacking their personalities or anything related to their physical attributes, I heard you mention ick and not liking them and I could immediately understand that you're not really attracted to men.
I am sorry if that offended you. You may be bi but you're not exactly leaning on male. You're attracted more to the women and its perfectly fine. I am just judging based on your comment. I know nothing about your life.
As someone who is straight, I don't say the opposite gender has an ick, especially if its generalizing. I really respect both genders. I think this is something that you can resonate with especially since you're bi. Bi people are so embracing. Most bi people I have met say they value the connection they create with you whether you're a woman or man. That's how I know they're not 'judgey' or strong opinionated like you are. Its not wrong if you are, it means I haven't met all of you and its a wrong stereotype I have.

Hope that helps!

Oh, fantastic. Now, you wanna help me on my work. Isn't that great!
I mean what you said has an opposite effect to me. Its actually consoling that you're trying to make my life less miserable.
However, I have suggestion, please don't just give me money. I want to work for it. So that would help. Thank you for actually highlighting what really matters to me---that's my job.

On a serious note, I don't actually feel insulted. So incase of any work that would help my life feel any less miserable than I am right now, I would greatly appreciate. Anyway, here is my email: [email protected]. Kindly, reach out. I hope you were not joking on that part.

To be fair on him, everyone is there to promote themselves. No one has dated outside these Korean shows. I only know one couple that still date to this day and its only Love Catcher, I believe season 2. My Sibling's Romance is just too recent to make a judgement but they did produce a couple that is still strong today. The rest of the dating shows, about95% don't even get out of the show as a couple. They choose each other yes but ignore each other once the show ends. Like a perfect example is the season 2 of this show, Seulki chose Jong Woo but she ignored him after the show. And the reason they all provide is that they get busy after the show and it become difficult to accommodate each other.

If you need a show that has no clout, just try I AM SOLO. I think because they don't use their real names makes it hard to promote themselves. The rest of the shows are just for clout. They even get paid for appearing in them.

I just think that getting drunk was a disservice for him and You Jin. They first impression was entirely damaged. I don't know if anyone would still be interested in them after that campfire.

Exactly, everyone here looks like commercial models and bunch of clout chasers who want to get attention from the mass population. Now, I just feel everyone will only flirt just to show how popular they are and not to actually get into a relationship.

I think girls get each other. So they should have at least tried to help one of their own. Because that scene really hurts You Jin chances. But I have a feeling she will do okay. Okay, I am hoping she does. I loved her at first because she has a bubbly and positive image but maybe the drunk scene may have portrayed her differently which may not be accurate. But guys may buy that, which is not good.

I think you should just drop it. Or at least stick to just dating girls. Men are not for you. You will end up hurting yourself when its not your fault. Men are just not your taste. And in the world we live in, its become okay to date your own gender. Good Luck finding a good girl!

They're not friends. They barely know each other for 3 days. Also, its about interest. They might have thought they wouldn't want someone who goes off when they get drunk. Also, she was acting out of character not that she was breaking down, or couldn't walk. If its like that, you definitely need to help them. She just acted stupid that's all. Not only her, even the guy who Si an was interested acted stupid when he got drunk.
Also, in my opinion, I think the girls should have been the one who should have told her to take it down a little bit. Especially, when she was in the swing. The girls should have known how embarrassing it is especially if the men saw that. They should have taken care of her but again they haven't even known each other more than 3 days, so I can't blame them because its not like an emergency situation.
From their perspective, I think the guys just don't want to handle a person who breaks loose when they're drunk after they start dating. So it mostly takes away her charms.
Since everyone is new to each other, any action you do create a first impression about you. You may not be like that in most cases but the people you meet for the first time will always have that image about you.

I agree. Lately, I feel they have starved us up with dating shows. I know there are many Chinese dating shows but l can't get myself to watch them. Yeah, it feels good to get something after such a long while.

Ooh well, get ready to be disappointed. I liked You Jin and hoped that it worked between them. But now, I don't know. Especially for what she does in the campfire. Watch to find out.

I know. She should have kept her calm self. She literally had 3 guys interested. Now, with that she lost all 3 of them. So sad. She shouldn't drink for the foreseeable future just to reflect on that embarrassment.

And what episode are you in? Because she did find find him annoying/irritable. And how exactly did the guys turn out? Maybe here you could mention just two men that you found worse and they turned out to be just that. There are only two members who crash out by the end of episode 4, a male and female. But they were actually doing well but things turned out worse for them.

And about liking him too early, its actually a compliment. People actually start to like him on ep. 4. He is just a jokester for many of us in the beginning.

Good for you! I have nothing against him though. Actually, you started liking him way too early. He actually gets better and receives more love as the episodes progresses.
I just never judge someone's personality in comparison to the others. That was what I was pointing at. He is just being comfortable being himself. The rest are just awkward or maybe too self-conscious about how others judge them that they're not too comfortable like him.
Also, that part of him actually annoys the girls. It works for the audience as it is entertaining but not the girls. But he redeems himself as you will see as you continue watching. He is actually sincere and can be serious. Thats what attracts someone in the show. Or maybe its too early to actually admit that. Nothing is confirmed yet so let's continue watching.

The only Chinese dating show I have ever completed is the Heart Signal Season 2. Even to today, that season stands out to me. Season 5 was good too. The rest of the Chinese dating shows, I have never managed to complete or start them and I am not planning to.

Yeah, Chinese ones are more genuine. They don't approach these shows as a tool to market themselves. I have watched a few, but I find most members are actually successful in what they do or at least figuring it out. For the members that are still figuring it out, you don't find them in fields such as modelling or acting. It is fields like financing or accounting etc that has little to do with clout.
So, I agree the Chinese shows are actually more genuine because either they cast better or the members approach these shows with genuine intention. I, personally, can't make myself watch them. As much as the Korean shows are less genuine, I find them more entertaining than the Chinese. I don't know, maybe I need some fixing. I am just as bad as them, LOL (This could be one of the reasons they continue to make these fake shows. Because we the audience actually enjoy them).

Ooh okay. Its just sad. At this point I have just accepted it to be a trend on Single's inferno to do that. There must be someone popular in all their seasons. Right now, it isn't surprising anymore.
I guess despite knowing they are there for clout, I still stick around and watch maybe because I like how bold and daring they are. Most members believe they are attractive and have the confident to approach others. Maybe its a make-believe at this point. But I continue to watch it anyway for their entertaining aspect, possibly.