I just made a long post. Now do you see why he didnt join that groupchat?HJ, bless him has admitted his faults…
I agree with you wholeheartedly. I truly think MS was overwhelmed by the fact that he was being pursued by two people at once. And because he didn't clearly draw a line with HJin so he could focus on HJoon, he may have lost HJoon in the process.
If you compare it to how SH handled his love triangle with JS and SW. Once SH was sure of his feelings for JS, he immediately started taking steps to end his flirtations with SW and friendzoned him. The conversation between SH and SW in the cafe showed SH was shutting off his feelings in real-time as SW was continuing to try to draw him in. Even JS commented how he has to stay on his toes around SW because he knows SW is SH's type, but also I think JS made that comment because SW is a flirt and he doesn't like losing. 🤣
MS and HJoon got me in my feelings. When MS had the epiphany that he also didn't work hard to give HJoon reassurance....…
The way HJoon built MS back up after he started beating up on himself. Wow. It's kinda sad because neither of them are emotionally expressive and that's where they are struggling.
MS and HJoon got me in my feelings. When MS had the epiphany that he also didn't work hard to give HJoon reassurance.... you could see his entire countenance change. HJin stepped in and HJoon lost his confidence because MS didn't reassure him. I can totally understand HJoon going into self-preservation mode.
Just when I kind of start liking SW, he does or says something that's kind of snake-ish and makes me side-eye him. He was taking subtle digs at JS through their entire conversation. Then when SH showed up he said, "JS cried." Then when SH said, "Oh he cried?" Then SW corrected by saying, "Oh no he said he felt like crying."
In SW's conversation with JS, he blamed HJin stealing their date for being the catalyst for him and SH ultimately not being together, but that's no entirely accurate. SH called SW that night and SW called someone else! Then he proceeded to feed HJin meat wraps over and over at the bbq.
SW has never been rejected before and he's appearing to take it well outwardly but his heart and ego are hurt and it's coming out in his words.
SW and SH gossiping in the kitchen. Hilarious! When SW said, "You don't know about the love triangle!? You've been too busy falling in love." The scream I scrumpt! 🤣 SW is so funny.
I sincerely mean no disrespect and I mean this in the most endearing way, but.. HJoon isn't the sharpest tool in the tool shed is he? The elevator doesn't go all the way to the top with that one. He lacks spatial and social awareness sometimes. From joining too many chats so he couldn't join MS's chat, to calling SW the night before because he was grateful and missing a chance to go on a date with MS, to being completely oblivious to the tension at the breakfast table. The lights are on but nobody's home. 😆
I thought her invested interest in TK and YD was to tear them apart because YD tore her from TK
Oh, right! I forgot that was her goal. Thanks for the reminder.
Still... no reason to care that much. She really should just move on. I think she secretly wanted to get back with SH, but he's kinda hung up on YD and his baby now. YD took everything SJ had. I can see her desire for revenge. But after a year... I would get tired.
I agree with you. I think SW is very worried about the public's perception of him, especially as a gay man, getting…
>> I do feel though that this could actually be helpful for both of them in that YH would be gentle but firm with SW, and force SW into changing his bad habits.
No, you're right! That combination can either make or break a relationship. If SW would be open to YH, YH could help him become more assertive and open with his feelings. YH is patient and doesn't seem to anger easily, that's the perfect person to help someone overcome conflict avoidance.
But sadly, I fear SW can't get over the age difference and that's gonna halt any progress in their relationship. The more we talk about it, the more I think YH really is the right fit for SW right now. Even as a friend. SW needs people who will force him to be open and honest with his feelings and still accept him no matter what, without judgement.
Episode 35 she saying about how she been staying put for a year by his side🤦🏼🤦🏼How the hell does she…
>> Didn't he tell her the sound of her voice irritates him or something >> like that.🤣🤣 >> I guess those are words of love to her.
🤣 He did! TK has rejected her in the most savage way and she's still hanging on.
I was also expecting her to put herself up for a blind date with TK. But I TK's mom knows for sure that won't fly. Imagine how embarrassing it would be if they DID decide to get married. Everyone would show up to the wedding just for the drama. Curious if TK will walk out again. 🤣
If you compare it to how SH handled his love triangle with JS and SW. Once SH was sure of his feelings for JS, he immediately started taking steps to end his flirtations with SW and friendzoned him. The conversation between SH and SW in the cafe showed SH was shutting off his feelings in real-time as SW was continuing to try to draw him in. Even JS commented how he has to stay on his toes around SW because he knows SW is SH's type, but also I think JS made that comment because SW is a flirt and he doesn't like losing. 🤣
In SW's conversation with JS, he blamed HJin stealing their date for being the catalyst for him and SH ultimately not being together, but that's no entirely accurate. SH called SW that night and SW called someone else! Then he proceeded to feed HJin meat wraps over and over at the bbq.
SW has never been rejected before and he's appearing to take it well outwardly but his heart and ego are hurt and it's coming out in his words.
Still... no reason to care that much. She really should just move on. I think she secretly wanted to get back with SH, but he's kinda hung up on YD and his baby now. YD took everything SJ had. I can see her desire for revenge. But after a year... I would get tired.
No, you're right! That combination can either make or break a relationship. If SW would be open to YH, YH could help him become more assertive and open with his feelings. YH is patient and doesn't seem to anger easily, that's the perfect person to help someone overcome conflict avoidance.
But sadly, I fear SW can't get over the age difference and that's gonna halt any progress in their relationship. The more we talk about it, the more I think YH really is the right fit for SW right now. Even as a friend. SW needs people who will force him to be open and honest with his feelings and still accept him no matter what, without judgement.
>> I guess those are words of love to her.
🤣 He did! TK has rejected her in the most savage way and she's still hanging on.
I was also expecting her to put herself up for a blind date with TK. But I TK's mom knows for sure that won't fly. Imagine how embarrassing it would be if they DID decide to get married. Everyone would show up to the wedding just for the drama. Curious if TK will walk out again. 🤣