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Not the spring roll turn off?! How did they eat it? Now I'm genuinely curious. 🤣

I would be overwhelmed too. All those people crowding my space and I can't sort out my own feelings. It looks so uncomfortable.

🤣 YES, When HJin disliked HJoon's eyebrow slits! And HJoon said HJin didn't look like an ordinary person and that he looked domineering. He definitely weren't feeling each other and now they are rivals.

Me too! I had a permanent mama bear grin during their entire date like.. "Look at my babies all happy and stuff!"

😆 @ 'huh, interesting, thank you for the background info'.

Yes, folks in the English speaking world love a good ragefest over something of little consequence.

Agreed. I think he was trying to convince himself because he didn't think JS liked him. He was trying to quickly get over him just in case. 😆

I agree with everything you said.

I rewatched from episode 1 and I think SH liked JS from the moment he walked into the cafe, because he said his look was "Chic". But I also think they both liked each other from beginning, because JS was looking at SW a lot but he never mentioned being interested in SW. I think JS was too nervous to look SH in the eye. Plus SH was his ideal type from the beginning. I love over-analyzing their interactions. 😁

Agreed. I think SW has some conflict avoidance issues. To the point where he puts his own needs and wants on the back burner for the comfort of others.

As a reformed people-pleaser I get it. He has to resolve that or he will constantly find himself in situations he doesn't like or that don't truly reflect his wants and needs.

I was really proud of SW. You could tell he hadn't been in that situation before and he took it like a champ. He dealt with his feelings, cried it out and didn't take it out on them or anyone else.

>>> For sungho and Junsung, it's always "let's come together next time", "let's do it together next time", "let's wear a long coat when we visit next time".

YES! I love the reassurance they give each other that this is real for them. They are both a good catch but I totally get why JS fell so hard. SH is a GREAT catch. They are both strong willed and know what they want and go for it. And then SH is a meal prepper! Come on... that's life partner material right there.

I think they're opposites that complement each other well. SH seems to be the serious minded one and JS is positive and care-free. But they are both mature and have high emotional intelligence. They also communicate through conflict in a healthy way. They balance each other really well.

I really hope the dating rumors are true. I love it when people find their person. It just warms my heart.

Right! He threw all his eggs in that basket and put a blanket over them. 🤣 Junsung said, "My Man"

>> I think SW is very worried about the public's perception of him, especially as a gay man, getting into a relationship with a 'boy' 12 years younger

I think you're spot on here. SW cares a lot about how people perceive him. I think he and YH could have made an interesting couple though.

BUT I BELIEVE (just my personal opinion) it could have gotten toxic.

YH sought direct answers from SW about how he felt about him and many times SW just gives him a vague answer and that can get tiring. YH seemed frustrated when he wasn't getting straight answers.

Also, when JS and SH called SW's clothes dull, YH said he was thinking in regards to how SW reacted, "What are you a saint?", which told me if SW was getting walked all over by someone YH would push SW to defend himself which might make SW uncomfortable because he hates confrontation.

Earlier in the show, SW said he would date people for 2-3 years and have NO arguments. THAT screams conflict avoidance which isn't good in a committed relationship. Meaning a lot of potential issues were going unsaid or being swept under the rug, which builds resentment for your partner. There is no way on this planet you have NO disagreements with a person you are in a relationship with. Even minor ones about dinner selection should happen over the course of 2-3 years.

I really kind of wanted JW and YH to be endgame but YH is just not into JW and I get it. YH treated JWs feelings with care and that's all I can ask for.

Same! Or they do something that just turns you off. OR the atmosphere changes and you wake up. 😆

YH is SO adorable. He has such a sweet nature. When he felt bad about where he was in life compared to the others I just wanted to give him a hug and tell him he's gonna be just fine.

At this point I feel like HJin is just trying to win a contest. He's coming on WAY too strong. But then again everything he does is over the top. His out of the blue clinginess reads fake to me. And it sucks because I actually kind of liked how direct he was in the beginning. Now it's tiring.

>> She wants to find YD because in her warped mind she believes that JH will force YD to be with him or he will take the baby and go back to America.

This is the part that scares me. Joon Ha is JUST crazy enough to kidnap the baby and disappear to America. When he was standing outside her building screaming it gave me the creeps. THEN YD's weird neighbor just giving up info on her. I wouldn't get involved, money or no money. If JH were to kill her and take her baby, now you're at fault. I couldn't live with myself.

right?! When she said "by his side" I was thinking the SAME thing. And THEN he said, "don't show your face to me again." But you keep popping up?! Where is the self-respect? Could never be me.

Are there really people like Se Jin irl?! At this point, why does she care so much about other people’s business and why does the family keep her around? When does she do any actual work? Like, I understand KJH looking for his kid, that makes sense but SJ should have no vested interest in the reappearance of YD. TK already told her there isn’t a chance, why would you still wanna marry someone who lied about marrying someone else and having a kid JUST to get away from you?! make it make sense.

Put me on the “Sucker” bus too. I call this drama I one I despise but can’t stop watching. 🤣