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is he's also strong like fl or he's weak in front of her and she always wins!? thank you

I feel much calmer when I read others saying exactly what I was saying. When I watched the preview of this episode, I got really disappointed in her, and it turns out I was right. Unfortunately, she is selfish, and she’s still not mature enough to read the room or think from his perspective — only from what she wants and needs.
She didn’t even say anything about her feelings toward him, yet she still wants him to think only about her. When he was nearly crying because of his situation, she acted as if she was the one who got hurt more, just because she worried about him for a second and he didn’t call her.
(And the funny part is: he did call her and even sent her a message, despite everything he was going through and despite being in a state where he couldn’t think about anyone else.)
She didn’t even think to suffer a little for him, after all he did for her and how he helped her get her personality back. No she immediately jumped to the conclusion that he didn’t like her at all just because he called his mom and didn’t call her (say you're insucure without saying anything lol ) it's good that they still didn't start dating so she can think about how she was unreasonable and harsh towards him . 🤦🤦🤦🤦 I hope she apologize and know her mistake not just say it without any development after it .

thanks , I agree with you completely.
I really get disappointed with this episode I hope they make her better later.

In this situation, it shows her selfishness to me. Even when she knows that he actually sent her a message first, she still didn’t take the first step to apologize. Instead, he is the one who goes to apologize again, and then she says, “You don’t need to apologize.”
She only sees the situation from her own needs and wants, without trying to understand him or read the room, like you said. If she was really that afraid and worried, why didn’t she hugged him?
He also doesn’t know her feelings, so he taking advantage of the situation and didn't tell her, to know how she truly feels about him.

she still hasn’t decided to be with him, but she’s demanding that he acts like he’s already her boyfriend.

For me, even if he's her boyfriend, in that situation while facing his trauma, losing his dream job , and know he can’t be a doctor anymore , he has every right to focus on himself and not think about others, snd despite all that, he still called her and sent her a message she didn't see .
I honestly don’t understand what they wanted to say with this fight. If they just wanted to show that she was worried, they completely failed. They could have done it in a much better way. Instead, it made her look bad, selfish, and still insecure

So him confessing and chasing her for all this time meant nothing? She didn’t think that he loves her madly, but just one misunderstanding him not calling her ,and suddenly she thinks he doesn’t like her anymore and that he was only wasting both her time and his by pursuing her!?
Honestly, if she thinks like that, then she clearly still can’t be in a relationship and needs to heal from her insecurities first.

sorry to ask ar they fighting or it's just fl getting mad and scolding him while he's apologizing and silent can't say anything back 😅

she needs to apologize not forgive him because he didn't do anything wrong but she did .

thank you and sorry for the long paragraph 😅

And I agree with you completely, but he also has the right not to call her, to be in a bad situation, and to think about himself, not only about her. He did send a message, but because of the bad network, it didn’t go through, so she didn't received it in time.
No one said she owes him anything just because he’s pursuing her, but she also has no right to dictate how he should act . If she doesn’t like the way he’s pursuing her, then she should simply reject him—end of story—not act as if he must call or do certain things even in his bad time when he's thinking about his lost dream job .
She’s still not his girlfriend or wife, so she has no right to tell him what he should or shouldn’t do .
And her worrying about him isn’t a favor he needs to thank her for or he apologize because she felt that way , it was her own choice. Because she kept taking her time ( and she's right to do so ) , never said anything clearly, and never expressed her feelings that she grow for him , he ended up using a stupid way just to find out how she feels about him.

He apologized, she didn’t accept it, and she didn’t apologize either , until he came to her again and she realized that he had actually sent her a message, which she simply didn’t receive on time. And once again, he is the one who goes to her place to apologize, not her taking the first step.
Still, yes it is refreshing that the FL eventually apologizes, even if she didn’t do it first 😅🤣 because in recent C-dramas, FLs almost never apologize, even when they completely break the ML’s heart.

I’m not a girl, 🙋, and I’m not hating , I’m disappointed. I don’t care about the SML or his cold, pathetic face.
I’m talking only about how she reacted to the situation and how she didn’t read the room or even think why he didn’t call her but called his mom instead.
One big reason is that she still hasn’t said a single word about how she feels about him or what place he has in her heart , and then we see in the preview that he’s still the one who goes to her to apologize again, not her going to him and taking the first step for once even after she finds that he sent her a message .

I hope she changes later and becomes his shine , supportive side , supporting him the way he supported her and is still supporting her. I want her to think from his perspective too, not just act selfishly, expecting him to treat her like his girlfriend and to be his priority , when she hasn’t made him that yet.
Again, this isn’t hate. It’s disappointment because I want them to be a good couple who support each other, not like many recent C-dramas that disappointed me with mls simping and fl have other things more important.

from what I see she's not mature enough or she will ever take first step in the relationship to see things from his perspective , he still needs to make more effort , she even get annoyed because he called his mom not her first!!! is this something she has the right to be annoyed with!? she didn't even let him know that he's has special place to her or she likes him !? and he needs to use this stupid way to know her feelings because how she still can't move on from her trauma after all he did !!? I know what you're saying but still in my opinion she's wrong doing that when she didn't even say to him she started to like him or anything but still needs him to think of her like she's his wife or girlfriend 😮‍💨🙃😅 I hope she gets better later and take first step to be a good partner that he needs to get healed from his past, and they support each other.

waw, when she show her love for first time she get upset on him in the worst time possible , when he needs her next to him to shine on his dark past, like he did when she needs someone to make her move on from that cold pathetic sml negative energy, poor ml he's bad luck follow him when he wants just to be with her , let's hope she became a good partner, not just see things from her perspective or what she wants . 😅🙃

And no one understands him or stands by his side. Even the FL couldn’t find a worse time to be angry with him than this. He’s unlucky to pursue her while she still hasn’t moved on from her past, and she still only sees things from her own perspective because she knows nothing about his past or his trauma 😮‍💨

is it not normal the girlfriend or boyfriend stay in their partners side only!? I don't understand whats new about saying that!? 🙃

Unfortunately, she’s cold in that regard because she fell first for the pathetic, insecure SML, so it’s the ML’s bad luck to fall for her while she still hasn’t healed from that. She’s als_ if I can say it _still a little childish in how she sees the situation only from her own perspective , and ml has to hide his trauma and what happened to him from her because he doesn't want her to feel sad .

It's frustrating how they make MLs fall first and harder, doing everything and waiting until we, and even the characters, feel bad for them. Meanwhile, the FL still enjoys his presence but doesn’t think about how he’s still waiting and assumes she doesn’t like him. He even used a stupid method to see if she has any feelings for him, and she will be worrying about him ! poor guy It’s slowly burning him not slow burn to get together lol.

lol , she needs to move on and be indifferent around him like he's a stranger not still affect her mood everytime still.

and she still likes him after that and can't move on easily from him !!! she's really have no self respect that time to like a insucure pathetic man like him

it's Cdrama tropes , that sml think first she's dating so he give up, but when he knows she's not he thinks he has a chance so he Force himself between them thinking she still likes him that's why she still didn't accept ml .

lol , thank you, because it's not that serious break up I guess or in kdrama after the real break up they need time skip till they meet at the last second to smile at each other 🤣 thanks

I still haven’t watched the new episodes. I’m waiting to see whether they change what she did in the novel or not. If they change it, I’ll drop it, because I don’t like MLs doing everything , and we see she tried more for sml , but he was stupid to realize her value 😅

It’s a modern saying, similar to the old one: “Birds of a feather flock together.” 🙂