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Yes, I agree with you, but I disagree that she would hate him more if they didn’t make him an evil character, and he later changes for the better , I think she would forgive him in order to move on from him also and forget her doormat personality that she tolerated and accepted everything while with him. This way, she could become stronger and respect herself.

There’s one drama with this cliché: the ex cheated, make the mistress pregnant and married her in same place when they want to get married , and the FL pay for everything while in the relationship , even the house. Later, she became his “love guru,” advising him on how to be a good husband 🤦🤦🤦🤦. I’m afraid this FL might also end up becoming just a friend to him later on.

She’s dealing with a narcissistic, toxic man, so whatever she says or does is basically ignored by him he only sees what he thinks is right. To deal with him, she needs to show it harder and stronger until he understands. (I get it, maybe because he knows her secret, she can’t.) I don’t care if she slapped him every time he talks at least then he would know exactly what she means lol.

writers in kdrama make it hard to watch dramas unfortunately for me with this tropes of exes and virgin mls and weak to a degree fls

I know he’s a narcissistic, toxic, selfish joke. Because of that, he sees anything she did, and even the slightest act of "caring", as a sign that she still has some love for him.

Why do they, most of the time, make the FL slap the ML in K-dramas, but not the ex like this one? I’ve watched many dramas where the FL ignores the ML, even when he didn’t do what this ex did, and they don’t even show him face 🤣😅🤣and make him look like a joke . But this toxic ex, she felt guilty that he got into an accident 🤦.

Maybe I’m wrong about this, but it’s really disappointing always the same tropes. The way FLs act with exes isn’t hard or strong enough.

I agree with you, but what she thinks that she not caring or have any love for him that narcissistic ex is different he see what she's doing that he still has a chance . We also saw how he called her the cheater and said she was the one in the wrong 😅 because that's how he's .

I agree with you that, _as they say_ love is blind.

Let’s wait and see how she will act when her secret about the fake marriage comes out, because that’s the only valid reason for her to behave like she’s still involved with him , especially after what he did to her , and what his family did to her mom.

Stop acting like the FL is your family. This drama isn’t your property, and you can’t tell me how to feel about it watch it or not is not you ass's business

The dumb one is the person who disrespects real people over fictional characters and different opinions 🤦, and defends them like they’re his family when they gets criticized, and he acts like a loser who thinks his opinions are the only right ones and that all other opinions about his family are wrong and dumb .

And just wait for your family development I bet she’ll forgive him and be his friend again, unless he becomes a criminal or does something that really pushes her to her limits. 😅🤣

They’ll do it to make sure no one ever disturbs her again lol.”

This why they get with it , making sml more handsome than ml and more charismatic and more manly with fl than mls in most of the times, while ml act insucure and silly and dull lol

unfortunately in most of rom-com kdramas for me

But how can she care about the male lead’s feelings while also caring about her ex’s feelings!? She’s making the ex think he still has a chance. If they had broken up calmly and mutually, then yes, she could act the way she’s acting now ( I'm of those that don't agree to have any relationship with the ex while dating another) but not after what he did. Yet she still behaves like he’s the love of her life, can’t bear to hurt him, keeps helping him, answers every call from him, gives him her time, and lets him make her look like she’s the cheater and the bad one in the situation, not him. She’s just acting like she’s , be kind and gentle in places that needs to be the apposite is unwise, not show that she's good, like be kind with an abusive person and let them abuse you is stupid .

and yes that love need obstacles but not stupid one like being kind to her ex so ml has that obstacle to confess, because it's shows that he's only insucure in a way . I dislike this tropes in kdrama always the same in rom-com

She’s the one who gave him the courage to do that because she didn’t set any boundaries with him or show him his true self in the mirror. Instead, she acted like she owed him something, but she act like the one who’s in the wrong, not him

It’s a K-drama I bet before he came back that she would be like this, and it happened, lol. I know K-drama writers all think the same way with these stupid tropes to show the FL as kind and sincere like she doesn’t even hold a grudge against her ex. Then they make the ML jealous, act silly, and tolerate the disrespect from her indirectly toward him, while ignoring his feelings and acting like she can’t reject her ex because he’s her ex that she loved for so long. And, like you said, they make the ex think he still has a chance, so he puts in more effort to fight the ML for her, while she acts innocent, confused, and comes between them to look like the mature one, lol.

Yes, we’re alike in this regard 🙂. I just read your comment from a couple of years ago about a J-drama with a FL and her deaf boyfriend. You mentioned that she spent more time with the SML and even slept at his house or something like that “to help him” 😅😂😂😂. I wanted to thank you because you saved me time — I was searching on Reddit for J-dramas without love triangles, and people recommended that one, but since I don’t really trust J-dramas, I read the comments and found yours ,so I get that it has a love triangle, and the worst kind at that, which I don’t like , fl don't have any boundaries with him tell her co workers think she's dating both 🤡

have a good day friend

thank you for answering and sorry for the rants .

Unfortunately, another cliché in these kinds of C-dramas is that the FL has a friend or brother she's completely clueless about she doesn’t realize his feelings until he does something bad or the ML points it out. Even then, she still doesn’t believe it. And after she finally knows, she still thinks they can stay friends. I really dislike this cliché in C-dramas. Why do they always write the same thing? It’s like they can’t come up with a different setup for the FL to have a male friend if they just want to show she’s open-minded , or to make the ML jealous because he’s always the cold, straight-faced type so they make him silly a little bit because of love , instead of using this overused trope about the long-time friend who only confesses after she’s with someone else and turn to be the villain !

thanks for answering

I’d actually like it if you corrected me if I’m wrong because if I’m wrong, I might watch it. I’ve been waiting for something different for so long. I stopped watching C-dramas because they’ve all started feeling the same.

Sorry, but this FL isn’t the only one who’s strong and outgoing. To be honest, in recent years there are even more strong, outgoing FLs than MLs , the MLs often just feel like support characters, and the story is all about the FL. The MLs are only there to fall for them.

I didn’t watch this one, but I bet that when he falls for her, he changes and acts like every other ML , like a silly teenager in love for first time , whose only priority becomes the FL. He gets jealous and make fun of himself , chases her after she stops chasing him, and basically loses his own character. From your comment, I get that she’s the one who starts flirting with him (if she even likes him ), probably doing that for something she wants from him , before he falls for her because she did that thinking she's liking him , and later she also falls for him. Because honestly, there are very few FLs who fall in love first and even if they do they don't fall harder .

I hope I’m wrong, because I’d really like to see a different kind of plot not the same tropes where the ML’s only purpose after falling in love is to make the FL happy, save her, sacrifice for her, get jealous, and fight the SML because of her. I prefer when he stays true to his personality from start to finish, shows love maturely, and doesn’t turn into an insecure, shy teenager every time she flirts with him or tries to get intimate or saying her with other men .

thank you

is fl was with sml before!? and is this drama love triangle strong ( like fl like or love sml before ml ) thank you

and a break up because of his uncle 😯 is another cliche 😅🥲😂😂

No worries, have a good day too 🤝

My opinion is that they deserve more — they shouldn’t even be allowed to think about what they did while in prison to satisfy themselves again with it. For me, that’s what their punishment should be. But only a few countries in the world actually do that; others only do it if the victim is underage, and some only if he’s a serial rapist.
I did some research, and in China they give them three to ten years!!

What punishment did the criminal get in this drama!? thank you