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this should be called ; simper butterfly

let's wait for a sml pushes fl and treat her like tissue paper also, because always smls have no backbone or dignity and for ages falling for fl that don't know he's exist romantically lol

so is she get her memories back!? or she fall for him again!? thank you

And like we talked about before, the SFL is still simping and saying that getting rejected is “good news.” And the worst part for me in all K-dramas and C-dramas is that the FL will keep acting like he never confessed, and she’ll just friendzone him while the ML still gets jealous of their “friendship.” And FLs are always either clueless about it or they think it’s funny.

I really dislike this cliché where everyone pretends it’s still a platonic friendship, and the SML acts like he moved on instantly like he pressed a button, press on = he falls for her, press off = he stops liking her romantically.
And I agree with you about the other cliché: he never thought about liking her romantically when she was with her toxic ex or her other exes. But the moment the ML shows up, the SML suddenly decides he wants her. They always use this to create a stupid love triangle and some “comedy” or dramatic scenes between two men fighting over the FL who just got left by some loser toxic ex.

It would actually be good , and much better, if she moves on from the useless SML. It would be even better if she stays single or maybe ends up liking someone else , instead of going with the cliché route where the SML suddenly gets together with the SFL.

Especially after he liked the FL for twenty years, confessed his feelings, and rejected the SFL many times because of that. If they end up together now, it would only be because she has no dignity or personality and is just following her hormones.

There are still many clichés they can use to waste even more time. Maybe one or two episodes of her feeling the same thing he felt, liking someone in relationship . Then we get the SML’s confession to her / the ML and FL finally getting together for one episode, and then of course they have to break up because she gets exposed or something.

After that, a time skip so she can become successful far away from him, “by herself,” and then they get back together in the last minute or so.

So yeah, there are plenty of tropes left to recycle , without even forgetting the SML and SFL development , and the company problems 😅. A full package of time-wasting clichés, lol.

sorry for the long paragraph

I agree with you, and I’m not contradicting myself, by the way 😅. When I said they made him look like a scumbag who sexually harassed his employee, I meant from the viewers’ perspective. After everything he did, the way it was framed made him look like a scumbag and a weirdo who forced himself on her.

But like I said, I agree with you. After all the frustration and confusion he was going through liking a woman he thought was married , once he found out she was single, it’s understandable that he wanted to be with her quickly and felt happy about it. And after all the things she did that suggested she liked him too, him kissing her is understandable. Her reaction is also understandable.

Now, for a couple of episodes, we’ll see her feel what he felt when he thought she was married and still liked her. This time, though, it will be less sad, because she doesn’t like him the way he liked her, and she’s still clueless about her own feelings. She needs to see him with the SFL, get jealous, and then start questioning her feelings toward him.

So we’ll get one episode of them being together, then she gets exposed, they have to break up, and they’ll probably get back together at the end of the drama , maybe after a time skip also , so she can be successful in her career, he can quit his job and do what he likes, and they meet again with a smile in the final scene 😂😅.

So yeah, another waste of time rom-com where the leads are only in a relationship for a couple of episodes or even less 🙃😂😂😂😂.

Yes, great observation about the hate thing . And you’re right about the fraud situation, it’s even more problematic than I imagined. But like you said, the writers are playing with us, trying to hide the elephant in the room. 😅

so they flip the situation to her thinking his cheating on his fiancee lol , what a drama, and her cluelessness is mind blowing 😅😂

if they continue writing her like usually they write smls in most of dramas , she will chase him even more lol , but if they give her a little of dignity even if he fall for her she has to reject him and not be the rebound,

I agree with you. They need to be consistent in their views not just speaking up when they don’t like something or it's not acceptable in real life , but also pointing out when something is wrong , even if they like it.

Often, when I talk about the “perfect MLs” in K-dramas and how they do everything right and fall first and love fls unconditionally , they say, “It’s just a drama, don’t take it as real life.” But when something like this happens, they act as if it happened in real life and isn’t acceptable!!!

and I'm sure he will apologize for his mistake, more she did for her lies 🙃,

Yes, I forgot about the simp SFL 😅😂😂 . It’s the first time I’ve seen a sf like her, and I bet she will accept him even if he’s just taking advantage of her ( like most of sml doing in other dramas😅 ) She only needs him by her side and to warm her bed, lol.

I get that, but why is only this considered bad and not her benefiting from his feelings to keep her job? Or is it also his fault only and not hers?I disagree with that.l, If he didn’t like it or like it doesn't matter , that was not the question. The question is why she did it in the first place and whether it was wrong or not without consent .So if someone came to you and kissed you, does it depend on whether you like it or not? Shouldn’t he not do it in the first place and get consent before doing that? but you can see the double standard on dealing with this from viewers? when some watchers said it's romantic they say it's wrong and he's a sexually harassing her , but no one speak about her benefiting from those feelings to keep her job and his help and support, and many other things , and remember she's only his employee !? if someone said something about that they say it's just a drama and it's the plot and it's romantic and cute lol

Let’s be real: when the FL kiss him in the first episode, why did no one say it was wrong like they’re doing now? Or was it suddenly okay back then!? or because he kissed her later!?

Now I’m honestly laughing at the ML, because they wrote him like a weak simp and now made him a scumbag who sexually harasses his employee , lol. And the double standard is crazy for me everyone is calling him a sexual harasser, but no one mentions that he also favored her and let her stay in a job she got through lies!? Or is it okay that she benefits of the fact that he liked her to not get fired !! , and the only wrong thing is that he kissed her !?

Why didn’t anyone mention this? Or is it acceptable because she’s a woman and women “can’t do wrong,” and even if they do, it’s justified!? and him letting her is it not abusing his position to make it benefits her !!

And let’s be clear: with her lie, she took the job of a real married woman who might have needed it too. Her being good at the job is not a reason for not firing her for lying.

But I bet it’s just another cliché for later: she’ll get exposed, and he’ll lose his job, so she’ll “sacrifice” herself for him. And of course, he’ll do the same thing. Then he’ll leave the company to his sister or someone else and chase her again , because obviously there will be a breakup and probably a time skip too . Why not?

thank you for answering

is the fl ml girlfriend will stay with him till the end or they will break up!? thank you

thank you for your reply I appreciate it

thank you me too friend .
I like knowing that there are still some real viewers who think logically, not like majority who just agree with anything that makes women happy even when it’s disrespectful to the mls ( men) and turns them into simps.I’m like you I can’t enjoy C-dramas and K-dramas anymore because of the simping and how they degrade the male lead into someone who exists only to love the female lead. Even after a 10–12 year time skip, he still can’t see any other woman or even touch another woman because of her, while the female lead has had several relationships or is even married.And if you look at recent romantic K-dramas, almost all of them have a female lead with an ex, while the male lead is usually single, inexperienced, or even a virgin lol.There’s even an ongoing drama right nowonly 2 episodes so far where the female lead breaks up with the male lead twice, then gets married, and later comes back because her husband isn’t good or cheating on her . Of course, the cliché will be forcing male lead to help her and still love her and he for years still didn't move on , , and the “happy ending” will obviously be them ending up together, and I bet they make some misunderstanding is the reason and it's not her fault it's his , like a recent kdrama fl travel with to work in USA and get cancer and have a boyfriend, but they make ml feel regret he didn't meet her when he saw her with her boyfriend, and he blame himself, and she crys because she was needing him and also they make her also fall for him from start like him but she still go to have another man, but ml can't do that lol , unfortunately they want to please the majority of viewers so they always writing mls virgin simps, and fl independent and have multiple relationships or one bad relationship so ml has to help her move on .

hi ,how is the romance and if you remember the time they get together and if there a break up and love triangle!? thank you

From the preview, I think he won’t make it hard for her, and she won’t even think about it. She still believes that it’s just the lie that makes him angry, not the fact that he loves her. And when she finds out about his feelings, I bet she won’t accept them and will reject him because of her insecurities.

I really hope they don’t go that route and reduce the clichés in this drama , there are already enough of them. But unfortunately, this is the normal rom-com these days: the ML has to suffer until the end just to be with the FL, while she thinks she has to be “perfect” before accepting his confession, even if that takes years lol 😅