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So when women were doing it, it was considered bad and should be changed. But when men do it, it’s suddenly romantic and shows that he’s taking care of his woman, lol. This is exactly what I’m talking about—double standards. And I don’t care if he cooks for her family, but she should also help at least, not just sit there waiting for him to feed her. I just want equality for men in C-dramas, is that wrong!?

When it comes to jealousy scenes, if he’s jealous, she teases him and says, “You’re jealous.” But if she’s jealous, he has to apologize, lol.

and I don't have any problem with women, I always mention my favorite Cdrama: road home " ml was washing her feet and cook for her and clean the house and it's okay and not simping for men because she deserves he treated her like a queen because she Also respect him and make effort in the relationship and trust him like a partner .

not making him apologizing for being liked by some women in past while she dated many men herself 🙄😮‍💨😒 .

I think you misunderstood my comment because of my bad english, I said that maybe that what will happen at the end because of the laws in china about get back in Time , not it's the actual ending because it's still ongoing

, and I'm like you I don't watch ongoing dramas I wait till it ended if it's happy ending I watch it if I like the drama, and if it's sad ending or open I don't waste my time over something has no ending , because sad and open ending is not an end for me 😅 ,

why I read first love many times, and he's not her first love !? and it's absurd if she's his first love even when he's that old ( but it's Cdrama so it's normal mls to be virgins even when they're 30+ lol )

it's the stupid cliche in Cdrama fl always asking to let their relationship secret and ml has no other say about it and if he did it's break up deal lol, and it's always okay when fl asking to make it secret but if ml want to make it secret it's red flag and fl don't accept it lol and even viewers is okay with fl want it but calling mls names if they want secret relationship 😅

you didn't watch her on her other drama she was acting more reserved and every time they want to sleep toghether she finds some reason to stop it, in one scene she even sleep while kissing him lol he was always take cold showers poor guy

so they for years together and didn't become couple till years later!? and they dating for years!? so there two time skips!? are they acting like normal couple not shy for every touch or like most of Cdramas couple acting like Old married couples that don't do anything except being close to each other !?
thank you

I bet it will be a break up reason or take some time separate from him

You should not watch the last five minutes of the final episode because they’ll make it seem like a dream and have them meet, turning it into an open ending lol

and how someone think he will understand her actions while he didn't all teen years dating her and didn't even know why she breakup with him lol even if she said it !?

like you said she old enough so her acting like a teenager is crazy, and it's her fault for let him think he has a chance with her , writers of Cdramas make fl dump in this regard so they make ml jealous and compet with sml for her and has to tolerate her being close to other potential love interest and accept that she will be friends with them,

it's a Cdrama so sfl of course evil character and sml is just childish and don't know how to be good boyfriend, and for sure fl Don't draw any boundaries with him and let him g t close to her and chase her and she wants him to understand that she didn't like him while she breakup with him because he's that useless if he understands like that he will not be an ex 😅😂🤣 I hate this in Cdrama fl have zero sense about boundaries with other men who have feelings for her and she act clueless or running from them but still let them get close and talk about want to be with her and she don't correct them , and ml has to be jealous and has to protect her and tolerate her close to other men , this a few things is frustrating in Cdrama,

one of good Cdramas fl that have boundaries and don't let others think twice about having a chance with her is the fl of road home Cdrama and forever and ever drama also

not just talking, he's her client and still co parenting a dog, it's crazy how he wants her to make him a father , and she make him one by co parenting a dog , how saint she's, he's an evil person for being mad at her 😅😂😅😅😅 she only aborted his kid and married his ex friend and get pregnant and flaunted it in his face and still acting like she's above him or superior, and in my opinion she's ,
because he's a weak emotional man still didn't moved on for years and still around her and respect her also, and he was mad only because she get pregnant by his ex friend lol or he will still wait for her to heal him or something,

and I bet he will be godfather of their baby and be a big happy family 😅😂 it's the kdrama trend to show men as weak as they can in front of women , and let's not forget he's the great lawyer and still can't win an argument with her or even full custody of the son I mean the dog 🤣😂😅

haharu one of them read her comment above lol

Even when the drama is ML-centric, it still ends up being all about feminism and women’s empowerment, making women always right. Lol. I’m laughing at how many women sided with his ex, blamed him, and said he should just move on. And yet he’s still co-parenting a dog with his ex—that’s something beyond simping for someone who already hurt him the way she did, and is still doing till now, burning him over and over. He’s even her client, and she blames him for wearing the very perfume she supplies to him. Lol.

And he accepts being a father to a dog with her instead of being a real father, accepts that she married his friend, and somehow he’s still “in the wrong” about the matter. He’s painted as jealous, disrespectful, and unable to understand her. Wow—feminism and making K-dramas for women is really something else. Satisfy the client, that’s the “success,” and they do it completely right.

Oh boy, if it were the ML who did all that, I bet the drama would get low ratings. But since it’s a woman who did it, it’s okay—she’s always right. “Oh, she apologized for her mistake, wow, what a saint. He’s evil for still being mad at her.” 😅😂😅😂😅😂 Ridiculous.

sorry for the long paragraph and rants 😅


I agree with you to a degree, and this drama was okay until it turned into just another C-drama about a weak man in love and an FL who was training him to be under her control—always teasing him about small things, making him apologize for them, and he just followed along. Like I said, she got mad at him (yes, I know she was teasing and pretending to be like that), but he was still afraid of her getting mad just because someone had liked him in the past!!!? What a man. And meanwhile, he was fine with her having dated multiple men in the past, and she even laughed about it.

What really made me drop it was the father who came out of nowhere, suddenly angry at him, and then she made him apologize again for something he actually did for her—to stop another woman from thinking about him. She even used that against him, and then agreed with her father that the ML should prove himself to him. And again, the cliché: he’s the one cooking while she and her father just sat waiting. She didn’t even think twice about helping. (In that exact scene I dropped the drama.) They gave the ML trauma so it’s used as a reason for him never dating before, and made him a good cook, while the FL, as usual, didn’t know how to do anything—even though she lived alone for so long and had many relationships!!?

I always find it crazy that the way C-dramas write an “independent, strong” FL is by making her never do anything for the ML—not house chores, not sacrificing for him, not following his lead in anything. And if you remember, in this drama the FL never followed the ML’s leadership or gave up anything—except chasing him for a while.

And I disagree that she fell first. At best, they fell for each other at the same time. He even said in his confession that from the first sight, he knew he would love her. And the first time he did something she didn’t like, she wanted divorce and to leave him. She didn’t even try to understand him or get to know him. Like she admitted, she never knew him, because she only saw the side of him that did what she liked. But when he did something she didn’t like, she wanted a divorce. And even after she eventually understood him, she never apologized for asking that, or for not trusting him.

I talked with you about The Best Thing when it was ongoing 😅😂—yet another dropped C-drama for me, for the same reasons: a weak ML that was there just to be her prefer boyfriend and a disrespectful FL she didn't even know that she was disrespectful , and weak writing about development of their relationship they need to use the stupid reason of her forget her keys and her friend can't help and she didn't even think about him till she didn't found another place !!!? and she was always at his house waiting for him to cook for her and sitting watching him lol . (I remember you also didn’t like that scene where she and her friend were admiring another man in front of their own men, and even ordered them to cook for them lol.)

When they don’t make the FL like this, they make the ML a crybaby and overly emotional. For example, in the drama WWW Search, the ML was so weak — he even got sick because of her coldness, begged the FL not to leave him many times, sacrificed his dream of becoming a father, and was always running to her. Meanwhile, she didn’t even think of him until she was done with her work, and she never took the first step to meet him lol 😅😂. I’d argue that there are more weak, simp MLs than stupid, crying FLs in recent Asian dramas.

lol one wants just sex and the other is a cry baby want romance and kids and he give up on that jist to satisfy her needs lol and she love her work and boss and best friends and neighbors more than him 😅😀😀😂

So this drama is useless because they will make it like a dream or something at the end with an open ending, due to China’s laws that don’t allow them to portray going back in time as a real thing!? And him saving his friend or not is just useless because, in reality, he died, and the FL also won’t achieve what she’s working for!? Or do they find some way to make it happen!? thank you

Did they live as husband and wife normally and act like a married couple, or did they separate before consummating their marriage? And are there any intimate scenes between them, or did she only have them with the ML, the clown? and is she loves both of them or she get married for something else!? thanks

and is she also devoted to him ,or she loves another man and he's okay to be in that degrading situation!? thank you

fighting for love is not a romance drama or even about love it's just about being free and show that gl is more formidable and perfect woman and all men around her at red flags and bad and not in her level in many regards lol another Cdrama about feminism and womenpowerment that degrading men for her to shine more