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Is the friendship like this: some of them love others, and there’s a love square or triangle between them, and in the end they act like there’s nothing wrong with it? They know their friends have emotional feelings for their girlfriends or boyfriends, and everyone is just okay with it and act like platonic friendship !? , or even some are exes of some friends !? because I watch a clip sfl and sml friends with sfl's ex in away, thank you,

Hi friend, how have you been!!

From what I can see, there’s a love triangle in the second leads’ relationship. I watched a clip about the Smls , she has an ex and still happy talk with , and again the SML has loved her from the start lol ,
and she blames the SML for being angry because he’s jealous , one clip the ex hug her and she just run and let sml standing 🙃 .

Is it the same for the main leads too? Is the FL also friends with another man who’s interested in her while she likes the ML? And they’re all friends!? Thank you.

You're crazy lol, you really have a conspiracy mindset.
And let me be clear: I was calling your comment sexist as a sarcasm joke comment. I don’t give a damn about actors or actresses and their real-life shit. I'm not a fan of anyone like you guys here. I watch dramas just to waste time and enjoy a bit, not to follow actors’ personal lives.

What you said applies to Korean fans, not me lol. So go to Korea and tell them they’re sexist because they don’t like certain actresses after scandals, while they ignore male actors’ "mistakes "😅. Both of you sound crazy to me ( Koreans fans mooore crazy , they make even celebrities kill themselves and cry about it 🙃) for going this deep into strangers’ lives when it’s literally just acting and entertainment.

And I’m talking about your double standards in the drama, not I know your real life to comment about it . Stop thinking with your paranoid mind that I've made fake accounts to defend a simp. I’m actually harder on simps and weak-ass men than you. When you call it a “green flag,” I call it being a simp with zero manly qualities, just being a tool for the FL’s happiness like most K-drama male leads lol.

And yeah, he's also bad but less than her , he's bad because he love her like crazy and want to control her even if he let her be with other men it's for a big plan to make her suffer so she will need him or something, and this is what a cucumber will do and think , but she still more evil than him because she also knows that and use it against him not end the relationship between them . But I see you defending her evil actions and making excuses for her, while you call the simp ML’s friends, or the new husband “evil”or bad without even thinking how he became like that. Maybe his parents made him like that 🤣😅.

At least the simp ML will have a backbone for once and expose her so she gets a tiny bit of punishment. Even though he’ll end up hurt more, because she’ll make him suffer thinking “What if he didn’t do it? Would she have be with him?” and not see his child is more evil than anything he did so she's still a master doing evil than him .

And at the end she’ll still punish him, and she’ll enjoy knowing a man is suffering because of her… so I guess that makes it a half-happy ending for her 😅🤣

Even if you didn’t say it directly, it’s something anyone can understand from the way you blame the SFL but not the ML. So it seems like what the ML is doing isn’t wrong, because you didn’t criticize him at all. My point is that I want to understand why there’s this double standard.

Why do so many viewers like to see MLs humiliating themselves for a woman without thinking about their dignity or self-respect, but when it comes to the SFL, they say she has no self-respect just because she’s chasing a man she likes?

And it’s even worse in the ML’s case, because he’s chasing a married woman. He supposedly has trauma from cheating or whatever, but somehow it’s still okay for him to like a woman who cheated on her husband!?

I just want to know why it’s always like this. Why do people call MLs a “green flag” just because they have no dignity or self-respect and humiliate themselves, acting like a joke simply because they fell for the FL?! And most viewers call it “cute” because he suffering from liking a married woman and always make her first even when he's mad at her still can't help his simp personality to feel sad about her and help her and try to get her from her husband.

It’s the stupid cliché in K-dramas: the ML has to suffer from jealousy, make a fool of himself, and fight with the SML over the FL while the FL doesn’t even know anything about their feelings and doesn’t care in any way. All that matters to her is getting what she wants.

And in the end, the ML will apologize to her more than she will apologizes to him another stupid cliché, always making mls feel they did wrong when it's fl who wrong from the start, just because she sacrifice her lie to get exposed tohelp him or something before that and that she did it because of her mom's illness ( even when he helped her with that and she didn't need to lie more)

there no friendship between women and men ,it's just that it's not the time or someone is too ugly 😅🤣

he's just a simp cucumber for me without any personality or dignity, just because of a kiss he can do anything even if try to get a married woman from her husband and act jealous and use tricks to be with her , and when he knows the truth he will run to her and cry like a little girl, and all she will do is say sorry I didn't want to lie to you lol

but it's okay for the ml to not respect himself and it's cute how he get jealous and try to be with a married woman!?

till he go to a doctor because how much he suffer from the guilty of loving a married woman lol

losing her career is not a terrible ending and if it's like manhwa she will still have a happy ending because she will still make someone's life horrible and he will suffer because he's a simp lol so she will enjoy thinking he's suffering.

if he get with her then he will be the most miserable simp cucumber ml ever lol , and I like fl get punished hard for what she did and how she enjoyed playing with many men , that's what a happy endings an evil character get punished not get happy ending like in manhwa, it was a happy ending for her because she still make a man's life miserable and horrible so she enjoys that, and oh boy if she makes her ... like her so we will get another one like her in future , but I bet no one of fans will blame her like they blaming her mom now lol

sexist 😅🤣 so be sad for a saickopat not an innocent man

is it because fl get with someone more evil than her 😅🤣🤣

They will give her an ending where she can still do what she’s good at doing. Even if she’s alone, she will still make someone’s life horrible, and she enjoys knowing that someone is in pain because of her. So for her, that’s a happy ending.

yes one of a few, but ml also make effort in the relationship after he late go of reasons that makes him rejecting her , it was a melodrama,

Sorry, but I disagree with you on some points . Because how is it “bad” when the FL does it and still has to works and the ML doesn’t help a.d it's mistreatment , but it’s suddenly “okay” when the ML does everything because it “shows he cares”? So how exactly does she show she cares if her only way is by being successful in her career or is it by sleeping next to him ?

I’ll repeat it: I’m not saying she shouldn’t work or he shouldn’t help, and I’m not saying they can’t do 50/50 on house chores or even him doing more but not doing 100% .

in C-dramas—especially rom-coms—the MLs are the ones cooking, cleaning, and doing everything. I’ve even seen many C-dramas where the ML goes to the FL’s parents’ house and he cooks for them, and sometimes the FL’s dad helps him while the FL and her mom just relax on the couch( like you said they want to make it normal for reality men or something like that ), They don’t even set the table sometimes, and they say they’re testing the ML’s cookingn and is he good like the her dad , The irony is that the FL doesn’t even know how to boil an egg! This is what I dislike in C-dramas , and you see mls wake up early to cook for her , but rarely fls do that to take care of him .

I understand they want to “change society’s mindset” about men, but you can’t change a problem by creating the opposite problem. That’s not equality or making women independent. why making women independent by degrading men to become just simps !? why not both do effort in the relationship!?

The best C-drama for me is Road Home, the ML washed the FL’s feet not just cooked for her and clean the house, and you don’t feel it’s bad or make him.a simp , or anything wrong. Why? Because the FL actually deserves it. She also puts effort into the relationship, makes sacrifices , and has boundaries with co worker who showed intereste on her . She go to ML when she missed him, and took first step also . And during their separation before meeting again after 10 years since high school , she didn’t date anyone else like most FLs usually do, She even said that if she didn’t date him, she would stay single, she help him and his friends , she don't make it looks like she has better job or it's more important than him , (like most of fls in recent Cdramas) . All these qualities make everything the ML does for her feel deserved, unlike most FLs in C-dramas who don’t do anything but still get the moon . 😅🙃

yes she fell from the hundred level lol , I like her but I disliked the ml when he hurt her because he was jealous, but he did many good things for her also so ...🙃

fake it till you make it Cdrama

Sorry, but if you want men to do everything while women only focus on their careers, then why is it considered mistreatment only when women do that!? Why is it okay if men do everything, but if it’s women, suddenly it’s not okay!?

I don’t want either women or men to do everything. I want it to be equal , both doing the same. He makes breakfast one day, and she does it the next. Not him always waking up early to make her breakfast before going to work. And when women used to (and still do) make breakfast, men would go to work and pay all the bills. But in C-dramas, the FL doesn’t need to pay any bills and still doesn’t do anything in the house, and the ML ends up doing everything while always saying “okay” to whatever the FL asks or orders. Like hiding the relationship or being close to the SML, and the ML has no say. But when the ML is close to the SFL, the FL gets mad and he has to apologize and keep his distance from other women , yet for her, it’s okay to stay friends with someone who confessed to her. 🙃
The double standards in C-dramas are mind-blowing.

I don’t have any problem if a man chooses to be a stay-at-home husband or boyfriend (I strongly disagree with choosing that, but it’s his choice). But being a CEO and still having to do everything in the house because the FL has no time and doesn’t even know how to boil water is something else.

That’s the worst lol. and she acts like she loves him on the same level, and like she’s doing him a favor by accepting him, while he ends up doing everything in the relationship and she’s just chilling or focused on her work lol.

I remember a C-drama where she chose the ML only after she failed to get with a rich man because he turned out to be a scumbag. So she settled for the ML, and even after they got together, she still went on a date with her old crush and didn’t even tell him she's dating ML . But she got angry at the ML because he hugged his coworker who asked for a goodbye hug.

And the worst part is that he doesn’t like a messy house, but she always leaves his place messy and he cleans it while she works all the time. I hate how he turned into a simp and accepted everything from her, even when she didn’t care about what he likes or dislikes