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Sorry, I don’t know—that’s why I asked. But from what I read below your comment, it’s like that unfortunately. Another C-drama where “being independent and strong” means not taking care of your man or home, just focusing on your career, and having men do everything for you because they like you more if you don’t do anything for them or make them a priority the way they make you (and should). 😅 When an ML puts his work and career first and doesn’t have time for his girlfriend, it’s considered a red flag and toxic, and he ends up apologizing every time in a C-drama. But when it’s the FL doing that, it’s called being independent and strong, and she’s still the one who deserves unconditional love and is seen as a “green forest” just because she once helped the ML during a hard time by saying a thing or two, lol.

It’s just a joke about making the FL (woman) as strong as the ML (man), even physicall،

It’s a Chinese drama, so the FL has no boundaries with her ex and makes the ML jealous—this cliché is the norm for C-drama writers. The FL men love her unconditionally because she’s putting her career first, and she does nothing in the relationship or before it and just focus on other stuff, I don't know how Cdrama writers think, to make mls do everything before the relationship and in the relationship and still act like he's walking on thin ice with her or she will be mad or break up with him or chose sml or another man!!!?


In some C-dramas, I’ve counted that the FL literally does nothing for the ML, yet he worships her while she uses him, teases him, and makes him apologize even when he hasn’t done anything wrong. Unfortunately, fewer and fewer C-dramas have equality in the relationship between the ML and FL, or give the ML an important role beyond just going back in time to like the FL, trying to be with her, competing with the SML and other men for her attention, and accepting being her second or third priority.

the dramas I like is when fl and ml both make same effort in the relationship, and they love each other and respect each other and have boundaries and good communication, the best drama have this is " road home"

If the ML were the one to do that, it would turn into a big misunderstanding, and he would have to beg and apologize for several episodes until the FL forgave him. But since it’s the FL, it won’t be a big deal, and she won’t even apologize for saying that or for going to her ex. In C-dramas, especially in this genre, MLs are just simps without dignity or personality. I bet that if he ever got mad or angry, she would ignore him too, and he would end up apologizing instead—for getting mad because of her rude attitude or for helping her ex if she did it.

so this another Cdrama about fl had an ex and ml never dated and was in love with her from beginning!? and she just focus on her Career and don't make any effort in the relationship with ml apposite what she was doing for her ex !? thank you

Another C-drama, another simp, and another stupid double standard about jealousy scenes—where the ML acts like he cheated or something just because someone liked him in the past (one-sided). But the FL proudly says she’s dated three men before, and by implying that women don’t tell the truth about it, she’s probably dated more 😅😅. She makes him apologize every time she's jealous, teases him when he’s jealous,

And why does the ML always have to prove himself to her father and family, make her the leader in the relationship, and cook for them!? Meanwhile, the ML’s family easily accepts the FL and even forces him to date her just because she was “kind” during their first meeting!?

episode 19 was 😒😮‍💨🙄 I dropped it ( unfortunately I downloaded all the drama and waste my time watching till ep 19 )

it's like the drama in recommendations in this drama page " will love in spring"

thanks, so it's fantasy in this regard also 😅

So, the FL and ML are at the same strength !? thanks

hi , is there a love triangle in this drama!? thank you

ah, thank you , I dislike this kind of plots that they have zero romance when they get together and act like old married couple that don't function anymore and sleep in separate beds lol

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it will be better, and more better if he didn't help her or even become "friend" with her and her husband, but I never trust kdrama writers always" most of the times" write men"ml" Simps unfortunately even in dramas like this , like in kdrama my mister

you want to bet on it !? I want an apology later and I apologize to you if he's not , and he will help her also and give her his blessings just wait and you will be surprised how Korean writers degrading men to be spinless and sacrifice for women they love even if get betrayed by them lol

if you don't see it just wait and I need an apology from you later and if he's not I apologize yo you 🤝?

hi , what episode they get together ?. and is there a love triangle or break up!? and is the romance good or it's like all law kdrama don't focus on romance!? thank you

is ml a loser!? why he's still loving his ex wife that get with his friend and get pregnant in time she aborted his child!? I hate mls like him the most, you don't find anything bad about them exept being losers simps that still love the red flag cheater ex wife or girlfriend and even give them his blessings when he found out

thank you, I appreciate it

Oh, thank you. It's mostly like that — they give the male lead a weird personality so it makes sense that he's still a virgin, lol. And that's one of the reasons I stopped watching C-dramas: most of the time, the female lead has experience and an ex (or more), but the male lead has never even tried until he falls for the FL. Then he completely changes and starts making more effort to be with her than she does.

And when they have conflicts or fights, is it always him taking the first step to apologize and ask to get back together? Or does she also apologize and make an effort? I read that she didn’t put in equal effort in the relationship until the end — even when she was the one chasing him at first, he still ended up investing more than she did!

Thanks. I just like watching dramas where both leads make equal effort and are equally invested in the relationship — not where only the ML is simping while the FL has "more important things" than him 😅

thank you