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if you remember time she did it because I'm watching first episode and I don't want to hate fl if I watch that scene ( even if I know she did it but at least not to see it because I know I drop it even more because how he take the slap and think oh I deserve it 🤣😅🤣 who's this normal man will think like that!? and is if someone do a mistake they should slap him I bet she did many things she deserves a slap fir but why they don't include it!? or it's only mls allowed to get slapped 🤣😅🤣. than you and sorry for rants

Thank you. I didn’t mean it like that, but it just makes him look weak—not like how a general should act, especially when he believes she’s his enemy.
And for me, there’s nothing that justifies her slapping him in front of all his men after using him to escape from the other guy. She slapped him, and afterward, she reacted in a funny way just so they wouldn’t keep the atmosphere serious—but that doesn’t change what happened.
I don’t find abuse funny from either side. I’ve never seen a male lead slap the female lead, and she just stays silent, thinks she deserves it, and he doesn’t even apologize. Yet male leads are always the ones getting slapped 😅🤣😅

Thank you again, and sorry for bothering you. I just really dislike how it’s always so easy to disrespect male leads, and they don’t even get a real apology. Instead, they’re the ones who end up apologizing for giving her a reason to slap them 😮‍💨🙃

I think that no matter what she does, she still can't make up for her grandfather's betrayal—because of it, his grandfather and father died, and he had to watch them die in front of his eyes. That's the first point.
Second, I knew he would act like that because of his anger and the promise he made to his father and grandfather.
And third, they made it this way just to show that she's smarter than him—that she won over him and made him look stupid. He even ends up owing her a favor for saving his family, so she looks like the hero.
Just like that, she wins over his people and even him.

This is such a typical female-lead-centric drama plot: always making the FL smarter and on a higher level than the ML. After a short time, he turns into a simp who loves her unconditionally 😅🤣

I'm watching it right now just to see how they turn him from the strong character he started as into a silly, love-struck man whose only purpose is to please the FL.
And I read that even when they become a couple, she still doesn't trust him—unlike him, who only distrusted her when he thought she was an enemy.

sorry for making my comments long , and thank you for the reply

someone do me a favor and tell me timestamp of fl slapping ml ! I want to skip it because I will drop it if a see how she disrespect him and he don't do anything even if she's his enemy!! I hate this cliche in Cdrama they take slap a man is not a big deal and make ml reaction to it like he's a weak simp ) even he didn't like her like that but still he didn't defend himself from a weak woman slap and don't even say anything about and he has to apologize for his mistakes after even if he did it in time they are enemies but fl never do that!!!? I hate this double standard,so I want too skip it because they include it just to humiliat ml and show who's the boss 😮‍💨🙃

And plus, the way she treated her ex — first, she didn’t even want to breathe the same air he did, but then she’s suddenly going to Japan with him, laughing and reminiscing about their memories, treating the male lead like he’s nothing and ignoring him. And she forgives her ex like he never did anything wrong."

This male lead is officially in my top three biggest simps I’ve ever seen in a drama. He has no dignity or personality—just a simp who likes being treated like 💩, begging for love, and acting childish to make a joke of himself just to make her laugh and feel special. He worships her even though she doesn’t give a damn about him and is still close to her ex. He honestly gives off the potential of being a great cuckold if she ever decides to go that route—I bet he would accept it.😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨

"Finally, someone said it! The majority of comments suggest the male lead's true personality is that he's cold and he doesn't act like a simp , and that the female lead did more and showed more love. I was shocked because in C-dramas like this , it's usually impossible for the female lead to love the male lead more or act like a traditionally submissive wife, or for the male lead not to love her unconditionally. I get that in this kind of drama, the minimum expectation is for the male lead to love the female lead unconditionally, always apologize, and focus all his thoughts on making her happy and pleased. Even if it's something he didn't like, he still changes to be what she likes, LOL."

Yes, she should take the lead and show that she wants it too. It shouldn’t always be the man who has to take the first step and ask her to do it. Men like it when the woman does her part — not when she’s the leader from the start and he acts like he doesn’t know anything!

Also, I misunderstood the scene because I didn’t watch it completely — I skipped through it since I planned to watch it properly later while watching the drama. 😅

Thanks! If it’s like you said, then it’s actually a good scene, and there’s nothing wrong with it.

Ah, thanks! I get it now. So the year is the time when they are still enemies! They use that time to get to know each other and fall in love. That’s more acceptable than making him wait while they already like each other. And there are many traditional things from that time that they don’t follow, so I wonder why they should follow just this one 🤣😅🤣 thanks
Have a good night!

thank you, I didn't watch it it's just from reading reviews, because I like to know the spoilers before start watching a drama , because I hate love triangle and sad ending and one of mls do everything in the relationship and the other just receiving, and also hate simping and simps lol so I need to do a search before start 😅🤣 thanks

and what fl did !? is she like other smart fls that don't even know about his feelings and act like his close friend indirectly making ml act silly because of jealousy like they use in many Cdramas!?
thanks and sorry for bothering you

and why this cousin have this important role to enter between them and even act like he do ml a favor!? thank you

ah I think you're wrong about that no one of them in love, because I read many reviews saying ml fall first sight just didn't act on it because she's his enemy , I just read it I don't if it's true

Thank you. But did she do that because she truly loved him, or just to win him over and stop him from taking revenge?

I saw a scene of them together, but I didn’t like it—because the ML was under her, and she was the one taking the lead. It looked like she had the upper hand in the relationship, and even in the bedroom too 😅🤣. She didn’t even let him be a man or at least act like one, especially after he waited a whole year for that moment( I know majority of viewers are women so they like it because of the same reason I dislike it ) 🤣😅🤣

Thank you again, and sorry for bothering you!

You watched it, so I think you might know the exact episode where the FL falls for him, says it to herself, and starts trying to show it—do you know? I read that the ML fell for her at first sight but didn’t say anything because of the circumstances. Also, in which episode do they start acting like a real married couple? I heard they didn’t have any intimacy until more than a year into their marriage—is that true?

thank you

So now he's protecting the family that cowardly refused to protect his own family, and he's acting like a good son-in-law but a failed son to his dead father and others! How can someone change from being a good son to a bad one just because he fell for a woman? But of course, they make it all about the FL, so she gets all the praise! It's a FL-centric drama for a reason.

In real life, at the very least, he wouldn’t have a relationship with them, nor would he respect the coward who didn’t help fight the enemy out of fear. But now the ML has to protect them—even if it puts him in danger, and even his own family—just to show how amazing the FL is for "changing" him!

Please tell me they at least appreciate him for doing that, and that they sincerely apologize and thank him like he deserves… not just ignore his sacrifice 😮‍💨

so you telling me in the drama she didn't sleep with him for more than a year and she rejecting him !? so he looks like he's the only one who wants it and she didn't!?

That’s not admiring — that’s something else. Drawing her and dreaming about her isn’t admiration, lol. He’s gaslighting, and the male lead just accepts it!? 😅 Good for him. So the male lead is supposed to be okay with other people trying to take his wife and acting like they're just friends with her!?

Sorry, a quick question please:
In episode 27, have they still not confessed to each other? Are they still acting like it's just a political marriage, or do they live like a real married couple? Have they had any intimate scenes yet, or does that only happen after he comes back from the war and the tunnel incident I read about? Thank you!

I know she has no feelings for him and is just friendly with him — not like with the male lead. I was just speaking in general. I bet in this one too, they’ll probably make it seem like she doesn’t see anything wrong with how he acts because he likes her, and the male lead will notice — like you said — or he’ll find that drawing he made. But he won’t say anything because he hasn’t confessed his own feelings yet.

What I dislike is how she’s so smart and can command armies, yet she can’t tell how someone feels about her. Meanwhile, she can read her enemies perfectly and always stays one step ahead of them 😅. I find that illogical. But maybe, like you said, it’s still early, and he hasn’t shown anything obvious yet. I just hope she turns out to be different from other female leads.

One question, please: in which episode does she actually start to fall for the male lead? I read that he like always fall for her at first sight but doesn’t say anything because of the past! So, when does she start liking him for real — not just pretending to be a good wife because of her plan?

Thank you, and sorry for bothering you

And again, the FL — like always — is supposed to be so smart, on Sun Tzu-level , but she doesn’t realize anything and still acts friendly with him!? Unfortunately, this is the illogical thing in C-dramas: they make FLs so smart, but they have zero clue when another man likes them. They don’t consider the ML’s feelings when acting like that. I bet she’ll still stay close to him like family even after she finds out. And the ML? He acts all silly, jealous, and constantly insecure 😅😮‍💨 I really dislike these clichés in dramas. thank you