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is this drama another love triangle cliche!? thank you

what dynamic please is it different from cliche kdrama!? thank you

thank you I appreciate it , I guess this drama has sad ending also because she will return to her real life 🤔 I don't know if I want to watch it nowing there no happy ending,

thank you, so is she liking him now or it's still not together like all kdrama they have to wait till episode 8 to be together !!? and if yes what episode she start liking him !? thank you and sorry for bothering you

thank you, I asked because I watch a clip fl saying she's liking side characters in novels or something like this and she was looking at him with admiration lol , so I guess this is not a serious kdrama it's just comedy!?

is there love triangle and fl like other men or it's only ml ?! thank you

can you recommend me some of those you watch and find it good on this regard, thank you

sorry for rants maybe we disagree about this because I think majority like the drama and how fl is and find ml cute 😮‍💨😮‍💨, 😅🤣🤣


I completely agree with you, but C-dramas are often even worse. The male leads in the ones you mentioned are only there to fall in love with the female leads, act silly and jealous, and get played by them. The FL uses the ML, changes him into her follower, and they use him just to make her look smarter and more emotionally controlled. Meanwhile, the ML is always the one acting out of emotion and jealousy.

The FL might love the ML, but only on her own terms. If he doesn't change and follow her lead (directly or indirectly), she won’t confess or accept his confession. A perfect example is a recent high-rating C-drama called Prisoner of Beauty — I mean, just from the title, you already know what it's about 😮‍💨😅😅
I stopped watching it because I get frustrating from how he's acting a d how she's using his love against him ( I'm talking only about the romance here because it's the first thing I watch dramas for ) and I also didn't like how he became the protector of the family that betrayed his family and they get killed and he sacrifice his men to protect them while fl from start she's making her family first and always works for her family even when she fall for him and decided to be a good wife she still didn't trust him about her family and have plans to fight him if he go against her family 😅 and this mistrust he forgive it Soo easy but she make him suffer for a small mistake than her till she forgive him, this double standard I hate in Cdramas about strong independent fls and they make mls depending on fls but fls never act like they need mls 😅😅

It’s a K-drama, so of course male leads never have exes like they write for female leads, lol. The male lead always looks like a loser in front of the ex and is constantly suffering and crying, to the point where it doesn’t even feel like the female lead likes him—she just feels sorry for him. So she considers starting to like him because he’s just too pitiful

And don’t forget—he acts like a complete loser because of his love for the female lead, turning himself into a joke in front of her and her ex. The ex always beats him at everything... except simping, because at least the ex still has some dignity compared to him. 🤡😅

I hate this cliché where the male lead has loved the female lead his entire life, while she was dating someone else and didn’t even know he existed. Then the ex is still in her life, and she’s friends with him, while the male lead just keeps simping, suffering, and crying. And only after all that, she finally starts to like him—not because she truly loves him, but because he’s so pitiful that she feels sorry for him this what it looks like for me

Another K-drama, another simp male lead, another female lead who still has an ex-friend in love with her. And of course, another male lead who acts like an idiot, always losing because of his jealousy toward the ex. He liked her the whole time she was deeply in love with someone else and hadn’t moved on from that guy—until the male lead humiliated himself so badly that she started feeling sorry for him and softened up a little.

I just don’t get why they always make male leads simps, while the female leads have exes they’re still friends with. The male lead ends up looking like a pathetic loser who gets beaten by the ex, acts goofy in front of him, and constantly makes a joke out of himself with zero dignity—just because he likes her at a time when she doesn’t even care about him. He has to suffer and cry blood just to get her attention, and when she finally starts to notice him, it feels more like pity than love.

And of course, they always make the second male lead still in love with her and wanting to get back together with her. 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨

thanks,I watched it,

Thanks! I meant that by "killed him," she actually tried many times—I suppose, based on the scenes I watched—and she even stabbed him at one point!
Even if someone wanted them to be enemies, whether he did something bad or she did worse afterward because of it, how do they apologize to each other?
Or does she just keep hating him until he sacrifices himself for her, and that’s it? She finds him afterward, and it's a happy ending!?
And I also read that he becomes a little boy!!? Does that happen at the end, so she can’t stay mad at him and he shows her he loves her because he has no memories?
I’m confused, lol.
I just want to know: how does she apologize to him if he didn’t do anything bad to her and she was only manipulated by someone?
And if he did do something bad and she hated him that much, how can she forgive him!?

so he really killed her and her son !! and she's right by killing him and her hatred and they didn't resolved that but just make her forgot about it by amnesia!! ?

so is he really do what she was thinking he did so she killed him or it was an illusion or something!? and how they resolved the misunderstanding and get back together!? thank you

thanks, 🤣😅 yes you're right I will do it ,
take your time,🤗

Sorry for the long paragraphs !😶‍🌫️😅

Also, could you please mention some of those dramas you said do exist?
Because I’ve only watched maybe 3 or 4 of those kinds of C-dramas, and one or two K-dramas like that.

One of the best C-dramas I’ve seen — and my favorite — is Road Home.

In that drama, both the male and female lead respect each other and both make an effort in the relationship.
There’s no breakup after they get together, and the female lead truly respects the male lead — and shows it through her actions.

She acts like how a wife should be, and he also respects her deeply and do his part .
He never gets involved in her personal life like her work or decisions unless she needs help, and she's also understand his job and how it's dangerous and he can't tell her anything
and when she do need him , he supports her .

he cooks, and cleans and — with love, not as a burden or like he's only helping but he can do it he doing it ,
And she does the same for him.

One of the most beautiful moments is when he washes her feet while she’s pregnant and takes care of her without her asking and she even didn't want him to do it but he do it .
He does everything with love and care.

She also always puts him first — not her career,or friends, or toxic family like in most romcom K-dramas and C-dramas.

That’s why Road Home is my favorite drama:
because of how it shows a real-life, healthy couple — built on mutual effort, respect, and love.

I agree with you completely on 99% of what you said,
but friend, don’t talk about flipping the rules — like saying it’s okay when women do something, but it was bad when men were doing it.

For example, in romantic C-dramas and most K-dramas, the male leads are always the ones cooking and doing house chores without even being asked, acting like it’s their job.
Meanwhile, the female leads don’t even know how to boil an egg!
So who was living on junk food and frozen meals before the male lead showed up?! 😅🤣🤣


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And I never brought up traditional gender roles because, let’s be real, they’re not going to follow them anyway —
not in a society that expects women to work and never even considers the idea of being a good wife or a stay-at-home wife.

They intentionally portray female leads or second female leads who act traditionally as women who suffer, get disrespected by their husbands, or are cheated on or abused.


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Even when the female lead is the one making all the effort in the relationship,
she ends up breaking up with the guy and focusing on her career, deciding not to think about love or men at all.

But once she does that, suddenly she gets a bunch of guys chasing her — all of them “better” than her ex in every way.
That’s one of the most common clichés in Asian dramas.

And when she finally chooses the male lead — after he’s given her the moon and stars —
she does nothing in the relationship.
Unlike how she used to treat her ex, now it’s the male lead who does everything — cooking, taking care of her, giving her massages, etc. 😅


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Honestly, I don’t have a problem with the male lead treating her like that.
The issue is that she rarely does even half of that for him —
unless he suddenly goes bankrupt or loses everything, and then she sticks with him to help him get back on his feet.
(A great example of this is the drama Only for Love 😅).
And like I said, this has become a cliché.


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Now, about real life:

Being single, married, or traditional is up to each person. Everyone should do what makes them happy.
But to demonize being a traditional wife — like modern feminism often does —
and always portray husbands as evil or abusive or thinking they’re superior to their wives…
That’s something I completely disagree with.


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Because the truth is:

Men also go to work in jobs so dirty or hard that most women wouldn’t even want to watch them being done in a video.
And they do it to provide for their wives and kids — not to oppress women or go home thinking,
"How can I abuse my wife today?" 😅

The majority of regular men go to work, come home, and give their wives their paychecks —
and they’re happy doing it because they know their wives are more experienced in taking care of the house and the kids.
That doesn’t make her less than him — they complete each other.
That’s how it’s been for most of human history across the world.


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It’s mostly in the Western world that they treat stay-at-home wives as less than men
just because they don’t have a job or a career — just because they cook, clean, and take care of the house
while the man works to provide.

And no one even mentions that many men also help out at home even after working all day.
Most men leave for work at 5 AM while the wife is still asleep!


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I’m not saying the man does more — in fact, I believe stay-at-home wives do more.
And real men appreciate that and know how hard it is to take care of the house and raise kids.


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Long story short:
There’s a huge difference — like the sky and earth — between how male leads were written in the past
and how female leads are written now.

And how viewers treat them is also completely different.

That’s why I dislike most new dramas —
because the female lead is always right, even when she’s clearly wrong.
She never apologizes, always has a “reason” or a “trauma” behind her actions,
and if the male lead gets upset or doesn’t understand her,
he’s not a green forest anymore 😅

thank you, road home /forever and ever /intense love /, good Cdramas without love triangle also

don't mind it was a joke I didn't say it correctly lol because of my bad english,
btw , you're anti love triangle, you can mention me some Cdramas without love triangle!? thank you