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Just started this, it's pretty cute and lighthearted so far, bless their hearts, I NEEDED something light 💜

yeees, they are both frustrating me and that's not even the main break up lmao idk what the heck is Youku thinking with this schedule, they really want us the audience to say ''thank my days this is over'' because at this point I'm tired of the emotional turbulence and I just want this to be over ahahaha

there will be an ep tomorrow, but as far as I know they will release all remaining episodes ( express) on Wednesday, so I'll just watch the rest then cause I wanna throw something right now lmao just like Luke does in the drama, but my laptop is too expensive for that 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Omg you guys, see you on Wednesday, I can't with these two .....

Omg for real!! I'm so exhausted because of these two!! 😭😭😭😭

just started ep.18 at the matchmaking event and all I could think of - the comment section will lose it 🤣

bahahah yup, and it's fun 😂

I'm gonna miss this comment section when this drama is done 😭 I appreciate y'all 🫶

Hahah, nah, that's fair, the dog part is wild 🤣

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I understood your point perfectly well; I just don’t agree with the way you’re framing it. We can have completely different interpretations of the characters without questioning each other’s comprehension.

LMAO yes, I did read them. 😂 And that’s genuinely not the impression I’ve been getting - I’ve been seeing the exact opposite often enough that I’ve ended up defending Flora in multiple comments. 😭

Lmao, I think we can disagree without wishing fictional relationship karma on each other. 😂💀
I think we’re just putting weight on different things. 😂 I’m not excusing Flora, but her flaws don’t magically wipe Luke’s off the board either. 😭 His baggage can explain why he behaves the way he does, but sir, you cannot repeatedly belittle someone, apologize, do the exact same shit again, and then have “but he loves her 🥺” presented as Exhibit A for the defense. 💀 At some point the man needs to actually CHANGE. To be fair we do see that change little by little.

What genuinely baffles me is how Luke gets a full psychological profile and a thousand explanations for his behaviour, while Flora gets judged for the exact same human flaws without half the grace. 😭 If we’re going to psychoanalyze one, at least give the other the same treatment. Otherwise… the double standard is starting to smell REAL fishy. 😂💀

I definitely see your point, and I agree that actions often reveal more than words. But I don't think words should be dismissed either.

Speaking from personal experience, words from someone whose opinion matters deeply can create insecurities that stay with you for a very long time. So while Luke's actions clearly show that he cares for Flora, I still believe some of the things he says to her are simply something you shouldn't say to someone you're together with, regardless of how deeply he cares underneath it all.

And even with the apologies, my issue is that he often apologizes and then goes on to repeat essentially the same behavior again. At some point, an apology needs to come with actual change for it to mean something.

I do agree that this is what makes their story interesting, though. They both started this relationship from a pretty unhealthy place, and I'm invested in seeing them grow into something healthier. But love does not magically make hurtful words harmless. 😭

that would be great but on the other hand if too many dramas are like this it wouldn't be this unique or special plus it's actually exhausting to be that invested and obsessed in a drama, I'm glad this happens 1-2 times a year for me otherwise I'd be a mess, so silver linings ahahaha

I usually watch non romance or mini dramas for a palette cleanse 😂

I feel you, last year I was in slump for over 3 months after TFF 😭

Yeeeees, say it louder girl!! ✨🙌💅

This. Exactly. There are always nuances to discuss, and Flora is obviously not without flaws, but some things are actually quite simple to me.

If a man takes advantage of me while I'm still drunk as Luke does in episode 5 (a few hours after she passed out does not make her sober), that's not romantic or hot just because he's attractive. I was genuinely floored by how quickly that was glossed over.

And if a man repeatedly insults my intelligence and calls me stupid point-blank, then I simply don't feel respected by that person. And without respect, I personally can't imagine feeling safe enough to seek reassurance, ask for help, be vulnerable or emotionally clingy with them. That's just not how trust works.

People can analyse Luke's childhood, his communication issues and his hidden feelings - and those things can absolutely add context - but they don't erase the impact his behaviour has on Flora. Emotional safety and respect are not unreasonable things to expect in a relationship.

And to be clear, I'm very much invested in seeing these two grow and hopefully build a healthier relationship together. That's part of what makes their story interesting to me. But when I see people analysing this dynamic and somehow concluding that Flora is THE red flag while Luke's behaviour gets endlessly rationalised... bro. 😭💀

For me it airs at 7 am so I can watch it while having my coffee right before work, but then my focus is whacky all day because of that 🙈