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And if we’re talking about outside perspectives, generalizing everyone here and calling them bullies isn’t fair either. Just because people are actively discussing and replying to others doesn’t mean they’re being hostile.

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No one is trying to “bully” people off the page what’s actually being discussed is how some Hidden Love fans have constantly compared this drama to HL, downplayed its strengths, and even engaged in some shady behavior. That’s why people have called them out. It’s not about silencing criticism; it’s about recognizing when certain fans go beyond just “not liking” a drama and instead push an agenda to make it seem inferior.

No one said people can’t dislike the drama, but it’s frustrating when criticism feels less like an opinion and more like an attempt to undermine it in favor of HL. Some HL fans have been acting this way, and that’s why they were called toxic.

That being said, I won’t generalize because there are HL fans who just enjoy their drama without comparing or putting this one down. But acting like there’s no issue here and that people are just “attacking” others for disliking the show is misleading.

I saw what this user said about TFF. I wanted to respond, but I decided not to since I’ve seen their arguments with another user on this page, and I don’t want to start anything 😂
https://kisskh.at/735043-life#comment-21421262

Yes, it's so unfair. This isn't a competition I don't understand their goal at all.

There are so many HL fans on TikTok and this app who dislike this drama, but the only sincere posts from HL fans I’ve seen have been on X. The negativity here is exhausting what’s the point of deliberately lowering a drama’s rating? It just feels unfair.

She’s left the cat with Sang Yan before, so this wasn’t something new. Even when she was trying to leave, she still left the cat with him to keep him company. It wasn’t abandonment it was her own way of staying connected to him, even as she tried to walk away.

Yes we are, and I appreciate the chance to discuss our views. However, after your last comment, I do feel like we have different takes on how we view this drama, so I don’t think I’ll continue further. Thanks for sharing your perspective too.

I don’t think it’s hard, but I did feel like I came off as rude because of your last sentence, since you didn’t feel that way It’s all good 🥰

The slow burn is part of the character development, not just a plot device. It's not about rushing to the end but showing the gradual evolution of Yi Fan's healing. Yes, healing can feel slow, but that’s because it’s complex and doesn’t happen overnight.

The progress may not always be in big moments, but the tension and small shifts in their relationship matter, even if it’s not flashy. In Episode 10, we saw some events, Yi Fan encountering her aunt, visiting her dad’s grave, and talking with Sang Yan. These moments are pivotal in her healing process, even if they’re not immediately obvious.

I’ve read the novel, and I do think they stuck pretty closely to the source material in most parts, but I noticed they made the theme of the female lead darker in the adaptation.

I hope we can wrap up this conversation here. I understand this drama isn’t for everyone, and it seems we have different views on it so far.

They do share the same universe, but TFF is focused on Sang Yan’s love story, which is interconnected with Yi Fan. If you’ve watched the drama , Yi Fan chose journalism because of her struggles when she could no longer pursue ballet, which was her dream. Over time, she grew to like journalism even if it doesn’t perfectly match her personality, she has done well in her job.

I replied based on your feelings about the drama, and I hope my comment doesn’t come across as rude because of your last word. Like I mentioned, the choice is yours do as you please.

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Just like you explained, they are different. This drama is adapted from the novel Nahong, also known as The First Frost, and its story is darker than HL because it isn’t solely about romance. Since it’s not improving for you I’d suggest dropping it, but that’s your choice. The 32 episodes are meant to slow down the love story because it focuses more on SA issues and work struggles before developing the romance.

Respectfully, I don’t think I’m assuming incorrectly. This drama is adapted from the novel Nahong also known as The First Frost, and while it follows the original story, the female lead’s narrative has been made darker for the adaptation. I mentioned in my first comment that it’s a slow burn drama for that reason.

8000 dramas is a lot. However, this drama is adapted from a novel and follows what’s written rather than the Kdrama style of writing. Thanks for the recommendation I’ll check it out.

It is a slow burn drama, there has been somethings happening

This drama is a slow burn, and they are dealing with trauma, which doesn’t just go away quickly. The pacing isn’t about dragging things out unnecessarily it’s about allowing the character to process and grow. This isn’t just some overused plot device it’s an adaptation of the novel that made the female lead’s story even darker, so they didn’t rush anything. The emotional weight and the slow unraveling of her past are intentional, not a flaw. If it feels too slow for you, I suggest dropping it rather than forcing yourself through it.

I get what you mean. Maybe if they had shown more of him at his workplace, that would have been closer to what you were looking for. I still really enjoyed the drama, liked his character, and still felt the warmth and realism of the story.

Sang Yan’s character isn’t just about his love for Yi Fan. His arc is divided into two parts one focusing on his role as an older brother to Sang Zhi, which shows his personality, and the other on his relationship with Yi Fan, which brings out a different side of him. Even in the second part, his dynamic with his sister is still there. He finished his studies and has a job, and while his feelings for Yi Fan played a role in his choices, he still worked toward his own goals. His personality is shaped by his relationships, and Yi Fan’s character feels more realistic because of her story.

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