Rosie

Your review is so well written I completely agree with everything you said. Thanks for such a detailed review 💗

Yi Fan didn’t leave just for the sake of leaving her trauma was triggered again, and she needed space to heal. In the process, she actually worked through it and grew stronger. Her decision wasn’t just about a misunderstanding but about confronting something deeply painful and ultimately coming back on her own terms.

We don’t have to agree, but complex characters don’t need to fit a certain type to be understood. Yifan isn’t the character you might expect she’s strong yet flawed, which makes her all the more real.

Well Deserved !!!

This doesn’t add up anyone who truly understands or appreciates complex characters wouldn’t use the word “hate” so strongly. Complex female leads are valued by those who genuinely understand what shaped or changed them, rather than dismissing them outright.

Yifan’s character wasn’t just written to be difficult; the drama takes time to show why she became the way she is. She wasn’t always guarded or distant her past, particularly her trauma and family struggles, shaped her responses to the world. She learned to protect herself in ways that might seem cold or frustrating to others, but that’s exactly what makes her character compelling. The last few episodes especially provided deeper insight into her journey, showing how she gradually let herself be understood and loved. Dismissing all of that just because she isn’t an easy character to like misses the entire point of her growth.

You seem to have missed a lot of what the drama was trying to show about Yifan. The story actually delves deep into what changed her she wasn’t always like this. Her trauma shaped her, and the last few episodes made that even clearer. Yifan is a complex female lead, and it feels like you don’t really understand characters like her.

Sang Yan also changed when he met Yifan. He started out as someone too proud, but he put down his pride to truly understand her, and they grew together. He was there for some of her toughest moments before she broke off their friendship. That kind of connection isn’t something that just happens it’s built over time, and the drama did a great job of showing that.

There are actually viewers who didn’t fully like Yifan, but they never hated her because they had empathy. They understood that her struggles shaped who she became, even if they didn’t personally connect with her.

As for your last point, getting married or having a child wouldn’t suddenly make you like her. What matters is understanding why they love each other in the first place. And based on what you’ve said, I think this drama just isn’t for you. Not every story is meant for every viewer, and that’s okay there are plenty of other dramas that might fit your preferences better.

I didn’t find his character immature, but I understand that opinions differ. Maybe your perspective will change as you watch more.

I wouldn’t call it petulant he reacts based on his emotions, but he’s never immature about it.

One of the best drama's i enjoyed here despite the misunderstandings

Thanks for reading how did You find my comment after 9 days 😭

I wasn’t planning to reply, but out of respect, I just want to say that I don’t want to continue this conversation. If I respond, you will too, and I don’t see us stopping. Thanks.

The drama does show how Sang Yan’s love deepened over time it just doesn’t spell it out in an obvious way. His feelings weren’t just admiration; they were built on shared history, unresolved emotions, and the way he internalized her impact on his life.

His hesitation, longing, and regret weren’t underdeveloped; they were shown through his small actions, the way he looked at her, and his inability to let go even when he tried. His love wasn’t about a single turning point—it was years of quiet attachment, a mix of guilt and what-ifs, and the way she became an irreplaceable part of his past and present.

It’s true that Wen Yifan’s emotional journey was more explicitly fleshed out, but that doesn’t mean Sang Yan’s was incomplete. His side was just more restrained, reflecting how he processes emotions differently. The drama may not have handed us every detail, but the depth was there in the subtext.

Sang Yan already had his own arc outside of Yi Fan he grew as a brother, a university student, and an individual. Unlike Yi Fan, he didn’t need to go through the same suffering because he came from a stable, loving home. His character wasn’t lacking depth just because his struggles weren’t as dramatic. His growth was shown through his choices, his patience, and how he supported others. I really don’t understand why you think his character wasn’t well-written or meaningful, but at this point, I feel like this is just a difference in opinion. I won’t continue further.

I see where you’re coming from, but I don’t think his love was just ‘a constant’ without depth. The drama actually does show why he fell for Yi Fan her kindness, resilience, and the way she treated him differently from others. It wasn’t just love at first sight; he admired her over time, and his feelings deepened as they got closer. His struggles with those feelings were subtle, but they were there his hesitation, his waiting, his moments of regret and longing. Just because the drama didn’t spell everything out doesn’t mean his emotions weren’t explored. His love wasn’t just about being there for her it was about understanding her in a way no one else did.

I don’t think that diminishes Sang Yan’s role as a protagonist. His emotional journey was present throughout his patience, his regrets, and his quiet endurance all shaped the story. While Yi Fan’s healing was prioritized, it wouldn’t have had the same impact without showing how Sang Yan carried his own emotions over the years. Just because his arc was more subtle doesn’t mean it wasn’t meaningful. His love, and choices mattered just as much, making him more than just a supporting character.

While it’s true the story focused on Yi Fan, it still revolves around Sang Yan in many ways. The drama delves into his character, showing how his actions, personality, and support helped Yi Fan navigate her trauma. Without Sang Yan, their relationship wouldn't have worked out, and it would have felt one-sided. Yes, Yi Fan’s journey was a big part of the story, but they explored both perspectives. In "Hidden Love," we get a more in-depth view of Sang Yan and his family, which adds layers to his character. His role was crucial to the story’s development, and his influence on Yi Fan’s life was undeniable. So, I don’t think it’s fair to say he was just a supporting character.

Sang Yan's love for Yi Fan wasn’t just a one-dimensional feeling; it developed over time. He fell in love with her at first sight, but as they spent more time together, he grew to admire her personality. Sang Yan wasn't just captivated by her outward appearance; it was the way she handled herself, her resilience, and the kindness she showed that drew him in. As a high school student, he even experienced part of her biggest trauma the loss of her father and during that time, he tried to be there for her as a friend, even though he had already developed feelings for her.

He didn't initially set out to be her savior, but his resolve and dedication came from his deep connection with her. Over time, it became clear that his commitment was rooted in a promise he made not just to be her friend, but to truly help her. Even though he didn’t care much for studying at first, his feelings for Yi Fan inspired him to change. The act of studying itself became something he found satisfaction in, not just because of her, but because it brought him happiness to see the impact it had on her.

The show did touch on all these aspects, including how his dedication wasn’t just about loving her, but about living up to the promise he made to be there for her. He didn't volunteer to be part of her life because her father sent him; he did it because he genuinely wanted to be there for her, supporting her in ways that went beyond friendship.

He was sassy in high school but not like this.

The ratings genuinely reflect the opinions of people who enjoyed the drama.

Sang Yan was not just a side character; the drama showed him at his workplace, where he actually worked, and Sang Zhi explained that he was the stubborn type who wasn’t usually around family until he met Yi Fan.The story did elaborate on why he liked her he was drawn to her personality, and their interactions over time deepened his feelings. There was no need for an overly dramatic backstory; sometimes, attraction happens naturally and grows through shared moments.

The harassment plot wasn’t just a repetitive device; it played a crucial role in shaping Yi Fan’s story and addressing real societal issues. As for the pacing and side characters, that’s subjective, but the high rating reflects that many people found value in the storytelling. Calling it “overhyped” just because it didn’t match personal taste dismisses what others genuinely appreciate about it. Plus, Sang Yan was already rich enough, so deciding to spend quality time rather than chasing wealth wasn’t a bad thing.