Ppl said they like to see "small wins" and then eventual victory, bc it is more realistic. I agree. I dont want to watch 90% of episodes be utter stupidity and then a quick magical happy end. That is boring and waste of time. We all see plenty of stupidity in daily life, why waste time to watch that in our precious free time?? I think that THE FIGHT AGAINST EGOTISM AND COOPERATING IN THAT ENDEAVOR IS INTERESTING TO WATCH, NOT THE PASSIVE SLIDING INTO THE TOXICITY
Ppl say they want good guys, even the dumbo JI, to have small wins before she gets bigger and bigger wins and wins the game. INDEED!!!!
What makes dramas interesting is seeing how faulty people are and then how they kept trying to overcome it and eventually overcome it.
Yeah of course they will fail many times as they are trying to overcome it, but what makes it interesting is that they KEEP GETTING UP AND TRYING AGAIN. Fall 7 times, get up 8 times...
It is like watching a fight between two boxers LOL Nobody likes to watch one boxer on the floor being beaten by the other boxer non-stop. Unless you are a crazy psychopath enjoying torturing others... you are NOT going to like one-sided fight.
Especially since this is like watching a fight between good and evil, we want the good to win, but we all know that evil is powerful and wins a lot, and we still want the good to win.
This is like a gladiator game between a lion and a human.... we want the human to win SOMEHOW. We dont want lions to keep eating humans...
In this case, the fight is between our egotism and our more evolved side, often expressed as external struggle between people.... so of course we want the "better" person to "win" and we know the bad person will be throwing punches... and beating up the good person.. but we want the good person to fight as much as they can, learn to fight better, make better and better punches and self-defense. and win at the end.
Otherwise, WHY would we have even a reason to live, if we enjoy seeing good people get destroyed at the hands of bad ppl...???
The writer think we and the characters here are all idiots. He once used Chun Su ex , and decide to do it again.…
Yeah, it is not fun to keep seeing someone repeatedly act so dumb. IF ep 36 is used to "dig out the dirt" on their character flaws and then used to show how they overcome it, then sure, it is worth watching. But if it becomes just showing their stupidiets without any movement forward, then it is trash. So now we saw the character flaws of many people and the next thing we need to see is how those stupidities will be overcome. If that doesnt happen fast enough to your liking, then yeah, drop it. We all have a different threshold tolerance :)
Food for thought: no matter how "nice" someone is, if they walk out there and do not pay any attention to the lions, the lions will catch them and eat them. Survival is cruel and does not allow for mistakes.
Yeah I’m wondering how that will come out. I can only assume after the framed the mom they deleted the footage…
Yeah, I wonder that too!!!!! Perhaps someone will overhear some conversation... ? Or maybe maybe maybe there was a bystander somewhere in that rain that nobody saw.... ??? Maybe someone in a car parked nearby.... ??? Someone who saw it through a window... ? someone waiting for the bus... ???
Se Ri is a pshychopatic habitual liar. Her grudge is not only about the name. Remember what SIL said that Se Ri…
@Tia I think that Se Ri has mental illness of severe egotism and selfishness and very closed heart. Perhaps she is not human but an alien LOL Seriously, she might be a reptilian
So yeah she is jealous of JI, upset about MsChoi, and in general, UPSET AND RETALIATIVE AGAINST ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING, she is just a crazy egoistical psychopath, everything annoys her unless it makes HER the queen, and even then, she would ask for even more She is just ... inhumanely selfish greedy and cruel. She is mentally ill. I think she is just someone who suffers from MAJOR MAJOR MAJOR egotism.
And for the two of us - we were never on not peaceful terms LOL I reserve the right to disagree with you and say what I think and that is nothing personal. We just discuss. So sometimes we agree and sometimes we do not. That is ok. We learn from each other.
Thank you for this history lesson. I don't know a lot about Korean history, but it seems like they were invaded…
the entire world history is either bc someone wanted to steal $$$ and goods AND/OR someone wanted to fu## some chick ....
for example Atlantic Slavery, Nazi stealing, collonization of Africa, Americas, Asia, Polynesia, Australia, etc, etc etc etc etc. NO WOMEN INTEREST THERE, ONLY JUST MONEY
But sex driven carnage is common too..... like Henry changing religions of entire country and causing wars to marry who he wanted - how come he couldnt keep her as a mistress... ??? or like entire Greek Oddysey and war of so many years is to grab Helena of Troy... I didnt read it entirely, I wonder if there was some other advantage..
or Gengis Khan did a raid to retrieve his favorite and first wife Borte who was kidnapped (and impregnated later as a slave), and he got her back, and from raid he learned that conquering others is a piece of cake, SO HE CONTINUED to raid the entire EuroAsia and kill 40 million people, 20% of world population back then!!!!!! And yeah, he accepted Borte's new baby as his own. meanwhile he punished his enemies by putting them alive under a big "floor" and he and his buddies would be eating on top of it, crushing the people under the floor, ppl screaming in pain... So our lovey dovey Genghis Khan in his romantic pursuits.... turned an evil monster
and so on. Sex was always a major driving force for doing super stupid things How many "ppl in love" harmed and even killed their competition
Imo you are missing the point... The key here is HIS MOTHER'S GRIEF and need to have the mother somehow redeem…
Hm... his mother DID try to atone while alive. That is why all the prayer was for... So there is no reason for you to be angry about the prayer
And as for all rapists rotting in hell... Well... that's another topic where they go etc, I would argue that rapists already live in their own hell, otherwise they couldnt do such crimes :) and that their karma and future lives will be increasingly set up to give them a chance to atone... in other words, there could be some severe punishment to force them to atone LOL But what we need to discuss right now, is that EVERYTHING IN THE UNIVERSE IS GEARED TO HELP BEINGS EVOLVE.. so... even if a rapist is rotting in hell... ... IT IS TOTALLY PROPER TO PRAY FOR THEM TO TRANSFORM
I will be very generous and will explain this a little more, and if you dont want to hear this, just stop reading. When you meet an old rag on the road and you refuse a gift, it is your fault, you will never find the gold.
Do some research and find out why Dalai Lama and Tibetans pray for Chinese who murder and torture them
Or why Michael Ende in his book "Endless Story" talks about how all beings living in the kingdom of Moon Child are equal, regardless who they are
Or why mystical Islam says Illaha la Alah "There is nothing else but God" or, translated into Native American words "ALL IS ONE"
That is the concept of Boddhichita, having loving care and compassion for ALL sentient beings, understanding that there is nothing else but ONE THING expressing itself in many forms
SO YOU ARE THAT RAPIST AND HE IS YOU TOO although you are not :) in the 3D world, each one of you is given a certain autonomy although both of you are ONE
it is hard to understand and probably will take you a while to grasp it
and you will start getting cues only when you find the rapist in yourself. All of us are made of the same ingredients, some people have more of this or that, but we are all the same, but we taste different :) Too much salt make your inedible :)
DO not look for this literally LOL do NOT try to be a rapist or to feel like a rapist. But try to find EGOTISM AND ENTITLEMENT in yourself. Just like a rapist feels free to do whatever he wants with another alive being, find any trace of that kind of entitlement in yourself.
WHERE DO YOU FEEL ENTITLED? perhaps you kill and eat animals, Perhaps you voted for war. Perhaps you cut down entire forest bc you wanted to plop a huge house and parking lot there. Perhaps you steal. perhaps you cut people out. perhaps ... who knows.. !!!!!
But if you find that trait of egoistical entitlement in yourself, then you will understand why the rapist needs someone to pray that they evolve.
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THE FIGHT AGAINST EGOTISM AND COOPERATING IN THAT ENDEAVOR IS INTERESTING TO WATCH, NOT THE PASSIVE SLIDING INTO THE TOXICITY
What makes dramas interesting is seeing how faulty people are and then how they kept trying to overcome it and eventually overcome it.
Yeah of course they will fail many times as they are trying to overcome it, but what makes it interesting is that they KEEP GETTING UP AND TRYING AGAIN.
Fall 7 times, get up 8 times...
It is like watching a fight between two boxers LOL Nobody likes to watch one boxer on the floor being beaten by the other boxer non-stop. Unless you are a crazy psychopath enjoying torturing others... you are NOT going to like one-sided fight.
Especially since this is like watching a fight between good and evil, we want the good to win, but we all know that evil is powerful and wins a lot, and we still want the good to win.
This is like a gladiator game between a lion and a human.... we want the human to win SOMEHOW. We dont want lions to keep eating humans...
In this case, the fight is between our egotism and our more evolved side, often expressed as external struggle between people.... so of course we want the "better" person to "win"
and we know the bad person will be throwing punches... and beating up the good person.. but we want the good person to fight as much as they can, learn to fight better, make better and better punches and self-defense. and win at the end.
Otherwise, WHY would we have even a reason to live, if we enjoy seeing good people get destroyed at the hands of bad ppl...???
IF ep 36 is used to "dig out the dirt" on their character flaws and then used to show how they overcome it, then sure, it is worth watching. But if it becomes just showing their stupidiets without any movement forward, then it is trash.
So now we saw the character flaws of many people and the next thing we need to see is how those stupidities will be overcome.
If that doesnt happen fast enough to your liking, then yeah, drop it. We all have a different threshold tolerance :)
Survival is cruel and does not allow for mistakes.
Se Ri doesnt do childish stuff like this. Se Ri goes for the kill and always seriously harms others
I think that Se Ri has mental illness of severe egotism and selfishness and very closed heart. Perhaps she is not human but an alien LOL Seriously, she might be a reptilian
So yeah she is jealous of JI, upset about MsChoi, and in general, UPSET AND RETALIATIVE AGAINST ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING, she is just a crazy egoistical psychopath, everything annoys her unless it makes HER the queen, and even then, she would ask for even more She is just ... inhumanely selfish greedy and cruel. She is mentally ill. I think she is just someone who suffers from MAJOR MAJOR MAJOR egotism.
And for the two of us - we were never on not peaceful terms LOL I reserve the right to disagree with you and say what I think and that is nothing personal. We just discuss. So sometimes we agree and sometimes we do not. That is ok. We learn from each other.
for example Atlantic Slavery, Nazi stealing, collonization of Africa, Americas, Asia, Polynesia, Australia, etc, etc etc etc etc. NO WOMEN INTEREST THERE, ONLY JUST MONEY
But sex driven carnage is common too..... like Henry changing religions of entire country and causing wars to marry who he wanted - how come he couldnt keep her as a mistress... ???
or like entire Greek Oddysey and war of so many years is to grab Helena of Troy... I didnt read it entirely, I wonder if there was some other advantage..
or Gengis Khan did a raid to retrieve his favorite and first wife Borte who was kidnapped (and impregnated later as a slave), and he got her back, and from raid he learned that conquering others is a piece of cake, SO HE CONTINUED to raid the entire EuroAsia and kill 40 million people, 20% of world population back then!!!!!! And yeah, he accepted Borte's new baby as his own. meanwhile he punished his enemies by putting them alive under a big "floor" and he and his buddies would be eating on top of it, crushing the people under the floor, ppl screaming in pain... So our lovey dovey Genghis Khan in his romantic pursuits.... turned an evil monster
and so on. Sex was always a major driving force for doing super stupid things
How many "ppl in love" harmed and even killed their competition
And as for all rapists rotting in hell... Well... that's another topic where they go etc, I would argue that rapists already live in their own hell, otherwise they couldnt do such crimes :) and that their karma and future lives will be increasingly set up to give them a chance to atone... in other words, there could be some severe punishment to force them to atone LOL
But what we need to discuss right now, is that EVERYTHING IN THE UNIVERSE IS GEARED TO HELP BEINGS EVOLVE..
so... even if a rapist is rotting in hell... ... IT IS TOTALLY PROPER TO PRAY FOR THEM TO TRANSFORM
I will be very generous and will explain this a little more, and if you dont want to hear this, just stop reading. When you meet an old rag on the road and you refuse a gift, it is your fault, you will never find the gold.
Do some research and find out why Dalai Lama and Tibetans pray for Chinese who murder and torture them
Or why Michael Ende in his book "Endless Story" talks about how all beings living in the kingdom of Moon Child are equal, regardless who they are
Or why mystical Islam says Illaha la Alah "There is nothing else but God" or, translated into Native American words "ALL IS ONE"
That is the concept of Boddhichita, having loving care and compassion for ALL sentient beings, understanding that there is nothing else but ONE THING expressing itself in many forms
SO YOU ARE THAT RAPIST AND HE IS YOU TOO
although you are not :) in the 3D world, each one of you is given a certain autonomy although both of you are ONE
it is hard to understand and probably will take you a while to grasp it
and you will start getting cues only when you find the rapist in yourself.
All of us are made of the same ingredients, some people have more of this or that, but we are all the same, but we taste different :) Too much salt make your inedible :)
DO not look for this literally LOL do NOT try to be a rapist or to feel like a rapist.
But try to find EGOTISM AND ENTITLEMENT in yourself. Just like a rapist feels free to do whatever he wants with another alive being, find any trace of that kind of entitlement in yourself.
WHERE DO YOU FEEL ENTITLED? perhaps you kill and eat animals, Perhaps you voted for war. Perhaps you cut down entire forest bc you wanted to plop a huge house and parking lot there. Perhaps you steal. perhaps you cut people out. perhaps ... who knows.. !!!!!
But if you find that trait of egoistical entitlement in yourself, then you will understand why the rapist needs someone to pray that they evolve.