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I blocked that user and the people who were attacking me for a nuanced take. You should too.

At no point did I defend that person or their actions. My argument was about addressing the issue without resorting to lazy generalizations. If you have to twist my words this badly to make your point, maybe it’s because you don’t actually have one.

if I disagree with YOU, I must be an enabler? My point was never about shielding toxic behavior—it was about avoiding lazy generalizations. If you actually read what I said instead of jumping to conclusions, you’d know that.

It's actually funny when you take the time and effort to make a diplomatic, firm, and valid argument without typos, and the replies are just about whether it's AI.

Dude, when did i support racism?

I called out the hypocrisy of using India’s real issues to stereotype all Indian men. I also criticized Indians who reinforce these stereotypes to fit in. In short, my comment was about racism and generalization.

AI detectors also think Shakespeare and research papers are AI-generated. well sure, you do you.

I have no idea why you’re bringing up a random username, but that’s not the point of my comment. The issue is selective outrage—ignoring or even praising racism until it’s directed at your own country. If you have an actual counterpoint to that, feel free to share. Otherwise, stop derailing the conversation.

Ah yes, because making a well-structured argument automatically means it's ChatGPT. Sorry for using basic critical thinking, I’ll make sure to add typos and unnecessary emojis next time so it feels more ‘real’ to you. 🙄(here's one)

The moment criticism shifts from "some men engage in bad behavior" to "South Asian men are like this", it becomes a stereotype. That’s when it enables racism and bias. Calling out harassment is absolutely necessary—I never said otherwise. But when people start framing it as a ‘South Asian male’ issue rather than calling out individuals, it turns into a stereotype. That’s where the problem lies. Generalizations like these don’t actually solve anything; they just reinforce biases and allow people to feel comfortable stereotyping an entire group. If the goal is to hold toxic people accountable, then let’s focus on the actual behavior instead of attaching it to nationality or gender. That is what i meant in my comment.

do i see a sane person in this economy!

(THIS COMMENT IS NOT EVEN REMOTELY RELATED TO THE DRAMA)
I just wanted to address this once and for all, even if it doesn’t necessarily align with the tone or the meaning of this comment section. It needed to be said. (scroll down for context)
India has serious issues regarding women’s safety and crimes against women, and there’s no denying that improvement is needed. But using that as an excuse to stereotype all indian men—or act like toxic behavior is exclusive to indians—is just lazy and hypocritical. Every country has its share of problems, and every fandom has toxic people. If you actually care about change, call out individuals for their actions instead of turning it into a nationality or gender issue.

what’s even worse is seeing some indians here reinforcing these stereotypes just to fit in. Criticizing real issues is fine, but throwing your own people under the bus for approval doesn’t make you ‘woke’—it just enables racism and generalization. If you won't accept people making sweeping claims about koreans, then don’t do the same to indians. Double standards like this only fuel more division as if it's not already enough.
I appreciate your consideration in engaging with a perspective that apparently may not fit the majority view here. And if you feel called out because of this comment—yes, it’s for you.

(edit: The fact that many people think a well-structured, rational comment must be AI is exactly why conversations like these go nowhere. Raise your standards.I avoided informal language because this is a serious issue that deserves to be addressed properly—not reduced to internet slang and reactions. If that makes it sound ‘too structured’ for you, maybe the problem isn’t my writing. Also, i appreciate the compliments.)
(Edit 2: It’s wild how asking for nuance gets twisted into ‘defending predators.’ If you need to misrepresent my words this badly, maybe it’s because you don’t have a real argument against what I actually said.)

I won't call her a racist because it might be unintentional. The number of likes doesn’t change the fact that stereotyping is wrong. Just because a comment is popular doesn’t mean it’s fair or logical. If we’re against racism and generalization, that should apply to everyone, not selectively.

So because Koreans get stereotyped, that makes it okay to do the same to others? Stereotyping is wrong no matter who it's directed at. Instead of justifying it, maybe we should stop applying double standards altogether.I agree that stereotypes against Koreans (or any group) should be called out, and I don't support double standards. My point was that it's better to criticize individuals for their actions rather than associating certain behaviors with a specific nationality or demographic. That applies across the board, whether it's Koreans, Indians, or anyone else.

You're reinforcing stereotypes, even if unintentionally. A better way to say it would be to call out the person's behaviour without making broad links to nationality or common traits.

I'm not watching his shows, no matter what any of the defenders have to say. I don’t care whether the things about him are true or not. But if they are true, then I might as well pick each blade of grass by hand from all the land in Switzerland rather than support a creature like him. I'm out.

i appreciate you for telling me that.

i honestly am so disappointed, i had such high expectations from this, considering the ml even had silvery white hair. dropped.

a feel good drama. if you're having a bad day, you'll likely love it. it's very cute(a lil cringe for my liking), fluffy and romanticised with a great storyline and brimming chemistry.

The fans were fine with me when i commented my opinion. they were giving their feedbacks.
i also don't like how she is cute in every other drama but since she is a natural i'll bear with it. although i agree, it's very cringe and not upto my taste to see this type of cuteness from an adult.