Yes, Chi Cheng should have told WSW but aren't you being a bit too harsh on him here?Can you not feel how conflicted…
To me, Chi Cheng is just respecting his MIL wish.
Ultimately the one who is responsible to tell WSW is his mother.
Maybe try think of it in this perspective. If you asked someone to keep a secret for you for the time being and you don't want to worry your relative about it, you trust this person to keep the secret, if that person revealed your secret to that relative, and broke your trust, would you like that?
I felt the one who is wrong here is Wu Ma because she made Chi Cheng promise her to keep this from WSW and she contributed to putting them in that situation. That's not right from her since WSW deserves the right to know.
Instead of blaming Chi Cheng for keeping this from WSW because it was Wu Ma wish, I felt sorry for him because he is conflicted. He is conflicted in wanting to tell WSW the truth but at the same time keeping that a secret from WSW because it was her wish and he is respecting that.
At the end when WSW finds out he will be upset and angry at Chi Cheng but I felt that the one who needs to be responsible in revealing this should be Wu Ma, not Chi Cheng. If Chi Cheng said it, then he is breaking her wish... so in the end that is why I can't fault Chi Cheng here since I felt he was put in a difficult situation which in the end will get the hate for just keeping a secret in respect to Wu Ma wish.
Yes Wu Ma is not his mother but the fact that he treats her better than his own mother goes to show how much Wu Suo Wei family means to him since he considered himself a part of his family.
In the end all Chi Cheng can do is use the most indirect method in telling Wu Suo Wei to spend more time with his mother, in which he did in episode 16, he told WSW if he have time to spend some time with his mother...
He is not depriving WSW that chance to spend more time with his mother, but Wu Ma is when he made Chi Cheng promise her. Chi Cheng should not be hated for this because he is only put in that difficult position because of Wu Ma wish. I am sure if he can and if he doesn't care for Wu Ma feelings he would tell WSW but thing is, he cares for her a lot.
It doesn't mean he care for WSW less but this whole thing is complicated... thats why I said I feel bad for Chi Cheng on my side... and why in the end Wu Ma needs to be the one to say it...not Chi Cheng... thats her responsibility to tell WSW
Am I the only one who wants to see Tian Xu Ning act in another BL where his romantic interest is Zhan Xuan, and…
For me I don't support it since I don't want to see him acting in a BL with the same cast as RL (that is not paired with him in RL) because it feels awkward to see on my side here.
That whole clip didn't give a good feeling for me and still trying to recover from it on my side and lost a lot of sleep because of it...
I know it is ironic to say, I trust he has truly moved on from Wang Shuo(no more feelings for him), but what he…
You need these issues to get character developments.. Even WSW is not handling the situation well on his side when it comes to their relationship as he purposely did it to make CC jealous and adds to his securities, that is not healthy from his side as well and he did it because what Wang Shuo said had influenced him. What WSW did by doing so had inevitably fall into WS trap/plans...
I know these misunderstanding is annoying, I dont like seeing it either but for me, i felt like they both have issues how their current relationship come to this at this point.
But as long as they get the character developments and grow from this at the end, which i am sure they will, then as much as I hate the misunderstanding and angst now.... I will endure this storm for the sunshine at the end
I just wish that people stop having double standard and judging CC harshly like that and try to understand what he is going through at the moment.
the writing got a bit messy since Wang Shuo came into the picture. Chi Cheng is not behaving like someone who…
I know it is ironic to say, I trust he has truly moved on from Wang Shuo(no more feelings for him), but what he was affected with is still that lingering unresolved situation that happened back then because it was what caused him to stop loving and causing a rift between him and GCY...
I think CC cared about that situation not because of Wang Shuo, as a person but because of how this had strained the bond he has with GCY....
He DID said to WSW again that what he cared about is the situation in the past, not Wang Shuo as a person....…
I disagree with you because when he purposely want to make CC jealous that was his contribution to widen the misunderstanding on his side, and him knowing how Chi Cheng felt when he blocked WZ number, yet he still want to make CC jealous and give him insecurities like that this is on WSW.
They both need to sort out their misunderstanding when that time comes. The fault is not solely on CC. It takes two people to make a healthy relationship, not just one sided.
You seem to be ignorant about this point though. Like I said if you want to have double standard in this then I have nothing to say to you any further lol 😂
I don't agree with what Wang Shuo said and I think it was obvious he was trying to create that misunderstanding.
I think this highlights the difference how Chi Cheng feels for Wang Shuo back then when compared to Wu Suo Wei.
The fact that we saw Wang Shuo insecurities that when he asked Chi Cheng who is the most important person in his heart and his answer was GCY shows that the level of feelings he felt for Wang Shuo back then was 'like', not 'love'. And you can see there were moments when they argued and Chi Cheng just left and didn't want to talk to Wang Shuo anymore. That was in the video playback that we were forced to watch.
Whereas when it comes to Wu Suo Wei, I really don't think there was ever a moment where Chi Cheng walked out on him. It was usually Wei Wei getting mad at Chi Cheng and forced Chi Cheng to leave (which he was affected by all this). His mood can also be affected when Wei Wei is upset or mad at him, which in the end leads to him apologising to Wei Wei on his side.
In love it is not about arguing, it's about acceptance and because you love that person you want to avoid arguing with that person and falling out, because you dont want to see that person you love upset after this argument.
And you need to know that when it comes to confession in chinese, they tend to use Xihuan(like) over Ai(love) 98-99% of the time. It is very rare for them to use Ai, but most often when they do, it is why we cherish the use of Ai(love) over Xihuan(like) in a confession.
So to me, I don't agree with what Wang Shuo is judging between Like and Love when he said that. He is using his experience with Chi Cheng to cause the misunderstanding for Wu Suo Wei because he wants Wu Suo Wei to fall for it and argue with Chi Cheng. He wanted them to fall out. So he has that opening to enter into the picture. That is why WSW wants to make CC jealous on his side because he was affected by this and fell for Wang Shuo trap.
In comparison to the difference on how CC was with WS in their past compared to CC with WSW in the present is a difference to show his feelings for WSW have extended to more than just like, where it is now love(because unlike how he couldn't forgive WS, he can when it comes to WSW because he loves him).
He had said to WSW before, he have never wanted to sleep with anyone this much before. This already tells us how WSW is different when compared to how he felt towards WS in the past.
To top it off seeing how he can said that GCY is his most important when he was with WS in the past kinda highlighted how he felt. Normally, I would care but because I don't care for WS as a character, I don't care for him(WS). His suffering is my pleasure because he put my fav character Chi Cheng and Wei Wei through all this.
And while that video clip still disgusts me, and I got to praise WSW here because I don't know how he can watch the whole thing let alone save it on his USB like that, because I would have left or deleted those files on my side. This is just so messed up. I am not going to fault Chi Cheng for what happened in the past since that was his past before he met Wei Wei and fall in love with him. After he fell in love with him, he's 'head over hills in love' and is a changed man. What he needs right now, although the angst is taking a toll on us and it is annoying to see the misunderstanding, but I rather a misunderstanding over being unfaithful on my side
The only reassuring factor for me was that CC and GCY was NOT sober when they kissed... So... I will just take it they were not in their right mind when it happened
In light of the whole situation, honestly if WSW were to ask CC who is his most important person, I really think his answer will be WSW because that is how much CC loves him. Someone he doesn't want to walk out on.
But thing is I don't agree with what Wang Shuo said and I think it was obvious he was trying to create that misunderstanding.…
Yes from viewer perspective its hard to agree with the crazy warped idea of his view in like vs love because I still felt he said that on purpose since he wanted WSW to argue with CC so they have that fall out and he will use this chance to enter....but CC is being tolerant and swallowed his jealousy was because he loves WSW a lot.
WSW doesn't see this now because he doesn't really have a clear mind and he's affected by all this... I won't blame him for feeling this way because for me I was affected by what I saw in the video clip last night that I only had 3 hour sleep...
just wanted to point another thing out about wsw making cc jealous on purpose this ep that i think some ppl are…
But thing is I don't agree with what Wang Shuo said and I think it was obvious he was trying to create that misunderstanding.
I think this highlights the difference how Chi Cheng feels for Wang Shuo back then when compared to Wu Suo Wei.
The fact that we saw Wang Shuo insecurities that when he asked Chi Cheng who is the most important person in his heart and his answer was GCY shows that the level of feelings he felt for Wang Shuo back then was 'like', not 'love'. And you can see there were moments when they argued and Chi Cheng just left and didn't want to talk to Wang Shuo anymore. That was in the video playback that we were forced to watch.
Whereas when it comes to Wu Suo Wei, I really don't think there was ever a moment where Chi Cheng walked out on him. It was usually Wei Wei getting mad at Chi Cheng and forced Chi Cheng to leave (which he was affected by all this). His mood can also be affected when Wei Wei is upset or mad at him, which in the end leads to him apologising to Wei Wei on his side.
In love it is not about arguing, its about acceptance and because you love that person you want to avoid arguing with that person and falling out, because you dont want to see that person you love upset after this argument.
And you need to know that when it comes to confession in chinese, they tend to use Xihuan(like) over Ai(love) 99% of the time. It is very rare for them to use Ai, but most often when they do, it is why we cherish the use of Ai(love) over Xihuan(like) in a confession.
So to me, I don't agree with what Wang Shuo is judging between Like and Love when he said that. He is using his experience with Chi Cheng to cause the misunderstanding for Wu Suo Wei because he wants Wu Suo Wei to fall for it and argue with Chi Cheng. He wanted them to fall out. That is why WSW wants to make CC jealous on his side because he was affected by this and fell for Wang Shuo plans.
In comparison to the difference on how CC was with WS in their past compared to CC with WSW in the present is a difference to show his feelings for WSW have extended to more than just like, where it is now love(because unlike how he couldn't forgive WS, he can when it comes to WSW because he loves him).
He had said to WSW before, he have never wanted to sleep with anyone this much before. This already tells us how WSW is different when compared to how he felt towards WS in the past.
And to top it off seeing how he can said that GCY is his most important when he was with WS in the past kinda highlighted how he felt. Normally, I would care but because I don't care for WS for putting CC and WSW through right now, I don't care for him(WS)
But honestly if WSW were to ask CC who is his most important person, I really think his answer will be WSW because that is how much CC loves him. Someone he doesn't want to walk out on
He DID said to WSW again that what he cared about is the situation in the past, not Wang Shuo as a person....…
CC has been avoiding WS. If he contacted WS, FYI that was because WSW gave that opportunity to them when he purposely made CC jealous about WZ like that. Even if CC contacted WS it was to confirm if WSW is at his place, nothing more of a conversation between them after that.
But honestly, if you want to have double standard here, where you're judging CC harshly and WSW lightly then I have nothing to say to you.
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Ultimately the one who is responsible to tell WSW is his mother.
Maybe try think of it in this perspective. If you asked someone to keep a secret for you for the time being and you don't want to worry your relative about it, you trust this person to keep the secret, if that person revealed your secret to that relative, and broke your trust, would you like that?
I felt the one who is wrong here is Wu Ma because she made Chi Cheng promise her to keep this from WSW and she contributed to putting them in that situation. That's not right from her since WSW deserves the right to know.
Instead of blaming Chi Cheng for keeping this from WSW because it was Wu Ma wish, I felt sorry for him because he is conflicted. He is conflicted in wanting to tell WSW the truth but at the same time keeping that a secret from WSW because it was her wish and he is respecting that.
At the end when WSW finds out he will be upset and angry at Chi Cheng but I felt that the one who needs to be responsible in revealing this should be Wu Ma, not Chi Cheng. If Chi Cheng said it, then he is breaking her wish... so in the end that is why I can't fault Chi Cheng here since I felt he was put in a difficult situation which in the end will get the hate for just keeping a secret in respect to Wu Ma wish.
Yes Wu Ma is not his mother but the fact that he treats her better than his own mother goes to show how much Wu Suo Wei family means to him since he considered himself a part of his family.
In the end all Chi Cheng can do is use the most indirect method in telling Wu Suo Wei to spend more time with his mother, in which he did in episode 16, he told WSW if he have time to spend some time with his mother...
He is not depriving WSW that chance to spend more time with his mother, but Wu Ma is when he made Chi Cheng promise her. Chi Cheng should not be hated for this because he is only put in that difficult position because of Wu Ma wish. I am sure if he can and if he doesn't care for Wu Ma feelings he would tell WSW but thing is, he cares for her a lot.
It doesn't mean he care for WSW less but this whole thing is complicated... thats why I said I feel bad for Chi Cheng on my side... and why in the end Wu Ma needs to be the one to say it...not Chi Cheng... thats her responsibility to tell WSW
That whole clip didn't give a good feeling for me and still trying to recover from it on my side and lost a lot of sleep because of it...
I know these misunderstanding is annoying, I dont like seeing it either but for me, i felt like they both have issues how their current relationship come to this at this point.
But as long as they get the character developments and grow from this at the end, which i am sure they will, then as much as I hate the misunderstanding and angst now.... I will endure this storm for the sunshine at the end
I just wish that people stop having double standard and judging CC harshly like that and try to understand what he is going through at the moment.
I think CC cared about that situation not because of Wang Shuo, as a person but because of how this had strained the bond he has with GCY....
What you said:
"He acts all jealous, but himself meets his own exs everyday."
You should check what you wrote about that part 'everyday' which is clearly NOT TRUE
They both need to sort out their misunderstanding when that time comes. The fault is not solely on CC. It takes two people to make a healthy relationship, not just one sided.
You seem to be ignorant about this point though. Like I said if you want to have double standard in this then I have nothing to say to you any further lol 😂
I don't agree with what Wang Shuo said and I think it was obvious he was trying to create that misunderstanding.
I think this highlights the difference how Chi Cheng feels for Wang Shuo back then when compared to Wu Suo Wei.
The fact that we saw Wang Shuo insecurities that when he asked Chi Cheng who is the most important person in his heart and his answer was GCY shows that the level of feelings he felt for Wang Shuo back then was 'like', not 'love'. And you can see there were moments when they argued and Chi Cheng just left and didn't want to talk to Wang Shuo anymore. That was in the video playback that we were forced to watch.
Whereas when it comes to Wu Suo Wei, I really don't think there was ever a moment where Chi Cheng walked out on him. It was usually Wei Wei getting mad at Chi Cheng and forced Chi Cheng to leave (which he was affected by all this). His mood can also be affected when Wei Wei is upset or mad at him, which in the end leads to him apologising to Wei Wei on his side.
In love it is not about arguing, it's about acceptance and because you love that person you want to avoid arguing with that person and falling out, because you dont want to see that person you love upset after this argument.
And you need to know that when it comes to confession in chinese, they tend to use Xihuan(like) over Ai(love) 98-99% of the time. It is very rare for them to use Ai, but most often when they do, it is why we cherish the use of Ai(love) over Xihuan(like) in a confession.
So to me, I don't agree with what Wang Shuo is judging between Like and Love when he said that. He is using his experience with Chi Cheng to cause the misunderstanding for Wu Suo Wei because he wants Wu Suo Wei to fall for it and argue with Chi Cheng. He wanted them to fall out. So he has that opening to enter into the picture. That is why WSW wants to make CC jealous on his side because he was affected by this and fell for Wang Shuo trap.
In comparison to the difference on how CC was with WS in their past compared to CC with WSW in the present is a difference to show his feelings for WSW have extended to more than just like, where it is now love(because unlike how he couldn't forgive WS, he can when it comes to WSW because he loves him).
He had said to WSW before, he have never wanted to sleep with anyone this much before. This already tells us how WSW is different when compared to how he felt towards WS in the past.
To top it off seeing how he can said that GCY is his most important when he was with WS in the past kinda highlighted how he felt. Normally, I would care but because I don't care for WS as a character, I don't care for him(WS). His suffering is my pleasure because he put my fav character Chi Cheng and Wei Wei through all this.
And while that video clip still disgusts me, and I got to praise WSW here because I don't know how he can watch the whole thing let alone save it on his USB like that, because I would have left or deleted those files on my side. This is just so messed up. I am not going to fault Chi Cheng for what happened in the past since that was his past before he met Wei Wei and fall in love with him. After he fell in love with him, he's 'head over hills in love' and is a changed man. What he needs right now, although the angst is taking a toll on us and it is annoying to see the misunderstanding, but I rather a misunderstanding over being unfaithful on my side
The only reassuring factor for me was that CC and GCY was NOT sober when they kissed... So... I will just take it they were not in their right mind when it happened
In light of the whole situation, honestly if WSW were to ask CC who is his most important person, I really think his answer will be WSW because that is how much CC loves him. Someone he doesn't want to walk out on.
I would have deleted the files and wouldn't have save them onto my USB drive!
WSW doesn't see this now because he doesn't really have a clear mind and he's affected by all this... I won't blame him for feeling this way because for me I was affected by what I saw in the video clip last night that I only had 3 hour sleep...
I think this highlights the difference how Chi Cheng feels for Wang Shuo back then when compared to Wu Suo Wei.
The fact that we saw Wang Shuo insecurities that when he asked Chi Cheng who is the most important person in his heart and his answer was GCY shows that the level of feelings he felt for Wang Shuo back then was 'like', not 'love'. And you can see there were moments when they argued and Chi Cheng just left and didn't want to talk to Wang Shuo anymore. That was in the video playback that we were forced to watch.
Whereas when it comes to Wu Suo Wei, I really don't think there was ever a moment where Chi Cheng walked out on him. It was usually Wei Wei getting mad at Chi Cheng and forced Chi Cheng to leave (which he was affected by all this). His mood can also be affected when Wei Wei is upset or mad at him, which in the end leads to him apologising to Wei Wei on his side.
In love it is not about arguing, its about acceptance and because you love that person you want to avoid arguing with that person and falling out, because you dont want to see that person you love upset after this argument.
And you need to know that when it comes to confession in chinese, they tend to use Xihuan(like) over Ai(love) 99% of the time. It is very rare for them to use Ai, but most often when they do, it is why we cherish the use of Ai(love) over Xihuan(like) in a confession.
So to me, I don't agree with what Wang Shuo is judging between Like and Love when he said that. He is using his experience with Chi Cheng to cause the misunderstanding for Wu Suo Wei because he wants Wu Suo Wei to fall for it and argue with Chi Cheng. He wanted them to fall out. That is why WSW wants to make CC jealous on his side because he was affected by this and fell for Wang Shuo plans.
In comparison to the difference on how CC was with WS in their past compared to CC with WSW in the present is a difference to show his feelings for WSW have extended to more than just like, where it is now love(because unlike how he couldn't forgive WS, he can when it comes to WSW because he loves him).
He had said to WSW before, he have never wanted to sleep with anyone this much before. This already tells us how WSW is different when compared to how he felt towards WS in the past.
And to top it off seeing how he can said that GCY is his most important when he was with WS in the past kinda highlighted how he felt. Normally, I would care but because I don't care for WS for putting CC and WSW through right now, I don't care for him(WS)
But honestly if WSW were to ask CC who is his most important person, I really think his answer will be WSW because that is how much CC loves him. Someone he doesn't want to walk out on
When did he go meet his ex everyday?! Lol. He was meeting and taking care of WSW mother and going to see the doctor to understand the situation
WSW misunderstanding is fine since he didn't know but how could you not?!
But honestly, if you want to have double standard here, where you're judging CC harshly and WSW lightly then I have nothing to say to you.
Honestly they both have issues here but to be honest I felt like WSW in this episode have more to contribute to this misunderstanding.