Lady_Kexing

How refreshing to see the father being a piece of shit until his last breath 😇 But at least now he’s out of our lives with his fuckin baseball bat and his homophobic beliefs.
In this series the homophobic parents are dying one after the other.
At this point Yi Chen’s mom should sleep with one eye open 🥲

You were very free to not engage with this comment section. But you forced us to witness your homophobic ass first thing in the morning.
So disrespectful.

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The trailers are driving me INSANE 😭😭
I need the new episodes like I need air to breathe

Yeah he will keep him in his house, but from what I’ve heard they will have an happy ending.

Also, I totally get you because they have an insane chemistry in and out of the series 😏

I haven’t read the novel but from what I gathered, Yi Chen’s mother will have an heart attack when she finds out about the relationship and she will ask Yi Chen to marry a woman. Yi Chen will accept and at this point Lu Feng will loose his mind (understandably because he basically got thrown away just because Yi Chen’s mother is homophobic) and he will do a lot of terrible things out of anger. Some of those things are: Kidnapping Yi Chen, SA, extreme violence and other violent acts.

Consider that now he’s in his good mood and still madly in love and he showed us just a fraction of the anger that simmers under his skin.

That was incredibly beautiful 😭😭😭 I cried all my tears at seeing them so happy and in love

It is cute in some ways, because they are in love, but it is also very very dark and it will get worse 👀 and I’m telling you because if ep 4 traumatized you what will come will definitely be difficult to watch for you.

Yeah and I honestly can’t wait 😂😏

Why is the father still breathing? Lu Feng i beg you, do something. That man can’t keep beating the shit out of you!!

This genuinely made me smile 🥹🩷

I am not twisting your words and you know that.
Your first sentence was: “It’s only good if you like rapist and romanticize SA”
Then you said: “I didn’t accuse anybody” (but it was an accusation) and then “If you feel accused you are the problem” (I can’t fell an accusations for something I don’t condone, so that’s was you trying to make an accusation on my morality without saying it out loud)
then you said “I’m heavily judging who likes to watch series that romanticize SA” (And I pointed out that you don’t know what people thinks. Maybe everyone here hates Lu Feng. Who knows? surely not you.)
I unfortunately understand very well, but you honey are trying between the lines to picture me as a monster with a despicable morality because I was just saying that you cannot accuse people so lightly? That’s very childish.
But feel free to come say to me in my face that I’m not clean and that I don’t have a good morality honey 🥰 let’s see if it’s diffamation or not.
Have a good night 😴

Oh darling, that’s the problem. You don’t know what people think. You don’t know if they find it weird or not.
But they surely don’t assume that everyone watching this series is a rape apologist.

How cute of you to try to gaslight people into thinking you never made moral judgments about real people 🤡

I didn’t reply because I “felt called out.” I replied because you threw heavy accusations at everyone enjoying this series by saying people only like it if they “like rapists” or “have a problem.”

You are completely free to dislike the plot, the writing or the way the story handles toxic themes. Nobody said you have to enjoy it.
But don’t pretend you didn’t said that people can only like it if they “like rapists” or they “romanticize SA”
That is absolutely an accusations whether you want to backtrack now or not.

It’s always easy to accuse strangers of “supporting rapists” when you’re hiding behind a screen. Try repeating something that serious in real life with the same confidence. Accusing real people of supporting crimes this serious is not edgy discourse, it’s reckless, defamatory behavior. Some of you have gotten way too comfortable throwing around accusations that would have actual consequences in real life.

No, I read exactly what you said. That’s the issue.

You repeatedly said that normalizing/forgiving toxic BL characters “plays a part” in homophobia developing, and THAT is the part I fundamentally disagree with. I’ve been consistent about that from the beginning.
I never even argued about the character itself, though.

But for some reasons, the conversation kept getting redirected into things I wasn’t even talking about, while you threw in comments about me “playing dumb” or not being able to read, which honestly just came off unnecessarily condescending.

So no, I didn’t misunderstand your argument. I just disagreed with it, and I don’t think twisting my point into something else to make me sound stupid was fair.

Anyway, I’m done with this conversation now. Take care.

Oh please 😭 the way you’re suddenly pretending that “fujoshi who gets opinions from the internet” was some neutral intellectual statement is actually laughable.

You were talking to a woman and the SECOND your point got challenged, out came the condescending fandom stereotype to belittle the person you were arguing with. That was absolutely intentional, so don’t play dumb now.

Also let’s stop pretending your argument was “just criticizing the character” when you literally said dark BL contributes to homophobia existing. THAT is the part people are disagreeing with because it’s a ridiculous take.

I know that I should stop but I cannot accept that they are here insulting us just because we UNDERSTAND how a dark series works.

Probably when Lu Feng kindnaps Yi Chen is gonna be impossible to comment the episode without being attacked by the morality police 🙄🙄🙄🙄

1. First of all, the “fujoshi who forms her opinions on Instagram” line you can shove right back where it came from. Those misogynistic little digs are pathetic, embarrassing and incredibly telling.

2. The funniest part is that you spent this entire discussion trying to sound intellectually superior, only to completely fall apart and start throwing personal insults the second people disagreed with your ridiculous take. So much for being “above fandom culture,” I guess.

You preach about homophobia while casually talking down to women the moment they don’t validate you. Pick a struggle.

3. Anyway, from this point on you can keep debating with yourself because the moment someone starts using personal attacks to feel morally superior instead of defending their argument like an adult, the discussion becomes worthless to me.

But do you realize how unfair that logic is toward queer media specifically?

Straight media has portrayed abusive husbands, obsessive boyfriends, rape, manipulation, violence and toxic relationships for literal centuries, and nobody goes around saying “this is why heterosexuality is hated.” People understand those are flawed individuals, not representatives of every straight person alive.

Yet the second a queer story is dark, suddenly it has to carry the burden of representing an entire community “correctly” or it’s accused of fueling homophobia. That standard alone is rooted in prejudice.

And respectfully, homophobia was not born because fictional toxic gay men existed. Homophobes don’t need dark fiction to justify their beliefs — they will weaponize literally anything. Holding queer stories to impossible moral purity standards won’t change that.

A dark character in a dark story is not a political statement about same-sex love as a whole. It’s just… a dark character in a dark story.