So people hv been calling JG a (bad friend?) to SJ because she never ask his condition when he was hospitalized,…
I didn't say she was a bad friend, She's just quite emotionally/intellectually unaware which leads her to take things for granted. This flaw stood out to me the most when she couldn't even show a bit of human decency towards a close friend like Seojun. I said that i was able to see her reasons why she does what she does but something like this, so lacking, is quite concerning. She's 18 but 18 is an age where you are basically a young adult, you are getting responsible and you have priorities, at least where i live lol. I wan't a female character be more smart for once :(
The point is love has nothing to do with deserving more or less, people fall in love with imperfect people constantly...…
Korean age is likely 18 at least so the American would be 17. I never said that she was uncaring, i just think she needs to mroe aware emotionally/intellectually. She didn't even ask Seojun "how are you" i don't think that was right of her.
I honestly do not think she's good enough for him, just like how Seojun is not good enough for her. Thats what i meant. I think they just don't align together in that level, which is why i think Seojun needs to move on
exactly. its not like we are saying that Jugyeong needs to love seojun back or that she needs to give him priority…
- I think differently. I am able to grasp that Jugyeong has had her step stones to why she does what she does. I am able to get that she has little to no social skills in talking with others. However, basic human decency to a fellow close friend of yours? No, i don't excuse that. In fact, feeling annoyed is nothing wrong with an action like this. Annoyance is just an emotion, not a justification. I'd feel the exact same way if a real life friend of mine who i care for so deeply did not even will to ask even "how are you doing" while showering their concern to their bf/gf right next to me. I'd just keep it in but since she is obviously a fictional character, i can openly say my concerns.
- It is her fault, at least what i see it from my own set of morals. It does not take someones little to no social skills to not show an inch of prudence with such a traumatic incident. What i see from it is that she lacks emotionally/intellectually to be aware of the things around her - ultimately leading her to take things for granted. Don't get me wrong, she's a lovely girl but just like every other human being who have imperfections, it's not exactly right for me to think that it's not their fault. It is definitely their fault, they committed the action, and they will need to learn and grow from it.
- Seojun was not hurt because again, he is blindly in love with her. We fall for imperfect people, people with our preferred personalities but unrequited, that is, which ultimately leads us to believe that the littlest gestures is way more important than it is. That is what i mean by why it's not worth it. Why it's not worth it for Seojun to be so close to her. Jugyeong is obviously a great person with a cute personality but her and Seojun just don't align, yet, it could happen, but not yet.
exactly. its not like we are saying that Jugyeong needs to love seojun back or that she needs to give him priority…
- I actually wrote a comment a little down there so your second half is something i have already discussed, not willing to repeat. I already know the reason why she is like this. - Again, as i have said, idc if her priority is Suho. Of course her priority is going to be Suho. But even so, she did not show one INCH of concern to Seojun. And that is something she NEEDS to imrprove on.
- The only reason why Seojun is not hurt with because he's blindly in love, it's really not worth it when a girl cannot even ask how you are doing. She's a fictional character, literally anyone can find her annoying if they wan't. Someone can find her annoying for her actions but still be able to understand on why she does what she does, which is what i am. She's not that young.
-She's 18. She's basically near a young adult, she has responsibilities and priorities to handle. This is basic human necessity.
- I did not say anything about Seojuns unrequited love, i'm solely talking about the friendship, idk why your bringing that up. people are just confused on how someone can't show an inch of common human decency to a fellow sincere friend of hers.
Again, people can find her annoying and point out a characters imperfection but that doesn't mean they don't understand or try to acknowledge why it is. Though she can definitely have her reasons, its still wrong in a lot of levels.
I watched 10 episodes back-to-back so I was able to empathise with Ju Kyeong (I tried to, atleast) without feeling…
exactly. its not like we are saying that Jugyeong needs to love seojun back or that she needs to give him priority over suho, it means that we are confused on how she could not even show an inch of conern? seojun is her sincerist friend who has done so much for her, she literally seeks out to him for help. so idk how people don't understand that a simple "how are you" was not used. she literally did not even greet him.
Despite all Seojun and SoHo has done for her, she has no idea all the behind the scenes jobs they've done. Only…
i didn't say that i ship her with Seojun, i just was emphasizing that she is quite unaware. not only the hospital scene, but many other scenes. Seojun is like her sincerist friend and he has done so much for her but she doesnt even ask him how is he or you know, basic human decency.
The point is love has nothing to do with deserving more or less, people fall in love with imperfect people constantly...…
The thing is, yes, we do fall in love with imperfect people. We fall in love with the person who we least expect. We fall in love with the person that does not feel the same way back .
But i never meant it that way, what i asked was is it all really worth it? I'd say both yes and no. Seojun falling for her is not anything surprising, in fact, this type of unrequited love helps u grow as a person. But when you love someone so much to the point u are willing to do anything and everything, knowing the fact that the person u love literally ignores and does not even at least ask "how are you" in the hospital and other places, u can come to a conclusion that its better to let go and distance yourself than endure. I know from experience, its really not worth it in the end.
Jugyeong and Seojun is obviously still young and growing, but my comment was never meant as an expectation for them to all be people with great self responsibility. I just emphasized in a way that Jugyeong still has a long way to go, their life of independance is just beginning, so its better if you don't burden yourself in the long run.
I did like Seojuns character developement. He is a real one and really grew as a person. He is humble with his romance, let go of his stubborness with Suho, and has zero tolerance to bullying, not being afraid of doing whats right. Which is why i think he deserves someone better, he deserves to love someone better. Jugyeong and him just don't align.
If i have to be completely honest, i don't think Seojun's affections towards Jugyeong is worth it. In fact, i wish he moves on and forgets about her, though it's likely not going to happen. Looking back, a lot of scenes now come up to my head where Jugyeong struggles intellectually/emotionally to be aware of the things around her. For a friend like Seojun who has done so much for you, all you could have done is at least say "how are you" or "Hello."
I feel like Jugyeong is a very fragile person. She obviously struggles in many areas and is stronger in the others. I'm sure she means well but maybe if i see it from her viewpoint, if i was being taunted my whole life where i did not grow up to have friends nor a loving family, it would be expected to not understand the basic human decency of returning affection back.
Rather saying that she does not care at all, i think she just doesn't know how to express it or unanimously cannot grasp giving back basic affections to an individual - ultimately leading to taking things for granted.
So do i think she's a bad person for having this imperfection? No, i really don't. But i see no point in Seojun doing all of this behind the curtains for her because she obviously has some improving to do. I really cannot see anyone with her except Suho at this point.
P.S I mean like... she cute but Seojun, you could do better lol. You deserve a women who's more confident and understanding. I can get why Suho fell for her but Seojun, nah.
I honestly do not think she's good enough for him, just like how Seojun is not good enough for her. Thats what i meant. I think they just don't align together in that level, which is why i think Seojun needs to move on
- It is her fault, at least what i see it from my own set of morals. It does not take someones little to no social skills to not show an inch of prudence with such a traumatic incident. What i see from it is that she lacks emotionally/intellectually to be aware of the things around her - ultimately leading her to take things for granted. Don't get me wrong, she's a lovely girl but just like every other human being who have imperfections, it's not exactly right for me to think that it's not their fault. It is definitely their fault, they committed the action, and they will need to learn and grow from it.
- Seojun was not hurt because again, he is blindly in love with her. We fall for imperfect people, people with our preferred personalities but unrequited, that is, which ultimately leads us to believe that the littlest gestures is way more important than it is. That is what i mean by why it's not worth it. Why it's not worth it for Seojun to be so close to her. Jugyeong is obviously a great person with a cute personality but her and Seojun just don't align, yet, it could happen, but not yet.
- Again, as i have said, idc if her priority is Suho. Of course her priority is going to be Suho. But even so, she did not show one INCH of concern to Seojun. And that is something she NEEDS to imrprove on.
- The only reason why Seojun is not hurt with because he's blindly in love, it's really not worth it when a girl cannot even ask how you are doing. She's a fictional character, literally anyone can find her annoying if they wan't. Someone can find her annoying for her actions but still be able to understand on why she does what she does, which is what i am. She's not that young.
-She's 18. She's basically near a young adult, she has responsibilities and priorities to handle. This is basic human necessity.
- I did not say anything about Seojuns unrequited love, i'm solely talking about the friendship, idk why your bringing that up. people are just confused on how someone can't show an inch of common human decency to a fellow sincere friend of hers.
Again, people can find her annoying and point out a characters imperfection but that doesn't mean they don't understand or try to acknowledge why it is. Though she can definitely have her reasons, its still wrong in a lot of levels.
But i never meant it that way, what i asked was is it all really worth it? I'd say both yes and no. Seojun falling for her is not anything surprising, in fact, this type of unrequited love helps u grow as a person. But when you love someone so much to the point u are willing to do anything and everything, knowing the fact that the person u love literally ignores and does not even at least ask "how are you" in the hospital and other places, u can come to a conclusion that its better to let go and distance yourself than endure. I know from experience, its really not worth it in the end.
Jugyeong and Seojun is obviously still young and growing, but my comment was never meant as an expectation for them to all be people with great self responsibility. I just emphasized in a way that Jugyeong still has a long way to go, their life of independance is just beginning, so its better if you don't burden yourself in the long run.
I did like Seojuns character developement. He is a real one and really grew as a person. He is humble with his romance, let go of his stubborness with Suho, and has zero tolerance to bullying, not being afraid of doing whats right. Which is why i think he deserves someone better, he deserves to love someone better. Jugyeong and him just don't align.
I do think they are older though, maybe 18.
I feel like Jugyeong is a very fragile person. She obviously struggles in many areas and is stronger in the others. I'm sure she means well but maybe if i see it from her viewpoint, if i was being taunted my whole life where i did not grow up to have friends nor a loving family, it would be expected to not understand the basic human decency of returning affection back.
Rather saying that she does not care at all, i think she just doesn't know how to express it or unanimously cannot grasp giving back basic affections to an individual - ultimately leading to taking things for granted.
So do i think she's a bad person for having this imperfection? No, i really don't. But i see no point in Seojun doing all of this behind the curtains for her because she obviously has some improving to do. I really cannot see anyone with her except Suho at this point.
P.S I mean like... she cute but Seojun, you could do better lol. You deserve a women who's more confident and understanding. I can get why Suho fell for her but Seojun, nah.