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I think there’s something wrong already with DFQC carrying his responsibilities without damaging their relationship when in the first place he already did damage it. If he took first step in taking revenge then XLH will also takes a step to protect her tribe which will really result to “I’ll become your enemy”. She’s just basically saying the truth and not threatening DFQC. She’s just saying where she will stand when he takes revenge. DFQC and XLH both get it and that’s why they are not forcing it when they both look at each other in one episode just crying knowing both of them can't adjust to each other’s wants. If you’re too polite to someone, your relationship is not that deep. She’s just so open to DFQC to say her thoughts and there’s nothing wrong with that. There’s also one point in their convo DFQC asking to give her realm so she ask if he can do the same by asking if he can give up his hatred. DFQC can’t do it so XLH also can’t. So it’s not a blunt response. I really like XLH isn’t passive in relationship.

Yes. 👏👏👏🤝. That’s why some some viewers should not skip any seconds, or if they don’t get it, rewatch it. Some are just being career moms of DFQC and always drag XLH along the way as if she’s the cause of everything. They are all super concern about the power and he’s supposed to be always the strongest, DFQC cannot commit mistakes because he’s perfect so automatically it’s XLH’s fault for not understanding that he wants to kill her tribe and just be happy that DFQC pampers her when in fact in the first place she wants to go home, They’re forgetting that although DFQC pampers her, he limits her freedom, she can’t go without her permission. She can’t make the decisions herself if DFQC doesn’t agree. It’s so toxic. Now that XLH is being smart, they are blaming her for being ungrateful, when in the first place, DFQC doesn’t even follow what XLH want every time he says what do you want. He keeps saying what do you want until XLH give in to his decisions. She’s living her life worried that DFQC may kill Jieli or Chang Heng, her best friends. DFQC is giving what he thinks XLH wants without directly asking her. She’s always living on a thin ice. It’s giving me a vibe that a girl should give way for the pride of man. DFQC is evil and they don’t want to change that so, XLH is always kind in the first place so please don’t ask her to give up that character just for their romantic relationship to level up.

1. Am I the only one who remembers that DFQC already saw that XLH will be married to Chang Heng and saw her Goddess form like Danyin. So in the first place, he already lied to Orchid. From DFQC making her wear moon tribe queen dress, to people bowing and respecting her, to make her see the life of Moon Tribe, he done it with subtlety that his true intentions is to make her the Queen of Moon tribe and not to discover that she’s the Goddess of Xiyun. This is only my theory, I can be wrong.

2. Another one, although Chi Di and XLH is different, they are sort of sharing a primordial spirits. I think XLH is a fragment of primordial spirit of Chi Di but the plan is to create Goddes of Xilan, and not to be Xiao Lan Hua. It’s just that I think her master Siming intercepts with this plan, so she purposely destroy her roots so she will not carry the burden of responsibility of being a Goddess of Xilan and just continue to be happy. Goddess of Xilan I think is created because of war. Well, this is only my theory.

3. I’m kind of sure that XLH will help Chang Heng in completing his mission and the goal of that mission is to marry the love of his life, so if he didn’t complete it. He will be turn to ashes according to Destiny of book so XLH really needs to marry him. On the other side, DFQC will also marry Xie Wanqing (But I like to believe he will use his bodyguard or somebody will disguise as him) because according to destiny book, she will die in the hands of her husband. And the reason I think XLH will drug him is to attend the wedding (This last one is a ridiculous theory of mine but I can’t think of any other situations that can fit other than this). I’m also pretty sure that DFQC will also intercepts and steal XLH during the wedding.

4. Am I the only one thinking that both of them knew they are lying to each other, and just waiting who will say the truth first. You can tell by their pause and their nods. I think they test each other 2 times in ep. 20, I don’t know if you notice. Their body actions seem slower than before in the hopes that one of them will tell the truth first so the other one can also follow. It’s like the tension of who will bend their principles first.

5. Also, XLH already have feelings to DFQC that’s why she’s wearing hairpin. DFQC even ask him why she needs to wear where in the past she allows him to know her feelings and what she’s thinking. She wears the hairpin so DFQC won’t know her feelings for him. It’s just that the Director done it with subtlety. It’s her way of acknowledging that she’s falling for DFQC.

Bravo! I love you for this. Very well said.

Yeah that’s why it’s better not to be together, both of them wear accessories that hinders them to feel each other so their love will not go on anymore.

I think you’re already concluding in your mind for the things that hasn’t happened yet so it’s so unfair as in ep, 19 XLH already said, how could she betray him if they are from different tribe. They obviously have much loyalty to their own tribe than to each other. She also tell him not to pamper her anymore. Basically, as someone said it before, XLH will bury their love before it goes further to not complicate anymore so both of them would not bend each other’s principle.

I agree with you. Some wants ML to not have character development while the FL should have one, I mean that will be unfair. Both of them needs to understand and compromise each other.

She remembers but there’s still 2 important people to her in Shuiyuntian that will fight to DFQC. And these people met her first before DFQC. Very smart of XLH that she doesn’t only consider romantic love. There’s all kinds of love. And both tribes have bad or good people, they are the ones who suffers the most in the consequences of poor decisions of both leaders.

I agree. Same point of view.

Also DFQC won’t be a good leader if he continue to take revenge because his people will suffer an endless war. People on the loosing end will always plan to take revenge. They need to arrange another plan, and be an enlightened leader. Yunzhong is also not a good leader so there is war. True leaders will make the war their last resort.

They both need to share each other’s burden so it will not be toxic, and not only just one.

Revenge cycle. It will never end. There are good and bad people in both tribes and all are just fighting for they think what is right unless they will have both an enlightened leaders and end this cycle for once.

Also not all in heaven realm are bad just like Danyin. Just because the drama show a glimpse for moon tribe, doesn’t mean all the people there are good. War happens because they have conflicting values. Once you take the oath of revenge, another person will be born in hatred to take revenge and the cycle will go on so I’m on team Xiao Lan Hua. There’s more important than romantic love.

Also not all in heaven realm are bad just like Danyin. Just because the drama show a glimpse for moon tribe, doesn’t mean all the people there are good.

Please remember although a lot of people there bully her, there are two people who she values a lot who will never surrender and fight to death to DFQC, that is Chang Zheng and her master Siming, you can add Danyin too. It is too irresponsible for her to let her master die, and please also remember that she meet these people before DFQC. She can’t only center her life to DFQC. The tribes are fighting for what they feel like it’s true to them. If DFQC takes revenge, it will still go on because in my opinion is endless, and may reduce XLH love for him and just resent him. It will be just a toxic love.

That’s why she won’t force it anymore but will still try to protect her tribe and she knows the love between needs to ends, that she doesn’t confess her feelings, hence keeping the hairpin preventing from DFQC from knowing her thoughts. Both of them need to compromise, not only XLH. Her master values Shuiyuntian, and XLH knows that her master won’t surrender and fight to death to DFQC. Please note that her master is very important to her. There is no wrong and right in war, they all have conflicting values that cannot be unified. Not because DFQC pampers her, she needs to sacrifice her family. There’s all kinds of love and not just romantic love.

At that time, he fooled me, I thought he really change hahahaha. I also love and hate that he is still in his true nature because that’s reality that it’s hard to change.

Like DFQC, XLH shouldn’t also sacrifice or give up for love. One of the most important person to her before DFQC is her master. And anyone in the right mind won’t let anyone hurt their home. Just like DFQC fighting for Moon tribe. She also have to fight for her home. I just like that they are not pressuring each other. Changheng too is also important to her, he’s also her friend and first admiration. No one wants to see their love ones kill each other. XLH is preventing them to continue dwell in love and not to be able get out because they both know they will not change for each other. XLH does a lot of things also for DFQC when in the first place, she wish in the first episode 1 to just live in peace. DFQC only promise her the empty land of her love ones, how could you called it home.

I’m scared of mortal arc because of the trailer. As a fan of Esther Yu Shuxin, I’m familiar to her feature. So am I the only one thinking that DFQC going to marry in mortal arc is not XLH but Xie Wanqing. Because I saw her ear and the accessory, it’s so different from XLH marrying mortal Chang Zheng from XLH marrying mortal DFQC. Or my vision just got wrong. I hope I’m wrong though.

Wait I’ll find clips of Zhang Linghe.He already jump in the pool