Yesterday I was focused on reading comments that explained JX's pov post-break up because I was trying to understand…
Its due to the same reason, why FL can have multiple ex b.f's but ML have to be Ultra-Virgin, to appease the certain demographic and push empowerment narrative.
What decisions regarding JX did HT exactly take without consulting her?The ONLY thing was getting XC shares back…
1)FL didn't selected ML cuz of above mentioned reasons, she selected him cuz he gave her best the best deal. She had no other options, I don't remember ML explicitly mentioning what you are stating here. He didn't promised her anything and FL is not a 2 year old child. She should know, if terms were not on paper/contract they don't exist. 2)So, you are saying ML should have give her leeway and betray his grandfather, his trust and all the members of Doyngai group (whom investment money come from), went against his principles and betterment of the XC...just cuz FL sleeps with him and is his girlfriend. FL wasn't the only founder of the company, ML as their single and primary investor is also a founding member. I am not saying ML is not in wrong here, his first mistakes was involving himself with his subordinate, his second mistake was his failure to establish boundaries in relationships (he gave in way to much), his third mistakes was his failure to communicate his boundaries (separation of working and personal life) and lower limits and his fourth mistake was failure to tell her "that he can't tell her exact reasons due to conflicting interest" and failure to grow a backbone and stand his ground, to tell FL straight up in office scene that she crossed every limit and hence should be dumped on the spot. I will like to raise one point here, ML is the ultra-virgin here and FL is coming in with years of relationship experience. FL never allowed ML to explain his actions or anything went berserk like "it's my way or highway" and yelled, name called him and emotionally blackmailed him.
I think you have said this several times on this page regarding your take on her negative behaviour and something…
Then expected an apology. I am talking about whole attempt at back stabbing, her behavior during breakup and attempts to guilt trip him into submission. If she didn't diluted her shares, she would have had majority shares and in position to negotiate but still she would have lost cuz shares are important, money is even more important. ML would have simply stopped supplying cash to keep the company afloat, nosedived the share prices and when bills stacked up...she would have yielded anyway ! She has to properly apologize to ML about yelling and cursing, seriously I won't mind if she settles with new guy !
What decisions regarding JX did HT exactly take without consulting her?The ONLY thing was getting XC shares back…
Lol her company, the one with majority shares owns the company and it was ML. No where in the entire world, minority share holders have any say big decision like merger. So you got it all wrong, and I own some shares of Nvidia, does it gives me the right to go their head quarter and demand shit. No ! Grow up and realize, just cuz you work hard for something and have feelings attached to it. It doesn't make it your company, the one who paid for everything owns it.
I think you have said this several times on this page regarding your take on her negative behaviour and something…
It's okay for any human to make mistakes but "learn from them" is the problem here. She is expecting an apology for what? in order for her to learn from her this mistake and move on as a couple, the guilty party have to acknowledge their wrong doing and explain her actions. It isn't a small fight and she didn't just disagreed with him and separated. She did a lot of disgusting shit and list of her crimes is long, that's where problem lies. We don't see her repenting or learning... instead she is expecting "apology" and wants to white wash her behavior and just move on, like nothing ever happened. I would also like to point out here, you are one who brought gender here.... recently there has been surge in cdramas with woman with bad attitudes and no remorse The boss, legend of shen Li, The princess royal, blossom in adversity (jing yi one) and now this one. Nobody is against "Forget and forgive" but execution of the process is the real problem here.
i am not familiar with how business works but if HT really couldn't tell or discuss certain business dealings…
If they really communicated that flawlessly, there won't be any need to make this drama. I don't completely agree with you cuz ML was the ultra-virgin in the relationship and FL was the one with years of experience under her belt. It's quite natural he isn't experienced or mature enough to understand the concept of two-way communication,boundaries and keeping work and private life separate. ML did tried to explain but FL never gave him a chance too, made one sided decision and run away. Even now it's the ML fighting for the relationship and instead of showing us the proper character growth/development with realization of her mistakes,she for whole ass dude over there and jealousy route will be used.
But XT chose to keep her in the bubble, by lying, using her business as a bargaining chip to maintain his power…
Then we will agree to disagree ML was at fault for involving himself with a subordinate and invited trouble, but FL went far and if wasn't for ML. any other investor would have either forced the dissolution by selling the shares or kicked her out of the company all together for making a fuss. I am really sorry for say it but just cuz you worked hard for something or feel about it...doesn't make it your company or product. The one who invested the money and handed stuff to you on silver platter owns it, so it wasn't her company to begin with and only she has this delusion. She willingly made conscious decision of starting the company without money and look for the investors, she sold the shares to him herself and hence has no excuse to cry about it.
But XT chose to keep her in the bubble, by lying, using her business as a bargaining chip to maintain his power…
Again She has no legal or moral right to acquire that information, and as majority share owner ML had every right to look up for the betterment of his company by merging it with already successful entity. Like it or not she is using her status as his g.f to demand an explanation out of him, even in that case not once she has allowed him to properly explain it. So in simple words first, she has an unreasonable demand and expectation, after that she had foul attitude and forget everything ML has done for so far....so if I have to blame someone, its FL ! She hasn't learned anything from the failure of her previous relationship, her attitude of "my way or highway" combined with continuous forcing of her will on the other party by unilateral decision lead to the eventual breakup....she is doing the same here !
But XT chose to keep her in the bubble, by lying, using her business as a bargaining chip to maintain his power…
I am ep 20 but he was still alot better than other offers they are receiving, nowhere in the world investors are anybody's friend and he legally bought or acquired those shares. FL was dumb enough to start a business without initial capital and is now crying about the consequences. She had almost everything handed over to her in silver plate and is still complaining about stuff, welcome to the planet earth here majority joint property owner had the legal right to make decisions. So, what FL was expecting just cuz she is sleeping with him...he would cheat all the other investors of the group, give her leeway !
2)So, you are saying ML should have give her leeway and betray his grandfather, his trust and all the members of Doyngai group (whom investment money come from), went against his principles and betterment of the XC...just cuz FL sleeps with him and is his girlfriend.
FL wasn't the only founder of the company, ML as their single and primary investor is also a founding member.
I am not saying ML is not in wrong here, his first mistakes was involving himself with his subordinate, his second mistake was his failure to establish boundaries in relationships (he gave in way to much), his third mistakes was his failure to communicate his boundaries (separation of working and personal life) and lower limits and his fourth mistake was failure to tell her "that he can't tell her exact reasons due to conflicting interest" and failure to grow a backbone and stand his ground, to tell FL straight up in office scene that she crossed every limit and hence should be dumped on the spot.
I will like to raise one point here, ML is the ultra-virgin here and FL is coming in with years of relationship experience. FL never allowed ML to explain his actions or anything went berserk like "it's my way or highway" and yelled, name called him and emotionally blackmailed him.
If she didn't diluted her shares, she would have had majority shares and in position to negotiate but still she would have lost cuz shares are important, money is even more important.
ML would have simply stopped supplying cash to keep the company afloat, nosedived the share prices and when bills stacked up...she would have yielded anyway !
She has to properly apologize to ML about yelling and cursing, seriously I won't mind if she settles with new guy !
No where in the entire world, minority share holders have any say big decision like merger.
So you got it all wrong, and I own some shares of Nvidia, does it gives me the right to go their head quarter and demand shit.
No !
Grow up and realize, just cuz you work hard for something and have feelings attached to it. It doesn't make it your company, the one who paid for everything owns it.
She is expecting an apology for what?
in order for her to learn from her this mistake and move on as a couple, the guilty party have to acknowledge their wrong doing and explain her actions. It isn't a small fight and she didn't just disagreed with him and separated.
She did a lot of disgusting shit and list of her crimes is long, that's where problem lies.
We don't see her repenting or learning... instead she is expecting "apology" and wants to white wash her behavior and just move on, like nothing ever happened.
I would also like to point out here, you are one who brought gender here.... recently there has been surge in cdramas with woman with bad attitudes and no remorse
The boss, legend of shen Li, The princess royal, blossom in adversity (jing yi one) and now this one.
Nobody is against "Forget and forgive" but execution of the process is the real problem here.
It's quite natural he isn't experienced or mature enough to understand the concept of two-way communication,boundaries and keeping work and private life separate.
ML did tried to explain but FL never gave him a chance too, made one sided decision and run away. Even now it's the ML fighting for the relationship and instead of showing us the proper character growth/development with realization of her mistakes,she for whole ass dude over there and jealousy route will be used.
and I heard y'all got scent of timed (means it was all a dream)!
any other investor would have either forced the dissolution by selling the shares or kicked her out of the company all together for making a fuss. I am really sorry for say it but just cuz you worked hard for something or feel about it...doesn't make it your company or product.
The one who invested the money and handed stuff to you on silver platter owns it, so it wasn't her company to begin with and only she has this delusion.
She willingly made conscious decision of starting the company without money and look for the investors, she sold the shares to him herself and hence has no excuse to cry about it.
Like it or not she is using her status as his g.f to demand an explanation out of him, even in that case not once she has allowed him to properly explain it.
So in simple words first, she has an unreasonable demand and expectation, after that she had foul attitude and forget everything ML has done for so far....so if I have to blame someone, its FL !
She hasn't learned anything from the failure of her previous relationship, her attitude of "my way or highway" combined with continuous forcing of her will on the other party by unilateral decision lead to the eventual breakup....she is doing the same here !
She had almost everything handed over to her in silver plate and is still complaining about stuff, welcome to the planet earth here majority joint property owner had the legal right to make decisions.
So, what FL was expecting just cuz she is sleeping with him...he would cheat all the other investors of the group, give her leeway !