Man this is getting so so good I feel like being literally glued on my seat with the thrill while tears building in my eyes & that ending getting me goosebumps, Kang Da Wit π€π
I think alot of context from JH WK fight from ep 15 is being edited out coz from what WK said to WJ JH, he said things between him & ex get heated but then cooled off, we don't get to see that cooled off part. Also for people who may forget the reason y they broke up, it's rather her unstable job than any other excuse he's trying to throw, earlier WK even compare other girl's occupation is more stable than his ex. If he's a girl idt people will buy his excuse.
I'm glad BH confront HJ this ep coz gosh, her action is really confusing even for me too & we get the answer in this ep that she doesn't even understand her own feelings so it makes sense, I get how it can be frustating to see for BH coz what he heard (from talking room), heard from her, from others & see all doesn't make sense. I hope ep 16 will be their closure (it looks like that to me). So far among all the members I think BH & YN has the higher chance to be the final couple. YNgives BH assurance, certainty that HJ couldn't & BH realize they (BH HJ) will only hurt eachother, so fingerscrossed we can get at least 1 new couple form, or 2 maybe with YS & HJ (not sure if they'll lasted, though). I didn't expect SY will pull such move in the preview though, I hope he can get his sense back a.s.a.p & stop tainting MK π
No relationship is worthy for anyone to loose themselves in it. This is a message for my girl JH, & SY!
99% of the members hasn't moved on from their ex.. yet. Even Jae Hyeong, if YY hasn't gone dating his friend all the way back when he's in the military I'm 100% sure he'll start pursuing her here. No ship show certainty, atp this maybe the first season that I wish for them all to end up solo π€£ They serve us nothing but drama π
Oh btw I donβt know why Wongyu said heβs ISTP because the guy predicted Jihyeon intention so accurate that…
It's possible for someone to have ambiver personality, I'm both ISFP & ISTJ coz the S, the F, the T and J are like 51% 53% and something like that, I can even be an N π I think it can change depends on the situation/environment or things that shaping us up π
I wouldn't call it hate but if I were on JH shoes it'd be really really hard for me to forgive him coz the reason…
Honestly JH just wanted to be understood & accepted, like, acting is part of her dream & her free personality is something that is unique from her, it's part of her. Acting isn't something you can predict you can make it or break it just by putting your 100% effort either, unlike carreer woman, it's different & Idt WK put much effort to understand, compromize & accept that as part of her as a person. He doesn't seem to trust her deduction nor accept that every person has different pace & not everything has to go by his standard.
There's a limit you can ask a person to adjust themselves to fit yours, they need to meet in the middle to work on that, by mutual respect & trust, communicate better and compromize. With WK I feel like he persist that nothing is wrong with his view & he can't understand how he can think of it differently, so unless he realize that he need to loose some to gain some, they won't be able to work it out.
Shutting down people one sided like what he did in the past will traumatized any people involved so he need to put more effort if he want JH to consider him again.
I wouldn't call it hate but if I were on JH shoes it'd be really really hard for me to forgive him coz the reason…
Agreed their personality are just clashing out, but for someone to forgive, someone need to show his regret & asking for forgiveness (he shd handled how they got broke up better, cutting her out just like that through text is like dumping something he no longer needed). That is something idt WK willing to do so I see no point if he doesn't show he's worthy to earn her trust, the ball is on him rn imho.
I just cannot understand why Won Kyu is hated? I am watching ep 16. Up until this point he has been pretty consistent.…
I wouldn't call it hate but if I were on JH shoes it'd be really really hard for me to forgive him coz the reason they broke up is more like betrayal to JH existence, simply for being herself.
Instead of accept her fully & support her when she's at her lowest, he got greedy & dumped her coz he think he can get a better woman than JH, WK admit it himself how he got greedy & only realized later that no one is perfect and regret but he never admit it to JH & instead of apologizing he went circles & shift the blame at her for asking for a trip when she's having a hardtime.
He's also being wishy washy & keep putting himself in questionable position. So yeah, I can see JH loved him so much hence what he said or do affect her sm but at the same time she got hurted too much & WK never show his regret to JH nor apologized to her, so no unless he admit to JH like what he told viewers, show his regret & learn something from it, it's only natural for JH acting the way she is coz remember he's the one who let go & want her back, not JH.
I don't support them to reunite coz WK admit it himself that he'd do the same if he's in the same position like he was. If he doesn't show his regret so why bother to ask for reunite or even a chance to reassess their relationship. Trust is earned not given.
i seriously will cry if they finally realize they saw eo with the wrong glasses all this time
For real, I want to shake both of their shoulders so hard & sincerely wish both can talk it through, whether to make it work somehow or just to make peace of themselves. Idt WK realize he love JH or how precious she is & only realize it later after they broke up (or hasn't he realized it yet? π) . If only these two can communicate better & listened to their respective partner's POV and compromize.
Im having a hard time following thier convo/argument. Even after rewatching it multiple times i still cant seem…
He said he was ok but he want her to quickly settle on that which's not realistic given it's less than a year. Also, you compare a career woman to an actress or someone who just change her field is not making sense. (Some famous actors I follow only has his breakthrough in their late years no matter how hardworking they're & announcers are prestigious carreer in SK with lots of steps).
Hv you seen anyone who achieve her stable position after changing it in less than a year? It doesn't happen instantly or just because you wanted it too. It's not like she's laying around, she studied & work in between all of that too. Every person has their own pace, not everything has to go by your standard.
Let's not forget that JH has this stable condition only few months after WK dumped her, if only he has more patience.
For financial talk, if both love eachother enough & there's a will from both I believe there's a way for that, comprimising is the key. When WK brings out this financial talk, JH doesn't seem to ever heard it before hence why it sounded like his excuse/ shifting blaming, if he's willing to talk/ share his burden I believe JH will be more understanding, and why not adjusting the time of marriage coz their career ain't settle (why rushing it much?), but he just won't compromize & close his door without giving her the chance by breaking up.
Her inferiority partly caused by the constant neglect/ belittling from WK side, cause his feelings & standard/ views matters more than hers. Idt SY has this side, but we'll see.
Im having a hard time following thier convo/argument. Even after rewatching it multiple times i still cant seem…
It's painful to see honestly, all the raw emotions are there. But what's saddening me the most is how people so quickly judge, invalidating her feeling & deeming her as delulu when it's not their relationship to speak & clearly JH knows better as the person who experienced it herself, she has valid reason to feel that way. We can also see how strict WK with his view/ standard, the first time they meet again he even highlight how old she is already.
I don't blame WK for highly keep his standard but if it matters that much for him, he shdn't date people who doesn't share similar background/standard as him. He shd hv just date his fellow doctor colleagues/ girls with his age.
He can't date people that he know have different std/view to begin with, without willing to compromize & expect her to only follow his.
When WK want to go for a trip & JH restrain him, he called her controlling . But when it's the other way around, he called her irresponsible. Based on what? Income? I feel like WK subsconciously look down on JH & belittling her needs/ feelings.
His pov is the most important & when he think he can do better, he broke up with her & she has no say in it thus he broke up with her through text, shutting his door for communication.
So idg why would he want JH back if he doesn't want to compromize with her nor understand her pov. It's like talking to a brick & really is frustating to see.
He dated a girl 5 years younger with arts as background & when she change her career, he expect her to settle for new job when it's not even a year (they dated even less than 1 year). If he love her but not settle enough to provide why not adjusting their target & talk it through instead of breaking up, it's only normal to feel doubtful if his feelings was sincere.
This! I can't believe people judge her just because she want to go for a trip, she studied for announcer exam…
Yes but in relationship it doesn't work like that if it is this hard for one to say sorry idk if any relationship will last. He can say sorry for unknowingly hurting her regardless it wasn't his intention (not necessarily has to admit it was his mistake).
Idk I feel what WK say is like an excuse, the real reason why they broke up is coz he think JH didn't bring much into the table & he can do better, WK's goal (marriage) is worth more than JH hence rather than adjusting & communicating their different view in marriage plan, he broke up with her. Imo it's not wrong for JH to think WK just doesn't love her enough.
i always feel sad when i watched JH-WK fight πππ. I get that WK care about her a lot, i agree with what…
This! I can't believe people judge her just because she want to go for a trip, she studied for announcer exam while balancing her work too, knowing SK environment that could be quite stressful & she need that trip to breath (even WK admit that she work hard). One shdn't be judge for it. So it's hurtful for her to hear that WK blame her that it's one of the reason why they broke up & it doesn't make sense for her. They just hv a bad way communication, WK mostly can't express himself/his point, while JH being emotional coz she was hurted. WK didn't try to understand her side of story & never say sorry doesn't help either.
I get that WK is quite stressful for their financial, but to put the burden on her & deem her not serious chasing career is wrong, they don't even date for more than 1 year, he's too impatient.
Is it just me, or does anyone else remember Yeon Ji confessed that she has feelings for Baek Hyun on the terrace…
Yup & it's not even the day before coz it's the same day at dawn (that make BH dozed off at the plane) & later that night in Kamakura, the day hasn't gone passed and she changed her mind already π And yes I think it's only natural for BH to feel doubtful/ confused & told YS coz they're pretty close to eachother.
Yoo Shik get caught in the net, lol, sorry but it's so funny to see his brain get fried like that π despite his situation he handle it all well tho π€£
Jae Hyung might be the greenest from all but he's not "that normal" either for eagerly join that chaos…
Honestly I got this feeling too, contrary to most member who feel surprise (when they know about two ex-es) his first reaction was understanding for how difficult it must hv been (it feels as if he's on the same boat) & now that you said it, right, JH is alone in her room so there's a place to put more people (female catfish) π
Also for people who may forget the reason y they broke up, it's rather her unstable job than any other excuse he's trying to throw, earlier WK even compare other girl's occupation is more stable than his ex. If he's a girl idt people will buy his excuse.
I hope ep 16 will be their closure (it looks like that to me).
So far among all the members I think BH & YN has the higher chance to be the final couple. YNgives BH assurance, certainty that HJ couldn't & BH realize they (BH HJ) will only hurt eachother, so fingerscrossed we can get at least 1 new couple form, or 2 maybe with YS & HJ (not sure if they'll lasted, though).
I didn't expect SY will pull such move in the preview though, I hope he can get his sense back a.s.a.p & stop tainting MK π
No relationship is worthy for anyone to loose themselves in it.
This is a message for my girl JH, & SY!
Even Jae Hyeong, if YY hasn't gone dating his friend all the way back when he's in the military I'm 100% sure he'll start pursuing her here.
No ship show certainty, atp this maybe the first season that I wish for them all to end up solo π€£
They serve us nothing but drama π
There's a limit you can ask a person to adjust themselves to fit yours, they need to meet in the middle to work on that, by mutual respect & trust, communicate better and compromize. With WK I feel like he persist that nothing is wrong with his view & he can't understand how he can think of it differently, so unless he realize that he need to loose some to gain some, they won't be able to work it out.
Shutting down people one sided like what he did in the past will traumatized any people involved so he need to put more effort if he want JH to consider him again.
(he shd handled how they got broke up better, cutting her out just like that through text is like dumping something he no longer needed).
That is something idt WK willing to do so I see no point if he doesn't show he's worthy to earn her trust, the ball is on him rn imho.
Instead of accept her fully & support her when she's at her lowest, he got greedy & dumped her coz he think he can get a better woman than JH, WK admit it himself how he got greedy & only realized later that no one is perfect and regret but he never admit it to JH & instead of apologizing he went circles & shift the blame at her for asking for a trip when she's having a hardtime.
He's also being wishy washy & keep putting himself in questionable position.
So yeah, I can see JH loved him so much hence what he said or do affect her sm but at the same time she got hurted too much & WK never show his regret to JH nor apologized to her, so no unless he admit to JH like what he told viewers, show his regret & learn something from it, it's only natural for JH acting the way she is coz remember he's the one who let go & want her back, not JH.
I don't support them to reunite coz WK admit it himself that he'd do the same if he's in the same position like he was. If he doesn't show his regret so why bother to ask for reunite or even a chance to reassess their relationship.
Trust is earned not given.
Also, you compare a career woman to an actress or someone who just change her field is not making sense. (Some famous actors I follow only has his breakthrough in their late years no matter how hardworking they're & announcers are prestigious carreer in SK with lots of steps).
Hv you seen anyone who achieve her stable position after changing it in less than a year? It doesn't happen instantly or just because you wanted it too. It's not like she's laying around, she studied & work in between all of that too.
Every person has their own pace, not everything has to go by your standard.
Let's not forget that JH has this stable condition only few months after WK dumped her, if only he has more patience.
For financial talk, if both love eachother enough & there's a will from both I believe there's a way for that, comprimising is the key.
When WK brings out this financial talk, JH doesn't seem to ever heard it before hence why it sounded like his excuse/ shifting blaming, if he's willing to talk/ share his burden I believe JH will be more understanding, and why not adjusting the time of marriage coz their career ain't settle (why rushing it much?), but he just won't compromize & close his door without giving her the chance by breaking up.
Her inferiority partly caused by the constant neglect/ belittling from WK side, cause his feelings & standard/ views matters more than hers. Idt SY has this side, but we'll see.
I don't blame WK for highly keep his standard but if it matters that much for him, he shdn't date people who doesn't share similar background/standard as him. He shd hv just date his fellow doctor colleagues/ girls with his age.
He can't date people that he know have different std/view to begin with, without willing to compromize & expect her to only follow his.
But when it's the other way around, he called her irresponsible.
Based on what? Income? I feel like WK subsconciously look down on JH & belittling her needs/ feelings.
His pov is the most important & when he think he can do better, he broke up with her & she has no say in it thus he broke up with her through text, shutting his door for communication.
So idg why would he want JH back if he doesn't want to compromize with her nor understand her pov.
It's like talking to a brick & really is frustating to see.
He dated a girl 5 years younger with arts as background & when she change her career, he expect her to settle for new job when it's not even a year (they dated even less than 1 year). If he love her but not settle enough to provide why not adjusting their target & talk it through instead of breaking up, it's only normal to feel doubtful if his feelings was sincere.
He can say sorry for unknowingly hurting her regardless it wasn't his intention (not necessarily has to admit it was his mistake).
Idk I feel what WK say is like an excuse, the real reason why they broke up is coz he think JH didn't bring much into the table & he can do better, WK's goal (marriage) is worth more than JH hence rather than adjusting & communicating their different view in marriage plan, he broke up with her.
Imo it's not wrong for JH to think WK just doesn't love her enough.
So it's hurtful for her to hear that WK blame her that it's one of the reason why they broke up & it doesn't make sense for her.
They just hv a bad way communication, WK mostly can't express himself/his point, while JH being emotional coz she was hurted. WK didn't try to understand her side of story & never say sorry doesn't help either.
I get that WK is quite stressful for their financial, but to put the burden on her & deem her not serious chasing career is wrong, they don't even date for more than 1 year, he's too impatient.
And yes I think it's only natural for BH to feel doubtful/ confused & told YS coz they're pretty close to eachother.