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Replying to Beyond the Bar Aug 29, 2025
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You're no better, labelling people as such when it has been proven as false in court is criminal.
I hope they sue you for defamation & being held responsible for everything that you typed.
Replying to So Cha Aug 27, 2025
It's showing you the reality. The guy could have been the murderer of the hit & run case but you need definite…
@ Ivy, since you delete your last reply, I'll just leave my reply for it here. The case shd be handled more carefully & open for more witnesses if possible, seek psychiatrist advise, look for other evidence, etc, not solely/heavily relied on her words only.

Thing is her caretaker is also possible saying the truth (for not harming her), they can be accused of something they never do & become a victim too. My point is, you can't take words from a patient with alzheimer as an absolute truth or trust her 100% completely without further checking.

She can be very convincing coz she's not lying & it's truly what she believes/ what she remember, but always spare a room for doubt even for a little & check with third party, forth etc.
Coz it's not only them who can be a victim, the other party could become their victim too.
On Twelve Letters Aug 27, 2025
Whoa minutes ago I don't even know this drama exists but now here I am being all excited & hyped that I get to see another ZYR drama after discovering him from Reborn, that too with interesting plot & 12 ep only!!
On Love Is for the Dogs Aug 27, 2025
Why they're all so cute 😭😭 am truly loving this 🫢 & NIW is so natural & charming with his golden retriever personality here, such a furrball of sunshine similar to his own (iykyk) πŸ₯Ή
Replying to So Cha Aug 27, 2025
It's showing you the reality. The guy could have been the murderer of the hit & run case but you need definite…
All people hv their biases, if experience means biases then well it's a good thing to have coz it means you've learned something, Have a nice day πŸ™ƒ
Replying to So Cha Aug 27, 2025
It's showing you the reality. The guy could have been the murderer of the hit & run case but you need definite…
I say my distrust is coming from experience seeing someone with the same diagnozed myself & nothing is misleading with my saying her memory/what she believe may not be the actual truth.
Let's just put that at rest.
Replying to So Cha Aug 27, 2025
It's showing you the reality. The guy could have been the murderer of the hit & run case but you need definite…
Nope, that's what you want to believe. I always said that the ML are right coz her memory maybe unreliable & what she believe may not actually be the truth. I say may, so there's equal possibility that her memory came of as wrong or true. Why is it that hard to digest? I'm not someone who state her memory as 100% truth when we're only seeing from her pov/ memory only, no one seeing what she's seeing, I'm only saying the ML is right coz you can't trust her memory 100%.

The Light in your Eyes is a drama that can tell you how unreliable yet convincing someone's pov with this diagnosed can be.
Replying to So Cha Aug 27, 2025
It's showing you the reality. The guy could have been the murderer of the hit & run case but you need definite…
"You've decided he's right and she's wrong based on your own biases because you don't want the ML to be wrong here. "

I may hv my own bias but it's not coming from the ML which you accused me to. But coming from my own experience seeing two close people of mine with alzheimer which's the original case that was talked about so I don't see why it become the problem, else it shd be evenmore valid than someone who never see any with the diagnose
Replying to So Cha Aug 27, 2025
It's showing you the reality. The guy could have been the murderer of the hit & run case but you need definite…
Believe what you want to believe, I'm speaking from my own experience seeing my two aunt (mom's elder and younger sis) who both hv been diagnosed with alzheimer & one hv passed away from it, why would I lie just to defend someone who isn't even real.

It's none of my business if you think otherwise, you're the one who already decided that I'm biased regardless what I said
Replying to So Cha Aug 27, 2025
It's showing you the reality. The guy could have been the murderer of the hit & run case but you need definite…
Thing is, it can happen occasionally, sometimes they get better, or get worse or stay that way, so... we can't be sure, just like the case with the lady too, they're patchy, one minute they look ok & then blanked
Replying to So Cha Aug 27, 2025
It's showing you the reality. The guy could have been the murderer of the hit & run case but you need definite…
There's gradual declining stage with alzheimer that determine how far/ unreliable their memory might be.
So I'm sticking to ML's pov are still right, her memory may not as reliable as other people without the diagnosed, what she believe/play in her memory may not be the actual truth.

My other aunt with same diagnose even keep calling her daughter as her older sist so let's just say I hv my reason to say this.
Replying to So Cha Aug 27, 2025
It's showing you the reality. The guy could have been the murderer of the hit & run case but you need definite…
Uhm nope, it's the nature, a good prosecutor can make her more believable than she was but that's her prosecutor's job, not the ML's. The ML is just doing a good job as a lawyer from her oppose party
to find a loophole that is not against the law, in this case being so convincing that the witness herself become unsure, weakening her stand.
How can one be sure for what she's seeing if she doesn't believe it herself.

Both Lawyer & Prosecutor are hired to win their case, that's just nature.

Also coming from alzheimer's POV, real case here, my aunt eat 3 times daily everyday but everytime I ask she always said never, so how is that reliable? It's not discriminatory, it's just their nature.
Replying to So Cha Aug 27, 2025
It's showing you the reality. The guy could have been the murderer of the hit & run case but you need definite…
Remember that what you're seeing is from the lady's POV, so what you think is correct may not be the truth at all, but play from her memory. You can never be sure with it coz her memory may fool her believe completely & not reliable at all.

My aunt had it, it went from forgetting she has her lunch, to loosing her nerve control, to forgetting her own face & waving back when she sees her own face in the mirror as she think it's a stranger face and it will only get worse (no cure for it).

The ML just speak the truth, like it or not, people with alzheimer has unreliable memory thus become unreliable witness.
Replying to ElBee Aug 27, 2025
Have you tried a VPN? It’s worked for me with Viki in the past.
Thanks to you finally I get to watch two ep of them last night & like you said, they're very cute hehe, am truly enjoying their laidback vibes, such a light, breezy watch with adorable human&fluff beings 🀭
Replying to ElBee Aug 26, 2025
Have you tried a VPN? It’s worked for me with Viki in the past.
Gosh, am sorry for the very late reply, idk how did I miss your reply, thanks so much for the links & even with options too, really2 appreciated it πŸ₯ΉπŸ«Ά
On Beyond the Bar Aug 24, 2025
Gosh I'm not into law drama but love every case they show here, really interesting & heartfelt while not taking too much time but enough to bring something into the plate.
Also, idk why people think they took a step backward in the romance dept with ep 7, coz I think of the opposite. Ep 7 laid a great foundation for the romance to move forward, with the leads talking more about private stuff and opening up to eachother, that too after let him make a peace with his past & closing that chapter.
Even the presume future problem has a correlation to romance between colleague that I believe will have something to do/ grand foundation for the leads to be together in the future, esp since the second leads romance were also in the making.
So I'm more optimist this slow burn romance will led into something than nothing πŸ™ƒ
On The Eternal Fragrance Aug 22, 2025
Youku is such a big troll, early 2025 this drama has always been seated in the front row coming soon section as #1 yet every other drama getting released but this one. Luckily I never let myself getting fooled & baited to subscribe over empty words 😀
Replying to tintin92 Aug 22, 2025
any dramas similar to this one? in terms of romance and having a flawed green flag ML.
Try The Package πŸ™ƒ