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Funny I was just responding to something of the same line of your thoughts. There are so many dramas floating around (particularly cdrama, short) where I am foaming with the way fl’s (married plots) are mistreated i am aghast at even the minds behind such productions. Not all but most end up together??? Qualities of HaoMing i see: respectful to his parents, loving and protective of his brother/son, never mean and always treated YuYan like a queen. Now of course his agenda wasn’t good from the gecko, but he has good qualities that if truly repent fully and make amends of the heart, he like anyone can be turned from good to bad. I respect your opinion but that’s just how I see him.

18. Hao Ming in the midst of his busy business dealings asking his assistant how XuYun was tells us that definitely the wheels are turning. He does care more than he realizes and I’m happily loving the she fell first he fell harder arc. Let him grovel and earn it though. :)

I saw a clip of Wen Zheng Rong (hao mings mom) watching the drama and gleefully cheering Lusi when she appeared. Also saw clips showing random people in china (old to very young) glued to the show. I imagine all the people from remote villages too who Lusi supported watching in support. Many celebrities donate which is great and wonderful. Lusi just after recovery from her illness and still not quite fully was already remorseful to her fans and making compensations (for some cancelled events, etc). In her most vulnerable state that wasn’t appealing (perspective of her career), she cared so much for people she approved being filmed to bring awareness to people so they might not suffer from her disease. She visited remote villages of farmers and brought awareness to their products which in turn had people buying. Why is Lusi so well loved? If you want people to say kind words about you while you’re alive, do kind deeds that eases the struggles of others. She has a magnetism that flocks the many.

What’s nice about watching well made shows is being able to expand our perspectives to the random of life that may or may not be applicable to our own, yet experience it through the lens on screen. No matter what though, there’s tons of themes that does apply to everyone.

Lies never get you nowhere in the long run. Short term solutions but it catches up. Solutions can be soft or unredeemable in in aftermath. I’m glad this one is presenting more of a soft redeemable side. Both leads have baggage’s that led them to this facade. However, they are good people at heart who just need to find their true worth and discover what they mean to each other. I’m rooting for them.

Thank you for sharing. I’m with you.

If you’re not hooked by now you probably won’t. That’s ok cuz there’s lots of good ones to pivot to. This drama is excellent to many continuing on.

I think maybe these deep dramas may be too hard for you to comprendo so find something to your taste and liking.

He still doesn’t get it. He pity’s her, still sees her unfortunate side of life. Compensation? All that she did for him in marriage were purely out of love and support. The business partner with the old mother told him she continues to visit his mother. The remnants of her genuine care for Haochen seen in the scrapbook. And so on. He still doesn’t know her and she saw that again in his pitiful offer of a charged card. Good for her. Walk away. The difference in their deceit was that he needed her. She on the other hand loved him. Until he knows her genuine qualities, he doesn’t deserve her.

Really creepy to have that big of screen and mirrors watching all of you. Yikes

Lusi hasn’t been short of offers before or after her illness. It’s her toxic controlling agency who have been sabotaging her at every turn because she wants to leave them.

Do you know this show is my current dopamine. After a day’s of work I go home, stretch out to comfort, and catch up on daily episode. Thinking about it too helps ease the day through thinking of the treat to come. I’m totally into this drama, my happy place.

15 episodes in and it’s so good. Just wow.

15. Another great episode. What is sad to me is that she actually did work hard to build her dream career (hosting). On her own she did. Yes the influence of her marriage boosted it faster than normal but her very own merits are suddenly questioned. In earlier episodes she told HM she doesn’t want his help, she wanted to do it on her own. Everything out the door. I can understand the overwhelming weight and her tiredness from it all. The facade, realism, hitting you in the face is indeed tiring. Impeccable acting once again.

So many calling out XY for her lies but neglecting that Haoming initiated it. Both deceived for their own reason. His was calculating with sole selfish wealthy manipulation purposes. He investigated her, tested her, then courted her after she passed the test. Hers was innocent, falling into his moving plan of falling for him. She did and her lies was to keep him by fitting into his circle. Prior to him she was a hard worker building and climbing in her career. She didn’t him, he needed her. SO, her side is redeemable. For the pain he caused her, I want him groveling to win her back.

Everyone are so good in this drama bringing such good characters you hate em you love them. Chan as Haoming is absolutely amazing in this role. Episode 14…wow. Not to confuse characterizations bc at this point Haoming is ruthlessly cold and heartless, true but the portrayal is excellent. Lusi? The ranges of emotions can’t be easy to portray but it’s like looking at ourselves in those moments of betrayal, the raw pain. Her efforts to forge forward and call truce? Sad. Love her resolve more and the cold look. So me. Ha. Love this so much.

Go where? Away is what I want.

Up to ep 13 so far and it’s very good.

That’s the big appeal for me. She’s stepped into this role which is very different from what we usually see her. This mature, yet sinister like character lets us see her greater range of capabilities and it makes her shine more. She can now be perceived as a potential great investigator, a lawyer, etc. I can anticipate her in these different roles now so I hope she gets squared away with her agency stuff because I’d love to see her continuing growth on screen.

Hao Ming though! Hate him for playing kindhearted Xu Yan, yes. Can’t deny though he’s a very smart calculating businessman.

Good thing this is a show and we can actively anticipate what’s to come and it’s outcome. Living it? What a hell to go through and I wouldn’t be patient at all probably. Darn this is so good!!

Ep 13, so sad. Imagining myself in that situation is unbearable. Therefore, her crumbling world and inner pain I feel. Sad