Kinara

Yep it’s very strange for sure. I usually don’t criticize women’s wardrobes but this one just seemed a little too much.

But corporate culture - at least dress code wise is similar across the world. And that is because a lot of them work with international clients etc

Well with his disorder/ illness romance and caring is never going to be easy. It will all be small shifts. We can’t expect him to be normal. He may improve emotionally and socially a little bit but there is no cure. Yeah viewers expecting a quick fix should go read up about alexithymia to understand it. GuYi will still have to do the heavy lifting even later in the relationship and yes it’s evident that she has some issues as well- her drinking and her attachment to a person like Dianwen and wanting to cure him shows that. It’s complex for sure and that is what is great about it

Yeah her drunken blackouts are in excess. She is an alcoholic. They try to make it look cute and endearing but having an alcohol problem is none of that. In fact they need to stop showing excess drinking on these shows. There is nothing good about alcohol - it just kills your health period!

That it definitely is - very unique drama

There you go!

Same here ! During my time in the workforce I have never seen this

You can dress conservatively and look good in it.

You don’t get my point. Cheap clothes can look good too. It’s not about money

I work in the corporate world and I have not seen anyone dress this badly even if they are in a lower paying job. Like I said finding better fitting clothes is easy - no one is asking for high fashion. She is working as an editor in a. magazine and goes to interview people etc. you can’t dress that way for that kind of a job. This should be a priority in her job. I don’t like that they show women like this - kind of unkempt sorry creatures .

It makes other people respect you too and increase your self esteem. You have to dress for the job - you can’t go in oversize jeans and an ill fitting oversized shirt. In which world is that ok? Thank you for understanding what I mean

You can dress well and be comfortable . All of this is an excuse. No one is asking to spend thousands of dollars but she is working in a professional space and aiming for a promotion. People tend to think appearances don’t matter but that is not true at all. It does and very much so at work. Anyway this is my opinion

Exactly. She is coming on too strong and not giving him time or space to process .

Please check spoiler since a lot of have not watched ep 15 yet. Thank you

Let’s hope ther is improvement

But then all her advice is to come strongly on him and provoke him. It is very contradictory

I don’t agree with that. Dressing well is not just for urban women or educated women.

Well ordinary girls can dress well too. Does not have to be this bad

Another pet peeve of mine: why do they ways dress the FL IN DOWDY, formless, oversized clothes? Is it a sin if she appeared attractive from head to toe? I just don’t get this logic - it’s like every other woman in the drama dresses stylishly while the FL is as frumpy as ever.

So far the FL thinks of this relationship only from her perspective. She looks for his reactions but never thinks that this could all be too overwhelming for him given his condition. No wonder he retracted from her. Plus I don’t know why she asks the SFL for advice and uses her as a sounding board - the SFL has her own issues to deal with given her fantasies about love. The FL should actually
Back off a little bit at this point just so he can figure out what his feelings are . This over closeness is not doing it