Kinara

I am going to ask you the same question what would you do if you come to know that the person who you love has lied to you constantly and has had ulterior motive since the beginning? She pursued him- she sent him all the flirty messages. He took his time to come around but from that time he was committed to her - you could see that from everything he did. She made him very insecure. Now she wants to be professional? Those lines were blurred by her a long time ago

He cutting her off is fair. Her interviewing somebody else for her career is fair. But she mixed personal and professional when she dated him. And he is allowed to feel hurt especially now that he came to know her motives. He is not that cold of a person . People don’t think straight when they are hurt and right now he is. While she is just thinking about her career as she always has . There is a big difference here

She even said she cannot advise her now because she is in a different place and can’t think about it . Seriously? After helping the FL to create this mess?

Absolutely- she has messed the whole thing up

There is nothing ‘unique’ about her . She is a self serving flake. Also there is nothing wrong with him trying to analyze her motive for approaching him- because she sent many mixed signals . It took him a while to figure out if she was genuinely interested in him even. So I am not surprised that he was cautious and suspicous

Exactly this is an unusual drama- not your normal rom com- I am enjoying it

Agreed. Some people here are trying so hard to defend her and find so called faults in the ML

Well she did use him for her career- she got a lot of opportunities through him. I am actually not surprised the ML thought those things. When was she ever clear about any of her intentions. But yes if left to her she would have left the relationship open ended with no explanation nothing. Even if he ended it - why not - there was not much left there after that incident.

Those lines got blurred for both of them when she started pursuing him and they started dating. Plus she used all their dates to move her career forward. What professionalism are we talking about here? BTW the ML is allowed to be hurt and choose not work with her. That’s his righr

I am only talking about the character . What she did was wrong. Shi Yan is a reserved and shy character - so what? Is that his fault . I don’t get your logic here. I am done trying to get my point across- it’s too tiresome. It’s almost like we are not watching the same drama. let’s leave it at this . The FL obviously likes the ML and the ML does like her too - now you want her to go after Yi Yang? As though everything happening now is not enoug. I am glad that are not the writer. But I am done responding

I don’t think it matters who chased whom - in every drama there is one person teaching the other. Here she had ulterior motives for chasing him. He became interested to n her. He always left the choices in the relationship to her because he did not know what her true intentions were. Also who said he started and ended it ? When she decided not to give him an explanation and apologize when everything was in the open, she ended it.

Well she did mix professional and personal when she wanted her work done- now she cannot be like I want to separate the two LOL. When she started pursuing him and they started dating those lines were already blurred.

Well there are many different variety od women between a bimbo and a gold digger- it does not have to be one or the other. You have a very narrow outlook

Whatever she was not serious at all that was very evident. It’s ok to love your job more than don’t start a relationship if you can’t be serious about it. Everyone has a choice. - there is no need to fuck it up like this

Welll Shuyi confused him too

Well of a woman had said that about their boyfriend you all would have felt sad. THE ML in this drama is more emotional and has a higher EQ than the FL. And it has nothing to do with being a ceo and not childish at all. Because she has not made him feel special from the beginning

Yeah that was something

A gold digger actually much simpler than someone like this lol because all they want is your money. Women like the FL will suck your feelings and leave you for dead

No worries

But she was not by his side. She should have said something when everything came into the open . She has never made a single effort from her side for this relationship. She has only been a taker. What do you mean she did not see other guys. Who goes on a blind date when they have a boyfriend . She was even refusing to declare him as her boyfriend while he had accepted her as his girlfriend. She wants to keep everything under wraps? Some sincerity that is. When something is wrong then admit that it is wrong. Every human has their limit. Shi Yan would have still been with her if she had laid everything in the open and apologized. Why should he put up with everything that she does? Not necessary - in a relationship there needs to be some rules as well. With her behavior they will have a disastrous relationship in the long run