Delusional doormat with no boundaries chases most boring man ever as if written by a 12yo in the back of their school book. But I may have just been in a bad mood at the time. What did you like about it?
Just because of your comment I had to start watching. Today is my day for firsts in Cdramas- first h@ndj*b and…
lol truth. I'm having to ration the "time travelling grandma whips her grandsons into place" ones to use as wholesome palate cleansers after a run of eg my uncle-in-law wants to be my dog
Uhm… one of the weirdest dramas I’ve seen so far. Synopsis: FL is a succubus (?!!!?) and needs (?) to have…
Just because of your comment I had to start watching. Today is my day for firsts in Cdramas- first h@ndj*b and now first succubus. Despite being prepared, I am even more surprised that the opening lines turn traditional lust vampire into a luck generating system, sounds more like a digital implant for making men into money generating vapes than anything more racy. The subs are making the weirdness even weirder, first meet at the office : she's talking about touching fish and he's talking about pointing longswords. What the 6 pack???!!
I liked her calm comebacks, so low key cool, and her dance costume ear cuffs. I liked his vampy bad boy make-up and hair combined with general pouty fineness. I also liked the SFL's jazz bar singer voice but that one scorched barrel curl really wanted cutting -what a missed moment with his knife .
But I just didn't feel much of anything with the rest, am I jaded or were the chemistry, stakes and twists just a bit lacking?
The most I felt was fury over the ring when I thought it was his engagement ring with SFL as that added an extra layer of humiliation- finding out it was actually his dead mother's keepsake just made me confused -like is this actually his twisted trust in her and symbolic of how he can't yet separate love from punishment? And then I shrugged and moved on.
The only enjoyable bit of this was the confrontation scene with the mother. Don't be deceived by the unique handling of a ubiquitous vertical drama trope- this is overall a weak and bland story about how pumpkin porridge can apparently fix anything (with some side assists from a yellow umbrella).
This is my third version of this story, with the first having Ke Chun as ML and second having Wang Xuan. It was less angsty and less blush-inducing but it wasn't lacking.
This Ximen Li Chen was more playful flirty with less overtly physical teasing of the other two. He threw her around less but smilingly dominated her more in their interactions; leaving her pouting at being played but barely putting up resistance. (Anyone else occasionally felt like they were watching Tan Jan Ci and Ni Ni tribute acts playing around?)
This is a reverse of the dynamic in Wang Xuan version (with Ke Chun somewhere in the middle IIRC). There is also less sensual push and pull and more intangible playful couple chemistry. I like both types and each fits its story.
They seem to respond to the break-up differently too - he is less hurt or angry or bewildered by their break-up than the emotions of the other versions (which makes sense as it has less back story) and it's more like the break-up honed his determination to protect their relationship to sharper levels.
A key line in this story is ML saying "I am your dog". The other two also show they are her dog with their puppy eyes, acting clingy and scheming and eager to be used as her weapon. When this Ximen Lichen says it it feels ironic. Even when he claims to be turned on by her controlling his vision it feels more like him teasing her than honest kink sharing. If anything he feels more like her guard dog - circling around her, straight forward and decisive, instantly acting to obliterate any threats -reminds me of Prince is Too Wild. He only does her bidding to not go to far with vengeance - she just about leashes him and more with her gentleness than her power. The other two versions encourage her be wilful- they will back her up so she can unleash herself.
Despite the more traditional male centric power dynamic, I feel like there is something different going on in their intimacy than usually shown.
He takes on personal body-altering responsibility for the contraception, opting for male pill (at side effect risk to himself)-- my first time seeing this in any drama from anywhere and I'm still so shocked I wondered if it was a pharmacological/TCM sponsorship plug rather than spotlight on gender inequality. But kudos for having those conversations regardless- that alone is its own kind of mature sexy.
And ....I'm not sure... but when she has been drugged ...and he calls the Dr (so one point in favour of issue of consent), and other meds are tried... the Dr suggests "manual relief" ... and after she recovers he is shown still wearing his shirt when she is bashful and bare-shouldered under sheets... it feels like rather than taking advantage of her situation for his own gratification , he took those words literally!
There is a level of respect and centering of her pleasure and convenience as well as a nod to the issues of birth control and consent in their intimate interactions. It also makes him look like a really skilled lover, considerate and reliable - a stark and heart-stirring contrast to wildly pulling a gun and shooting his nephew's hand nearly off.
Whilst I prefer the more empowered and seductive FL in other versions, this FL still stands her ground to her father, his family etc. I can appreciate that here, beneath the typical FL submission to the ML, is a different variant of him giving power to her that doesn't rely on his wealth or status or her efforts to control or charm but comes from character and healthy relationship. It's more relatable and seems to say "expect more: even if there are no wealthy domineering slightly dangerous CEO uncles-in-law ready to wreck the world for you even years after you've dumped him- a real man will proactively share responsibility for birth control and learn how to give quality "manual relief" ".
There were times it was sizzling - teasing fingernail down begging lips in the car for eg. There were times it was smoking- in a really bad way- let's not make lung cancer promotion part of our kisses now please. And then I have no words to describe the ridiculous hit of a kiss where, from a group of grapes lolling loosely on the counter (now magically devoid of the previously spilled milk), exactly 3 get isolated and crushed (with one even having its close-up time to shine giving a little wine). All the tension broken for me with that weirdly staged spurt and instead tears of laughter.
3 red grapes, see how they roll, they're all crushed under the uncle's wife who made them squirt without using a knife did you ever see such a thing in your life as 3 mushed grapes
Fun and funnier as it went on culminating in an ending that makes so much satisfying sense I wonder why I've not seen it before. My final thought was that if he thought the period pain was bad...
Link w/subs: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NIFK_xKsM9ohttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=30wpn0Adl4Ihttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W6ioXiwtI_khttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BQcaityB7Bchttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DX7ImKGuO5Uhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HWCgZJESlKQhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=doDnSXQfk9ohttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OCQeto3340ghttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qqS92otcV7whttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aNz2PthJy-4*More…
best subs on the last v=HWC link but ads over the ending. v=DX7 link doesn't start from the very beginning
Low key vexed by ML being praised ,(several times too!), for studliness in achieving FL triplet pregnancy. As if the number of eggs released by her ovaries/ cell division at conception had anything to do with him above and beyond the usual -he didn't 8pack his way into a multiple for goodness sake.
the subs on dailymotion , under title "Utterly Submit" (still Ke Chun version) , are better than the version on rumble.com IMHO. part 1 https://dai.ly/x9kjl5q part 2 https://dai.ly/x9kjqyg
The chemistry between these two, and I don't just mean tension or kissing scenes but also the vibe of tacit understanding, is one of my faves ever. If anyone finds another pair similar to this please let me know.
Too much smoking for me, and not of the hot kind. In the right mood I like a toxic red flag ML but something about…
1. The drugged scene: for once handled right without losing any of the change in r/s plot progression benefits. Others should learn from this.
2. The mean adopted parents ultimately standing up for their girl in a surprise healing moment.
3. The aunt & guns scene: at last I see that trope of narcissistic family member threatening suicide to force marriage turned on its head and manipulative bullshit called out.
Thinking about it, I liked how they did this dodgy dynamic with a little side eye at transgressing boundaries. "gentle!" . That was sophisticated sexy.
Too much smoking for me, and not of the hot kind. In the right mood I like a toxic red flag ML but something about this felt more comedy than steamy to me. What I especially liked :
But I just didn't feel much of anything with the rest, am I jaded or were the chemistry, stakes and twists just a bit lacking?
The most I felt was fury over the ring when I thought it was his engagement ring with SFL as that added an extra layer of humiliation- finding out it was actually his dead mother's keepsake just made me confused -like is this actually his twisted trust in her and symbolic of how he can't yet separate love from punishment? And then I shrugged and moved on.
This Ximen Li Chen was more playful flirty with less overtly physical teasing of the other two. He threw her around less but smilingly dominated her more in their interactions; leaving her pouting at being played but barely putting up resistance. (Anyone else occasionally felt like they were watching Tan Jan Ci and Ni Ni tribute acts playing around?)
This is a reverse of the dynamic in Wang Xuan version (with Ke Chun somewhere in the middle IIRC). There is also less sensual push and pull and more intangible playful couple chemistry. I like both types and each fits its story.
They seem to respond to the break-up differently too - he is less hurt or angry or bewildered by their break-up than the emotions of the other versions (which makes sense as it has less back story) and it's more like the break-up honed his determination to protect their relationship to sharper levels.
A key line in this story is ML saying "I am your dog". The other two also show they are her dog with their puppy eyes, acting clingy and scheming and eager to be used as her weapon. When this Ximen Lichen says it it feels ironic. Even when he claims to be turned on by her controlling his vision it feels more like him teasing her than honest kink sharing. If anything he feels more like her guard dog - circling around her, straight forward and decisive, instantly acting to obliterate any threats -reminds me of Prince is Too Wild. He only does her bidding to not go to far with vengeance - she just about leashes him and more with her gentleness than her power. The other two versions encourage her be wilful- they will back her up so she can unleash herself.
Despite the more traditional male centric power dynamic, I feel like there is something different going on in their intimacy than usually shown.
He takes on personal body-altering responsibility for the contraception, opting for male pill (at side effect risk to himself)-- my first time seeing this in any drama from anywhere and I'm still so shocked I wondered if it was a pharmacological/TCM sponsorship plug rather than spotlight on gender inequality. But kudos for having those conversations regardless- that alone is its own kind of mature sexy.
And ....I'm not sure... but when she has been drugged ...and he calls the Dr (so one point in favour of issue of consent), and other meds are tried... the Dr suggests "manual relief" ... and after she recovers he is shown still wearing his shirt when she is bashful and bare-shouldered under sheets... it feels like rather than taking advantage of her situation for his own gratification , he took those words literally!
There is a level of respect and centering of her pleasure and convenience as well as a nod to the issues of birth control and consent in their intimate interactions. It also makes him look like a really skilled lover, considerate and reliable - a stark and heart-stirring contrast to wildly pulling a gun and shooting his nephew's hand nearly off.
Whilst I prefer the more empowered and seductive FL in other versions, this FL still stands her ground to her father, his family etc. I can appreciate that here, beneath the typical FL submission to the ML, is a different variant of him giving power to her that doesn't rely on his wealth or status or her efforts to control or charm but comes from character and healthy relationship. It's more relatable and seems to say "expect more: even if there are no wealthy domineering slightly dangerous CEO uncles-in-law ready to wreck the world for you even years after you've dumped him- a real man will proactively share responsibility for birth control and learn how to give quality "manual relief" ".
There were times it was smoking- in a really bad way- let's not make lung cancer promotion part of our kisses now please.
And then I have no words to describe the ridiculous hit of a kiss where, from a group of grapes lolling loosely on the counter (now magically devoid of the previously spilled milk), exactly 3 get isolated and crushed (with one even having its close-up time to shine giving a little wine). All the tension broken for me with that weirdly staged spurt and instead tears of laughter.
3 red grapes,
see how they roll,
they're all crushed under the uncle's wife
who made them squirt without using a knife
did you ever see such a thing in your life
as 3 mushed grapes
v=DX7 link doesn't start from the very beginning
part 1 https://dai.ly/x9kjl5q
part 2 https://dai.ly/x9kjqyg
2. The mean adopted parents ultimately standing up for their girl in a surprise healing moment.
3. The aunt & guns scene: at last I see that trope of narcissistic family member threatening suicide to force marriage turned on its head and manipulative bullshit called out.
Thinking about it, I liked how they did this dodgy dynamic with a little side eye at transgressing boundaries. "gentle!" . That was sophisticated sexy.