Lanzhan

Im in ep 18 ending, I would like to say that I personally think Luke defenders are people pleasers, especially men pleasers . Can you also stop defending him, especially when he messes up? Yes, I know Flora is not always a perfect person, but Luke fucking mess things up. it’s his own fault, whatever he does. The girl is proposing him to for marriage. She wants to marry this guy saying if she meets the right person, she wants to get married, lets let’s go shopping and movies,let’s raise Luke together, and what does he have to say that he never thought about it?

What hurts the most was that he was genuine about it. This time he was not trying to say something harsh because he was angry or hurt. This is really how he felt. Flora put it well. There’s just an invisible wall between them, and they can’t see past that. I’m proud of my girl as to how much she’s grown as a person and how clearly she sees the situation. She doesn’t blame Luke for anything because it was all her choices.
But I do blame Luke because I thought he loved her and that he would want something permanent with her. Boy still has a long way to go.

Just watched ep 17.
Lumi her best friend was there in the city and she never told her what wqs going on. But Lumi didn’t ask her that. She just hugged her and said its okay.
But Luke her ‘boyfriend’ was angry she never told him even when he asked. Its okay to be angry and be sad that she couldn’t trust him. But the words after? Also on the call he said she will be the most easy target?

People are so focused on defending Luke not being a red flag. Idc if he is a red flag or not. But when it matters Luke always says the most harsh words that hurts.

When she said Luan Nian it broke my heart.

Letting everything go since he apologised. I leave it to Shang ZiTao if she wants to hold anymore resentment for future.

I was successful, but am watching all the spoilers from insta.
Cant even defend my girl cause i havent watched the eps fully.

I didnt watch because there was no good scenes to look forward to and im not mentally not prepared for their break up

I want to let it marinate for 3 to 4 days cause i know the break up eps are coming but i watching every single content i come by . How will i stop myself from watching the ep.
Thought i would be so glad when they break up but Luke learnt to become a better bf. Or atleast they have a label and its proper relationship. And now that i have seen him being a better guy for her, i know they didn’t have to break up.

Luke becoming the perfect boyfriend. He even asked for her friend’s investment. Genuine efforts are always appreciated.this is hhow you do it my boy. So soo proud of you

I was waiting for them to break up for a while now, but these 2 past eps were so god. They are finally like boyfriend and girlfriend. Communicating. Being each others support system. Finally going on the path of a good relationship. Now i dont want them to break up. I would still like to see him grovel but hes good now so i can accept him as he is

Luan Nian the dad who likes to spoil his kid. Hes all talk and no action. He gave Luke treats after he smashed his house. Luan Nian really is so cute

Also he learned to compliment his girl. And when he does shes so happy. Happy gf happy life. Luke is finally seeing it

The level of communication they have reached? Im so proud of them. She always expresses her feelings and he reciprocates and is always listening. Its a proper a relationship. Not perfect but we are on the right track finally .

All i would like to say is kdrama men and cdrama men are still just men with a few exceptions. Just because they are good looking dont forget they are men. There’s always a power imbalance and most men dont care or notice it. Some even use it to their advantage. Its romantic sometimes but i feel its because our brains have been tuned to think so.
Also being good to their women doesnt erase the bad they have done. Especially when they dont even acknowledge their mistakes and correct them.
So we have to hold them accountable. Its tiring but thats how it is when u want romance. Luke is handsome yes but let us not fall for his looks and genuine affections here and there. If anything i hate such men the most. They make you go crazy because you know they are good person and do care about you. I would prefer a complete bad guy over someone like him so its easier to end that.

Dont call this guy a green flag even after todays ep pls. Those were some very harsh words to say even to a subordinate, especially one that is excellent in her role.
Just because he realised it soon doesn’t make it better. Because guys thats not the only thing he did wrong. They are in a loop, fighting, misunderstanding, luke throwing out some harsh words and then coming back with puppy eyes. Not gonna work all the time. I wish for my girl to be free of this man

Who loves more, that simple game of head flicks told us that. She couldn’t even hurt him in a game. Atleast boy regretted it and kept checking her later. Otherwise i wouldn’t have any redeeming factor to see after that.
Reminded me of that one kdrama where the couple broke up over that. In that case the ml was just laughing after flicking his gf.

If Sheng Zitao pisses you off then you may have to consider this:
Is it because she reminds you of yourself or someone you know. Is that anger and annoyance towards yourself who couldn’t break free from a situation.

Pen and umbrella i dont care. Byut flowers in trash? You heartless man. That was such a beautiful bunch of flowers. All you had to do was to shut up and deliver them to her.

I think i will do the opposite. Only look at the bad parts and end it. I feel that if i dont protect myself people take advantage of that. This society has ruined my chance of finding true love

As a girl i always relate with the girls more. Maybe its stupid but its difficult for me to be very understanding of men. We are so ready to understand men and to forgive them. Its because of his past, he has wounds, he really likes her but just cant communicate. While i see all that i choose to ignore them. Atleast till he apologises. Why are we so eager to forgive a man who has not even apologised.
Does he see her pain? Why she behaves the way she does. Why she hides her insecurities. Every reaction of hers is just that. A reaction to his action

When you are sick you want to be taken care by someone. And those actions of his are touching. No matter the fight these are the moments when he has to show up. I will melt too. This is a chance for them to talk about what is wrong in the relationship as well. Which we know isnt happening but atleast his love is real. And thats why hes the Ml after all those stupid things he does.

One more thing to forgive him for and get back in the future.

Got too annoyed with the miscommunication part that i forgot the good parts. The way he holds her hand . I almost forgot i actually like this guy when they were good. Not like i loved those moments.
The way he grabs her hand, the way he looks at her smiles , the way he kisses her. But most of all i cant forget that he is still an idiot who doesnt say nice words to his gf

Couldnt have put it better. Yes i cant wait for her to dump him. Girl deserves better

Her mistake at the company? His reaction to that was the worst. Yes, as the boss he scolded her and she accepted that. But hes not only her boss but her “bf”. He should have later consoled her in private and should have apologised.
Why apologise? For being harsh with her and say sorry he cant do anything about it since they are company rules. Flora knows that too. But hearing he feels bad about it can atleast make her feel better, thats he cares about her emotions as well.