I donât think he understands love the way most people do. He only understands possession and power. He just…
Iâm not sure that justifies everything. Saying he has no redeeming qualities simply because heâs been traumatized is an oversimplification of his character. Trauma explains some wounds, but it doesnât necessarily erase all morality or the ability to make choices. Many broken people still find ways to love, protect, or change. Itâs not just about surviving itâs about deciding how to survive.
The fact that he has suffered betrayals, losses, and pain doesnât automatically make his vices justifiable or his inability to love excusable. We can acknowledge his suffering, but thatâs all. If he has the capacity to think and plan, he also has the capacity to choose to be better, even in small ways but he refuses. Itâs not trauma that makes him cruel; itâs his obsession and narcissism.
In short, we can understand his past without turning it into an excuse for him to remain a monster. Saving or protecting Qian Qian isnât love itâs just disguised control, the power to decide for her.
A bad man can choose to act better toward his wife or loved ones, but that doesnât make him heroic if he continues committing atrocities toward others. In the novel, his character is deeply controlling and narcissistic. Choosing the wrong path is a decision, not a fatality. He wants to make others suffer as he has suffered. His reasoning is sharp he could show good qualities but by killing those who follow him, they began to fear him and lose trust, which explains why he continues to be betrayed and abandoned.
Ultimately, he has chosen to be a monster toward the people around him, despite his great intelligence. Thatâs why I think he simply hasnât met someone capable of awakening his sensitivity and steering him onto a different path.
I donât think he understands love the way most people do. He only understands possession and power. He just…
Indeed, he doesnât understand, and his paranoia only amplifies his madness. But heâs not truly insane he has traumas, yes, but he thinks very clearly, even far better than Sui Yuanqing. The problem is that he simply isnât genuinely moved by Qian Qian, and she doesnât make him feel the need to be better toward her.
She doesnât inspire him to hide his darkness; if anything, she seems to reinforce his vices. He has never tried to show his best side to her. Thatâs exactly why Qian Qian was so worried about him finding her all sheâs ever known from him is the darkest side of this man.
He is trash tbh the way he treats humans, i just can't like him đđAlso he just wants the FL cus she feels…
Heâs honestly a complete lunatic and a monster. I donât like his character either. I see so many edits that romanticize his relationship with Qian Qian, even though there is absolutely no love in it. Itâs just a woman trapped with a deranged man.
More I think about it, the more Iâm convinced that Qin Min doesnât truly love Qian Qian. Heâs simply obsessed with her. If he really loved her, he would have made the effort to change and become better for her. Even the cruelest man can show tenderness and affection toward the woman he sincerely loves. Qin Min probably believes that he loves her, but in reality heâs fascinated by the fact that Qian Qian never tries to please him or bend to his will. Heâs the type of man who becomes addicted to what he cannot have, drawn to the unreachable. He has never stopped himself from seeking other women, and he never even tried to love the child they had together. That alone shows that what he feels isnât real love. In my opinion, if Qian Qian had eventually given in and fully submitted to his expectations, his obsession would have simply shifted to another unreachable target. His behavior feels both narcissistic and somewhat masochistic. It even makes me think that he doesnât truly understand what love or romantic affection really is. He seems like the kind of man who, after completely crushing and breaking Qian Qian, would eventually meet a woman who is the complete opposite of her and fall in love for the first time. And only then would he be willing to do anything for her, even change.
The general and his commanders are on horseback while the soldiers have to run just to keep up with them what madness đđ. But I love battle scenes đ.
Xie Zhang was so savage in the confrontation scene with Sui Yuanqing. I really needed a scene like that where he completely farms aura in a battle. đ„đ„
I know he likes CY I mean how can he not? The girl is a gem. But she's taken and he should know that seeing as…
I wish his character were more decisive and acted on his own desires, unlike in the novel. I just hope he doesnât become a problem for our protagonists.
When Li Huai saw the divorce letter, he smiled subtly. My friend, youâre not even on the waiting list⊠because there isnât one đ. My girl has only Yan Zeng on her mind. I wonder when he started falling for her. Heâs the type to fall for married women đ. He clearly saw that Xie Zheng was serious about his wife and that she was obviously attracted to him. Li Huai⊠you really like to hurt yourself.
I have a few recommendations. Theyâre not exactly what youâre looking for, but theyâre really good novels.
At your own risk the novel and the drama have major differences, but the novel is explicit and the practices are really old-school. Wei Shao can be truly cruel and untrustworthy đ.
I have a few recommendations. Theyâre not exactly what youâre looking for, but theyâre really good novels.
Ah, I forgot to mention the first one you might know by another name (The Prisoner of Beauty). So just skip it and go straight to the others; itâs a rather difficult read
I have a few recommendations. Theyâre not exactly what youâre looking for, but theyâre really good novels.
The Marquis Is Innocent: really good. A political marriage that turns into a powerful love between two intelligent characters, with plenty of tension and war. A very good read. Transmigrated as the Princess Consort of a Fallen Nation: a very good novel, youâll see. Thereâs war, a smart female lead, and a male lead skilled in martial arts. The Rebirth of the Malicious Empress of Military Lineage: you absolutely have to read this masterpiece. The Long Ballad: it also has a drama adaptation. Return of the Male Phoenix: very political, with a bit of enemies-to-lovers. Very interesting. Border Camp Little Cook: by the same author as Chasing Jade. These are my favorite historical novels.
The fact that he has suffered betrayals, losses, and pain doesnât automatically make his vices justifiable or his inability to love excusable. We can acknowledge his suffering, but thatâs all. If he has the capacity to think and plan, he also has the capacity to choose to be better, even in small ways but he refuses. Itâs not trauma that makes him cruel; itâs his obsession and narcissism.
In short, we can understand his past without turning it into an excuse for him to remain a monster. Saving or protecting Qian Qian isnât love itâs just disguised control, the power to decide for her.
A bad man can choose to act better toward his wife or loved ones, but that doesnât make him heroic if he continues committing atrocities toward others. In the novel, his character is deeply controlling and narcissistic. Choosing the wrong path is a decision, not a fatality. He wants to make others suffer as he has suffered. His reasoning is sharp he could show good qualities but by killing those who follow him, they began to fear him and lose trust, which explains why he continues to be betrayed and abandoned.
Ultimately, he has chosen to be a monster toward the people around him, despite his great intelligence. Thatâs why I think he simply hasnât met someone capable of awakening his sensitivity and steering him onto a different path.
She doesnât inspire him to hide his darkness; if anything, she seems to reinforce his vices. He has never tried to show his best side to her. Thatâs exactly why Qian Qian was so worried about him finding her all sheâs ever known from him is the darkest side of this man.
Qin Min probably believes that he loves her, but in reality heâs fascinated by the fact that Qian Qian never tries to please him or bend to his will. Heâs the type of man who becomes addicted to what he cannot have, drawn to the unreachable.
He has never stopped himself from seeking other women, and he never even tried to love the child they had together. That alone shows that what he feels isnât real love. In my opinion, if Qian Qian had eventually given in and fully submitted to his expectations, his obsession would have simply shifted to another unreachable target.
His behavior feels both narcissistic and somewhat masochistic. It even makes me think that he doesnât truly understand what love or romantic affection really is.
He seems like the kind of man who, after completely crushing and breaking Qian Qian, would eventually meet a woman who is the complete opposite of her and fall in love for the first time. And only then would he be willing to do anything for her, even change.
My girl has only Yan Zeng on her mind. I wonder when he started falling for her. Heâs the type to fall for married women đ. He clearly saw that Xie Zheng was serious about his wife and that she was obviously attracted to him.
Li Huai⊠you really like to hurt yourself.
Transmigrated as the Princess Consort of a Fallen Nation: a very good novel, youâll see. Thereâs war, a smart female lead, and a male lead skilled in martial arts.
The Rebirth of the Malicious Empress of Military Lineage: you absolutely have to read this masterpiece.
The Long Ballad: it also has a drama adaptation.
Return of the Male Phoenix: very political, with a bit of enemies-to-lovers. Very interesting.
Border Camp Little Cook: by the same author as Chasing Jade.
These are my favorite historical novels.