Nana

You are right. But still, reminds us of vampires lol but you are right

I thought I was over my vampire phase but this drama taught me wrong, vampire with white hair, baby face and deep voice and I’m all to my twilight phase again.

Right? They did a vampire but are not calling him vampire, ok lol

Yes

I don’t blame him either, but is a toxic relationship, at least for now, it will cause lots of suffering. But I’m enjoying the ride, all three males have their reasonings I don’t hate any of them.

You say you study psychology, are you a psychologist? Because I doubt any psychologist would see a engaged guy who has total notion he can’t break his engagement alone and cannot leave his clan to be with a girl asks her for fifty years of her life, dates her secretly, knowing he cannot be with her and say it is not toxic. It is clear it is a il fated relation that will hurt both parts. If he breaks his engagement and asks to be with her ok, but he literally asked her to wait for him because he knows he cannot break his engagement! How is this not toxic?

I think you need to educate yourself in what is a toxic relationship. Also, I would read mu comment with more attention. He is sweet, he is caring, and he does not mean to hurt her, but he does hurt her. That is my point. All three hurt her.

Is toxic because she suffers. Just because he does not mean it, does not mean it is not toxic.

But those are Yizhan crazy shippers not exactly untamed fans

But those are Yizhan crazy shippers not exactly untamed fans

It is not only him tho, Her father wants XY and A Nian to get along and resolve their problem. Also, XY hides most of what A Nian does to her from Xuan.

Why is that?

But she wanted it, she got what she wanted. She could have protected herself, but she is self destructing.

It is a fantasy, xianxia. Pain and torture are always present if it disturbes you so much maybe you should avoid the genre. I mean, in other xianxias you get the ML removing the FL eyes, FL killing ML, ML raping FL, so, yes, a lot of abusive scenes.

He always loved her but hides it.

Yes but the third guy is also toxic because he is so sweet and caring but is engaged

I’m on the same place

She is still living in destructive mode and XL gives her the taste of self destruction

I started reading the novel yesterday and now I understand Jing more, I think the drama did not put his situation clearly so it seems he makes lots of empty promises, but I do think Xuan is very unfortunate. He likes her and is so jealous of Jing, always asking her about her dates with Jing, with a casual attitude but suffering deep inside. Reminds me of Li Cheng Yin because both though they could only show their love to the girl after fulfilling their ambition of power. The moment she have her princess ceremony, Xuan feels mad inside, because he is jealous, he wants her only for himself, shows his controlling nature. Jing feels empty, because deep inside he thinks he can’t have her, shows his insecure nature. Is very foreshadowing of their future relations.

Still no team, too soon. I like XL for the hotness, Jing is super romantic, Xuan reminds me of Li Cheng Yin, well I like the three for now, but I don’t know if either deserve her.