Odessa_lady

Exactly! Yi knows how much that ex hurt Pleng, and instead of clawing ex’s eyes out and kicking him away from Pleng he turns around and leaves his boyfriend with a potentially dangerous dude??? Really??? Where’s all that sass some people here were admiring?

You are so right - women must be pretty much on a brink of extinction in the BL world, especially after a rain season. Darn, even taking a bath is a dangerous feat! I mean, they have nobody to dry their hair or give them a wet towel rubdown! Not one soul to catch them when they trip on their own feet, or perform a band-aid surgery on their nicked finger…
No wonder that in some BL universes women are no more… not that I’m complaining, of course 😉

Thank you very much :) I have noticed this theme going through lots of Asian series, I was just hoping that it was being massively exaggerated for the sake of drama 😔

So, that adult dude was stringing Ray along, making him cross dress, and cheating on him (and on his other partners). I know this relationship is legal in Taiwan, but I really hope Ray actually likes to cross dress and not just does it for that manwhore. Ray is gorgeous in any clothes and I hope he gets his sweet revenge on that guy 😈

Looks like a great series from Taiwan! Not surprised as the director is awesome 🤩
Can’t wait to see the story progression.
All actors are great - I really wanted to strangle one of the characters, so his actor did a good job 😊 I guess my motive goes into a spoiler 😉

Thank you so much for explaining and sharing! I’m so glad you and your brother were able to tell your parents and they took it well - I can only imagine how scary it was for both of you! Your brother is very lucky to have you supporting him!
As for being “1st gen” in America, yeah, I understand - my daughter is one, too 😊 I can certainly helicopter with the best of them, but I try not to, and she understands me, when I do, which is good for both of us 😂
The best of luck to you and your family! 🍀😊🙏

Thank you so much :) I’m glad you got to terms with your family and to better relationship - that’s one of the most important things to me, too :)
I totally understand Pam’s trauma, that’s why I am not even taking her into consideration in my scenario - she definitely wouldn’t rebel without a huge reason. I was rather counting on grandma - she is very cute and vibrant, doesn’t seem to be scared of talking some sense into her hubby. But I guess she loves him too much to really confront him, no matter how softly and lovingly.
Overall, I like the show and all this commotion around grandpa is necessary for the plot, of course, I just wanted to know more about the culture of the country :)
Thank you again, and good luck to you! 😊

Question for those who knows Thai culture, and thank you very much in advance 😊🙏

Is grandpa’s behavior normal?

No disrespect, it just looks to me that both grandma and Pam are enabling his bad behavior. If I were in grandma’s place, I would sit him down and explain that our granddaughter is a financially independent adult. And if he keeps up his antics she can leave us forever as he’s getting on her last nerve (and on mine as well). Oh, and please don’t fake a heart attack or your ass is going to the hospital and stays there until you come to your senses.
Now, I understand that he loves Pam and wants to protect her, but he’s suffocating her in the process.

Is it just me with my cultural differences?

Ikr! It’s a must for any self-respecting soap opera! I wonder if whoever came up with this trope first is getting royalties - they must be super rich! 😂

That’s a relief! Thank you so much! 🤩🙏

Thank god I’m not in a BL - I’d be left to die if I were, you know, being a woman… 🤣

Yes, we can work these items into the list, thank you 😊
Although, when I’m down with the cold, I don’t care how hunky you are - stay the hell away from me with your wet towel ‘cause I’m freezing here under my blanket! 😂

I know, but I guess the writers don’t 🤣

Whatever do you mean “we aren’t here to learn life lessons from BL shows “??? 😱
I was just getting ready to inform my husband that I am never again cooking using a knife or a hot anything; I am never again going outside if I see a drop of rain; I am not attempting to get out of the swimming pool without his full support, and I am switching all my shoelaces to velcro. I might be missing a couple more points, though…
I suppose we should make a list of BL Life Lessons - what do you think? 🧐

Very true :)

Oh, ok :) so that whole threesome thing is the show’s Hail Mary to keep its “lust” tag. Got it!

Thank you very much! ☺️🙏

Yeah, that boy wouldn’t be able to walk, and for all the wrong reasons! 🤣

I guess it’s because after that wipedown Kom would have to marry him, and Baiboon is underage 😂

A question for people who read the novel. Thank you in advance 🙏

Are those bodyguards just that bored on vacation they go and have a random threesome? Or, is there an actual story about them? Please tell me there’s a story!
I mean, it’s a BL, so there’s supposed to be “Love” somewhere there, right?
Not that I mind people having threesomes - consenting adults can do whatever they want, and here it was way hotter in 2 minutes than the MC’s whole sex life in the series.
But can I please have a story? 🥹

He’d better! If he still forgets - Kim can bring his gear and jerk (oops, jog) his memory real quick! 😁