There are things that I agree with you and things that I don't. For example I agree that it is taking too much…
That would be great! I will be very happy to see that growth. I guess once Eiw’s “comfort person” is gone he’ll have to change, and I hope he’ll enjoy the process and the result. By the way, I don’t judge him either way, he’s too young yet. I like his character and I’m glad he’ll be given a good development arc, thank you for the info! 🙏
There are things that I agree with you and things that I don't. For example I agree that it is taking too much…
I agree that when BL writers present an uke as this fragile flower ALL THE TIME, in ALL series - it’s absurd, irritating and boring. While I am perfectly fine with this dynamic once in a while, I do like to see different couples with different stories. They could be a verse couple, or a dominant uke - that would be interesting. And body types / mannerisms should also be represented on a wider scale as they also make for a variety of possible stories. Just my opinion ☺️
I would also love to see Cake’s pov, and maybe we will later 😻Just wanted to mention about Cake’s shifting…
I agree that BLs are hardly a golden standard of anything, let alone relationships - it’s like trying to logically follow any Disney princesses movies. Eventually, you just go “yeah, ok” and keep watching for their aesthetics. Although, while we cringe at bad screenwriting, life says:”Hold my beer” and presents us with stuff even those screenwriters would cringe at 😉 Anyway, while I understand your point about super fragile nagging guy being annoying, I think it takes both nature and nurture for this dynamic to work, and when those two factors happily collide - it does work. Like uou said - seme wants his partner to be a dying swan (nature), and he’s taught exactly how to treat such a partner (nurture). Same goes for the “swan” partner - he is very comfortable in his “permanently dying” position (nature) and he’s encouraged by the seme and his family to behave like that and easily manipulates his “protector” (nurture). Again, those unions can be very happy and partners thoroughly enjoy each other and their roles. Sorry for rambling - I’m also definitely older than those boys and definitely no mother Theresa, but I’ve seen that stuff working. While this dynamic is not for me, I just acknowledge it, and to each their own! 🥂
Hmm. This is a tough one. It's refreshing to see a BL with realism - the terrible pain and lonliness Seeiw lives…
I would also love to see Cake’s pov, and maybe we will later 😻 Just wanted to mention about Cake’s shifting personality from a playful boy to a protective adult - I have seen this happen in real life. It happens when children are very close both in age (since birth) and as friends, especially as a result of parents being close friends. When one of the kids is more fragile and another one is a natural protector, it’s super easy for parents to literally indoctrinate them into “A is smaller/weaker/sickly, so B has to protect A at all cost”. When this mantra is repeated day in and day out, you get exactly the situation with Cake and Siew - both are eagerly participating in the screenplay written by parents since their birth. I am not saying it’s good, bad or in between. I am saying that it happens, so I was very ready for this relationship to be presented the way it is.
fuck me I just love this show its chefs kiss,the "almost fall" and "accidental kiss" could be cringey to some…
Yes! Here, I think, these tropes looked so much better because of their body positions - the angles were natural, unlike in other dramas, where pro tango dancers and acrobats would be put to shame. Just my opinion 😉
Looks like Takara is feeling everything just fine, but has issues expressing his feelings. In fact, he’s feeling…
Absolutely! I’m hoping for a nice arc for him where he learns from Amagi to be more relaxed and expressive. It’s still early in the series and they have time for that. 😊
I don't think she meant to be a bitch she just said it because she wanted to stop him from saying or "singing"…
Agreed on all points ☺️ I do like the series and I do feel for Pam as she’s basically between the rock and the hard place. Like you, I also hope it was a slip up and her character progresses nicely into an independent and thoughtful woman. Thank you very much! 🙏
I don't think she meant to be a bitch she just said it because she wanted to stop him from saying or "singing"…
I totally understand being extra careful with your words and behavior with a loved one who’s very ill. But when they become toxic and manipulative - that’s not good. Still, I get her behavior with grandpa, it just really irked me when she had to bite Ayood out of nowhere. I’m sorry about your uncle and I wish all the best to you, your dad and your family! ☺️
Looks like Takara is feeling everything just fine, but has issues expressing his feelings. In fact, he’s feeling…
I actually noticed this type of character in J-BLs - he’s very self-controlling and doesn’t express any feelings. Sometimes it’s just his character that was built under certain circumstances, sometimes it’s a condition (like in Meow ears up). I don’t think I’ve seen many characters like that in Thai BLs - except for My Engineer (Perth played the character).
I don't think she meant to be a bitch she just said it because she wanted to stop him from saying or "singing"…
I understand she’s tired of Ayood flirting with her and she wanted him to shut up about what happened, but that comment of hers was sooo out of character for her that it had me seriously cringe, especially when it was aimed at a wrong person at a wrong time. Meanwhile, she was being her normal doormat self when she was profusely apologizing to gramps for some true things she said 🤷♀️
I don't think she meant to be a bitch she just said it because she wanted to stop him from saying or "singing"…
I understand she’s tired of Ayood flirting with her and she wanted him to shut up about what happened, but that comment of hers was sooo out of character for her that it had me seriously cringe, especially when it was aimed at a wrong person at a wrong time. Meanwhile, she was being her normal doormat self when she was profusely apologizing to gramps for some true things she said 🤷♀️
I really like Amagi but Takara!! Oh gosh he's so expressionless. I don't know whether he's trying to hold himself…
Looks like Takara is feeling everything just fine, but has issues expressing his feelings. In fact, he’s feeling so much he asked his friend to distract him so that he doesn’t break the door to Amagi’s room 😻 As for tropes - to me, sleepover is still better than a fall-and-kiss one which is extremely hard to do technically speaking 😂 but it still creeps its way even under water 😅
Congrats to Pam - she can be a bitch, but for whatever reason only to people who least deserve it. Why would you say something like “don’t speak too much - you haven’t brushed your teeth yet” to a person who rushed out of his bathroom over to your house thinking there’s something wrong with your grandparents??? Oh, and he was thinking that because you triggered the alarm that he installed out of goodness of his heart 😳 So, Pam, can you be that “witty” with your mom and gramps instead? 🤦♀️
I'll ignore the fact that Danil is the least threatening villain ever. And the fact that the bodyguards seem to…
Actually, I think Cherry was under Danai’s orders to shoot Kim, and Baiboon just happened to be there. So it was yet another injustice to his poor knees 😂 I also don’t know how much of a sniper Cherry is, but watch her saying next episode that she missed on purpose, or it was not a real bullet or something like that 😉 As for bodyguards - maybe they are just being professional during work hours - they can’t possibly have such a short memory on a job like this, right? 😻
My personal favorite was Kim’s “Danil needs love and care, I was just like that”. Seriously? Did I miss…
I don’t remember that, but the only thing Kim could realistically threat Itt with was to calculate his taxes. He had no means to murder Itt’s family or sell his friends to sex slavery. Meanwhile, Danil has the means and motive to do that. So, if I was Kim I would be rightfully panicking, reporting it to Kamol asap and feeding those tigers with some fresh meat, curtesy of Kamol. 😻
Totally agree! Instead of wasting time on Cherry, who’s not even in the novel, they should have given us more…
Yes, Danil is definitely a psycho, but I will take him any day over a useless trope of a dense girl who doesn’t get what “gay” means 🤔 In this particular case it’s solely on screen writers since Cherry is not in the novel…🤷♀️
Although, while we cringe at bad screenwriting, life says:”Hold my beer” and presents us with stuff even those screenwriters would cringe at 😉
Anyway, while I understand your point about super fragile nagging guy being annoying, I think it takes both nature and nurture for this dynamic to work, and when those two factors happily collide - it does work. Like uou said - seme wants his partner to be a dying swan (nature), and he’s taught exactly how to treat such a partner (nurture). Same goes for the “swan” partner - he is very comfortable in his “permanently dying” position (nature) and he’s encouraged by the seme and his family to behave like that and easily manipulates his “protector” (nurture). Again, those unions can be very happy and partners thoroughly enjoy each other and their roles.
Sorry for rambling - I’m also definitely older than those boys and definitely no mother Theresa, but I’ve seen that stuff working. While this dynamic is not for me, I just acknowledge it, and to each their own! 🥂
Just wanted to mention about Cake’s shifting personality from a playful boy to a protective adult - I have seen this happen in real life. It happens when children are very close both in age (since birth) and as friends, especially as a result of parents being close friends. When one of the kids is more fragile and another one is a natural protector, it’s super easy for parents to literally indoctrinate them into “A is smaller/weaker/sickly, so B has to protect A at all cost”. When this mantra is repeated day in and day out, you get exactly the situation with Cake and Siew - both are eagerly participating in the screenplay written by parents since their birth. I am not saying it’s good, bad or in between. I am saying that it happens, so I was very ready for this relationship to be presented the way it is.
I do like the series and I do feel for Pam as she’s basically between the rock and the hard place. Like you, I also hope it was a slip up and her character progresses nicely into an independent and thoughtful woman.
Thank you very much! 🙏
Still, I get her behavior with grandpa, it just really irked me when she had to bite Ayood out of nowhere.
I’m sorry about your uncle and I wish all the best to you, your dad and your family! ☺️
As for tropes - to me, sleepover is still better than a fall-and-kiss one which is extremely hard to do technically speaking 😂 but it still creeps its way even under water 😅
Why would you say something like “don’t speak too much - you haven’t brushed your teeth yet” to a person who rushed out of his bathroom over to your house thinking there’s something wrong with your grandparents??? Oh, and he was thinking that because you triggered the alarm that he installed out of goodness of his heart 😳
So, Pam, can you be that “witty” with your mom and gramps instead? 🤦♀️
As for bodyguards - maybe they are just being professional during work hours - they can’t possibly have such a short memory on a job like this, right? 😻
So, if I was Kim I would be rightfully panicking, reporting it to Kamol asap and feeding those tigers with some fresh meat, curtesy of Kamol. 😻