none have 18 yr age gap like this plus in two the much smaller age gap is a huge issue in the glory the romance is minimal. In this it will.be an old guy with a woman way too much younger and it wont be mentioned. Thats the real double standard
People hating on blank for the age gap but there's no outrage to that goblin drama for the age gap mind you that…
no its not homophobia lots of people shit all over the goblin age gap and lots of people defend it. The age gap here is disgusting and worse its the child of the FLs best friend and ex boyfriend like its pathetic
Great opinion. Couples can definitely reconcile after infidelity, but IMO this FL did not do anything to deserve…
okay cool thats well explained. I think my understanding is enhanced thank you. In the end you do understand her better. Its like she understands why she did it and that it was not whats considered right. Yet somehow you feel shes equally relieved she dodged a bad relationship as she is that she made up with hubby. Shes not evil of course and she does remember and rekindle her love for her husband. Thats good. Maybe its lost in translation but it just seems crass to say that as opposed to im glad I was caught I never loved the other guy anyway it was just the attention etc but she says im glad I was caught because I loved him but he didnt love me thats the writing choice I didnt get. Its like ok I see her but then its like oh Im not sure now. And while that of course doesnt make her evil even though I did call her a cheating bitch 😒 it does rule out any chance of reconciliation IMO. Its like shes still cheating its like shes saying I dont fully regret it because if he loved me too id be gone so coming back to you is my back up my second choice. Which when you consider all the soul searching he went through is a bit cruel.
Great opinion. Couples can definitely reconcile after infidelity, but IMO this FL did not do anything to deserve…
you know I agree I just dont understand the writers intention with the blog post again your really well written comment just kinda crashes like a tide on that blog post beach. I just cant get my head around it. It just kinda feels like a weird FU to the audience like you know you thought it was this but maybe 🤔......not
Great opinion. Couples can definitely reconcile after infidelity, but IMO this FL did not do anything to deserve…
your comments are thoughtful and well written. Forgiveness is healthy and holding on to anger and bitterness is not that is true. But in this case the forgiveness was not earned or asked for properly. It is to me a very strange story. It actually feel it is easy to understand her. People do things like that all the time she is quite realistic in that sense. He, however, is not realistic. People who put up with cheating do so out of fear because they are trapped or don"t have the will or the means to leave. They generally don't forgive and move on but when they do they dont do it for someone as undeserving as her the cheater has usually begged and made commitments etc. The writer here is very clearly justifying cheating as a kind of understandable if extreme part of a relationship one that can be over come. That in itself is bad enough but he is also putting the burden of decision on the partner who didnt cheat. He must forgive and move on she just remains her true thoughts being well I'll stay with him and as long as he does better I wont cheat again. Like leave him woman dont torture him.
Trying to understand her is like trying to understand a man who loses it and beats his wife. He was lost he couldnt communicate he lost himself he still.loved her he just forgot. All grand but it does not make it right.
So she is easy to understand people like her are common he is really not easy to understand and the writers choices are really not easy to understand. Its a kind of misandry almost.
I will make this easy and short - the blame for cheating is 100% on the cheater and 0% on the person who was cheated…
Exactly this is just pretentious BS justifying cheating. Reverse the genders watch the rating plummet women are such hypocrites when it comes to cheating and have such a double standard.
Great opinion. Couples can definitely reconcile after infidelity, but IMO this FL did not do anything to deserve…
ok I see the difference in context re the blog post. But its still not good. The point is she does not say im glad I woke up im glad I realised how wrong I was I was so stupid. She says ah I thought that guy really loved me "as much as I loved him". In other words I was going to leave my husband i was ready to go. She is not saying i knew never loved the guy i just wanted to feel something I was just lost I lost myself. You are saying that the wife or the writer arent. Thats why at the end if the day she is nothing more than a cheating bitch. Mental gymnastics wont change the core fact. She doesnt stop because her husband loves her or she loves her husband she stops because she loves the guy shes cheating with but he doesnt love her. TEST Reverse the genders how would the husband be viewed. This is just the usual justifying cheating BS
Trying to understand her is like trying to understand a man who loses it and beats his wife. He was lost he couldnt communicate he lost himself he still.loved her he just forgot. All grand but it does not make it right.
So she is easy to understand people like her are common he is really not easy to understand and the writers choices are really not easy to understand. Its a kind of misandry almost.
TEST Reverse the genders how would the husband be viewed.
This is just the usual justifying cheating BS