Kbeauty

You've made all tbese points again and your fan has liked it or your alterego account 😉.
Either way as much as your patronising somewhat intelligent but way too long (trying too hard to sound clever) responses have not had much impact.
Youve just ignored most of what i said and repeated your judgemental stuff. Which is fine but you asked the last question i just answered.
The idiots who give 10/10 scores for trash just cause their crush is on screen are far more damaging to reviews than me.
Also peoe tell each other how to live all the time there are even laws about it!!!!
The point is you dont have to listen but you can say it.
Its apalling your not a fan of free speech.

And age gaps are weird. If my daughter came home with an
older guy id wonder was he a a) a womaniser
b) whats wrong with him could he not attract agirl his own age what is he lacking.
Of course id be letting my daughter have it too.
So dramas that try and promote those kinda relationships really annoy me because as you say its not real, they dont need to write about it so why do they why do people like it what weird fantasy are women supposed to have about being submissive to an older man.
You need to respect peoples right to express their negative opinions like i do.

The age gap being not neccessary to add anything to the story or premise but inserted anyway is the issue i was highlighting. If someone is in highschool why pair them with an adult why have a 20 yr age gap at all in a drama when its not neccessary. Why doez it appeal to people. Shouldnt people be able to highlight it and disapprove of it. Like if theirs a drama with pointless violence should it be just beyond criticism and all criticism be rebuffed by donr like then dont watch. No people are entitled to say this sort of thing is crap.
A 15 yr old with a thirty year d would becime a 19 yr old with a 34 yr old. Same Ages in DIK. Actress was 19 filming. Obviously its not illegal and people have choices but if people can support something they can onject to ot too. And i object to it as "ick: as in makes me uncomfortable not people who have age gap relationships are bad. I would not support my kids in age gap relationships like this and it bothers me the prevalance of these relationships shown as swoony and lovely.
I am only a person with an opinion. People might hate my opinion but thats okay. I hate the gyshing 4 10 reviews on lots of shows with toxic men, agegaps stupidove triangles especially cheating and women picking disrespectful men over nice guys.
So i say it and when i like something i say that too. My negative comments about shows are always heavily outweighed by positive silly IMO 4 10 reviews. 10s should be rare!!!!! Ive never given one. Actually the amount of 4 10 reviews and ratings is more damaging to the efficacy of this rating system than anything else.
There are no absolutes im sure there are people who have been hapy in age gap relationships and i would never be so crazy as to hassle people in reality. But i dont support them I dont like them and i dont like tosee them portrayed as all rosy cosy in dramas watchee by impressionable young girls. When they never grapple with the problems that inevitably arise with power experience parenthood e ominc security old age etc etc.
I like to highlight that in the sea of praise.
Im not a monster etc etc

maybe I'd have to think but for example I hear your Voice Kdrama I watched it all and enjoyed it when I first start watching kdramas and they addressed the age gap there (and it was 10yrs or so). The thing was I loved the premise really liked it, the girl being a witness at severe cost to her emotionally and putting herself in danger the victims son pledging to help her, finding her as she was an adult and off we go, but they had him still in high school.
The whole way through though and afterward reading comments I just kept thinking why? 🤔 What would it take away from this great premise, this enjoyable show that has supernatural gifts revenge sacrifice love childhood connection a mildly annoying love triangle revenge angst all the great kdrama stuff, if the guy was older.
answer nothing, not one thing in fact it would improve it I mean he could still be younger or more naive whatever but maybe in college or the police academy who knows but to .are him high-school age just seemed pointless and added nothing to the story.
I feel the same about the forbidden flower drama it is pointless even though they address it here too to have him so much older in terms of the story that could easily be told e actly the same way without it.
Is it suggesting that it's not bievabke that a young woman like her with her illness couldn't be loved by anyone other than an older middle aged guy whose lost and given up. is this the equaliser that allows them to be together, because neither are "suitable" for others. Probably not but would the message and the power of the story change with out a 20 yr age gap no it wouldn't so why put it in?
ok it's not illegal or harmful or anyone's business but it harks back to a type of relationship girls and young women were forced into and still are to this day and it romanticises it in an unneccessary way and ignores the negatives.
Maybe someone will do a drama that someday shows an actual 15 or 16 yr old actress and character portraying a girl who has to marry a 30 yr old actor and character and show the scenario from the girls view her fears re the olderr man the that would be interesting viewing maybe throw in an understanding ML other FLs who have gone through the same you could have an imterestimg story but this modern day gratuitous use of age gap romances is pointless abd regressive IMO. In Dating in the Kitchen it would be more enjoyable for me if she had her way with both brothers and then said to both are you joking I'm too young to be in a relationship with guys like you I'm just having fun.
Like Nevertheless 👍 all the talk of it's empowering she knows the good guy is better but she "wants" the bad boy. opposite of empowering, instead it's the usual she wants to "change the bad boy". Empowering would be reject the good guy as I'm not ready for a relationship and play the bad boy at his game see him for sex see others do what he does but no she "ms empowered" wants an exclusive relationship all the way through only he is allowed anything else. Side rant but that show really annoyed me too.

really only a month ago be careful with that

23 yr old pretty girl with dreams in love trianglee with a 38 yr old who treats her badly and a 32 yr old who is nice. She picks the 38 yr old and forgets her dreams what dreams as her new goal in life is to be his girl regardless of his shitty behaviour. And when she is 48 and still hot he will be 63 great news for him I suppose. I am LMAO and then intermittently crying (inside) as to why women still lap this BS up.
I took solace from the low score until i realised they were mostly l9w because the "romance" was ruined.
EYEROLL FFS.

Your the target audience for the cliche plot.
Silly poor naive FL
Cocky rich (eventually) ML who is not that nice
Cute 2ML who is actually nice but gets rejected because hes not "man" enough.
Mean horrible 2FL.
Nasty families.
A shift of focus to the ML.
Everyones character gets deneanee except MLs so we can excuse his shitty misogynistic behaviour
FL starts with dreams but ends up with no desire only to be accepted by ML who treats her mean to keep her keen.
Good for you! Go Girl

No you dont

do what you like you typed it to me that's why I asked.

Because you typed out hearts in the order of the rainbow 🌈 you dont know why you did that?

Oh okay do share then whats with the rainbow

Ah I see you don't know why

Obviously LOL this whole thread exists because of you denying someone elses opinion

what's with the rainbow ????

"Works" oh yeah I forgot shes an artist not an actress like everyone else like Handmaiden is art not porn gotcha KTR hype machine is real

me too

me too loved the whole thing and an FL clear and mature about ger feelings and honest and respectful to 2ML not strictly ginger him along or implying any interest refreshing

feel bad until he does that to 2FL that was wrong on so many levels.

The 2nd lead played horribly with the 2FL the FL never showed any interest in him other than respecting him as a colleague and he still tried to pursue her knowing ML and her were in love. He was not a nice guy IMO and got a happy ending hinted at that the 2FL didn't get. But even if you liked him there was no could of with that romance. As the FL told ML your as good a man as 2ML and a better person.

I hate love triangles where the FL is stringing along some poor 2ML or moves from one to another with the first guy not deserving it none of that happens here.

pity but thats it. I really liked the FL look she seemed ordinary and haggard at times but also really beautiful. But if you got to 10 you gave it enough respect to bow out.