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fyi this is how cheating starts in relationships... it seems okay here because thats the whole point of these shows but yeah lol jungmok or whatever his name is, is just a typical man.

Sorry, didn’t realize we were only allowed to post love letters here. I waited a whole week and got a snoozefest so yeah, I said what I said. If one honest opinion shakes your whole world, maybe take a breather before diving into the comment section next time.

what a boring ass ep -_-

last ep is legit just gunshots. got a headache. we did no progress since last season at all. 7.5/10

this is all wrong wtf show is this from. there's just 7 min of 'bl' storyline in the beginning of ep 8.

first two episodes i was like, they need one more hand in the kitchen, and now watching the preview i'll definitely be saying they need more hands both in and outside of the kitchen🥹🥹

hmm it was hard to complete the 15th episode , its gotten slow and repetitive since last few weeks. i adore the cast but ig ill drop it now knowing that everyone will most definitely have a happy ending and there's no real story to follow along :')

such a feel good episode loved ittt.

metting haru or the boys didn't trigger Cien and its okay to meet people from past esp. if they are not related to the events that caused you ptsd, saying this as a therapist.

you can straight away dive into it.

Im all in for everything is fair in love and war, so if you want to be a bitch to win back your man, go ahead, BUT at least treat him with some respect. god damn. What SK did with JW and what she's been doing since the beginning is nothing but manipulation. Her intention to check if JW's heart was fixed on just one person was understandable, but the way she chose to do it was wrong on so many levels. moreover she has been confusing him since the very beginning. She does have that man ego. Ugh.
And then HW didnt help with the conversation she had with JW either. SK didnt tell HW that she see's HH as a potential man for her RIGHT NOW what she said was that she saw him as one before going on a date with him which was ages ago. Telling JW what she wrongly interpreted led to that second argument between those two later. and im pretty sure SK sent that text to HH because that afternoon HW said he was interested in SK. This works well for SK as she is looking for a distraction and has her mind set on legit no one, not even JW. she wants the poor guy to crawl back to her which is just plain evil on her part. What a mess -_-

im sorry but the interpretation skills here are a lil off. i didn't say YOU lacked empathy i said DJ lacked empathy towards DH. they broke up mere months before coming on the show and yes he doesn't have to have any feelings towards her, that's alright but that doesn't mean she cant have them either. for her she probably has had no closure with him. she was here to fix things up with him he was here to help find her love (idk why he thinks that's his job) and well wow when im writing this i realise it could have been a miscommunication between the pd and DJ cz he, for all i know, was hell bound towards only one aspect of the showin the beginning which AGAIN is alright BUT he doesn't have to be a jerk about it. sitting down and talking like 30 year old adults does not mean giving hope but he didn't do that esp when he was being nicely asked. he is avoidant thats acceptable but dh being emotional is not acceptable. funny. she keeps bringing up the patch up things because he never in clear words denies his interest every time he says he doesn't want to be back is because he doesn't want to hurt her. if he denys it without attaching a condition to it, it may have different results. dont have anything to confront? what they should talk MORE? lol they never confronted/talked for more than 5 mins. i know closure is not necessary to move on but if one wants it then why cant you put your man ego aside for a couple minutes.

bruh i dont want them to get back together i want dj to have some emotional maturity and dh to have some more of self respect to let that man off the hook completely. if DH was in therapy with me, i would straight up tell her to leave his toxic ass behind even with no closure.

me being biased towards dh is solely because i despise men who start disrespecting women just because they dont have any relationship with them anymore.

talking about HW and HH, both of them are immature and are playing tug of war among themselves. Neither of them can be clear about what they want from each other, so let's not even go there.

What exactly is he protecting her from? Since when does ignoring someone's existence become an act of protection and not just your own inability to be emotionally mature? and what are you talking about that dude didn't even open the gift? Why? Oh, because he needs to 'protect' her? What rubbish. Crying during the intro read, especially on the sixth day, doesn't equate to him struggling. If that's your argument, then DH cried during the very first read, and seeing his ex of 13 years bawling her eyes out didn't bring up any empathy, so what about that? all that crying from both of them actually was more of a nostalgia and pain for the loss of love they once shared, which is natural.

And his apologies after being rude to her on so many occasions ever since coming to Jeju sound more like a way to stop DH from fighting and trying to clear the misunderstandings. He apologizes to keep himself in a safe position. Also, apologizing and then again being rude five minutes later means it holds no meaning. He does all the disrespecting and putting DH down in front of others because he knows she is not going to retaliate in a heavy way.

Let's not compare YJ and DJ because he didn't even do 1% of the confrontation YJ and CJ had. He doesn't have it in him atleast not for now.

His concept of doing 'the best for her' is not really helpful though. He has been inconsiderate towards DH since day one. There are others who don't want to get back together but can be mature about it and talk it out, even if very briefly. However, DJ's method of help is ignoring DH as if she doesn't exist. He is running away from confrontation, always gaslighting her, and is super rude.

Yes, DH was inclined towards him and was way more emotional in the beginning, but that is very natural because that man has been running away from her since their breakup. Like she said in this episode, how he blocked her after the breakup and the PD had to bring him here, says a lot about that girl's persistence, so her being emotional, clingy, and trying to have a conversation is completely understandable. Not to forget, when DH did try to move on, that man got butt hurt and started accusing her of being inconsiderate. What a hypocrite??

If he truly wants to help DH, he needs to stop avoiding her and have a clear communication. He could say he doesn't want to get back together instead of feeling sorry for her and her being hurt. That would be a nicer way to handle things. After all, the poor girl can't be expected to read his mind. His actions, which he says are meant to not hurt her, are actually making it worse but he's a dimwit to even realize that.

And no i didn't see that man 'struggle' once in last 15 eps.

here's the playlist
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/54tRObINGX7rdSxfelJrcd?si=vtiFctwhTfmA40tl55XeEg&pi=a-fia6WJFjQqyH

to each their own. i want my 40 mins back -_-

what a dry ass ending.

why is it that every time a thriller mystery drops the very first and the most frequently asked question is why there is no romance? but if there is then the fight starts over the age gap? like pick a struggle.

personally i really hope there's no romance, a bit of sexual tension and angst is okay but let this be more mystery focus show pls 🤞🏻

that alright. to each their own