Haha that's immoral.. U know I hv watched some dramas where both MCs are dating..with some ups n downs in their…
“ Imma take ur man coz I hv a better chemistry with him and some sad backstory to justify my action" ” —you have no idea how much effort and energy some people are utilizing to defend it as being okay, righteous, and it’s normal human behavior LOL
Haha that's immoral.. U know I hv watched some dramas where both MCs are dating..with some ups n downs in their…
“ And a 2nd lead girl keep trying on the ML fighting for his love and people are like "b!sh go away" Lol and here the same thing is done by FL and everybody is going gaga over it.. In both cases it's fiction so why the double standards lol”
—THIS! This is what I tried to argued in a prior post but certain people ignores it and would say I’m wrong and etc and pull up a wall of defenses to protect a fictional character .
It's not cheating if they break up before he goes to Saet Byul.And don't tell me it's cheating if he just happens…
“ But you are talking from the girlfriend point of view here.“ —well obviously because the girlfriend point of view is the correct one on this issue.
—her being a good girlfriend or not doesn’t justify FL actions.
“ But if he go with the other girl then there's nothing wrong with it, he's not cheating on you, his feelings have changed, that's all.” —that would be the case if the FL didn’t Intentionally provide the opportunities for feelings to be changed.
You can't force people's feelings. If FL and ML are falling in love, then they should be together. Of course ML…
“ you should read the comment I posted above yours because I explained myself better.” —your perspective
“ FL is not forcing a relationship to break up, she is trying to get close to the one she loves because she wants him to know it. If it happens then it will be ML or Girlfriend's choice.” —in your hearts of hearts, you know that’s not the truth. Why should there even be such a scenario in the first place? That is trying to force a relationship to break up, you can spin however you like, but that’s the truth.
“ ML has the right to choose whom he want to be with.” —that’s true. But that’s not the dilemma. The question is, is it ethical and the right timing?
“ It's not because you are dating someone that you can't fall in love for someone else. Love can change.” —yes but is it ethical? FL is a walking billboard of romance by working there and tempting him. FL is more in the wrong.
“ It's not because the one you love is dating someone else that you should abandon your love without trying.” —lol you got to be kidding. Stay away until they break up naturally.
———I’m not going to respond to the rest of your post because your style of thinking is not of those who appreciate a healthy relationship.
Admitting that your favorite actor chose a bad drama to do is not that difficult
LOL the same thing happened in the Eternal Monarch comment section, certain LMH fans defended the drama as if it’s their precious baby lol
You can love your actors and actresses and not like certain roles they play and/or criticize certain actions of the characters they play. It’s not mutually exclusive lol
The juggling that some do to defend this pathetic drama is even comical. I hope that Ji Chang Wook goes back to…
Seriously, people in this comment section willingly drop their morals to defend the actions of characters. Nothing wrong with liking the show but to defend cheating, sexual harassment, racism, and etc to support the drama or their favorite actor, it’s really sad.
Best defenses I saw:
girlfriend is bad so cheating is okay. you can’t control love and emotions. ML deserves better, so FL needs to break them up.
ML doesn’t truly love his girlfriend, so if he falls in love with another girl while he’s dating, it’s not wrong.
FL is not responsible for demise of relationship, she is just being child-like and innocent.
FL kissing ML is cute, it’s just a peck on the lips. She’s a woman.
People can’t handle strong females
Drama is fiction
Falling in love is not cheating while you’re with someone else that you claimed to love.
Girlfriend was mean to FL so she deserves what’s coming.
ML never love his girlfriend if someone else can tempt him, so it’s okay because the relationship wasn’t real in the first place.
You can't force people's feelings. If FL and ML are falling in love, then they should be together. Of course ML…
“ director is same as the fiery priest and i finished watching it a day before this one aired.. but it seems like you absolutely hate one of the leads to the level that you reply to almost all he comments that is in favor of the drama and sees only negative things in every single action of the female lead.. its ep 4 and by now the actions of female lead has been explained b”
—I loved fiery priest but in my opinion,this is not close in quality.
— I respond back because I dont like seeing people justifying cheating and breaking up relationships and pretending that sexual harassment and assault never happened.
—not true, and I watched all 4 episodes.
—your explanations are filling in the blanks with your imagination.
You can't force people's feelings. If FL and ML are falling in love, then they should be together. Of course ML…
—that is not true. She knew he had a girlfriend since ep 2. He called out her name while he was sleeping and he was physically assaulted for it.
—you are bringing in actions of other people to justify FL actions.
“ her sole purpose is to bring profit to the store so that deahyun wont have a hard time and also she is very true to any job she does..” —that is not the truth, in ep 2 we know her purpose.
“ infact even after the gf falsely accuses her, she didnt go and beat the gf up when its clear that she dont stand still when injustice happens to her.. neither she badmouthed about the gf when daehyun cleared all the misunderstanding.. ” —like I stated before, her not doing certain actions does not mean she’s not going after him in other ways.
“ she dont romanticize any of their physical interactions and hasnt done anything but good things for daehyun..” —that is not the truth. She even had a dream that she kissed him and was happy with it. She kept his stuff animal. That piggy back ride is not innocent and she sniffed him lol
—I’m having the idea that you like one of the actors of the show so much, that you can’t separate reel from real. You can like your actor or actress without liking a character they played
It's not cheating if they break up before he goes to Saet Byul.And don't tell me it's cheating if he just happens…
“ What if a girl went after my boyfriend?So what?Would he leave me for her if he was still in love with me ?Or would he just ignore her?If your man is willing to leave you for another woman,she is most likely not the reason of your relationship's demise. Yes,I would be angry and sad if that happened but I wouldn't openly call them names.”
—so what? So plenty. She’s a scum bucket.
—I never stated that she is the only reason but is one of the main reasons for the demise.
—I’m glad you would react like a normal person if it happens under your nose.
“ Absolve you from what?Is falling in fall a sin?Physical cheating is different,it is the action of the body and you can control that.”
—FL is creating an environment for cheating emotionally and potentially physically. So yes it’s a sin. Why is she working there? Her friends revealed the game plan.
Female Lead is right to fight for her own love. You go girl!
—your entire post is just play-on words. I’m not going to play that game.
—your years of marriage has no credibility on this topic.
—cheating is wrong period. No justification can explain otherwise.
—“ If the main male lead is in really love he won't fall in love with another woman. Never. ” —I really hope your husband won’t ever fall in love with someone else. You are naive if you think people can’t fall out of love and fall into love with different people. It Doesn’t mean they didn’t love in the past but it wasn’t enough.
—FL should wait until he’s single before making a move. She should not be working there period.
—you have no idea how much effort and energy some people are utilizing to defend it as being okay, righteous, and it’s normal human behavior LOL
—THIS! This is what I tried to argued in a prior post but certain people ignores it and would say I’m wrong and etc and pull up a wall of defenses to protect a fictional character .
And I personally agree.
—well obviously because the girlfriend point of view is the correct one on this issue.
—her being a good girlfriend or not doesn’t justify FL actions.
“ But if he go with the other girl then there's nothing wrong with it, he's not cheating on you, his feelings have changed, that's all.”
—that would be the case if the FL didn’t Intentionally provide the opportunities for feelings to be changed.
—your perspective
“ FL is not forcing a relationship to break up, she is trying to get close to the one she loves because she wants him to know it. If it happens then it will be ML or Girlfriend's choice.”
—in your hearts of hearts, you know that’s not the truth. Why should there even be such a scenario in the first place? That is trying to force a relationship to break up, you can spin however you like, but that’s the truth.
“ ML has the right to choose whom he want to be with.”
—that’s true. But that’s not the dilemma. The question is, is it ethical and the right timing?
“ It's not because you are dating someone that you can't fall in love for someone else. Love can change.”
—yes but is it ethical? FL is a walking billboard of romance by working there and tempting him. FL is more in the wrong.
“ It's not because the one you love is dating someone else that you should abandon your love without trying.”
—lol you got to be kidding. Stay away until they break up naturally.
———I’m not going to respond to the rest of your post because your style of thinking is not of those who appreciate a healthy relationship.
—thoughts? My thoughts: this is not right.
You can love your actors and actresses and not like certain roles they play and/or criticize certain actions of the characters they play. It’s not mutually exclusive lol
Best defenses I saw:
girlfriend is bad so cheating is okay. you can’t control love and emotions. ML deserves better, so FL needs to break them up.
ML doesn’t truly love his girlfriend, so if he falls in love with another girl while he’s dating, it’s not wrong.
FL is not responsible for demise of relationship, she is just being child-like and innocent.
FL kissing ML is cute, it’s just a peck on the lips. She’s a woman.
People can’t handle strong females
Drama is fiction
Falling in love is not cheating while you’re with someone else that you claimed to love.
Girlfriend was mean to FL so she deserves what’s coming.
ML never love his girlfriend if someone else can tempt him, so it’s okay because the relationship wasn’t real in the first place.
And then when she woke up, her wingmen confessed to her that they told him everything and her response was, how did he respond?
its ep 4 and by now the actions of female lead has been explained b”
—I loved fiery priest but in my opinion,this is not close in quality.
— I respond back because I dont like seeing people justifying cheating and breaking up relationships and pretending that sexual harassment and assault never happened.
—not true, and I watched all 4 episodes.
—your explanations are filling in the blanks with your imagination.
—you are bringing in actions of other people to justify FL actions.
“ her sole purpose is to bring profit to the store so that deahyun wont have a hard time and also she is very true to any job she does..”
—that is not the truth, in ep 2 we know her purpose.
“ infact even after the gf falsely accuses her, she didnt go and beat the gf up when its clear that she dont stand still when injustice happens to her.. neither she badmouthed about the gf when daehyun cleared all the misunderstanding.. ”
—like I stated before, her not doing certain actions does not mean she’s not going after him in other ways.
“ she dont romanticize any of their physical interactions and hasnt done anything but good things for daehyun..”
—that is not the truth. She even had a dream that she kissed him and was happy with it. She kept his stuff animal. That piggy back ride is not innocent and she sniffed him lol
—I’m having the idea that you like one of the actors of the show so much, that you can’t separate reel from real. You can like your actor or actress without liking a character they played
—so what? So plenty. She’s a scum bucket.
—I never stated that she is the only reason but is one of the main reasons for the demise.
—I’m glad you would react like a normal person if it happens under your nose.
“ Absolve you from what?Is falling in fall a sin?Physical cheating is different,it is the action of the body and you can control that.”
—FL is creating an environment for cheating emotionally and potentially physically. So yes it’s a sin. Why is she working there? Her friends revealed the game plan.
—your years of marriage has no credibility on this topic.
—cheating is wrong period. No justification can explain otherwise.
—“ If the main male lead is in really love he won't fall in love with another woman. Never. ”
—I really hope your husband won’t ever fall in love with someone else. You are naive if you think people can’t fall out of love and fall into love with different people. It Doesn’t mean they didn’t love in the past but it wasn’t enough.
—FL should wait until he’s single before making a move. She should not be working there period.
—it was already reveal in ep 2 by her friends what she is doing.
—why is she working at the store?
—flirting is interfering period.
—she may not not do certain things like lie to get the ML but she is putting herself in situations for romance to occur.
—it doesn’t not matter if girlfriend is not good for him. They should break up first before FL makes her move