Not only are you harassing me here on MDL, but you’re harassing me on twitter right now. You snap up old shots of my comments on twitter and mdl and shared it to other people.
The shots you used, shows that I had legit concerns for KYJ.
For example: I even expressed my sadness that she deleted most of her Instagram posts, and figured she was going through a tough patch.
I already provided evidence that I’m telling the truth and that I also love KYJ and JCW.
You try to use my twitter history feed against me, so I can use my twitter history feed to defend me as well.
If you can exert that much energy to find me on twitter then you can exert a tad more energy and scroll down longer on my history feed and see I like a bunch of JCW and KYJ posts as well.
“ And just because something is nonconsensual, doesn’t necessarily mean it’s automatically sexual assault.…
Can you please stop spreading misinformation about me? Scroll down on my long history feed and you will see that I also like many posts of JCW and KYJ.
How dare you make this assumptions of me. If you look in the history of my likes and scroll down long enough, you will see I also like tweets of KYJ and JCW and other celebrities.
It’s sad that you have to waste so much energy to blacken my character.
Maybe use your energy to ruminate the flaws of the characters in the show instead of personally attacking me.
“ And just because something is nonconsensual, doesn’t necessarily mean it’s automatically sexual assault.…
I absolutely agree, that sexual harassment is not limited to kisses but also unwarranted touches, which is what she did in episode 2 when he was intoxicated and asleep she touched him and rubbed her head against him.
“ Just like it’s also the right of a person to decide whether or not an act committed against them was sexual assault.” You see this in his body language and actions afterwards (not pressing charges, etc)” —I agree but it also depends on context. Many times it happens to people but they just let it slide and it goes unreported or they’re afraid due to image problem especially when the victims are males. —clearly he was uncomfortable. He was not in an environment such as a bar or a nightclub or a party where kissing can occurred, he was in a random street outdoors. In the webtoon someone shared here, it was also clear and spelled out how uncomfortable he was at the time. But since it’s an adult webtoon, once he returned home, he started to have pervy thoughts when he reminisced and started to do what guys do when they have those urges lol
“ I can’t imagine my husband being locked up for sexual assault because of how other people viewed his actions. I’m glad I was able decide how I felt about his actions, otherwise we wouldn’t be married today :)” —I completely understand this point of view haha and I’m happy for your marriage (✿◠‿◠)
“ Absolutely, kissing a OLDER random stranger, no, loving him for 3 years , ehh probably not, flirting with…
—why do we need to mention other characters? I know they are toxic. Our main focus of this subtopic is the FL. You can spin it anyway you like but FL is toxic as a person, as an individual. We can’t use your “relationship definition” because she’s not in a dating relationship with ML. •being easily jealous is one symptom of a toxic person.
I don’t understand how people have issues with Kim Yoo Jung and Ji Chang Wook age difference but had no issues…
“ And just because something is nonconsensual, doesn’t necessarily mean it’s automatically sexual assault. My now husband tried to kiss me before we started dating and I pushed him away. Never once did I feel like he sexually assaulted me. And the moment I pushed him away, he apologized and ultimately never made a move again... ”
there are key differences. One he’s a complete stranger she met like 5 minutes ago. Two she never apologized unlike your now husband. Three Just because you personally don’t see it as sexual assault on this show it doesn’t mean it’s not one. Your personal experience and feelings does not override the general rules. Look up sexual assault and see what it entails. —I don’t know about the other shows but people have called out on her behavior in itaewon class.
It’s a fiction show but people are emotionally invested positively and negatively. People have the right to share their concerns and their distaste as much as one has the right to share their positive thoughts.
So for the people who may be hesitant to watch these drama base on a lot of the negative comments I wanted to…
“ Absolutely, kissing a OLDER random stranger, no, loving him for 3 years , ehh probably not, flirting with somebody who has a girlfriend, nope but once again NONE of those things made her toxic. ”
—that’s the definition of toxic and don’t forget punching someone in their sleep because how dare they call out their girlfriend name lol
Not only are you harassing me here on MDL, but you’re harassing me on twitter right now. You snap up old shots of my comments on twitter and mdl and shared it to other people.
The shots you used, shows that I had legit concerns for KYJ.
For example: I even expressed my sadness that she deleted most of her Instagram posts, and figured she was going through a tough patch.
Can you leave me alone online???
Stop making false accusations and diatribes towards me. That is definition of cyber bullying, when you attack real people.
I already provided evidence that I’m telling the truth and that I also love KYJ and JCW.
You try to use my twitter history feed against me, so I can use my twitter history feed to defend me as well.
If you can exert that much energy to find me on twitter then you can exert a tad more energy and scroll down longer on my history feed and see I like a bunch of JCW and KYJ posts as well.
I can’t believe the lengths you are going to sully my name but I’m not allow to prove my innocence?
You’re willing to go this far to defend a drama by attacking my character?
Hmmmmm
I just showed you my receipts and that’s all you can say??? You don’t even admit that you made a huge blunder?
I can like many actors and actresses.
Likewise, I’m glad we had this delightful conversation ^^
It’s sad that you have to waste so much energy to blacken my character.
Maybe use your energy to ruminate the flaws of the characters in the show instead of personally attacking me.
“ Just like it’s also the right of a person to decide whether or not an act committed against them was sexual assault.” You see this in his body language and actions afterwards (not pressing charges, etc)”
—I agree but it also depends on context. Many times it happens to people but they just let it slide and it goes unreported or they’re afraid due to image problem especially when the victims are males.
—clearly he was uncomfortable. He was not in an environment such as a bar or a nightclub or a party where kissing can occurred, he was in a random street outdoors. In the webtoon someone shared here, it was also clear and spelled out how uncomfortable he was at the time. But since it’s an adult webtoon, once he returned home, he started to have pervy thoughts when he reminisced and started to do what guys do when they have those urges lol
“ I can’t imagine my husband being locked up for sexual assault because of how other people viewed his actions. I’m glad I was able decide how I felt about his actions, otherwise we wouldn’t be married today :)”
—I completely understand this point of view haha and I’m happy for your marriage (✿◠‿◠)
•being easily jealous is one symptom of a toxic person.
there are key differences. One he’s a complete stranger she met like 5 minutes ago. Two she never apologized unlike your now husband. Three Just because you personally don’t see it as sexual assault on this show it doesn’t mean it’s not one. Your personal experience and feelings does not override the general rules. Look up sexual assault and see what it entails.
—I don’t know about the other shows but people have called out on her behavior in itaewon class.
It’s a fiction show but people are emotionally invested positively and negatively. People have the right to share their concerns and their distaste as much as one has the right to share their positive thoughts.
—that’s the definition of toxic and don’t forget punching someone in their sleep because how dare they call out their girlfriend name lol