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I don’t think it’s 2024 based on Grandpa’s dog. Hao An found the dog in 2005 and it passed away 16 years later.

Thanks! I thought I had to pay per advanced episode. This is more worth it

Everyday I spend hours trying to distract myself and stop me buying the next episode.

I like the second leads as well although I wish it was more them and not so much of Grandpa. I don't get the point of Grandpa's storyline and how it fits in with everything unless it's just to keep the second leads interacting. However, both being friends with the main leads should be enough to do that.

To reach out and have a conversation is fine, but the way they played it where she was so desperate didn't sit well with me. Anger would make more sense. But I suppose she was gaslit so badly that she thinks she needs him.

Yes, I'm looking forward to her character growth.

I kinda lost respect for Xifan after that text breakup. He was so awful to her and she knew it, yet she desperately tries to contact him afterwards. I realize it's hard to let go after a long a relationship, but an independent woman with self-respect would be angry and not desperate.

I sometimes get impatient with slow burn, but I like them when legitimate healing has to happen. One of my most favourite dramas is Meet Yourself and I don't think they got together until ep 30!

This is good to watch at the same time as The First Frost. A bit of light and fluffy vs trauma and angst. Even the cinematography gives such different vibes. This is so soft and pretty while TFF is dark and moody. I like balance in my life, so the two together is perfect for me.

I'm only halfway through ep 1 and her boyfriend is gaslighting her, but she keeps sending him messages. I saw a spoiler, so I'll hang in there.

Oh no! You’re going to summon that person who always posts it’s unrealistic how men in Chinese dramas stay pure into their late 20s. I happen to believe it’s still possible, rare but possible.

The tiny smile while she’s leaving his bedroom is what got me today

Some Chinese viewers took issue with how she was assaulted/harassed even more than in the novel. Like the flasher scene is supposedly not in the novel. The drama isn’t lacking, it’s mostly that things were added to a popular novel.

So hard waiting for ep 15! I almost paid the extra advance episode fee on Youku, but it’s just another couple of hours.

This is my recommendation as well. It's similar in that both female leads are healing and the male leads are in love but just quietly support the FL. Hopefully this isn't as much of a slow burn although I loved the deep friendship and flirting in Meet Yourself before they get together.

My guess is no. Her dancing isn't very good(not the right posture and arm positions look a bit awkward), but I like her anyway.

That scene finally made me cry. I was close in other scenes, but that one got me.

Sounds like this mother is in the same club as the Go Ahead abusive mother.

Am only on ep 5 and already can’t stand Wen Yi Fan’s mother. I hope they don’t reconcile.

This is my first drama of 2025 that I'm watching while it's actively airing. I'm hoping it heals me of the trauma I got from watching an ongoing drama last year. So far so good!