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Totally get it. If it isn’t for you then you should drop it. But she will get better although it’s not in her character and how she is raised. If you like real character development (not the speedy unrealistic 180 turn around), the stories about a corrupt hotel and really really slow burn romance the it’s really worth another visit.

Cane here from your comment at TEoM to discover I already watched this 3 years ago 🥲😉. Happy viewing!

The bits shown in the opening en ending are confusing. The face off on the motor with Duan. And the hug with a very surprised RX. I guess we just have to wait and see….

Son of Mr Tan. Thought of him as 3ML interested in FL after 2ML scumbag ex-husband and of course ML Kenny G. But a (almost) kiss scene with 3ML??? And I see a 2FL as a new face in the future. I reallly can’t wait!!!

16 eps in 1 1/1 days and now I have to wait 21 hours…
I watched the opening and ending to look for spoilers and that makes me even want to see the whole series more. Question in spoiler:

At first a really thought Duan JR could have a thing for QQ but right now I’m pretty sure XR is more than interested. But she isn’t there (yet?).

Correct my earlier guess: QQ will be (is) XR love interest.

We started to early because when we catch up so soon we have to wait….

Exactly, wich was 11 years ago.

Yeah that’s her debt. To me unbelievable that you will take a loan out for your parents and pay for it. But I was wondering more about how he is 2M in debt and can’t pay her the 8M as stated in the divorce settlement.

I’m guessing QQ wil become his love interest.

Sometimes I think it’s getting better and then the next scene it’s fully blown up again 😂😂😂

I don’t understand the debt at all. First I thought it was a business debt she was unaware of. But he doesn’t own a business. Later she explains to her parents that the house is his from his parents. But no explanation about the debt. Is it even real? Or a trick from garbage ex? He lives his life like nothing is wrong.
The parents are so disgusting. All they want is money. And the mistress, I really have no words for her.

I’m getting started and on ep 4. I really really dislike the FL family. Even more then the garbage husband. The mistress comes in second. Normally I’m all for blaming the cheating party alone but she is a different level of evil. They truly deserve each other.
I’ve read al lot of comments saying they dislike FL. I really don’t. Sure she made a choice to support her husband and don’t work. I don’t blame her for that. She did what she thought was the right choice at the time. And after ten years of being devoted (wich is really not easy!) she discovered her husband isn’t the man she thought he was. She was in shock, her whole life a lie. It takes time to wrap your head around that kind of revelation. But she came around really quick. And was decisive in the divorce. Ok she is really being bullied by her family. But to me that’s not being a doormat but being emotionally blackmailed because they took her in. I learned by watching many Chinese drama’s that children should be endless grateful to parents that they are born and raised on a different level then I’m used to here in Europe. When you are raised by people who are not biological related it seems you have to service and cater them whenever, wherever and with whatever. I really hope FL can break free of this society set rule but to me she is no doormat.

I’m on ep 2 and I was wondering if his hair styling would get better after the middle eastern wind 💨😉😁

I agree with you for the most part. But for me he still shows red flag behaviour. Besides the misunderstandings, not communicating with her, never asking alway assuming and the way he never actually apologizes in words. That all can be his insecurities and the influence of Rong ands Fei. But ep 4 while walking home he calls her unmotivated, lazy, spoiled. For me that’s when he lost me. Because he chose to say those words all by himself.

It’s on going, 2 eps a day till we reach the end at ep 36.

I don’t think the comments are about paying/money but the way the commenters feel about this. He first tricked her in to buying dinner for the team with him, then choose a fancy restaurant, order a lot of expensive dishes. on top of that he ‘forgets’ his wallet and let her pay for it all. After the harsh treatment from SML and from ML himself (caused by his misunderstanding but still) viewers want her to be treated as a princess.
To me that scene is about connection and easiness. ML his teasing (fully aware of her being able to pay easily) creates a bond between them. Later he buys her clothes and gives her his wallet to play. That shows it’s not about money, it’s about equality and trust. It’s also a contrast with SML who is always insecure about money and always what to be equal. Like paying back the hospital money with interest.

The girl who fell in love with ML at the party is the adoptive daughter of FL father. The daughter of the woman who is later explained as the reason for the divorce between FL parents. The old friend with only a few years to live (still and again). So the ML thinks he is asked to meet the FL wich he is eager to do so. But the FL didn’t notice ML at that party, doesn’t know him at all and never had a meeting planned. After ML accident the girl who wanted to meet him never shows up in the hospital so ML has a grudge against her for that. Still thinking it’s FL. That misunderstanding hasn’t been cleared up yet as of ep 10.

Ep 1: 3:52 ML gets call from friend Jiaqi. Jaiqi asks ML to come to Wuxi to meet a girl. She fell in love with ML at first sight at his (Jaqi) mother party. Jaqi says to ML that the girl is really stunning and Nie Chengyuan’s daughter. Flashback from ML to the party: ML staring at FL (5:05). Love at first sight for him. He suddenly agrees to the meeting. Next scene ML is in his car to Wuxi to meet her and has an major accident. Spoiler below.