SimbiAni

It just comes down to ~emotional maturity & sense, so yeah, stupid selfish ppl "in love"? Boring, annoying, beyond frustrating, etc.. I prefer having *good* ppl in love working ~together, supporting each other, & ~respecting their multifaceted romances <3

Such relationships ~do exist in real life, they just take a lot of sincere effort & genuine compromise. But it seems with media, writers choose more often to go with ~amping up lame jealousy & "competition" soley for the sake of "drama" & "comedy".. ugh.

Looking fwd to the day I can enjoy a true (or at least more serious potential) poly-ship, with only ~external conflicts, not tired internal ones.. maybe by 2040? loool <3

truth haha <3

^w^ this picture is my new "happy place":
https://kisskh.at/photos/pVnln_3

Hmm, I don't know any Thai actors ~well enough~ to fancast this, but.. LOL xD

BOF was more about aaall the *ships* for me: first JiHoo/JunPyo, then JiHoo/JanDi, then OT3 of JH/JD/JP.. with a bit of JanDi/JaeKyung.. even OT4 near end JH/JP/JD/JK <3 plus of course the supporting ships: WooBin/YiJoung, YiJoung/GaEul, & secondary OT3 = WB/YJ/GE ;P

I haven't yet watched any other versions besides the Korean one, but I'm hoping others will be just as.. ~poly-shippable? Yeah, that pretty much sums it up! *fingers crossed*

Fave "slashy" moment: https://k-ddramas.tumblr.com/post/27125759938

..riight?? I got this paired w/Eternal Monarch & so I'm 9 eps into that too & like, I'ma need the AU where JY/LG is the canon ship LOL <3

~ but in that one I'd be cool with an OT4 cuz I like TE/SJ too ^u^

There might be a misperception of what ~kind of teacher YW is; just *gym* & homeroom, no specific work subjects. I've also yet to see any "big scandals" with other "school employees living with students in ~parental/etc type of relationships", in other school stories.. only when it's the ~student themself *romantically* involved. Seems like just seeing students with parents, step-parents, & "other labels" being connected to school is common.. do you have any recommendations I should check out?

I don't think DO should forgive AJ either, but of course they will write him that way! Then I think about HN's position as the daughter who lost aaall that time & for what..?? Honestly, I'd have a hard time forgiving my parent for that too, if they were so quick to thow out a serious relationship & their own kid's future childhood without a single face-to-face confrontation first.. >.<

Like, they have AJ being ~23ish when she made that stupid & shortsighted decision, but then to never question it, not ONCE over the next ~14 years?? That's taking stubborn & hardheaded to a whole new level.. a very low one!

my mentally-rewritten version has DO&YW ending up together <3 & I think it's actually the first time I want to leave the girl ~out of potential trio-ship.. pfftt x.x

"pre-peeved", yup this is totally a thing now u.u* #freeDaeOh

suddenly I'm reminded of some song lyrics.. "you’re dancing while I’m dying / laughing while I’m crying / denying the mess you made" ;(

If YW had "nothing better to do", then so did PD & RJ, since they ALL went off "stalking" AJ to the island in their "free time", lol. But I identify with YW cuz if my old friend (& decade+ crush I still needed to "get over", siighh) was ~hijacked by an ex that supposedly ~hurt them as bad as AJ claimed DO did (however vague), I'd genuinely be tempted to show up there too! But it does suck, caring that much about someone.. ;(

I totally agree about DO tho, like the only reaction I can imagine him having is breaking down into a sobbing wreck.. aarrghh, that's gonna huurt!! To think how he's actually been *alone* all this time & all for ~nothing.. ;(((

When RJ said he ~regretted "befriending DO" & "becoming a trio", just.. oyy, HE became "dead to me" with those words. Him & his fakery can get gone, no one needs that kind of selfish jealousy in their life. Most especially not ~HN, who deserves a father figure who knows the meaning of being ~selfLESS. <3

..the ~knuckles?? of all the places on a hand?? Wait, there are people (of any age) who have NO "knuckle crinkles"?? Pretty sure I can recall them being there from birth, cuz that's how knuckleskin can stretch, lol.. in my experience, it's much more common for the ~veins becoming extremely visible on the ~top of the hand that ppl see as "aging".. especially when they begin showing in a "popping out" kind of way; but who actually looks at hands that much to care? xD

Tho it sounds like it's really difficult for people with ageism etc issues, if they can't enjoy ppl of varying ages in the same story without only focusing on how old/young the actors look.. while to me everyone looks the same, so I'm only occupied by the story itself. I once knew somebody tho who could only focus on people's ~pores, lol that was awkward. HDTV has been ~complicated for them! ;P

As for YW being called a "stalker", while RJ is off attempting to give those gifts to a *14yr-old HN* ~behind her mom's back (& at school, whyyy) & DO goes & literally hijacks an island trip with AJ to get her to himself.. I don't get it. YW has been wayy decent by comparison. But once he knows the truth about what happened to DO, that will be the true test of his character.. I'm really looking forward to that. If he doesn't immediately take DO's side, then his canon version will be officially ruined for me. Same if DO forgives AJ too easily.

When it comes to "creepiness", I really only apply that term to ~actual "bad guy" characters, & young ones have totally existed- just check out "It's Okay Daddy's Girl" & "Hello Monster / I Remember You"; wicked creepy "youths" there!

I've looong since lost all faith in this having any sense.. I just seriously do not see how ANY misunderstanding could possibly make up for the extremely ~unreasonable attitude of "okay, we can make a movie together BUT I still am aiming to keep you as far away from the life of *our child* as possible"..

The idea of "age" etc in Korea is indeed different than most, they count from ~conception for one & round up / add an extra year because of it. I personally see no difference between late 20s & early 30s for most anyone anywhere, actually it's only after ~50s that it gets truly noticeable to me. I don't much follow the hand thing because I have seen even teens & 20s ppl with really "old-looking" hands, & vice-versa of older ppl with very smooth hands. Then there's mine, which still look like the hands of a ~toddler, unfortunately, lol. http://archive.is/DlNWe

Also in the "acting world", age has never really mattered, overall.. or else 24yr-old Tom Welling wdnt have been able to play a ~14yr-old Clark Kent in Smallville (as well as become super-close to new rich bff, 21yr-old Lex Luthor after saving his life, played by 29yr-old Michael Rosenbaum, lol) whose 14yr-old crush Lana Lang was even played 18yr-old Kristin Kreuk.. yeah, that was a weird triangle too ;P

YW was not a neighbor of AJ, & we even saw how they first met- at a sauna she & her mom were working at. She saved him after a hazing by his jerk classmates left him stranded there & she vowed to protect him if he was ever bullied again. He was just going into college while she was alrdy some years ahead of him. They ended up with taking one course together, smth like "Life Economics", doing assignments ie the Preparing for Parenthood one that they ~partnered up for. Then they stayed friends until she abruptly moved away.

The character that KJS is playing (YW) is around the same age as DaSom's (AR); 1987 = 18-going-on-19 (Korean "20") in 2006, & 32-33/"34" now.. yet AR is also pretending she is a '91er tho, so her being paired with ~RJ in their film is kind of awkward too.. but yeah, KJS & DS are both just 27-28 in real life, & as it's not that often "younger plays older", it's more of a neat twist on the opposite ;P

It's official- RJ is one of the WORST friends EVER.. why tf would you seriously stay by the side of someone you actually *resented* that much (due to your own greed & stupidity)? Did he REALLY think that DO & AJ would ~never run into each other, ~ever again?? Was he reeally planning on being a FAKE "friend" forever, all the while knowing how much DO was hurt?? RJ is too selfish to be redeemed at this point & his foolish clownery is tired too.

AJ is even more ~beyond ridiculous. The very LEAST she could've said by now is "well, basically I saw you clearly cheating on me & I was too much of a coward to confront you about it!" I ~deeply wish for both DO&YW to get over her, cuz what is even the point..? She ditched them both without a single word ~14yrs ago & caused her own daughter to suffer from her cowardice & lies.

So at this point I really just want to see DO/YW coparenting HN, because the three of them would be super ~adorable together, like if not in this series- somebody please make that <3

Also, PD- *please* have a heart-to-heart with your son already, because he's waaayyy too young for the crazy soapy stress of "oh my gosh, my crush might be my ~sibling!" o.o

Exactly on that last line, she totally ~ghosted him, & if there's actually *real love* involved, no one should be treated that way. I'd definitely be worried that they'd run off again at the next slightest misunderstanding. That kind of person who'd rather just throw everything away only because they don't have the sense to ~talk it out.. ugh.

I think she ~did kno that she was pregnant tho, just the "drinking culture" in general is so prevalent.. ;( http://archive.is/zg5UO

I personally count by the hours, so like this a classic ~16hr series just "split-listed" as 32x 30(ish)mns instead due to weird ad-break rules causing certain series to "pretend" that their episodes are "separate" when they want/need more ad time (financial support via sponsors outside the story).. Viki's suppliers caught on with this series & simply post each day's double eps as one full hour; unlike other split series, such as ~My Fellow Citizens, which is 18hrs in 36eps on Viki, from last year. I'm also syncing these 2 series, so I'm 8hrs thru both. MFC is better by far <3

lmao no killing, I'm not that type n.n" when it comes to this story, I'm just extremely confused to why the creators dressed this up as such an "upbeat, cheery" story.. when it really is so not.. feels like, *romcom-baited*? cuz it's actually more ~melo instead.. Idk how AJ can possibly redeem herself at this point, but I'm so curious, I'm just gonna be staying tuned-in anyway, so.. ^.^

*sending hopeful vibes of comfort / healing / etc* <3

It really just said "please forget last night", which could mean anything, like her telling him a secret, etc. His own wild imagination could've simply "filled in the blanks", especially since a part of him always wanted that to happen anyway.. so he must've been the one that somehow got super drunk that night, enough to blackout. It's another tired trope, unfortunately.

(as of the 8th hour of 16, eps 15-16 of 32, aka 50% in)

Halfway through & there's practically ~zero development on what exactly happened in their past lives & how they are all connected, or how they even got together & why they were separated, & what exactly kept them apart each time?? & was DG also in the first two with HJ & JW, in the same tragically "unrequited" role?? Plus, how did they die each time too?? SO MANY QUESTIONS >.<

This is one crazy "soulmates across time" trio-ship that needs a LOT of work!

Why does anybody (dis)like anybody? It's just a ~combination of factors that we find (un)appealing, inside & out, whether it comes to chars or ppl.. <3

Why is YW "her best option"? Eh, I don't agree with that one actually, at least in canon as written so far.. the more I think about it, I think AJ'd probably be better off alone, the way she has ~chosen to live for all those years. Even tho her own so-called friend straight-out calls her "a dried-up tree that just needs to be watered" (what kinda awkward metaphor is that) & to her ~mom of all ppl.. siighh. Too bad I can't just take YW&DO for myself, lol I'd really love to see them ~bonding instead of these same old tiired competitive clichés <3