TheStarsOfTheLion

There is a case in real life where the heir of Red Bull did a hit and run on a policeman and killed him in 2012, but due to his family's money and connection, he's still not convicted until now - after 12 years have passed.
Yet, here many of you criticized Kan's action. I suppose as long as one has a pretty face then you all would side with them even if that's the devil.

I, on my own, applause Kan for doing what she did and made Home take responsibility for his action. He doesn't deserve a pleasant pace of his own when the pain of his victims is taken into consideration - Peach lost his career and lived with guilt for along time, and Pang experienced the fear and pain of losing her brother for real when the doctor announced that he didn't make it. Not to mention that Home's family would continue to cover it up and prevent the truth from ever being revealed, for this is a matter of the family's fame and reputation.
I hope there will be more be more people like Kan and do what she did in real life, to bring justice to the victims of hit and run cases, as well as other cases.

So "give the best time to Sera" is the excuse to bring another girl into the date of two, and not stop talking about her even when the girlfriend already express her annoying at bringing her into their alone-time.
What's your girlfriend's reaction when you cannot stop talking about another girl in the date with her?

It's easier to talk and seek advice from outsiders than to say it to your partner and risk coming off as over-possessive and controlling. It is understandable.

Though, you do make good points. Star lacks the suave needed to maintain a relationship. While Lune lacks the sensitivity to be a good boyfriend, while is also still tangled up in his past relationship with his need to make up for Sera.
They're not ready to start a relationship.

"no one’s running away. you keep repeating that like it’s proving anything different when it isn’t." - You STILL not answer the reason for the "obvious" that partner are called "significant other".
If it's prove nothing, then answer it.

"yes those are the lines I wrote and they are still true." - Now it comes back to the points I gave: "Not talking about your friend when you are in a date with your girlfriend is not cutting that friend out of your social circle. Be with your girlfriend in a once-in-ten-year event is not cutting other people from your social circle or not doing things for your friend.".
You made up the lies about Star want him to "completely abandoning your friends". Own up to the lie you made.

"He must created it first for her to have things to talk about. It's him first." - Don't lie and twist that truth with "she created it by not talking about it sooner", she can only talk AFTER he had done it.

"I asked what hasn’t he done for star" - "Only that when Star asked him to do thing for her - go to a concert -, he didn't." "Yet he can do everything for the friend Sera, but not for girlfriend".

P.S. Ran out of logic to back up your unreasonable point so blocking me like coward, do you?

"either way, only a toxic person would want you to cut out the most important people in their life. it’s like he can’t have any other friends even though he was sera’s friend first."
"it’s giving the same energy of getting into a relationships and then just completely abandoning your friends. that’s not right."
Those are what you wrote. Those are the lies you made up. Own up to what you wrote.

"It's his responsibility to pay attention to his girlfriend. Him not doing that created "what’s wrong" in the first place." - He created it because she didn't talk about the issue? No. He must created it first for her to have things to talk about. It's him first.

"there’s nothing he did for sera that he didn’t do for her. plus he doesn’t have to do everything." - Yet he can do everything for the friend Sera, but not for girlfriend.

"thanks for staying the obvious" - Then tell me the reason for that obvious fact. You still try to run away from this truth.

You made accusation that she make him "completely abandoning your friends", so I pointed out those points to disprove that.
What "she’s said absolutely nothing" has anything to do with this? It's you who have reading comprehension.
You said "completely abandoning your friends", not "we’re talking about doing things for that friend who you’ve known forever and have no other relationship with other than friendship is perfectly fine".
Re-read what you wrote.

It's his responsibility to pay attention to his girlfriend. Him not doing that created "what’s wrong" in the first place.

"he can celebrate her leaving the country like the good friend he is while still being in love with star and doing things for her" - Only that when Star asked him to do thing for her - go to a concert -, he didn't. Period.

"That's why "SIGNIFICANT other" is used to call girlfriend/boyfriend and not for friend." - You still didn't have an answer for this.

"Not talking about your friend when you are in a date with your girlfriend is not cutting that friend out of your social circle.
Be with your girlfriend in a once-in-ten-year event is not cutting other people from your social circle or not doing things for your friend."
- It doesn't matter what kind of drama from ep 5, you make accusation that she make him "completely abandoning your friends" despite what I already mentioned above. That's your lie.

"It's his responsibility not to pay attention to another girl during the date, not the girlfriend's responsibility to tell him to pay attention to her." - It's his responsibility first. You're putting the blame on the girl for the boy's infraction.

And most prominently, you still try to run away from this truth: "That's why "SIGNIFICANT other" is used to call girlfriend/boyfriend and not for friend."

Not talking about your friend when you are in a date with your girlfriend is not cutting that friend out of your social circle.
Be with your girlfriend in a once-in-ten-year event is not cutting other people from your social circle or not doing things for your friend.

"no she didn’t" - It's his responsibility not to pay attention to another girl during the date, not the girlfriend's responsibility to tell him to pay attention to her. And still, she said it in his face that stop talking about another girl in their dinner date.

"it’s you assuming every one who’s ever dated someone ends up married. which is 100% not true." - I didn't make that assumption. It's you who make that assumption as excuse to not acknowledge the significance of girlfriend/boyfriend. You intentionally ignore the fact that it's not 100% true is because it's not work out 100% of the time. Yet, whether it's work out or not, the essence of that kind of relationship is to head to marriage.
I repeat: "That's why "SIGNIFICANT other" is used to call girlfriend/boyfriend and not for friend."

"completely abandoning your friends" - And there is that accusation again.
At this point, it's clear that in your desperate attempt to make excuse for Lune, or just actually not to admit that you're wrong, you made up exaggerate lies for it.

"either way, only a toxic person would want you to cut out the most important people in their life. it’s like he can’t have any other friends even though he was sera’s friend first" - And Star didn't attempt this. You love to make things up, don't you?

"“Star tried to work out the problem” did she though" - She did. Otherwise, she wouldn't propose a dinner date herself.

"imagine not thinking that friendship is just as important as relationships." - I can imagine that because it is true that friendship is not as important as romantic relationship. That's why "SIGNIFICANT other" is used to call girlfriend/boyfriend and not for friend. The ones that say otherwise are those who are not serious with their relationship and their girlfriend/boyfriend are actually just a friend-with-benefit/fuck buddy. A real girlfriend/boyfriend is the person meant to be a wife/husband in the future, if the relationship works out. They're not to be mixed up with the like of friends.
You failed to even differentiate friend from girlfriend to begin with.

If you don't mind sitcom genre (a genre that are iconic by background laughing track and theatric-like performance), then you can try out Rak Diao (also called One Love) to have a change of scene from other familiar BL series, like with lakorn genre of To Sir With Love.
It's available on You Tube with Eng sub.

I see that you rated Century of Love very high (10/10). Though in the first few episodes I've watched, I feel like the events happened was quite cringy (the overdramatic unthinkable pain every night) and the choreography was quite forced (like the scene of falling into the bathtub). So I was skeptical about continuing.
May you share with me your thought about that series and what you love about it?

The departure day and concert day are the same day in truth, so he must make the decision when the day comes whether she asked him or not. She just bring the question up to get the answer early, save the time.
Lune was stupid about it though, and his hesitation speaks poorly of his commitment to Star. If he can propose to her that they can go early to meet with Sera together, to give her an early departure goodbye, then he and Star would go to the concert on time. With that, he can show his commitment to Star, that he will still be with her when she needs him, and also keep his promise to his friend, all the while put a stronger note on the priority he has for his girlfriend hence he is with her on time while he adjusts the time table with friends. It would be beautiful and he would score good points, I believe.

But an outsider may have a better view and more of a sound mind than those who was tangled into the situation, I suppose.

You can call it as toxic, but can you have the peace of mind when you can't be sure that your girlfriend/boyfriend would choose you when your interest contradict with that of another one of her/his friend? Like when you're stranded and need them to pick you up, but they may choose to escorting their friends to a bar instead of picking you?

As for Star, she did break up with him after all.

Star didn't demand Lune to cut Sera off his life. You stretched that up. She made the dinner date in an attempt to work over the problem after all, to have something together of their own, separated from common time where they share with their friends. And Lune still brought "Sera" into it.
Sera is his friend. Friend, NOT GIRLFRIEND. Being a friend is not an excuse to bring them up when you're with your girlfriend, during dinner date even. A friend shouldn't be the person in your mind and the topic of your talk when you're with your girlfriend, like your girlfriend doesn't interest you.
It’s about choosing someone over another. If Star is not the more important person in his life, the person she can have the confident that he would choose when her interest and another of his friend's interest contradict, then what is the point of being a girlfriend? She would be just another friend then, like any others.

I agree.
Lune may love Star for real, but his actions doesn't support it and only chip away more and more Star's trust on him.
As for Star, it would be hard for her to bring the problem up without coming off as paranoia and controlling. She tried to work over it with the dinner date, but Lune still ruin it with "Sera" in his talk.
I also hope they won't end up together, to have consequence of their actions. And if they can make amend and return together, it should be after they've matured some more in the future.

It doesn't matter if it's right or not.
If you do it wrong but can confirm that the current relationship you're in is a lost cause because your lover's heart is not in it, so you can save your time and emotion from a wasted investment, would you do it?
"If you feel like you’re a substitute then don’t come up with a “test” to prove someone’s love for you" - I don't understand the logic behind this. Star felt like she's a substitute so she tested to know whether she's the important one in his heart. And once it seems like it's not, she can stepped away from the relationship so it would no longer consume more of her time and emotion and cause more heart-break later. I don't see how that is something she shouldn't do.
As I have said: it's about Lune and where his heart really be. And he failed to prove that it's with Star, despite his words.

Actions speak louder than words.
"he’s made it clear multiple times to star that he only wants her." - As in he said so, but his unconscious actions contradicted it.
"lune technically didn’t chose anyone bc the ep ended before he could" - There were plenty of time for him to make the decision when Star stood in front of him, he didn't make the choice was a choice in itself: His girlfriend is not important enough for him to confidently choose over a friend.
Star can be selfish in this matter, because love is selfish. You don't share your partner or your position as their important one with someone else.

It's not about Sera, but about Lune and where his heart really be.
Star doesn't want to be a substitute, a second-choice when it comes down to her and Lune's ex. Hence she asked him where he would rather with, Sera or her, when two events happened at the same time, and he failed to choose her - meaning she is not the priority in his heart, despite what his head and his words say.
That question of her is a test, like if one day in the future both Sera and Star get into accidents and need medical attention, whom Lune will be with?

I think Star wasn't bothered by Lune "talking" about Sera but about whether he really love her when another girl took up the space of his mind even when she is in front of him.
If it's me, I, too, would question whether his "love"words was sincere and true to his heart or not. And sadly, that isn't something you could just ask away, as the other people might not admit it even if it's true.

I don't think that Star think that something is gonna happen between them, but rather that Lune's heart is not exactly in their relationship. He might be with her and said he love her, but his heart and his unconscious actions steered towards Sera.
When asked who he would rather be with in a once of a lifetime moment (parting day and once in ten year concert), would his friend or his girlfriend be his priority, he confirmed her insecurity by cannot answering (meaning he consciously hesitates to choose his girlfriend over his friend).
It's not about Sera, it's about Lune and where his real affection be.