People seem to find the new episodes redundant but im actually enjoying them. Audience forgets that we see the male lead's thought process while the female lead does not. Im glad she's not jumping into another relationship and is asking the right questions because from her point of view, Mo Lingze is an enigma. One minute he'll tease her and act like a playboy and the next he'll be an absolute gentleman. Its confusing to her. Plus i actually prefer shows that take time dealing with misunderstandings before the mains start a relationship. So that these thing's don't happen later. If Qingyou had jumped into a relationship with Mo, she would be having these doubts still. It's important to clear all doubts regarding him before starting a new chapter. Also she was betrayed by someone who was with her for 10 years. Its going to leave a wound.
About today's episodes, my favourite parts were: 1) when qingyou talked into the payphone. Some of the things she said really touched me. And i can't believe people are critical of the actress. She's doing pretty well in my opinion. She acted that scene out very well 2) when Mo Lingze saw a drunk Qingyou and tried to nope out of there :') i could practically hear his brain screaming "Oh heck no, not again!"
Overall really nice episodes. I'm liking this drama a lot. I meant to watch this as something light after all the heavy and dark stuff i had been watching but im genuinely enjoying this. I don't know if this is a cliche C-drama because i havent seen more than 2 or three (i prefer korean dramas) but it's a likeable show with cute leads
For me the chemistry is a lot better in Before we get married. Because from the get go, we know that he just wants…
So basically, your opinion is an opinion while everyone else stating an opinion opposite to yours is personally attacking you.... And no matter how many times you say "FL is a bigger cheat than the SML" won't make it true. Literally 90% of the people here have repeatedly explained why the FL is not a cheater but instead of reading their comments you just repeat the same sentences. Since you skim through a few lines on a comment section, i can believe that you skim through the episodes of this drama as well. I really don't understand why you're even watching this. When i dislike a show, i stop watching it. I don't haunt the comment sections, turning it into a toxic negative place. You've stated once that you don't like the FL. Why do you have to repeat it under multiple comments? Either watch the show or don't, but don't bring toxicity here. Giving your opinion is not toxic, but commenting under random people's comments about how hateful the FL and ML are is certainly toxic
https://youtu.be/5O_uexhzT1s the Chemistry oh my God!
Awww they are so cute! (Im amazed they managed to shoot the drama at all since they seem to be playing around most of the time lol) Wish i could understand what they were saying
For me the chemistry is a lot better in Before we get married. Because from the get go, we know that he just wants…
You are spot on! The problem is that the other person seems to think that everything needs to be spelled out on excruciating detail. I fail to understand why they are even watching this show when they are clearly not even paying attention to it. I agree wholeheartedly with everything you've said. It was eloquently put
For me the chemistry is a lot better in Before we get married. Because from the get go, we know that he just wants…
Dude how much clearer can it be that they had broken up!?! Are you for real?? She asks him about the picture, he admits to it, tries to justify it and ask her to trusts him. She throws wine at his face and leaves. How much more obvious does it have to be that they broke up??? And if they hadn't broken up, why did her boyfriend keep asking her to give him another chance? Dude.....like no just stop.
For me the chemistry is a lot better in Before we get married. Because from the get go, we know that he just wants…
*sighs* please just stop watching this drama.... And i can't believe you thinks she hadn't broken up before she went to drink. Like maybe watch the first episode again. She had ended things from her side. This was no 'mistake' her boyfriend made. I can't believe you can call the female lead a cheat and in the same sentence say that the ex made a mistake. No he did not make a mistake, he cheated. He was caught. Simple as that. I get the feeling you are just skimming through the show and not watching it.
Being educated and independent has nothing to do it with it though. Shifting the blame to the victim rather than…
Because he doesn't love her. He wants a trophy wife. He wants to marry her because she has been groomed to his liking. Basically he has molded her to what he believes to be the ideal wife.
Atleast her BF confessed well after getting caught....we still don't know to what extent he cheated , i mean that…
Firstly this is a chinese drama and will not clear censorship boards if explicit scenes are included. The picture hence is enough to let us viewers know that the bf cheated. Not everything has to be shown in order for us to know it happened. How much clearer can it be when the FL outright asked about the cheating and the bf did not deny it? He was drunk? Well if drinking leads him to cheat then maybe he shouldn't drink. That was the one time her bf was caught in a picture. We have no clue as to how many times it has been and to be honest does it even matter whether it was once or more than once? He did it and if he gets drunk, he'll do it again. Their 10 year relationship has always had problems but this was the moment that broke them up. Regarding the male lead, he knows she has been cheated on and wants her to stand up for herself. He may not be going about it the right way but not even once has he told her to leave the ex and come to him. He questions her on her decision to to try and forgive the ex but not even once does he tell her to choose him or pick him. He is trying to stop her from committing to a toxic relationship. Whether he chooses him or not, he's left that to her. Regarding the female lead, no she hasn't cheated. The picture was sent to her by her best friend of many years. She has no reason to doubt it. She still talked to her bf to see if it would be cleared up. It wasnt. How much more obvious do you want it to be that he cheated on her and doesn't care that he did? He calls it an accident? An accident is when you trip over a pebble. An accident is when you break a vase. Getting drunk and intimate with someone who is not your significant other is not an accident. Also you miss a very crucial point in the drama which is that the female lead is not back with the ex bf. She isn't asking him to do anything that a bf does, he's doing that on his own without asking her. She has only asked him to earn her forgiveness. She has asked him to show her that this won't happen again. Instead what is her ex doing? Making their relationship as public as it can be so that she has no way out and has to go along with it. They are NOT together anymore, they are taking a break. Had she forgiven him and gotten back together with him, she would have had no problem finalising the wedding date. She tells him clearly that as of now the wedding is off. How much clearer can she get for you to understand that she's not together with the ex? As for drawing lines with the male lead, its because she has morals and knows that as long as she has decided to let her ex earn her forgiveness, she must keep the male lead away. She is also keeping him away because she thinks he's dangerous and she will end getting hurt. Hes also very different from her ex, someone who has been her bf for 10 years. To her, someone like the male lead is someone unreachable, unapproachable. Her attempts to keep the male lead away aren't only because of her ex. Its also because he scares her, because he's different. She has only ever known one man and that is the ex. The male lead is hence unfamiliar and unknown which is scary to her
I just saw a preview on Twitter and it made me so mad ahvfhvbjrbgjrbgjwrbvbIf there's no perfectly good explanation…
Given how manipulative her ex is and how he never takes her consent or feelings into consideration, he probably pulled something where it wasn't possible for the female lead to say no. We've seen how her character is; she hates having her private life out in the public. So she obviously isn't going to make a fuss. She'll stay quiet and go along with what's happening especially if her family emotionally blackmails her into it. Her father has clearly shown he would side with her ex no matter what so she's got no support there. It's wrong obviously for her to go along with it. She's strong enough to resist. But even the strongest person has an achilles heel. Her ex of 10 years probably knows exactly what to do and say for her to dance to his tune But i don't think it'll end as an open ending. She'll overcome this, don't you worry. Also this srama does not have "sad ending" vibes :p
SML was just drunk and he was taken in a picture. What about her? She was drunk and went to an hotel to play with…
I agree with most people here saying if the drama bothers you that much, just don't watch it. You watch dramas for enjoyment. If you aren't enjoying it, drop it. Because you don't see the message many of us are trying to convey regarding the female lead and we don't understand your viewpoint either. You can absolutely give your opinion, but then others can too. And if you dislike something so much, then just leave it
For me the chemistry is a lot better in Before we get married. Because from the get go, we know that he just wants…
She and male lead are most certainly not cheats. She is cheated on by her boyfriend of 10 years and breaks up with him. During their break up she gets to meet the male lead and he has clearly fallen for her. Her feelings aren't so clear but she definitely likes him. Her dad guilt trips her and she ends up giving her ex a chance. Now usually when we hear the words chance and ex we assume they are back together. But from what i have seen, she doesn't exactly get back together with him. She says that he has to earn her forgiveness and trust. She repeatedly tells him that the wedding is off indefinitely and will only be on once she is convinced. They are taking a sort of time off where they are not together but not exactly broken up. So no she's not cheating on him. The male lead is definitely making advances but she does her best to limit him. She draws a line between them, and lets him know clearly that she will not be with him as long as she's trying to forgive her ex. Thing is, her ex is still her ex. She never says they are back together. She doesn't correct people who think they are still together because there's still a chance she might forgive him and go through with the wedding. Private people very rarely let people in on the details of her life and the female lead is a private person. Why should she let her colleagues know about her relationship dynamics with ex when she herself hasn't made a decision? She constantly stops her ex from flaunting their relationship by telling him that they are taking time. That they need to work on things before anything else. This does NOT mean they are together. The first time she reciprocates the male lead's attention is when she hugs him back. And right after she makes the break up final. So no i won't say she's going around behind the SML's back. He wishes she would just so that he can say we're even but she won't do that
What's the use of being well educated & independent when you are forgiving a man who cheated on you months before…
Being educated and independent has nothing to do it with it though. Shifting the blame to the victim rather than the cheater is wrong. Her ex has very skillfully manipulated her for 10 years, you think she'll just be like ewwww i hate this guy? When he's groomed her for 10 years into believing she won't find someone if she dumps him? He cheats and she breaks up with him. She's guilt tripped into giving him another chance. Realizes it won't work out and breaks up again. I really don't see how the FL is the one in wrong here...
Yes, it literally is all about extremely crappy love triangle.FL and her BF are made for each other.ML is a gutless…
As i wrote below in reply @mooc is not entirely wrong about the plot but they over simplify it a bit. I'll give you a few more details (might miss a few things since I've only seen 6 episodes: Basically the female lead was with her boyfriend for 10 years. She finds out he cheated on her and breaks up with him. She meets the male lead on the same night. They have a bit of a misunderstanding regarding the events that transpired between them since the female lead was drunk and doesn't remember much. And the male lead is having way too much fun teasing her. Her ex fiancé asks her to give their relationship a chance but she continues to refuse. Eventually her father tells her about this huge sacrifice her ex made for her due to which she begins to feel guilty about not giving him a second chance. She doesn't exactly get back together with her ex, the way she puts it, it's more like she is giving him a chance to rectify his mistake and if he manages to convince her, she'll marry him. That's what i understood from it atleast up until the episodes i have seen. The male lead on the other hand likes her and does not want her to settle for someone who calls 'cheating' an accident. He's constantly trying to get her to see the error in giving her ex another chance. So yeah this is a show about two men and one woman. But one of them is a toxic manipulative douchebag and the other one just wants the female lead to have some self respect and leave the cheating douchebag. I usually dont watch such shows but ive been watching shows with dark themes back to back and wanted something light and fluffy to take the edge off. This show takes a pretty realistic approach on how torn people are about leaving their partners even after they find out they've been cheated on. Whether you watch this show or not entirely depends on the genre you like and what kind of drama you are in mood for currently. The acting and chemistry is definitely there as a plus
um I don't know what the dude up there is talking about, it's not a love triangle like that and trust me this…
I feel like you're over-simplifying the plot here. Which is fine if you don't like this show. I get it, because if i didnt like a show i too would probably just write down the things i didnt like and not take too much time on explaining the plot. But for the person wanting to know whether they should watch the show, i believe the plot should be explained in a bit more detail
"Young man do you know her"
"Nope"
Meanwhile Qingyou is using her shoe to call him :')
About today's episodes, my favourite parts were:
1) when qingyou talked into the payphone. Some of the things she said really touched me. And i can't believe people are critical of the actress. She's doing pretty well in my opinion. She acted that scene out very well
2) when Mo Lingze saw a drunk Qingyou and tried to nope out of there :') i could practically hear his brain screaming "Oh heck no, not again!"
Overall really nice episodes. I'm liking this drama a lot. I meant to watch this as something light after all the heavy and dark stuff i had been watching but im genuinely enjoying this. I don't know if this is a cliche C-drama because i havent seen more than 2 or three (i prefer korean dramas) but it's a likeable show with cute leads
And no matter how many times you say "FL is a bigger cheat than the SML" won't make it true. Literally 90% of the people here have repeatedly explained why the FL is not a cheater but instead of reading their comments you just repeat the same sentences. Since you skim through a few lines on a comment section, i can believe that you skim through the episodes of this drama as well. I really don't understand why you're even watching this. When i dislike a show, i stop watching it. I don't haunt the comment sections, turning it into a toxic negative place. You've stated once that you don't like the FL. Why do you have to repeat it under multiple comments? Either watch the show or don't, but don't bring toxicity here. Giving your opinion is not toxic, but commenting under random people's comments about how hateful the FL and ML are is certainly toxic
Wish i could understand what they were saying
I agree wholeheartedly with everything you've said. It was eloquently put
And i can't believe you thinks she hadn't broken up before she went to drink. Like maybe watch the first episode again. She had ended things from her side. This was no 'mistake' her boyfriend made. I can't believe you can call the female lead a cheat and in the same sentence say that the ex made a mistake. No he did not make a mistake, he cheated. He was caught. Simple as that. I get the feeling you are just skimming through the show and not watching it.
Regarding the female lead, no she hasn't cheated. The picture was sent to her by her best friend of many years. She has no reason to doubt it. She still talked to her bf to see if it would be cleared up. It wasnt. How much more obvious do you want it to be that he cheated on her and doesn't care that he did? He calls it an accident? An accident is when you trip over a pebble. An accident is when you break a vase. Getting drunk and intimate with someone who is not your significant other is not an accident.
Also you miss a very crucial point in the drama which is that the female lead is not back with the ex bf. She isn't asking him to do anything that a bf does, he's doing that on his own without asking her. She has only asked him to earn her forgiveness. She has asked him to show her that this won't happen again. Instead what is her ex doing? Making their relationship as public as it can be so that she has no way out and has to go along with it. They are NOT together anymore, they are taking a break. Had she forgiven him and gotten back together with him, she would have had no problem finalising the wedding date. She tells him clearly that as of now the wedding is off. How much clearer can she get for you to understand that she's not together with the ex? As for drawing lines with the male lead, its because she has morals and knows that as long as she has decided to let her ex earn her forgiveness, she must keep the male lead away. She is also keeping him away because she thinks he's dangerous and she will end getting hurt. Hes also very different from her ex, someone who has been her bf for 10 years. To her, someone like the male lead is someone unreachable, unapproachable. Her attempts to keep the male lead away aren't only because of her ex. Its also because he scares her, because he's different. She has only ever known one man and that is the ex. The male lead is hence unfamiliar and unknown which is scary to her
But i don't think it'll end as an open ending. She'll overcome this, don't you worry. Also this srama does not have "sad ending" vibes :p
She is cheated on by her boyfriend of 10 years and breaks up with him. During their break up she gets to meet the male lead and he has clearly fallen for her. Her feelings aren't so clear but she definitely likes him. Her dad guilt trips her and she ends up giving her ex a chance. Now usually when we hear the words chance and ex we assume they are back together. But from what i have seen, she doesn't exactly get back together with him. She says that he has to earn her forgiveness and trust. She repeatedly tells him that the wedding is off indefinitely and will only be on once she is convinced. They are taking a sort of time off where they are not together but not exactly broken up. So no she's not cheating on him. The male lead is definitely making advances but she does her best to limit him. She draws a line between them, and lets him know clearly that she will not be with him as long as she's trying to forgive her ex. Thing is, her ex is still her ex. She never says they are back together. She doesn't correct people who think they are still together because there's still a chance she might forgive him and go through with the wedding. Private people very rarely let people in on the details of her life and the female lead is a private person. Why should she let her colleagues know about her relationship dynamics with ex when she herself hasn't made a decision? She constantly stops her ex from flaunting their relationship by telling him that they are taking time. That they need to work on things before anything else. This does NOT mean they are together. The first time she reciprocates the male lead's attention is when she hugs him back. And right after she makes the break up final. So no i won't say she's going around behind the SML's back. He wishes she would just so that he can say we're even but she won't do that
Basically the female lead was with her boyfriend for 10 years. She finds out he cheated on her and breaks up with him. She meets the male lead on the same night. They have a bit of a misunderstanding regarding the events that transpired between them since the female lead was drunk and doesn't remember much. And the male lead is having way too much fun teasing her. Her ex fiancé asks her to give their relationship a chance but she continues to refuse. Eventually her father tells her about this huge sacrifice her ex made for her due to which she begins to feel guilty about not giving him a second chance. She doesn't exactly get back together with her ex, the way she puts it, it's more like she is giving him a chance to rectify his mistake and if he manages to convince her, she'll marry him. That's what i understood from it atleast up until the episodes i have seen. The male lead on the other hand likes her and does not want her to settle for someone who calls 'cheating' an accident. He's constantly trying to get her to see the error in giving her ex another chance.
So yeah this is a show about two men and one woman. But one of them is a toxic manipulative douchebag and the other one just wants the female lead to have some self respect and leave the cheating douchebag. I usually dont watch such shows but ive been watching shows with dark themes back to back and wanted something light and fluffy to take the edge off. This show takes a pretty realistic approach on how torn people are about leaving their partners even after they find out they've been cheated on. Whether you watch this show or not entirely depends on the genre you like and what kind of drama you are in mood for currently. The acting and chemistry is definitely there as a plus