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Replying to mrdramatic Nov 18, 2025
Title Miss King Spoiler
Her father gave up his title/career. How is that in any way comparable to what the FL and her mother went through?…
Japanese social and familial culture and expectations.

I understand it as well as a fellow Pacific-Asian (not Asian-Pacific which includes Oceania), forgiveness and familial bonds trumps.

In cultures like ours, forgiveness and reconciliation is a core thing. A family is considered the smallest unit of society and thus the very foundation a Nation is. If the family is weak, the Nation as well.

And so, if everyone can forgive each other and show that reconciliation is possible and we all aim for that, then the family unit is strong which in turn makes the Nation solid and resilient no matter what typhoon or earthquake it goes through.

In most other cultures, especially non-Asian, it's totally different. They value different things. Their way of thinking is different. Rights, revenge, getting even, cutting-off completely, are usually far more important than forgiveness and reconciliation and family and Nation.

That said, it wasn't about how the life the FL and her mother wint through is far worse than what her father had to go through, it is about how they all made mistakes and learned to forgive each other and reconcile their differences.

It isn't about cutting-off the woman who, for lack of a definitive term, "stole" her father and sired a son just because she was a total biatch to the FL and removed a key chapter in her father's memoire, rather it is about forgiveness and reconciliation. They met and started on the wrong foot because of decisions and circumstances that everyone made, and yet they met halfway, forgrve each other, and reconciled.

If you want, it was a win-win-win for all of them.

- She recovered her dignity.
- She and her father reconciled.
- The Yuuki family recovered their dignity as well.
- Her half-brother is finally getting closer to their father.
- Their father is finally no longer a "monster" who prioritized his reputation over his family.
- The FL, and step mom, joined forces to change the status of women in Japanese culture. After all, that was also the original goal of her step mom, she just lost her way.

And many more.

I am NOT saying that your concerns are not valid. I am NOT saying that this approach is applicable at all times (no, it is not, especially if the issue was a crime (like rape or murder)). But for this particular dynamic, it all comes down to culture. To forgiveness and reconciliation. To family. And to Nation.

You know that ancient proverb, "there is a time for everything".

πŸ––πŸ½
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Replying to IM YourOnlyOne Nov 17, 2025
Title Running Man
Hehe. Yep. In Korea, sports and national issues trumps all shows.National issues > Sports > everything else😁It's…
Another good thing, for weekly shows which were affected, it gives the entire cast and staff a much needed break. They usually film 1–2 weeks ahead. Now they have 1 weekly episode free time they can use later since they'll be 3 weeks ahead in filming if they don't use it.
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Replying to soonsetra Nov 17, 2025
Title Running Man
NOOOO... No episode this week because of the baseball match between japan and korea :"(((((((((((I was waiting…
Hehe. Yep. In Korea, sports and national issues trumps all shows.

National issues > Sports > everything else

😁

It's the healthiest terrestrial TV industry in the world. In most other countries, TV shows is top priority. National issues are for primetime news. And sports are exclusive to PPV channels. πŸ˜…
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Replying to Running Man Nov 17, 2025
Title Running Man
Replying to deleted comment
Usually, it's either because of sports or a national issue.
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Replying to Nam Joo Mine Nov 16, 2025
Title The Manipulated Spoiler
What’s Yo Han’s beef with Tae Joong?!
I think initially his subconscious was giving him hints he was his victim. He didn't understand it, he just acted on that "I don't like him for some reason" feeling.

It took him the entire episode to finally figure out why. 🀣 Now, the real fun begins. Even if he doesn't care the truth might get revealed about his business, his pride was hurt because a sheep is fighting the wolf. It turned personal.

I wouldn't be surprise if he doesn't care if his business shuts down, he can rebuild it. What's important is to settle a score. To prove that a sheep can never win against a wolf.
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Replying to IM YourOnlyOne Nov 16, 2025
The problem with him is he was blinded by money. I immediately knew it was a trap.In such cases, you bring it…
Yep! That rarely used tunnel was very suspicious.

It would've been understandable if he was under duress, like a family or friend was supposedly kidnapped. But just returning a phone, in a suspicious place. πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜… Too much greed for someone with work and supposedly aware that safety comes first.
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Replying to IM YourOnlyOne Nov 16, 2025
Title The Manipulated Spoiler
The problem with him is he was blinded by money. I immediately knew it was a trap.In such cases, you bring it…
Haha, true. The villain is master of manipulation. He'll find ways to create a story.
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Replying to IM YourOnlyOne Nov 16, 2025
Title The Manipulated Spoiler
1. Condoms.International fans almost always complain how in Korean productions, couples wake up with shirts on,…
Yep. It's two birds one stone. They also used it to plant the evidence.
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Replying to IM YourOnlyOne Nov 16, 2025
Title Moon River
Things I love with this show:1. The market sword quad scene. It was powerful and unique. There were so many subtle…
The funny stuff: the Korean water trope.

Yeah. Everything fantastical always happen with Koreans falling into a body of water.

It doesn't matter if it's a pale of water. It will suddenly turn as deep as the Pacific Ocean. πŸ˜†

Ironically, believe it or not, bodies of water is usually involved with many unexplainable legends and myths. For example, whenever there are reports of time slips, time travel, and parallel world glimpses and travels, water is almost always involved. It can be a body of water or there was heavy rain. You cae serach it, there are so many legends and myths of this around the world.

However, the Koreans are the only ones who actually turned it into a serious trope. Possibly also deeply rooted in ancient Korean culture. The rest of the world is just random yet many.
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On Moon River Nov 16, 2025
Title Moon River
Things I love with this show:

1. The market sword quad scene. It was powerful and unique. There were so many subtle clues and messages there. It was a multilayered scene. Even the way both MLs touched the sword were important. No, the 1ML's explanation of the scene was only the surface. There's more to it than that.

2. The approach. Typical drama focuses on the romance and court intrigue is a plot device only. In this show, the court politics is on equal footing at the romance. Neither is a plot device. They go hand-in-hand. The romance wouldn't exist without the court drama. The court drama wouldn't exist without the romance.
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On Pro Bono Nov 8, 2025
Title Pro Bono
This is going to be very funny with that cast. I can't wait!
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Replying to IM YourOnlyOne Nov 8, 2025
Title The Manipulated Spoiler
I did not realise the villain is KwangSu. πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†
He's the person Yohan called on the phone.
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Replying to IM YourOnlyOne Nov 8, 2025
Oh wait. She's the daugher of the assistant priest, right?
Ahh! I can't wait for that. She needs more exposure. She's talented.
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Replying to IM YourOnlyOne Nov 8, 2025
Title The Manipulated Spoiler
In addition, his way of getting money is actually brilliant.He finds errant children of reach people and waits…
It's basically any of that. As I've mentioned, he's a typical evil person.

A typical evil person is someone who grew up in the worst environment anyone can imagine and often dismiss. Parents who were mostly absent, or parents who are mean. Parents who taught them bad things. The kid only saw everything that is evil, so the kid grew up that way.

A typical evil character is not someone who was born that way. No one is born evil, and as I've said, humans are inherently good. It's the environment (a.k.a. the people you surround yourself with) that shapes us.

So, just think of that. The main villain is just that, a typical evil character. If they explore his background, it's a bonus. Although I doubt they will since the plot is about the ML's revenge.
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Replying to IM YourOnlyOne Nov 8, 2025
Oh wait. She's the daugher of the assistant priest, right?
They only showed for like 3 minutes.

Looks like she's going to play a bigger role.
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Replying to IM YourOnlyOne Nov 8, 2025
Wait, YunSu is in the show? I haven't seen her in the first 4 out of 12 episodes and she's a "main" character?
Oh wait. She's the daugher of the assistant priest, right?
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On The Manipulated Nov 8, 2025
Wait, YunSu is in the show? I haven't seen her in the first 4 out of 12 episodes and she's a "main" character?
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Replying to Daisies Nov 8, 2025
Title The Manipulated Spoiler
by watching ep1 , it is really hard to be kind and helps people/strangers nowadays even in real life πŸ₯²
The problem with him is he was blinded by money. I immediately knew it was a trap.

In such cases, you bring it to the police station. You never meet them outside of a police station or in suspicious places without any witnesses.

That's how we do it here in the Philippines. Either you keep it to yourself and be an arse, or you return it through the police station, news media office, or anywhere where there are witnesses. And you do it on your terms as an extra precaution (just in case they set up a public place that they already scouted).

The ML did everything wrong, including the "second" victim. They were both blinded by money. Seriously, the mere fact they offered a reward is itself a red flag. And the second you saw the place is suspicious, come on.

A reward that is offered like that is nothing but a carrot. Once you bite it, it's game over.
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