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Really? You dislike his jealousy? 😂 I actually find it ridiculously adorable. It’s so refreshing to see this silly, boyish side of him.
Outside of Miao Jing, the man practically walks around playing emotionally dead . She’s the only person who can make him sulk, pout, get possessive, and completely lose his composure.
The best part is that his jealousy isn’t rooted in a lack of trust. He believes in Miao Jing’s love. Deep down, he knows he is the biggest obstacle keeping them apart. But that doesn’t magically switch off his heart. How is he supposed to sit there looking unbothered when the woman he has loved for years is standing next to another man?

Zhang Linghe is the God of screen glue but I'm in a dilemma as I don't enjoy Wang Chun Ran. Nothing against her, somehow she just doesn't attract my attention. May be I will wait till the show is completed & then binge watch.

The reviews are a bit negative because the past isn't shown to full extent. Also because the show doesn't follow the novel but has taken the inspiration from it. No way the leads have a toxic relationship. If anything, their relationship is their whole identity.

Strangely, I’m loving both the measured pace and the angst. The more I watch Chen Yi and Miao Jing, the more convinced I am that their love was never waiting for an official label. It’s the quiet certainty at the core of who they are. They aren’t together yet simply because Chen Yi still has old scars to heal before they can build a future untouched by the past.
The car kiss scene (20/21) captured that perfectly. Chen Yi knew Miao Jing was creating a diversion, yet he never questioned her. Her confidence came from knowing his trust was absolute—as long as she was safe, he'll stand by her.
The beach scenes were equally beautiful, carrying the quiet promise of a love that’s simply waiting for its season. I also loved how openly Miao Jing talks about both their past and present. Relationships can weather almost any storm when the door to communication remains open. Chen Yi’s silence isn’t born of mistrust but of protection; the less she knows about his dangerous world, the safer she remains.
And I loved that she didn’t stop at threatening to leave—she actually did. Whether it was to protect Chen Yi from Zhang Bin’s manipulation or to make her point, coming home to an empty house was exactly the jolt Chen Yi needed. Miao Jing may love him unconditionally, but she won’t let him take that love for granted.
Lastly, I’m glad the drama is unveiling the truth about the fire one drop at a time. Some stories deserve to deepen into an ocean rather than arrive as a flood that leaves nothing more to discover.

Praising one doesn't require insulting others. Ai Mi is awesome in her looks and her talent. What a fine actress!

An actor's age is the age of the character they play. She is so talented why must they limit her to one kind of type.

Keep up the good work! What a beautiful & talented actress u r. Such a pleasure to watch u on screen

Started to watch the show recently for Hou Ming Hao but oh my the FL is so cute and equally talented. The leads look amazing together on screen. Loving the pairing. I have never seen Ai Mi's work before so this is so refreshing. Loving every but of it.

Thanks. I hope you get to enjoy their journey ♥️

I hope she gets a happy ending of her own.

Thanks, I’m glad we’re on the same page.

You summed it up so well. I think that’s exactly why this drama has resonated with me. The characters feel lived-in, flawed, and believable, so the emotional moments never feel manufactured. The writer gave us people first and drama second, and it makes all the difference.

If this is indeed their debut, they’ve set the bar incredibly high. I’ll definitely be keeping an eye on their future projects too.

I love all your takes. Wish we could petition to the censorship of no-dying clause. That would be perfect for me as well♥️

Thanks, I’m glad we share the same sentiment.

I wasn’t even thinking about the intimacy aspect, but what you mentioned does make sense. The way MJ is so sure of ML's existence in her life, I highly doubt she would have gone to that extent with anyone else.
Also, I’ll admit I’m a bit one-track minded. 😅 In most romance dramas, if a lead has an intimate relationship with someone other than their endgame partner, my little romance-loving heart gets personally offended. But this drama is different. The adults in Chen Yi and Miao Jing’s lives were such a mess that, honestly, the fact they grew up into kind, educated, functional adults feels like they already won every moral battle imaginable.

Exactly! Let’s just embrace the world of censorship and enjoy the story they’re choosing to tell. 😄

Honestly, the way Miao Jing’s boss/ex casually interacts with Chen Yi—and even casually brings up her old college crush—says a lot. There isn’t an ounce of territorial tension or unresolved romance there. If those relationships had been deeply significant, those conversations would feel completely different.
To me, these guys were probably friend-zoned (or emotionally out of the picture) long before they officially became “exes.” Everyone else in Miao Jing’s life felt temporary, but Chen Yi never was. That’s been the story all along.

For that moment, i think they should wait. They need to reveal a lot to eachother before stating the obvious.
They committed to this love ages ago as kids. Now if they want an official statement, it should be at a responsible level not just because they can't handle their body heat ;) what say mate?

Thats a good point but wouldn't you agree, There isn't a need to confess. Their love isn't something that needs 3 words to put a label on.

Chen Yi is an incredible male lead, and I don’t think many viewers would disagree with that. Where I see things differently is Miao Jing’s character.
I don’t think her love for Chen Yi is any less profound. The difference is that she isn’t someone who expresses love with softness or constant reassurance. She loves through expectations, persistence, and actions.
For six years she respected the separation he forced on them. She didn’t chase him or demand explanations. When she tells the police officer, “Six years is too long for me to give him,” it shows just how much of her life she willingly sacrificed while honoring the choice he made.
Some people see her as demanding, but I see it differently. Having expectations of someone means you believe they’re capable of more. Imagine being Chen Yi and having no one expect anything from you. That would mean no one cares whether you succeed, fail, disappear, or even die. Miao Jing expects him to take care of himself, to fight for a better life, and to stop carrying the world alone because she genuinely believes he’s worth more than the life he’s settled for.
The earrings and rain scene is a perfect example. It wasn’t about the earrings themselves. She deliberately pushed that issue because she wanted them to stop pretending those six years and their feelings meant nothing. When Chen Yi desperately searched a massive factory, digging through trash in the pouring rain for those tiny earrings, that wasn’t logic—it was instinct. His heart reacted before his mind could maintain the façade. That’s why she finally asks, “Chen Yi, why would your earrings mean nothing to me?” She wasn’t talking about jewelry; she was talking about everything they represented.

The prayer scene is another subtle moment. Chen Yi offers her his hand, but instead of simply taking it, she links her arm with his. To me, that says, “You’ve carried me for so long. Now let me walk beside you and help carry you.” It’s a quiet shift from being protected to wanting to be his support.

As for Miao Jing’s past relationships, I’d rather judge the drama than the novel. This adaptation takes inspiration from the novel, but the characters and story aren’t identical. Based on what we’ve actually seen on screen, none of the men who entered Miao Jing’s life felt like great loves. They were simply people she met while trying to live what she thought was a normal life after Chen Yi pushed her away. Chen Yi was doing exactly the same thing.
To me, both of them were just surviving. Their relationships felt more like “boyfriend because we’re classmates,” “boyfriend because we’re coworkers,” or “girlfriend because that’s what normal people are supposed to have.” They weren’t searching for the love of their lives anymore—they had already found that .
Neither of them truly moved on. They simply learned how to function while carrying an absence that never left them.Everyone else in their lives felt temporary, but they were never temporary to each other.

Unrelated, but whoever decided on naming Chen Yi and Cen Ye clearly woke up and chose violence against non-Chinese-speaking viewers. 😂