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You clearly want happy, go luck6, and clean cut BLs so stick to them.

But from that point forward he never said no to a condom again. The doctor told him that medican and condom use makes the risk of transmission almost non existent. Thats why even with the guy he truly loved he still refused to allow him to take off the condom which is why their sex life was non existent--because the other guy couldnt stay hard with a condom and didnt like bottoming.

The Gaga translations really are terrible.

This type of punishment was only outlawed recently in Korea. January 2021.

Lol. As someome who lives in Korea, this is totally common here though. People make and break relationships quickly.

A lot of tbe stuff you are complaining about is just really common here in Korea. But some of it is also just universal.

Gay people can be gay

Do you mean the s ene where his mom catches him with a boy in the park? Because thats flash back to high school.

He was a teenager in high school when he was committed. He didnt know her yet

I think he did too byt he thought on the first night that JS only called him because he had no one else to call. I think he also wasnt sure because they had never been on a date and wasnt sure if what they had as roommates would translate to the outside world. He even says as much when they were on their date. Its clear even before their date that they had quite a bit of skinship and theres the fact that the voice msssage was sent before the date.

Cause someone translated it now. I wish it had never been translated cause the English speaking world always seems to need something to be upset about. When it was on the Korean side it was literally just 'huh, interesting, thank you for the background info'.

This story is actually from over a month ago and he only answered the question about it because users were asking. Its only getting to you all now because a Twitter user decided to translate it but Korean watchers and many of is living in Korea already knew this and werent causing a fuss about it.

I personally appreciate the insight and background it gave to JS's coming out story but maybe thats just me.

He never said he was the Top on their relationship. He just said he was a Top on Namgyus channel because NG literally ask every single guest what their preferences are but its a preference.

I really do not get why people are so upset about this and honestly, this just really drives home the fact that a lot of people watching this know nothing about our community and keep pushing heteronormative bs on us. Its really common in the queer comminunity to be friends with your exes if you ended on good terms. Our community is very small so if you cut everyone off you have no friends. But also from the way CM talked about how they were both very young at the time and didnt know how cruel the world could be, it makes sense that CM is probably the ex that JS mom found out about and that lead JS to run away from home foe 6 months. CM said he was a college student and JS was a senior in high school when they dated. That means they went through a pretty traumatic experience when they were young, together and it would make sense that they are on good terms.

I actually had a very similar coming out experience to JS --my mother found my AIM chats. Im still friends with that ex and it was 18 years ago. I was 16 at the time.

Also people keep saying they couldnt have dated because they are both TOPs. This isnt a BL. These are real people. One, around 25% of gay couples dont do penetrative sex. Two, many people are versitle and positions change based on who they are dating. Im so annoyed reading all these people push heterosexual norms on queer people. Jesus.

I just want to say also that out of all the cast, SW is honestly translated the most inaccuratly and it makes a lot of what he says sound way worse than what he actually said. Like for example he never called JS reckless or that he eas frustrated at JS. He more so said that he was intimidated by JS and how sure JS is of himself and how he doesnt think he can compete with that. Even his phone booth call to SH was prettybadly translated.

Why do peoplw think positions are set? For a lot of us we might have one preference but it isnt set and we change. Plus, when youre young it takes time to figure things out.

They were literally looking for a specific shade of green and said that SWs green was too dull. People are really reaching just like you implied.

He even said on His Man that he was in the closet before his military service. Who are we to judge? He is very young and one thing a lot of gay people in the closet do is associate with gay people but might not admit it themselves. But he did mention on the show that he panicked when his friends foind his videos with YJ and that he wasnt quite ready to be out and that he would secretly watch queer media.

This is something that hopefully the series answers. It wasn't even clear how long Ji Hyun was actually in a coma in the movie version. Just that he was and then he wasn't. I got the impression though that it was probably for a while. Jae Won punches one of his classmates for saying that Ji Hyun is essentially good as dead. Jae Won has a lot of guilt over his brother's death that part is for sure so I can see him thinking that he is a risks to everyone he loves and therefore he will settle with being with someone he doesn't love.

Again this is me filling in the gaps because the character motivation was really unclear and lacking in the movie version.

It wasn't only a screening. It's playing at MegaBox theaters in Korea. I saw it on Wednesday, March 29th.