bloomingtide

Heh, i did some briefer takeaways of eps 39 in spite. Loved it, because it was finally a lighter one after all the doom and gloom, and especially the lack of bullshit duo was great. Now if only the demon we shall not name could vanish into the next loony bin that would be great, thanks.

It is obvious to everyone but her. Like she is the personified

https://youtu.be/eVddGSTjEd0?t=51 I swear 🙃

THE WAY I SCREAMED:

https://twitter.com/ferbooks2/status/1687897598450081793

They are really messing with us, i swear😂 😂 😂 Well time to charge the spell/prayer circle then:

https://twitter.com/sundogsnrainbow/status/1685664388106051585

Howler Monkey Inok: GET OUT OUT OF TAEKYUNG'S LIFE! I despise you and your child! Just LEAVE him alone!!!!!!!
Also howler monkey Inok: The reason i hate Yeondoo so much is because she left my son and made him suffer!!!!!!!

https://media.tenor.com/d7svLEeOMykAAAAC/wtf-is-going-on-the-wat.gif

i fear we need an exorcism at this point, like same vibe:

https://tenor.com/view/the-exorcist-o-exorcista-linda-blair-gif-14405484

baaaaack hoooome, ready to watch the raw and take some notes (not a full summary of course) happy that it appears to be a way more family drama worthy wholesome episode except for the demon who shall not be named, of course

Yeah it was cute. I hate how they keep vying for that bitches approval tho. Little dignity please?????

Anyone here throwing crumbs of updates as I get ready for my fam today? 🥺🥺🥺

Thanks, I'll make the best out of it since as introvert I find those fam gatherings always very exhausting/draining lol. But at least there will be cake so there is that 😁

Thanks. Haha no, my aunt made apple pie tho 😁

I may get strawberry 🍓 cake once TK/YD are legally married tho 🍰😋

Nah will never call it X, that moron can fuck off. It honestly sounds like a dingy porn site tbh. 💀

I think we be seeing Taekyung charming Bongnims socks off today in order to gain her approval and getting a big step closer to marriage registration. I bet he will tell her his plans for it too. And honestly her fam on their side is the best they can hope for currently so I hope they move these plans along instead of hoping for a miracle in form of a fruit or surprise result in a dna test lol. That can wait AFTER legal marriage.

As said im not around for the summary writing but will watch the full episode in the evening after getting my live tweet updates as it airs lol

I'm so sorry this happened to you 😞 While I have thankfully no personal experiences with stalkers, my friend has years ago... and I hate how light the drama makes of the issue without ever getting the police involved etc. This bastard makes my skin crawl whenever I he appears on screen and I think many women can relate here. It is unfortunately in times like this when you notice that a man is the head writer, because he obviously didn't think much of it to amp up one of his characters to a creepy stalker for the ~~dramatic tension~~ but without ever have him face consequences for such a endangering, unhinged and intrusive behavior. YIKES.

He would have to take one to make any legal claims or steps afaik yeah. It's what the only lawyer in existence in this show told him too, next to how without chances he is regarding custody but what this bastard conveniently has forgotten that going around screaming tHEy sToLe mY CHiLd. 🙄 I would expect him to sue TK for paternity fraud after a TK's peace of mind dna test for the lulz turns out (possibly and very surprisingly) with a high number of 99,9% as he would not back down after being humiliated like that, accusing TK of falsifying the test. (nothing worse for a narcissist than humiliation) so dna test if not legally admissible would have to be retaken for the court but it would be veeeeery unlikely to have different results then. 😂 I doubt he can force TK to do a dna test but the court could order it from TK to clear up this paternity dispute yeah. If it is not that maybe we go the usual sick child to find surprising results kdrama route lol.

Thanks you too, friendo. I'm around when it airs but after that I will be out and about due to my mother's birthday 🎂 So no summary from me this time. Hope we get a lighter episode at least, enough of all the wa wa waaah angst I'm tired 😩

Yep, there is a reason why i am calling him fuckboi. Because I think there is no more apt name for this trash of a man. JH is the kind of guy who makes women feel special in turning on the charm and them believe it is all about them, when in truth he is only focused on his own needs/wishes and gets them were he wants them. A manipulative, narcissistic shithead who, when confronted with his mistakes gaslights you into thinking it is your fault instead. (as he has done with after being caught red-handed. The cheating is your mistake, YD. You didnt trust me enough to marry me asap, so i felt insulted and i stumbled and fell with my dick.... ahem moving on)

With a guy like him, it is all about the ego and how to boost and satisfy it. He does not caaaaaaare about his partner, i am pretty sure by now he never really loved her. It was more her being his, like a possession, a status. Maybe he liked her success and was drawn to that idk, but it surely wasn't love and respect. JH has never been shown to possess these traits. In all his actions toward her, he only showed contempt. This is not how you treat a partner you nearly dated a year, even if you break up, especially if the breakup is caused by you. You don't tell a partner you love and respect "how it took ages with her to get to second base" snidely remarking on their unwillingness to get down and dirty earlier than that. Worse even, it sounds as though he hates how much time and effort he had to waste to get her to that point, as though the days of dating before that were a nuisance until he finally got her to the point where he wanted her to be. It is sickening, honestly. This is why i am saying YD's skittishness with intimacy and physical touch is due JH never bothered to making her feel appreciated and comfortable, while also being pushy and most likely also manipulative in the shitty ways of using her feelings against her (if you love me then you would…)

Plus he pretty much ditched her for next (hotter) prize as soon they spent the night together at their 300 days celebration. Because doing the math… she is six weeks along at the start of the drama and it is said that their one year celebration comes up soon, but JH is at this point already dickdeep into, well, crazy and loving it so much he wanted to propose, even. So that affair did not just came to be yesterday but certainly at some point after YD spent the night with him six weeks ago. A fuckboi through and through, as said. Another factor is… Yeondoo does not strike me as being experienced in relationships. Maybe JH was even her first serious bf seeing how focused she was on her career to the point of giving up everything, even her college friends for that goal to succeed as star instructor. So with her (likely) inexperience, she would have needed even more patience and reassurance to become comfortable with and ready for physical intimacy and JH… did the exact opposite. Not the ideal foundation to develop a healthy relationship with intimacy to begin with, especially regarding future relationships, when she automatically assumes the worst, aka being pressured and prodded into things she not want but does out of love, and thus prefers to withdraw from touch altogether. Because that is safer.

Taekyung may not know their full history, but he has seen enough with how abysmal and disrespectful this scumbag treated her. It is one of, if not the biggest, reason why he instantly came to detest JH in such a complete way that is very uncharacteristic for a normally polite, diplomatic “live and let live” guy like him. The whole cheating thing is another as we see in various situations how utterly disgusted Taekyung is when he is wrongly accused of it two times (once at the start of the drama and then later on with mr. one braincell brother in law) like even when he has a very strong reaction down to visceral aversion. It suits his sound moral compass and empathy for others that he finds infidelity abhorrent. Another reason why he is such a keeper, heh and why he thinks (rightfully) JH to be the lowest of low men. In their confrontation in TK's office early in the drama, Taekyung stood behind JH after having warned him already to stop, with his eyes on YD checking in with her for signs of discomfort, of her getting overwhelmed with the situation (which was a great character detail so early on, showing empathy and emotional intelligence alike) As this shithead started to become physical, cornering her and yelling at her to not latch on him and for TK to give her an abortion, TK had enough and stepped in. Of course we also had the wonderful talk of this dungpile about how she took forever to sleep with him so if not him who would even impregnate/sleep with her. So Taekyung not only stepped in and pulled her out of harm’s way, but also with declaring “it being him” and to be the father of the baby.

Like… that last part was definitely not needed but shows the extra miles he continued to go for YD. I feel he was so angry about shithead that he just needed to shut him up and get him away from YD, to protect her. Plus it had been his advice to tell her ex about her pregnancy, but he’d seen how bad an idea that would have been and thus he overcorrects his mistake with declaring he is the father hehe.

yeeeeeah, i wrote something similar as i analyzed their relationship and why YD is so touch-averse, but never finished it. can't remember where i saved it in my docs, but if i find it i may throw it in here. Bottom line is however that this creep seemed very pushy, not respecting her boundaries and he ditched her as soon he got her to sleep with him. (see with him moving on to the delulu debbie right after, since their affair was lasting weeks already as she found it out)

Edit: Found it, will throw it in here under a spoiler tag, because it is quite long.

yeah lol, just gimme a paternity dna test that surprisingly turns out to match with TK instead of the creep for whatever reasons, and i am happy lol.

Yeah, matches up. Haneul was conceived during 300 days celebration in the hotel. Hence why a lot alcohol could have been involved here lol.

btw there is another fan theory on youtube i remember being brought up here too, that Haneul gets seriously sick so everyone gets their blood test done to help. But here it is not to find out TK is eternally punished with a narcissistic sack of shit for a brother, but that welp as it turns out we get matches thru the bank for Taekyung and none for JH. So TK dun dun dun is Haneul's bio dad, or rather it proves that JH is not. Cue flashback a year ago at the hotel etc. Also time for howler monkey to choke on humble pie. 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳

(Re: blood matches and no matches, google tells me "although blood group studies cannot be used to prove paternity, they can provide unequivocal evidence that a male is not the father of a particular child. Since the red cell antigens are inherited as dominant traits, a child cannot have a blood group antigen that is not present in one or both parents." Sooooo yeah. )

Imo if they go that route, it would be the best approach because i cannot see TK getting a dna/blood test done otherwise because he won't think there is a reason to do that. Unless, of course, the bastard does a dna test for whatever reasons, and it turns out zero and thus he is going, with murderous intent to TK with it, lol. As volatile this creep is you just know he would not be able to hold back and spill all beans and I would need soooo much popcorn seeing him losing his shit and TK laughing in his face while inwardly racking his brain how that could be, lmao.

Yeah that is what i am saying here haha. Like first TK's hotel room, then out for some air while still very fuzzy, then her returning back into the right hotel room and "first" round with the bastard instead of, well, second as she thought lmao.