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Replying to pkhyber Mar 17, 2025
1) Journalist pursues truth about transponder technology and and bidding manjun and woosung. wusung ceo was the…
Thank you for this!
My head hurts, and I thought I fully understood for a moment (I've seen the film twice now) but then I lost that speck of light and now I'm not sure again. :D
I suppose a third watch and a third reading of your analysis is in order somewhere down the line.

Does the Internet enable more good than harm? I have no idea, but it's easy to believe the latter is true, especially with Douchebag Trump now installed in power here in the U.S. No doubt LOADS of deception was employed to put him where he is.
Replying to rulhalfelven Mar 17, 2025
Title Gelboys
This show's raw portrayal of Bangkok backdrop makes me love the city so much more.. no other series captured the…
Serious question: I have enjoyed the cinematography in Gelboys immensely, and one aspect of that is how Bangkok has been shot, including saturated colors, especially at night. But I have seen lots of cities shot that way in movies, all more or less just as lovely. The daytime shots appear like most any huge modern city to me. What do you find beautiful about Bangkok that you have not seen captured as well elsewhere as here?
On Gelboys Mar 17, 2025
Title Gelboys
The most depressing moment in this drama so far was when Bua reached out for emotional support to a...chatbot. Unless I misunderstood that part, and that's possible because I'm a fossil, but still...
Replying to xjustcallmecrazyx Mar 17, 2025
Title Gelboys
it’s so gen z coded I feel heard. like how chian switched to 2x watching cdrama or only having on close friend…
People watching shows/movies/whatever at 2x or whatever freaked me out when I learned of that a while back. I'm older than dirt, so could you help me out here? If you're not into a show enough to watch it at its own pace, then you're not really into it at all, so why not just, you know...drop it?

I don't mean this as a dis, but is it that Gen Zs can't abide a moment or two without something, anything, even if it's a freaking drama they don't give a shit about, distracting them from what I always thought of as...quiet time alone with one's thoughts, to think, to consider, ponder, or simply to blank out without any input whatsoever?

Do you think it's an addiction to constant stimulation that drives that sort of thing? I'm tossing about for reasons, and that's one of the first that comes to mind. To me, it's creepy af.
Lily Alice Mar 17, 2025
And thank you, MDL, for using the word "SCANDAL" for the six millionth time to get eyes on your trash article, spreading unproven allegations and accusations as if they are true.

Seriously, how many celebrities are you going to help put in the ground via suicide before you grow a conscience and stop promoting garbage like this? What? "We will never stop helping put celebrities in the ground," you say?

I'm not surprised.
Replying to pinkb7usher Mar 16, 2025
Title Gelboys
It's just like how Chian started to like Fou4mod but he didn't realize it till was too late.
Not if one believes Chian is a psycho.
Replying to momoka Mar 16, 2025
Title Gelboys
i hope that no matter who ends up with who we get a uni or post uni timeskip so i can see the characters actually…
"happy" makes for boring drama. :D
Replying to pinkb7usher Mar 16, 2025
Title Gelboys
It's just like how Chian started to like Fou4mod but he didn't realize it till was too late.
I don't think Chian likes Fou4mod...Chian is a psycho.
Replying to esttotwice Mar 16, 2025
Title Gelboys
I think baabin does like bua it’s just that he’s been liking foumod for so long so he doesn’t realise it…
That's a stretch...Baabin is admirably self-aware and controlled. The entire time he and Bua were experimenting it was obvious that Baabin was going with the flow to see how things went. And when they kissed...meh...he just wasn't really feeling it.
Replying to etoks21 Mar 16, 2025
Title Gelboys
He, perhaps more than Chian, would benefit from a month in a psych facility followed by ongoing counseling and…
Whoa. Bua the actor does not read as 15 or even 17 to me. 20 at the least, which I understand to be the actor's age.

It's fascinating to me how blase' several commenters are about a person pissing themselves in their clothing on an upholstered chair while on a call with other people. This is an extremely concerning incident, especially in light of how lacking in parental oversight and interest Bua is. Pretending it's no big deal is an avoidance tactic. Avoidance borne of the shame and stigma surrounding mental health.

Consider how easy it would have been for a healthy person to simply say "I need to go to the restroom" and sign off of the call, whether they really had to go or not, just as a way to leave an awkward situation. Instead, he either lost bladder control or CHOSE to pee his pants.
Replying to etoks21 Mar 16, 2025
Title Gelboys
He, perhaps more than Chian, would benefit from a month in a psych facility followed by ongoing counseling and…
I stand corrected. Healthy 17-year-olds don't piss in chairs over a love rejection either.
Replying to pinkb7usher Mar 16, 2025
Title Gelboys
"Poor Bua needs psychiatric support NOW " This is what I've been thinking since last episode, he needs psychological/psychiatric…
"I don't know why but I feel some transphobia in your comments."
lol This statement is comically predictable.

hmmm...so Thailand isn't as trans-friendly as I had assumed.
I mis-wrote regarding the flag sticker. I meant to write "pan sticker.
Replying to Nanapiote Mar 16, 2025
Title Gelboys
If I took a shot everytime I internally screamed "HANG UP NOW" during the zoom meeting scene I would be rotting…
EXACTLY. That they felt obligated to stick around when Chian the Psycho hijacked their class meeting is to me, another sign of how SM and SM addiction has changed social interaction. Would "None of your business...see ya!" really have been so hard to say?

Especially in the case of F4M however, that he DID stick around to hear all of that indicates to me he is still desperate for attention from Chian, regardless of all he knows about him already. Fatal attraction.
Replying to pinkb7usher Mar 16, 2025
Title Gelboys
"Poor Bua needs psychiatric support NOW " This is what I've been thinking since last episode, he needs psychological/psychiatric…
If you are gay with a hint of straight, you are bi.

Ah...but how do you know the character Faifa is trans just because the actress is trans? And what she is or is not packing is not my business, but it doesn't stop the issue from occurring to me, just as it does to most normally curious-minded people. There is a big difference between wondering about something and asking a person about it as though they owe me an explanation.

Assuming the character Fai IS trans, first of all it's kind of sad the actress is being limited to trans roles. Second of all, I feel I'm being preached at by the story line. "Ah, look at F4M, he's so with it he's down to date a girl, a dude, and a trans girl. And oh, he has a trans sticker!" That means he will meet and date a trans dude in episode 7.

Hey, maybe Baabin will turn out to be a trans guy. Or perhaps a straight girl cross-dresser. Thoughts?

Why wouldn't a trans girl in an all-boys high school be asked to trans-fer?
Replying to etoks21 Mar 16, 2025
Title Gelboys
He, perhaps more than Chian, would benefit from a month in a psych facility followed by ongoing counseling and…
Someone who loses control of bodily functions because a crush, with whom he is just getting started, rejects him doesn't seem "that mentally unwell" to you? Really? Got it. I'm considering that bit combined with all of the behaviors I've seen from him, as well as his tendency to stuff feelings and keep them hidden.

I didn't say he was "crazy." That word and its pejorative edge is part of the reason mental health has such a stigma around it. The pissing incident is a big red flag and needs some looking at. Unfortunately his mothers or whatever are nowhere to be seen to know he needs looking after. Perhaps the pee-stinky, discarded chair in their alley dumpster will be a hint.
Replying to etoks21 Mar 16, 2025
Title Gelboys
He, perhaps more than Chian, would benefit from a month in a psych facility followed by ongoing counseling and…
That's fine. I totally disagree as to how alarming pissing yourself in that situation is though. He is not a "kid," he's around 20 years old.
On Gelboys Mar 15, 2025
Title Gelboys
That bit with Bua and the upholstered chair near the end of ep. 6 made me gasp and my jaw drop to my chest; not with amusement, but with shock and low-grade horror. That is serious shit, people. That poor kid needs some help and attention fast or I fear the worst for him.

This writer/director is stunningly effective. Many such developments and the ways in which they have been revealed/presented are feature film-worthy.
Replying to etoks21 Mar 15, 2025
Title Gelboys
He, perhaps more than Chian, would benefit from a month in a psych facility followed by ongoing counseling and…
No, I'm not kidding and I'm not mocking the character. The other two, especially Chian (who is edging into serial killer territory), could use some help but neither of them has pissed themselves in an upholstered chair and then sat in it, all because his latest crush was honest with him. Bua's desperate need for constant attention/diversion/distraction is heartbreaking. In that regard, I feel for him the most of all these characters. We're talking suicidal here. Maybe that will be the penultimate shock to this tale.
On Gelboys Mar 15, 2025
Title Gelboys
End of episode 6:

Lord have mercy. I can think of no other BL that has troubled me so deeply at the same time it has annoyed the hell out of me.

1. Poor Bua needs psychiatric support NOW. I'm not snarking. Any person who experiences the kind of extreme physical response to that late-episode situation we saw near the end is in extreme danger of a breakdown and even suicide.

2. Chian is more of a double-douche than I already knew him to be. Inserting himself into that group/class meeting was a classic Chian the Dick move.

3. Perhaps even more astounding is that the other two didn't simply say "That is none of your business" and close out the meeting. The poor souls don't realize they have very basic options, such as refusing to be ambushed like that. SM culture has taught them they are somehow obligated, trapped in such situations. They're not. I would say the same of Bua, but he is so far gone into SM World there is no hope until after the psych intervention he so badly needs. Again, no snark. The lack of parenting is heartbreaking. There is no loving authority figure in his life to draw boundaries he's not equipped to draw on his own.

4. Faifa is a psycho too. Another commenter here ragged on me last week about Four4Mod being possibly "pan" or whatever. I call BS. He's clearly gay with a tiny sprinkling of straight. She's the classic fag-hag who moves in romantically on a gay friend when he's vulnerable, then acts hurt when the inevitable happens. I've seen this way too many times IRL.

5. When Faifa first spoke in the ep 1, I thought she was trans. Her voice is remarkably low. Did anyone else have that reaction? IS she trans? Is she packing a unit under that skirt? And wtf with her and the band nerds trapping F4M in the restroom? Fuck that shit.

6. F4M needs to grow a pair. Poor guy...despite his outward joviality, I suspect he operates from a deep well of insecurity. Chian's hot/cold act is excruciatingly painful, but it provides drama and a sense of being pursued that is affirming in a twisted way, does it not?

7. Baabin rules above all. I love how he allowed himself to feel things and go with the flow re Bua, while maintaining perspective and self-awareness. Admirable.

8. A leading character I keep forgetting to mention is the interior settings. The attention to detail and planning/design that goes into every bedroom/living space/study room/whatever is astounding. It adds so much to my understanding of the person who lives/works/studies/eats there. Oscar to the sets and set-dressing people.

The creativity in storytelling here is off-the-charts sensational. There have been 500 visual metaphors throughout that are not only effective in signaling important vibes, but simply beautiful to behold. Baabin's double-sock routine took my breath away with its simplicity and depth of feeling. So much conveyed through so little. Gorgeous. Never has so much glorious-ness of acting/direction/production been utilized in the telling of an otherwise marginally worthy tale.

So: Bua and Chian off to the nuthouse, F4M off to the hospital to have a spine inserted, and Baabin off to his desk to begin work on his first philosophy of life and self-help book.
Replying to Mitt313 Mar 15, 2025
Title Gelboys
So if you know me, you'll know that I've never been a fan of secondary couples but Buabaa has stolen my heart!!!…
He, perhaps more than Chian, would benefit from a month in a psych facility followed by ongoing counseling and possibly medication too. I say this not as an insult. Anybody who reacts so intensively to that situation that they wet themselves in a chair, is extremely troubled. That's not far from suicidal, in my opinion.